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Lol..

Looks like a custom custom SMF mod ? If I'm correct.

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dawnomike:
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The traditional Zulu tradition that celebrates the union of marriage between two individuals is called Umembes. Lobola is the process of paying the bride price, umembeso, is the giving of gifts to the bride’s family, specifically the bride’s mother, as a way of thanking her for raising the groom’s soon-to-be wife. In the Xhosa Culture, the bride will bring gifts for the family as well.

There are a number of different stages to a Zulu and wedding, the Umembeso ceremony is done after the ukuvuma ceremony before the wedding and umembeso is definitely not the last, some people see it as the point at which a bride is officially welcomed by the groom’s clan, with confirmation that the bride and groom are now traditionally married.

Ukuvuma is to welcome the groom to the brides family by slaughtering a goat of a sheep. Most cultures do this.

The Umembeso List
For the Umembeso, a list of gifts and their respective recipients is provided to the groom’s family ahead of time, who will then write to the bride’s family suggesting a date for the umembeso. Gifts generally include blankets, pinafores, head scarves, clothes, food, straw mats, and sometimes a live goat. More than just the handing over of gifts, the umembeso is a celebration with dancing and the slaughtering of animals.

The Umembeso Process
The groom’s family’s arrival is greeted with song and dance at the gate to the bride’s family home. Both families compete in song, with the groom’s family asking for permission to enter the yard by announcing that they have come bearing gifts. Traditionally a goat is prepared by the bride’s family as way of welcoming the groom’s family to their home, and in some instances small gifts will also be given to the groom’s family.

Planning For Umembeso
Just like any event, you would need to look at your budget and decide what would be most suitable for your Umembeso ceremony.

1. Tiffany, ghost chairs
2. Tents (Marquee, stretch free standing etc)
3. Couches, ottomans etc
4. Cocktail/bar chairs
5. Flooring (red carpet)
6. Decor items(Center pieces, under plates,etc)
7. Catering (Buffet, s 7 pit, braai, etc)
8.Wedding cakes, biscuits, etc)
9. Wedding gowns
10. Beauty therapy (make-up, etc)
11. Sound system
12. Photography & videography
13. Elegant Venue

Umembeso Programme
This is where many families clash especially when the union is multi cultural. It is important to sit down with your grooms family and decide how the process will be carried out. It is important to agree on the events of the day before you begin preparations.

A general rule of the thumb for an African woman is to abide by the grooms family and follow their lead when it comes to the process. This is sometimes subject to discussion but situations vary by family.




Plan your Umembeso decor to suit your taste. Consider the venue, is it dusty or is there paving? Is it indoors or outside? Consider the weather as well? Will it be likely to rain? If so, what necessary precautions will you put in place for your Umembeso?

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There is no specific menu for Umembeso Food, however, I can safely say no African wedding is complete without meat and in most instances pap, rice and potatoes. The general rule of planning Umembeso Food Menu for any African wedding is sumptuous dishes. Definitely include meat dishes like chicken, mutton, beef or goat meat.


Umembeso Outfits


On this day, the bride is not only dressing up for herself, she is dressing up for her in-laws. She avoids skimpy clothing or dresses that are too revealing. it is important to consider a stylish but descent dress for this event. Some families insist on covering your head with a doek, the bride will need to discuss this with her fiancee.

lightdream:

Thanks Boss, The mindset. you can't have a fixed mindset and expect things to work.

BabaTundei:


Totally agree!

BabaTundei:
Beautiful!

Thank you

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vibbb:
You've said it all.
Except point 6: A good education; i bliv you are not referring to School education because it's not a criteria for a good wife. #One more point educated or not, she must be teachable and be willing to adjust to the tradition and bliv of the house she has gotten married too. What's normal in your house might be abnormal in ur husband house while what is abnormal in your husband house might be normal in your house. So she must balance the energy by applying wisdom.
Note: When you are in Rome you do like a Roman

Very true thanks ! She definately must be teachable, submissive and willing to learn!

gentlestdude:
original hymen

You may actually pass a good woman if you are looking only for original hymen.

iRepNaija1:


Serious question: please explain what you mean by this? Please do not use a religious argument.

"A King" has leadership qualities. He is honourable. He does not demand honour with his mouth but acts in a way that the woman will honour, respect and be loyal to him. He understands that his role is to provide and protect his woman and has the abilily to do so.

dollytino4real:
wat do u mean, so no good or wat do u mean?

There are many ways to be a bad husband, what I mean is if you know you are not a good husband, you cannot expect her to be good to you. She gives you what you deserve.

You have to be a king if you want to expect a woman to honour and submit to you. A woman cannot submit and honour a man who is weaker than her. I really don't mean to be offensive but I hope you get my point.

dollytino4real:
what about how to be a good wife to a bad husband?

Bad husband ? forget good wife lol

Most women have been with a man that dishonours them, that abuses them and yet you gave them your all, then you finally meet that one guy that sees your value, he doesn't have to be perfect, none of us are, but if at least he is trying his best to be a good husband, most of the time, you in a way make him pay for all of the men that mis treated you in the past. If you take time to pay attention to the way you handle your "good husband" you may at times notice that you are giving him less than you gave the guy that abused you.

Most men will agree, these are the things that are important to a man, especially if he is a man that is doing his part:

1) Never take things for granted.

Maintain the same sex appeal that you had before you got married. Never become too comfortable that you never give your man the kind of sex appeal that attracted him in the beginning. On your wedding day the woman looks like an angel, and with many women, the wedding day is the last time you will see her looking like that. That ought not be the case with a good wife.

2) Never fight for dominion.

When the wife constantly fights against the mans position, it it usually the source of friction in your marriage. When a man has to constantly battle his wife for the pant, it throws the divine order of the family off, and it also confuses the chemistry.

3) Not celebrating your man

Men are ego driven and the things that build their ego is knowing that you celebrate them. Most wives never take the time to celebrate their husbands greatness. They instead get caught up in the common routine of criticism. Many men find themselves in the arms of other women who celebrate them. Your man needs approval. When your man does stuff for you, most of the time its to get your approval.

4) Not keeping the home neat and tidy.
A woman is a mother, a nurturer, one that protects, cares and organises, there's no way you would have your family living in a filthy house.
One of your husbands complaints must never be that you keep the house filthy. It is not entirely the woman's responsibility to clean up.

The well being of the family is the reflection of the quality of the man. If a family is starving and there's an able bodied man in the house, the world will see that the man is struggling to take care of his family financially. When the house is filthy, they will know that the woman is lacking because the condition of the home is a reflection of the woman.

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If a man must have a good job, house and car before marriage ? What must a woman have ? Please vote or add your own suggestions.


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1Humility and submissive so she can be the woman and the man can wear the pants and provide.

2. She must come a good attitude to support the man achieve the above.

3. She may bring nothing and just be well trained for marriage and treat her man like a king.

4. Same as the guy

5. She must come with a good education and we achieve all the above together

6. A good education

7. Intelligence, to manage the marriage and household.

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