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It's been a long time Chelsea defeated Arsenal. This won't be different.

This is Arsenal's year. They may have anyhow fans but the indicators are there for them.

I dislike Arsenal but my dislike for Chelsea is more.

My prediction.
Arsenal 3
Chelsea 1

Goldrosewine:
Be truthful and come out clean sir😊

By the way I think those riders make up to that or more depending on region and how they work. Don't use people's lifestyle to judge their bank balance, alot of them drink alot, they spend on several women carelessly, some are paying back the over inflated lease on their tricycle and some save up judiciously for a more serious future project.

Besides, riding doesn't stop you from doing your agency work does it? It only gives you more options.

However, reality check🥲 All businesses have their downtimes. Everyday can't be christmas.🥲

I wish you goodluck with it❤️🙌
When you start making it, value the woman in your life, not the street girls that don't see you now.

Rose Gold 🍷

You summarised it completely. These keke guys spend recklessly.

Imagine planning to buy keke for someone and he's already planning how to be grooving with the proceeds. The next thing is to avoid him and use your money for another thing.

Sonnobax15:

She dey run PR....

Well, nothing really concern those of us wey never get car dealer phone number before let alone having the money to buy a car

You will buy, don't worry.

It's only a matter of time.

YINKS89:
Every Governor is now constructing road as their major project which is commendable but it's getting boring because we tend to ignore other basic and social amenities.

The main roads are bad.
The main roads in Port Harcourt are all bad, I mean, major roads.

He should fix them before focusing on this coastal project.

I carried a friend and his wife home from church only to discover that some of the flyovers have portholes also.

The whole of Aba road has portholes. The other roads to rukpokwu has it's own.

Road to Rumuokoro is bad. Rumuodara is a bad. Everywhere across the state is bad. I hardly go out but when I do, I don't enjoy driving because of the bad roads.

destinychildolu:
We dey wait for Tinubu come 2027. He will collect wotowoto on election day in Rivers State. If he thinks he will rig, I trust NATO to smoke him out

NATO?

Common man, is this a joke?

There is supposed to be very serious discussion on the issue of rigging, not jokes please.

visiondee:
Up to 3 years now, I've been avoiding that topic of driving lesson with my woman, I no like wahala. Someone that will seat in the front, to match speed as a man on a very smooth road, she will stiff-up as someone who is about to enter trance and be telling me the speed is much. There was a time I told her, abeg, please always seat in the back so I won't be confused while driving.

When she's ready to drive true true, she will agree with me to enrol her in driving school. I no get strength...

E be say na see finish dey do wives wey make am difficult for husband to teach dem driving. If na another person to teach, these women dey corporate well well...

I paid for it myself. My wife never even disturbed me to teach her.

So Zuckerberg and co are having dinner with Trump?

Lmao 🤣

I hope they get cancelled 😂

helinues:
Are single mothers no longer human beings? Are you saying you don't have any in your family?

You can't use behavior of some people to judge everyone.

The same way girls are complaining of no good guys to date is the same way guys are complaining of no good girls to date. Which of them is right or wrong?

Chief, the truth is that majority of the single mothers (not the widows) are red flags. What happened to their so-called baby daddies? Why did they leave or got left alone?

If they are so good, why would a baby daddy leave a good woman? If the man is the problem, why would a good woman not watch before they enter?

There are too much at stake for a young man who wants to settle down for a single mom.

Finally, a single guy is never the first priority of his wife who is a single mom.

Pupanchie:
How many times are we going to warn you people to desist from single mothers, you won't hear, oga face ur consequences

They never learn, they think life is a video game where one can decide to restart immediately without stress.
Humans learn from wisdom of others through information or from the experience they face themselves. Either way, they have learnt but the problem of learning from personal experience is that they will suffer pain, waste time and resources and also have regrets.

I find it amusing that young men of this generation will use their hands to drag problems into their lives. How can you plan your life and then make room for madness?

[quote author=motionarena post=136666982]Confirmed.
Please, avoid any entitled lady with the mindset of trying to show off on the wedding day. That's how you can win in life.

osuofia2:
That's what most Nigerians don't know. I make it a point of duty to give them money on my own without them even asking me. I do it as a form of encouragement, once I am travelled and driving my car, I put it into budget.
Nigerians too complain for everything, let the police and army leave the highway and see what will happen

If they leave, the kind of problem people will face from criminals would be out of this world.

osuofia2:
Simple as that, those complaining, would they rather have the police on the road or Bad boys like robbers and kidnappers

For real. From Port Harcourt to Delta State has over 15 checkpoints but I still don't feel bad because it is still better than having criminal elements on the road.

