Jennyclay:
For instance:
People die through road accident, does that stop you from traveling or buying your own car?
People die through food & drink poison, does that stop you from eating or drinking?
Many Parents have warned the school not to discipline their kids, does that mean when they see a child going astray they shouldn't discipline him??

Please let be reasonable here. Do you know that is not all parents that are against the school disciplining their children? I want you to understand that they paid for the services.

Boarding or Day, the students still spends more time in school than at home.. I'm ready to argue with you about this particular one initially.

You did a good job by talking to your family's friend son, but still you also need to tell his mom, so can discipline him. "Charity begins at home"

You just confused me sis. My answer to the first bolded is "yes". The teachers cannot discipline a child after the parents have given an ultimatum against that. You have to understand that many of them (teachers) would be sacked and the public will drag them, tag them and call them names if they discipline any child. After all, many conclude and judge from the first post on social media instead of objectively seeing through the posts.

The answer to the second bolded statement is clear on my comment. I said "many" and it might interest you to know that they are the majority.

To the third, how is that possible since the children are at home from 4pm or 5pm till the next day and even on weekends?

You last statement of "...charity begins at home" is confusing and it contradicts your stand in this issue. I thought you said the schools were supposed to have the responsibility of instilling wisdom more than the parents since the kids spend more time with them and they are also paid?

okoroemeka:
a mere child riding a dick cowgirl style pls spare me that sentimental bullshit,that girl was enjoying the sex,she may even instigated the sex,not even ashamed to have multiple boys in the room shows she is not faxed one bit, everyone must take a bit of the blame,the school for not properly segregating the boys and girls,the parents for raising up such a sex maniac and the girl?a young girl like that introduced to sex very early is a big problem,

As per your last statement, that child is already psychologically damaged. She may become a nympho as she's already opened up some parts of her that are not supposed to be opened at this stage of her life.

delpee:


Part of what people are saying. The parents are being careless. You don't give a 10yr old child an unmonitored phone. His parents should check his phone from time to time by whichever way and discover by themselves. If you're close to them, advise accordingly without disclosing what you saw.

Of course my friend. One of my rules is to know when, how and where to say certain things about people to their family members, especially after I study their approach to issues.

I am very close to the family. The mother is close to me and the dad too is a friend of mine but he is not in Nigeria. He comes every December and returns January.

I try to not overburden myself with things that may haunt me because this is her son and you know some mothers. She may not say anything but may be holding some grudges.

Jennyclay:
You'll also agree with me that, students spend more time at school more than at home.

I know to an extend parents are also to be blamed But then you should also consider the fact that they spend over 400k per term, to ensure the school discipline their children properly... I mean the services are not for free. They paid for it.

And students spends more time in school. So why can't they discipline them

Stop trying to cover up for the defective attotides of so many parents today please. How I it possible for a child who's not in boarding school to spend more time in school than at home?

As for your take about disciplining the children, are you asking for discipline from the schools or what? Have you forgotten that private schools are afraid to discipline pupils because most parents have warned them off it?

Well, in this case, I blame the school for concealing the incident, but the action of the pupils in the video shows the disfunction in the family unit today.

The skill at which the child was engaging in the sex should show you that the parents have failed, or maybe, pampered her into that level due to "wokeness". They are not new to that act at all, both herself and the boys.

I need to shock you with this.
Yesterday, I went to visit a family friend. I called the son to help me with his phone to check for something, which he did. As I went to his chrome to browse, I was shocked to see the different tabs were filled with xvideos, brazziers or whatever they call it and other porn sites. I became irritated and surprised that a 10 year old child couldn't check for anything else in his phone but sex videos.

I wanted to talk with the mom but I didn't because I can't actually find a way to bring the topic up with her. My plan is your talk with him and let him know the danger of such action.

RenaissanceGuy:
They were afraid of retrieving the award from him?

His action was uncalled for or a best foolish, but retrieving the award from him would have been worse than his offense. There were two other guys with much issues than him, i mean criminal cases and their awards were never taken.
Also, he resigned which is smart.

