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Romance › Re: He Took Me Out But Didn't Pay For My Bills by loadedvibes(op): 9:13pm On Oct 05, 2016
He be the man na
snoopy1:
lolx.....i like d guy
Romance › Re: Breakup Is Not The Solution To Everything by loadedvibes(op): 9:09pm On Oct 05, 2016
Lol.. what is the right age to start dating ?

WindUpMerchant:
you are too young to start dating.
Romance › Re: Breakup Is Not The Solution To Everything by loadedvibes(op): 6:41pm On Oct 05, 2016
That's the only thing you could pick out of the whole article ?

firstking01:
There's no second chance whatsover for a cheat in my life, even the holy scriptures comfirmed this...btw, desperate bloggers are gradually taking over this sectionangry

Cc seun.
Romance › Re: He Took Me Out But Didn't Pay For My Bills by loadedvibes(op): 5:26pm On Oct 05, 2016
lalasticlala this article deserve front page o
Romance › Breakup Is Not The Solution To Everything by loadedvibes(op): 5:17pm On Oct 05, 2016
"Is you that like break up pass"

He slept with your best friend and you wanna break up.

She is not understanding and you want to break up.

Oh no.... She's not your type but you asked her out in the first place.

He's not a money making machine.

You feel he doesn't love you.

You know she's a flirt.

She's not respectful.

He doesn't go on shopping with you.

She doesn't want sex.

And so on and so off

The first thing that jumps into your mind is to break up right?
Well I think that's wrong, that will make you old in your parents house till you understand that everyone is not perfect including yourself.

A friend would always tell me "Break up is not the solution to everything"
I actually didnt understand that.
I thought if he cheated on me or treated me wrongly, i should scream its over till my throat falls off.
But then I realized that, if A cheats on you and you jump to B, B might cheat on you and you'll jump to C and eventually you'll get to Z (and Gbam....no next letter to run to)
Or better still, what if you were married and your husband/wife cheated on you or behaved badly...Will the first option be divorce?? (I don't think so)

So, the first step is not breakup. Break up is meant to be the last option except you really didn't have a reason to date in the first place. In case you actually don't have a reason for dating, please see here for seven questions to ask yourself before jumping into

You should scout for what you really need in spouse before you dive into a relationship, a relationship is not a swimming pool where you dive in and out. It's a place to grow and understand yourselves. Set a standard for yourself before dating.(This is the most important) Know the kind of person you can roll with and the quality he/she should possess....Don't just date any random person.

Put yourself in your spouse's shoe and see things the way he/she sees it. Understand the reason for such attitude.

Talk about it. Talk about how to change such attitude, what to do, and how to come to a compromise.

I've seen such cases over time and it worked out 60% of the time, try to be among the 60% that didn't run to call it quit and be on the safest road to enjoying a long and lasting relationship. If not.....You will old sha

Read more realistic articles

http://www.ericadianas.com/2016/10/breakup-is-not-solution-to-everything.html?m=1

Education › Re: Guy Signs On A Lady's Chest After Her Final Exams Today (Photo) by loadedvibes: 5:10pm On Oct 05, 2016
Kenyans again
Technology Market › Re: Fairly Used Samsung Galaxy Note 4 For Sale :SOLD by loadedvibes(op): 4:49pm On Oct 05, 2016
Too far

sureguy078:
C8 + 27k serious buyer...... Location :kwara
Technology Market › Re: Fairly Used Samsung Galaxy Note 4 For Sale :SOLD by loadedvibes(op): 1:55pm On Oct 05, 2016
Still available
Romance › Re: He Took Me Out But Didn't Pay For My Bills by loadedvibes(op): 1:13pm On Oct 05, 2016
Or him really no wan just buy

IamZod:
His excuse was tangible jor.
Romance › Re: He Took Me Out But Didn't Pay For My Bills by loadedvibes(op): 1:12pm On Oct 05, 2016
Lol. True talk

eneez:
his 'change begins with me' started long ago
Romance › Re: He Took Me Out But Didn't Pay For My Bills by loadedvibes(op): 9:47pm On Oct 04, 2016
JESUSBOIY:
He's a real man cheesy cheesy cheesy
Lol ya think.
Romance › Re: True Story : How He Almost Raped Me by loadedvibes(op): 9:44pm On Oct 04, 2016
monkytail:
LA click LA become worst than buhari
.mtcheww
Speak English na
Technology Market › Re: Fairly Used Samsung Galaxy Note 4 For Sale :SOLD by loadedvibes(op): 9:43pm On Oct 04, 2016
Lol. I no wan sow seed na. But I go holla if need be to sow seed
nwolisar:
Bros just use this phone sow seed for my life na. I don look this ad taya, even for olx, fear no let me talk moni...
Happy Sales Bro. But if u wan sow seed, I dey ur backyard o cheesy
Family › Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by loadedvibes: 4:26pm On Oct 04, 2016
OP you will not kii me o.

I have this question for you , Have you done your village clearance yet ?


I also have this piece of advice for you.. seek the face of the Lord on this matter.
Romance › True Story : How He Almost Raped Me by loadedvibes(op): 3:52pm On Oct 04, 2016
They say if a friend wants to kill you, he does it faster than an enemy. Well, that's an undiluted truth. I learnt that lesson the hard way and I would want you to also learn from my experience.

I was in school that evening when this 41 years old family member of mine called me up. He was running a master's degree in my school and wanted to catch up with his "smallie". I was really bored in my hostel and was so happy to go out and see this uncle.