At no point have they forced me to give money.

osuofia2:
Importance of police check point and stop and search but many Nigerians lack patient and adhere to crowd mentality

For someone like me who likes to drive when I'm visiting my home state, I prefer the checkpoints. If these guys are not there, criminals will be there, it is as simple as that.

If your papers are correct, you don't even stress yourself, they will be the one to tell you to go.

Plus, the way you respond to them will help you in reducing whatever tension that would happen.

Baxilexi:
Monopoly in Nigeria is about putting the enterprise out of reach for the competition, from taxes, to licenses and the cost of doing business, and high interest loans.

What works is, I remember the story told by Mr Waya (kid-waya’s Dad) about how he got the contract for banana island. The project was basically given to him because he was friends with the then governor.
I don’t think we have venture capitalists in Nigeria.

How many Nigerian billionaires can give a detailed account of how they made it, void of cronyism?

You see that VC talk you brought up, when we are ready to grow as a nation, we will have enough people who will venture into it.

These are men who pool resources together to make sure products are invented or innovated.

Also, Nigerians need to also make sure to be trustworthy. Many people today want to make it big and fast by cheating even partners.

I once began this by investing into certain ideas with the aim of helping these few guys make money while I also make too. We had our profit ratio but they used the first big pay to engage in enjoyments and other exuberant activities that people will later see you as wicked or a rip-off die to the fact that these guys lie instead of being accountable.

I had to stop doing anything for anyone, I'd rather throw it into T-Bills and other financial plans to avoid being the bad person.

Bendeco02:
Whether jonathan or another southerner, especially from SS or SW it will affect tinubu votes assume things are normal

Who has that kind of clout and followership like Jonathan in the SS?

What we should be discussing is how to run a campaign with the right person to take over, not speculations that won't work.

Bendeco02:
Assume our votes will count in 2027

Then APC willl be heavily affected by PDP zoning their ticket to South.

If Atiku/Obi contest under ADC and clear NE, NW and SE. They supposed share SS & NC with jonathan and tinubu if our vote should count. Tinubu supposed have the least vote from SS & NC if things are done the right way.

We know how APC expects to win come 2027. But it may not be normal game as usual because no candidate will go to court again. If North and SE/SS team up and protest against tinubu it will shake the nation.

Who told you guys Jonathan wants to run?

seppuku:
This is very true my brother even though many AA will try to deny it. The drive of the Nigerian is something that cannot be concealed it is real.

One of my very good American friends said, there's something about Nigerians that he hasn't fathomed yet. He said, when you look at the most intelligent migrants in a system, you will see more Nigerians on top than other nationals. When you look at the most dangerous, you will also find Nigerians.

Most Nigerians outside work harder than the ones who misbehave.

May1st:
Omo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Person wey you dey reason how to multiply earnings don go buy phone first.
All is well sha

What do you expect from a Gen Z lady? iPhone is the first thing they see as success.

She will finish the money before the op concludes with his conversations here.

Bendeco02:
Is this a question?

Nigerians are disliked for fraud, especially internet fraud.

You know howmany europeans and americans Nigerians have wrecked so far?

Fraud is bad but Nigerians haven't touched 10% when it comes to wrecking others through fraud.

Indians, Pakistans, Russians, Chinese and even Americans have defrauded their people 10x than the whole of Nigerian fraudsters have done worldwide.

cr7lomo:
It's not envy. . .Nigerians are troublesome and they disrespect other cultures and disregard the values of other countries....we are terrible people ...

Nigerians are one of the most law abiding people among the community of migrants in other nations.

Don't follow the news chief, ask those who travel a lot.

Most Nigerians here abide by the laws when they leave the chores of the nation, especially in Canada, Europe and America.

Ask those who are travellers you will understand.

mightyhazel:
Abeg who and who dey envy Nigerians 🤡

Have you travelled outside Nigeria?

African Americans are scared of Nigerians in the workplace because they say we work like animals. A Nigerian can start a shift by 8am and work till 8pm. That's 3 shifts.

Most begin from warehouse and end up in the office as team leads after they overwork themselves during the day and attend to class work during the night.

Do you know how much jealousy that can produce? You join a team of casual staff only to lead them in 3 to 4 years when they have been there for 10 years.