In all, emotion is a part of us but should never be used as the platform for decision making because it is temporary. Logic should always be above emotions.

Men should please learn from this, Smith is trending in a bad light because he wanted to be given accolades for publicly defending his wife by the same people who are now condemning him. Talk about wokeness and hypocrisy lo

Sheggy13:

He lost already. No Nigerian nominated won. They all lost. Best Global music album went to Angelique Kidjo for Mother Nature while Best Global music performance went to Arooj Aftab for the song Mohabbat.

Lol, immediately I saw Kidjo on the list I made a statement like, "Kidjo again, big problem for the Nigerians listed".

The woman is something else in the international scene and when she's nominated alongside you in the grammy, just know that your chance of winning has reduced by half.

budaatum:


A stupid kind of argument, I'd think, so why are you making it to argue it against yourself?

Do know that I am not in America, so perhaps don't fully comprehend the scale over there. Where I am, paedophiles can't get away for long teaching in the school system, and it's mostly because the pupils themselves were empowered through education about sex, and gender, and the involvement of parents..

Hopefully, this bill will force more parents to be involved in the education about sex that their children receive instead of just cancelling lots of it as some want to.

Can you imagine, Buda will always be Buda, na wa!

You know how to run away and separate yourself when you are cornered in a discussion or argument and you know how to throw others (supporters who are around you) under the bus by bringing out your location afterwards.

My question is, why engage in arguments so keenly when you don't understand fully how the issue is over there like you claimed?

And to bring the UK into it as if she is better than the US is comical. The UK has no opposition that has the capacity to checkmate the ruling party so you think nonsense don't happen there or you are trying to use there as an utopia? Old glory UK knows she's living in past glory and thanks to brexit they wil soon face some tests in economic negotiation with other nations when the time comes.

The truth from what I've observed is that Buda serves one man, himself. He can throw anyone, including his friends just to get out unscathed in an argument and i have noticed that so many times since this thread was created.

SMH.

basilico:


Why dont you want to admit that media is just one big asshole. And democrats are the bigger asshol.
Come home we very accommodating

Lol, come which home bro?
Too many jagajaga people are in the GOP of today.

benalvino3:


he knows or he is part of it? when he was vice, he used to fund that was meant for Ukraine to force the Ukrainian government to fire a persecutor that was investigating the corrupt firm his son was working for with no experience... when trump asked them to look into the matter, the dems impeached him.


you try to be neutral but these people don't want to be objective.

Truth is that I'm not neutral but objective on things like this. I don't think anyone should be a neurtral in the political climate of today because we'll all be hit one way or the other.

I mean towards the Democratic party but the way they want to force everyone to accept what they say or do, I mean their ideologies, however unnatural it seem is what I don't like.

I'd rather speak criticize that aspect than run along with the crowd because sometimes, the majority can be wrong. In this case today, they are redesigning our thinking and beliefs to their ideologies, you become an enemy if you question it. That alone is autocracy redefined!

The fact that the media hammers on something or people on social media hammers on same issues and they cancel dissenters were the reasons I started trying to look deeper than the surface on issues instead of just rolling along and be called smart for parroting same lines and thoughts of people which in reality, I'm just one of the numerous programs around the world.

budaatum:


They tell jury members not to discuss a case with anyone, but it seems that rule might not apply to Supreme Court Judge Clarence Thomas.

He has no shame so will not resign.

I like to ask. Do you think Biden knows about the dealings of Hunter, both his business dealings in Ukraine and China, including his laptop that's being talked about in the media?

Please think carefully before you answer and try to be direct too.

If yes, then why was he not stopped from being the president or at least he should resign as a honourable man.

If no, then judge Thomas may not know how deep his wife went in the operation.

Truth is that, Judge Thomas may not know if his wife sent those texts, at least no message has been tracked directly to him from his wife's phone. This alone should exonorate him from the brouhaha of resigning. At least, he should recuse himself henceforth from cases relating to the issue since they are closer to home.

Biden got a pass from Hunter's drama and even became president, so why is the judge's case different?