He came to pick me from my hostel and we exchanged pleasantries. He asked if I was hungry and I embraced the invitation (noticed over time that my stomach is always putting me in trouble). We went to the school's canteen but there was really no good food so he suggested we go out of school. I actually wouldn't go out of school by 7:30pm with just any body but because he was an elderly family friend, I sailed along in his Toyota Corolla.

We got to a nearby restaurant and he said he didn't like their food, that the last time he went there the food was stale. He also suggested we move further from school and head close to his house that they sell good food in his area.....KEEP READING BELOW
http://www.ericadianas.com/2016/10/how-he-almost-raped-me.html?m=1

Romance › Re: He Took Me Out But Didn't Pay For My Bills by loadedvibes(op): 3:44pm On Oct 04, 2016
Really ?

Young03:
mtcheew

one bottle of cold orijin for d guy
Romance › Re: You Were Raped In His Bedroom-he Whispered "Face The Wall" by loadedvibes(op):
True talk
Romance › Re: Love Is Not Red by loadedvibes(op): 3:43pm On Oct 04, 2016
Lol. Help me ask o

RabbaRabbi:
Love is not red? Ohhh, i guess its voilet undecided

why you dey frown for op im wrte up na @firstking01
Technology Market › Re: Fairly Used Samsung Galaxy Note 4 For Sale :SOLD by loadedvibes(op): 3:42pm On Oct 04, 2016
Still available
Politics › Re: Soldiers Celebrate Independence In Borno On Streets Of Maiduguri by loadedvibes: 3:34pm On Oct 02, 2016
**** Which peace them they fight for mugu. Because from where am sitting what am seeing is our military taking our innocent southern military men to go die for matters that doesn't concern them. How many times have you heard in the south that we took up arms and killed ourselves. ****man.
davtosh:
ANYONE liking your comment is a mentally derailed person like you. Some people are risking their lives for you to live in peace they stay awake fighting while you and your family are snoring and all you could say is these. You should be locked in an asylum you are a danger to the community.
Celebrities › Re: Sound Sultan & Wife Celebrate 7 Years Wedding Anniversary by loadedvibes: 2:41pm On Oct 02, 2016
OK. .
Politics › Re: Dear Ize Iyamu, If You Are Indeed A True Pastor by loadedvibes: 2:40pm On Oct 02, 2016
This OP should shut up
Politics › Re: Despite Tantrums By Shekau, FG Committed To Rescue Chibok Girls- Lai Mohammed by loadedvibes: 2:38pm On Oct 02, 2016
More lies from the minister himself
Celebrities › Re: Stunning New Photos Of Nkechi Eze, Bellanaija CEO Uche Pedro's Lil Sister by loadedvibes: 2:33pm On Oct 02, 2016
Please the post didn't mention if she was married
Family › Re: First Class Twin Sisters To Marry On The Same Day - Photos by loadedvibes: 2:27pm On Oct 02, 2016
Nice. Sweet.. one of the guys fine pass sha
Romance › Re: Man Caught With Married Woman, Beaten By Woman's Giant Hubby In Nairobi (Pics) by loadedvibes: 2:21pm On Oct 02, 2016
Kenya and Bad news self
Politics › Re: Soldiers Celebrate Independence In Borno On Streets Of Maiduguri by loadedvibes: 2:18pm On Oct 02, 2016
Abegi the only thing have seen these soldiers do the most is abuse civilians.

Click like if you agree
Romance › Love Is Not Red by loadedvibes(op): 2:15pm On Oct 02, 2016
On valentine's day, my school is always turned into a bloody colour by 'lovers'. If you don't have any touch of red, you are either too young to grasp love or too old to still feel it. If you don't have a lover, you didn't exist that day. Uncle Matthew said about love, "It is the kind of feeling you feel when you feel the kind of feeling you've never felt before". It begs the questions, Is love like that reliable rising sun that never fails to come every morning or like that denting black spot on your knee that stays after a fall? Maybe my school was correct, love have some colour to it. Maybe uncle Matthew was right, love is indeed a feeling. Maybe love is really meant for lovers. But is that all love is about?
"The day will come when, after harnessing space , the winds , the tides, gravitation, we shall harness for God the energies of love. And, on that day, for the second time in the history of the world, man will have discovered fire"
-Pierre Teilhard de Chardin.
Some say love dampens the senses and so, should never come. Others suggest that if it did come, it should never stay for It comes with too much bother. Society (you and I) have tenaciously misconstrued the science of love. We've managed to tweak it to suit our various skewed definitions.... keep reading

http://www.ericadianas.com/2016/09/love-is-not-red.html?m=1
Technology Market › Re: Fairly Used Samsung Galaxy Note 4 For Sale :SOLD by loadedvibes(op): 12:24pm On Oct 02, 2016
Talk on phone
seyema:
Camon c8 plus 30k, uromi
Technology Market › Re: Fairly Used Samsung Galaxy Note 4 For Sale :SOLD by loadedvibes(op): 10:07am On Oct 02, 2016
Ogbeni still available
Romance › Re: You Were Raped In His Bedroom-he Whispered "Face The Wall" by loadedvibes(op): 5:54pm On Oct 01, 2016
You are welcome to read more articles by this writer on her blog.
Aregs:
I'm quite impressed after reading this
Romance › Re: Is Linda Ikeji Crushing On Mamacruzz Blog Finest Male Face? by loadedvibes: 4:22pm On Oct 01, 2016
Lol. Straight to the point no pre-intimacy
Newbeginnings:
Ebere.. isn't being an entertainment blogger boring enough.. Try health or tech... its more serious and time consuming

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