Other African migrants are also jealous of Nigerians.

You don't understand the power of a focused and determined Nigerian, especially outside Nigeria.

Banbanna:
At the bolded, don't you think those EPL refs were trying to console and compensate Manutd for what United felt was a foul on their goal keeper Bayindir when Saliba deliberately prevented him to allow Califiori to score that solo Arsenal goal??

But it is unfair to compensate their wrongs against Man United with another team. They should own up and fix up.

ReacherSaidNoth:
We were the better team FC have dropped points again, and even better two former Arsenal boys did the damage

Worryingly, EPL refs continue to be shít, United's goal was a foul.

The infield and VAR refs are drunkards. I had to change the channel when they allowed the goal to stand.

They awarded a penalty for Man United because they said the ball was coming to that direction only to allow their goal when the scorer pushed Bassey.

EPL refs and their poor officiating have resumed.

tnerro1:
Abeg give them the update, things hard for everybody but their own worse pass cause dem come give them gun join, the police is not your friend, dem be ur street colleagues😁😁

Nigerian police can hold you down and waste your time if you want to act tough.

Most people have even spent too much because they wanted to claim right.

One of my encounters with on road safety official during that trip was that he didn't even bother to check anything, he said I should buy him lunch. " Oga abeg buy me lunch, na suffer head work I dy do". I laughed and gave him 500 naira and continued my journey.

Imagine I wanted to argue, he'd look for something to hold me with plus there were police officers closed by to add to the wahala if I argue.

Sometimes, we should apply wisdom more than anything when we are dealing with these men because they are frustrated too.

tnerro1:
My brother endure, na so Nigeria be, you self hail them and find dem something for pure water before dem even ask you for papers, na my style be that ooo😂😂😁😂😂😁😁😁😁😂😂

Lol, this was literally me on Monday. O was driving back from Delta to PH when they stopped and asked for papers. He thought I'd argue but I shouted, "no stress yourself oga, you are doing your job and thank you for your service". That's how a tensed environment became a friendly one o. I was even pumping him that why haven't they increased their salaries. He just started talking and gisting that he even forgot to check papers. I told him to check but he said, "you are my guy, no worry, Dy go".

That's how I make them feel important to avoid stress because these guys are very terrible if they want to make you suffer. They can hold you down for hours even when your papers are complete if you want to argue with them.

brain54:
Am now your boy abi...?

Who said relationship is a competition?

It's the mindset I'm worried about...any lady or man generally who can't be faithful with a little, can never be faithful with much.

Asset ladies are better if they are fulll of sh...t as you say. But the worse kind of ladies are those with nothing to contribute but still entitled and arrogant as the one in your little story portrays.

How can you be working and expecting me me to do little things like buying data for you? What entitlement is bigger than that?

Any person with that kind of mindset can never be "unliabilitable"!

You can convince 50 professors with one fact but you can't convince 1 stifled mind with 50 facts.

Most assets ladies are very good people, some small minded men are too scared to give them a chance.

CLRF:
All of them are paid actors.
NAIRA merely video is scripted
Bashir post is also scripted.

All of them are paid actors, trying to swindle public perception eption

Why do you think everything in life is about money?

LeeSmart:
From the look of things, that lady is a single mother black American. The only thing sustaining her is the child support she gets from her baby daddies...... I dey laugh my fellow 9ja guys wey dey always condemn our women, e be like una never meet all these black American single mothers.

Even majority of the single ones are as dangerous as the single moms. People who travel a lot to America and the Caribbean understand this fact.

Also,

femi4:
Not enough...don't believe everything you have on social media. Especially when you have kids, marriage certificates won't answer all the questions

It won't stop anything chief.

I know what I am telling you.

eulogised:
Same here. She had made a name for herself before we got married and even though we agreed she could keep her last name due to the stress of changing names, she insisted that she wanted to add my surname to her surname. But when we started the process, it was daunting for some who holds 3 different passports and having to change name everywhere and on every publication? Too daunting. Our kids took my surname and zero issues. I would hate to go through that same process as a man with all my accomplishments.

Good decision. You can travel anywhere together as couples. I don't know how some Nigerians think women need that change of name before they can travel.

femi4:
It will affect your visa applications n other immigration issues. It's a common sense to do it

It won't affect anything. Just tender your marriage certificate, as long as it is valid, they won't stop you.

Also, it is not compulsory to change name. I was the one who told my wife that she shouldn't change it because I don't see any reason for that.