Judge Thomas can argue that he never recused himself from cases because he never knew if his wife had a case relating to it, at least this deep, but y'all wouldn't believe him because he is already designed by the media to be slaughtered.

The man should bear his shame for marrying a woman who is stubborn but he shouldn't resign. That's too extreme and those pushing it are the ones who'd be explaining it away if his leaning favours their crusade or political platform.

AmazonTopaz:

The woman is full Qanon she has drank the kool-aid who knows if her husband isn't the same too.

The texts are damning and her thought process is dangerous.

The woman sure did bad and it is clear that she was a major instigator and conspirator of the nonsense that happened last year January, but it is enough on that. Whatever hammer the law has should be dropped on her without pity, but in all, I have never seen where the man made a statement or sent any text to buttress what the wife did, so I don't see any reason why people are calling him and seeking him stepping down because an adult who he married, someone who's an entity that can be sued individually did something foolish.

It is a very known fact that some women can be so stubborn, who knows if she doesn't listen to him at home. The man is free from her foolishness, at least for now since there's no record indicating his support on the issues surrounding his wife. He should at least bear the shame of marrying a stubborn woman but for stepping down, that's a far cry.

budaatum:


I'm reading The Prize. You'd be amazed how disunited America was during the second world war. Harold Icke, the Petroleum Administrator for War, lamented that, "on any oil matter, the British Government is a unit - Parliament, the Administration, the oil companies, the press. Over here, to the contrary, everyone is in everyone else's hair. There is no unity".

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Prize:_The_Epic_Quest_for_Oil,_Money,_and_Power

Self interest is of course very ok, but not at the detriment of others, which unfortunately seems to prevail in America, and hence the divisiveness we now see. It will worsen, but hopefully not to the point that it destroys America.

That's what we all hope, it will be good for the world.

budaatum:


Actually, it seems to be a democracy thing to foster division, and in America, it's like football. Just as one can't expect Liverpool to work with Man U on a football field scoring in the same goal, so can one not expect Dems and Repubs to work together as we sometimes do in UK, which made our Obasanjo claim he can't work with the opposition because they are his enemy.

Got to admit they do sometimes work together, though not often enough since each side has different interests to secure. Drumpthf though was the worst in current history, as far as working together goes.

Trump's best weapon is divisiveness and that man knows how to use it optimally.

As for interest, it is ok to have an interest, but to operate in such a manner as it is today, it wil only return the country back to where they are coming from.

It's like both parties have moved away from the era of compromise for a better nation into extremism and that alone is a terrible trigger as to what will happen next.

The few guys who are in between trying to find a common ground for nation building are being canceled by their own parties, SMH.

As the moderates are being canceled by their parties, the nation is drifting farther from the center.

gambojimeta:

Show us where da fox news ah reports ita too

Thanks

Ultra-liberal guardians ah report it two days agos. Maybe fox news ah program peoples toos fa nat reports da news

https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2022/mar/22/i-will-not-be-held-prisoner-the-trans-women-turned-back-at-ukraines-borders

Of course bro, fox is also a program medium to their audience. They're many and they are mainstream.

gambojimeta:

Tanks ta da dividers in chief

Kikikikikikiki

I do not like Trump because of his manner of approach but one thing I am certain about is that even the Democratic party also operate in the divisive politics today. It is very clear and undeniable.

They can not be exonerated from this muddy type of politics in the US today. They love it, enjoy it and spread it through certain media outlets and their analysts on social media because they hope to gain from it by playing the saviour of others, but deep down, it is clear that all they do is only on surface. It won't take one long to understand that they are not clean as they say, it is only a game to win more votes.

It is just a choice of two devils today with the Democratic party still a little better than the Republican party in terms of how they operate in my opinion.

Ask me, I'll still support a Democrat over a Republican if there's no other option.

DissTroy:
Ukraine labels Transgender 'women' rightly as men and demands that they fight like other men.

Ukraine is transphobic, right? I wonder how the woke Left and CNN are going to respond to this?

https://www.zerohedge.com/geopolitical/ukraine-blocks-trans-women-refugees-they-are-men-must-go-back-fight

CNN may not even talk about it or maybe only touch on it for a day and move on, this is what I've been saying.
There are certain media that are used as a programming tool, people are already trapped and will believe only things they say, that's some kind controlling program which is what CNN and others have become. When you question them, the bots already programmed will call you ignorant or other names but what they don't know is that they are already mentally enslaved and redesigned.

I see it here every time I come in, people spreading what one person analyzed on twitter and they question your sanity when you question their analysis.

The fact that I mean towards the Democratic party doesn't make me stupid enough to not see that they can be wrong sometimes.

Anything politics touches dies slowly.

The SCOTUS will go that way if politicians keep up with this attitude of theirs.

The senators don't focus on qualifications anymore, it is now partisan. SMH

With the way the US is going in their political space, it is only a matter of time before they destroy the once beautiful place. Patriotism is now in question, all thanks to divisive politics.

MadamVanessa:



So much for women

The earlier we women look before we leap especially when it comes to marriage, the better for us. Karl Marx once said that religion is the opium of the masses. Let me borrow Karl Marx quote and put it in my own way, thus it goes: Marriage is the opium of women.

It's so surprising that when a guy promise a girl marriage, you see once a sane girl loosing her sanity and become so stupid. She does thing as if she's being hypnotize hence you see them rush into marriage without caring to dig more about the guy before accepting his proposal few months you see them coming to complained bitterly, a great number of them endured so much, they can't speak out because of shame.

If I advise them, they say that I am bitter and jealous of them because I am yet to get married, like wtf. I would've been worried about marriage assuming there was a place God says that it's only those that marry that will make heaven, but inasmuch as God never said so, I am so save whether married or not.

Men also should be very careful with the type of women they walk down the aisle..If you get merged with Satan in form of a wife , you'll forever regret your action.

One of my pastors, when advising singles said, when you fall in love, wonders happen, but when you get married, you wonder what happened

Until we understand that logic, not emotion is important in the decision making process of choosing a life partner, we'll keep hearing funny stories because emotions are temporary.

budaatum:


One has to do the work and read some you see, instead of making things up in one's head which just happens to be easier.

Read? Please what do you think has been happening for a while now through the media?

Most of the echoes going on here are analysis of people's agenda. They say what they want, push it into the mainstream and force everyone to accept it or be labeled negatively.

Know this, WE ARE ALL IMPRESSIONABLE. The basis of your decision making emanates from the things you see, hear or read, this is what has been happening. So don't pump in what some folks said on Guardian and force me to accept it thst way when I also have other materials with different opinions.

I may tilt towards a political party, but I will never follow all they say or want because everyone is an extremist on certain issues.

budaatum:


We'll, the article I posted gave some historical data that might make some focus different.

I don't just read because guardian of CNN or whatever news outlets out there brought in their analysis to say what they want, I have my head to see by myself, especially now that their lies became stupidly open to everyone looking from outside.
My focal point in this discussion has been that Ukraine is being misled by the outright lies termed propaganda of the US and West allowed escalation up to this point and now innocents are dying due to it? When it comes to history on this topic, I will focus on that, but right now, please focus on the points I talked, because that is my own concern ay the moment. And I won't use CNN or Guardian and co as my only source, never! Not with what I've seen since this issue began. They are all liars, trying to condition people to think and reason like them, if not, they call them names.

My questions has been, what are the US and West doing to help stop the war?
They should either focus on helping diplomatically or engage Russian military in Ukraine since Zelensky called for help.
After all Russia came into Syria when Asad called for help from Putin.

Innocents are dying, properties and livelihood destroyed and still no help in diplomatic discussions or to come in and help them directly.

Britain is the worst in this war season, they talk tough but nothing to show, only shouting if Russia attack NATO. They should just come as a nation to fight with Russia personally.

sanpipita:


The idea Ukraine is being used to target Russia is terrible and not true, why do you people never see Ukraine as a sovereign nation that's also concerned about its own security, if you read back history you will see there's been decades of Russian hostilities against Ukraine, current war is just a continuation of the madness Russia has always orchestrated in Ukraine, Putin even described Ukraine as a fictional country, how do you reconcile all this and think Ukraine will put themselves up as a bait for west to target Russia

The truth is the truth, emotions notwithstanding. Ukraine was given advice by so called foreign powers on what to do and a promise of help which Zelensky has been begging for, why isn't it coming? And please don't add words to what i said by insinuating that we don't see Ukraine as a sovereign nation. If you can point that out in any of my comments so far please do.

The Ukrainian leaders should have known that the West and US only think about themselves when it comes to international politics.

budaatum:

You saying Putin fuqed up by letting them crush the Russian economy?

To understand the tragedy of this war, it is worth going back beyond the last few weeks and months, and even beyond Vladimir Putin
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2022/mar/11/was-it-inevitable-a-short-history-of-russias-war-on-ukraine

In my opinion, He's wrong for attacking Ukraine, but my focus is not that, it is the fact that Ukraine is being used to further their aims, both the US, West and Russia.

Russia may be looking for a way to have confrontations with the West and the US, they got Ukraine to try their nonsense. The West and US on the other hand, played into it to get their aim which is to target the Russian economy.

Both sides have made Ukraine to suffer and instead of them to find a way to deescalate issues, they are lying outrightly, thereby, luring innocent people to come into Ukraine to die.
SMH

I hope the nonsense and outright lies being peddled as propagandas are enough to stop the killings of men who were deceived that Russian armies were dying in the hands of civilians?

Imagine a military base being destroyed by high precision missile strikes and lots of volunteers from other nations who were deceived by the media were destroyed. The worst is that Ukraine officials are downplaying the numbers just to gain faces. To them it doesn't matter, after all they came on their own even when they used the media to bait them.

And those who think the Russians are failing or slow do not know that their game plan has been to encircle Kyiv and cut them off from military assistance. Imagine outposts of weapons being attacked and razed. Their plan is that when they are through with destroying those external help, both in weapons and personnel, the main onslaught will begin at the capital.

And what are the so called fire throwers doing in this nonsensical killings and destructions going on? They are fanning the flames by lying much more through the media instead of either helping to stop the invasion through dialogue or war.

If the US and her allies cannot enter into the war to help Ukraine whose amateur president couldn't read history to understand how international politics work, they should just help fast track the dialogue and allow Ukraine have peace and time to rebuild their country.


The lies of avoiding world war 3 is as childish as it comes. If they truly want to avoid it, they wouldn't have escalated things to this extent.

The got what they've always wanted, that's to crush the Russian economy, now Ukraine seems to be the guinea pig.

None of them.

Russia and China will do worse

chopnaira:

Ya can hate Tinubu fa all ya care buti he Isa next naijeriya president

Tinubu ofa Atiku

(Chose ya poison)

Tinubu ah comes ta develop da economy so dati Sam people littering da threads witi rubbish can geti ah good educations ta post da sensible comments

Kikikikikikiki

You can support whoever you desire to, it is your right but must you post a picture of him every time?

For you information, I don't hate Tinubu or anyone.

chopnaira:


Ya ah calls yaself tech expert Buti ya ah nat knows dat a seach engine ah bring results based onu da reflection ofu ita users

No Wanda Naijaeriya ah enta gutta everyday

Kikikikikikiki

Your last statement is an irony or what?

You make such statement while littering this thread with Tinubu every time you post.
SMH

saphiere:
Why is it that no African leader is talking about this war?
Another reason men should give room for women to try it too.

There's a difference between nollywood and reality woman.

Power is never given but taken. If you women want to be in charge, I will support as long a you have something to offer, not through blackmails or emotionally designed theatrics.

Bring women with the ability to govern, and see sensible people support. Unfortunately, many of your kind will be the first to oppose that while the others are busy trying to find likes from their actions on social media.

Propaganda and Outright lies are two different things.
Outright lies will cause people to disbelieve your every report because they know you have a record of trying to spin issues to favour you. Propaganda in the other hand, has a mixture of truth and lies.

Imagine allowing Ukraine to be destroyed and then claim you are trying not to escalate issues beyond the country.

The Ukrainian president is just finding out that he's just a ♟ in the chessboard of international politics.

benalvino3:


You are everywhere.

Go back to my replies to you and see where I said they gave weapons to rebels to destroy the nation. I am not in support. One reason Trump is hated and Obama and Bush are pals. He does not destroy nations like they did.

They are supplying weapons to ukraine but it's too little too late.

I don't know where you are going or what your issues are. You said it was your opinion and I pointed the flawed logic in it.

First, how can you know where I am going when you never carefully read my opinion or comment with the view to understand me before you passed out your remark?

Now, you claim my opinion is flawed, yet you are the one who brought up different issues while you didn't answer my only question?

Why should I go to your comments to understand you when I was the originator of the issue I find in this war and you, the one trying to goad me into accepting your personal opinion?

Na wa.

Trump is like Putin, he doesn't trip me because he is also behaving like one who's broken inside with his remarks, and I don't care about Obama.

My opinion is that I pointed out the hypocrisy and the needless propagandas causing more more harm to Ukraine than it is helping them. How is this flawed?

I am not one who is ready to engage in needless arguments, not before, not now, not ever.

benalvino3:


No contradiction. Its not a directly fight between us and russia. Russia was more involved than us is. Russia uses war ships and jets. US only gave people minor weapons to fight. I don't see how that's a contradiction. If the US started giving the rebels air support and bombing Assad military base then him for lose asap

Like he lost before Russia got involved right?

Minors weapons... Now you are indicting the US, they gave minor weapons to untrained civilians and rebels against trained military personnel, isn't that evil in itself? ...and the US does not negotiate or operate with terrorists...Laughable. Or the terrorists are the only one they call terrorists abi? More hypocrisy.

How can you say you love someone but you are giving him minor weapons to fight with better trained, better equipped men? SMH

Like I said before the back and forth which will normally not lead us anywhere, why engage in baseless propagandas if you will not help Ukraine, by supplying weapons or military personnel then don't provoke the mad man to destroy them totally. Imagine the google map propaganda, shame...

Isn't that simple enough?

You were the one who digressed from my main question in the first place as it normally is here. Over here, it is to take people to your area of argument and drag the issue instead of answering or attending to the issue at first.


I do not support Putin, but my care for the innocent Ukrainians being used as slaughter rams for the amusement of certain people should be condemned in its entirety.

benalvino3:


The first casualty of war is truth. Those ladies are used as motivation.

The Russians were not successful against us in Syria. The US is not there to fight Assad, they are there to aid the rebels destroy the country. Assad invited russia as the president of the failed nation... Russia helped him fight the American backed militia and they won.

They are all wrong because russia and the US did not clash in syria.

Again, all the news says ukraine cannot stand russia" but they are putting up a fight.

We see videos of destroyed russia hardware and lives. Street fight is not easy.

How can you make two different opinions in one mention and not see that you contradict yourself?

The Russians were not successful against us in Syria. The US is not there to fight Assad, they are there to aid the rebels destroy the country. Assad invited russia as the president of the failed nation... Russia helped him fight the American backed militia and they won.


Please read the bolded from your mention and see how a US who were not there to fight Asad also went there to aid the rebels. How can you support rebels against a government and still not want him to lose? How do you make such comments if not to engage in needless arguments like it is here?

If the Russians helped Asad to defeat those backed by the US and allies, how did they not win since Asad was never removed?


Finally, I asked a question in my first quote.
"If the Ukrainians are winning the war against the Russians by destroying their hardware and killing thousands of their soldiers, why are we calling for the head of the mad man Putin since he's losing to civilians?

Like I said, I'm too busy to keep arguing over here, I have my day today and I am free to make my observations and opinion.

alphaNomega:


This war has nothing to do with ego. Putin needs a compliant Ukraine for Russia's economic and security stability

If not for his ego then why go in guns blazing?

Well, my topic of focus today is the hypocrisy and the lies being peddled in the form of propaganda