Romance › Re: Will You Allow Your Girlfriend/Wife To Call/Have Your Friend's Phone No? by lodphil(m): 6:26am On Jul 03, 2016 |
foolinlove: I personally wouldn't.
Unless my boyfriend asked me to call him for something.
If a girl asks for your friend's phone number you have to know WHY. If she can't give you an answer, and your birthday isn't coming up (surprise party), it's a no-go zone. don't u sleep? |
Romance › Re: Why Do Ugly People Contest For Mr NL?? by lodphil(m): 3:35pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
SexyStrawberry: bia nwaa why u quote me? I even come waste my MB dey check dp, and that's what u call handsome ? Lee anya don't quote me again o wickedness at it's peak |
Romance › Re: Five Abusive Words You Should Not Say To Her, No Matter What by lodphil(m): 2:23pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
If u can open ur mouth to say rubbish to me because u think am a man and don't have any feeling,then kindly bear anything dat I might feel lyk doing to u.Whether through words or action  |
Romance › Re: When You Can't Find Any Girl To Date by lodphil(m): 1:25pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: When You Can't Find Any Girl To Date by lodphil(m): 1:14pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Vikky014: well u said some so u r right happy u align urself with the truth |
Romance › Re: When You Can't Find Any Girl To Date by lodphil(m): 1:13pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Vikky014: we are dear Most of u are not,though u might belong to d few that are. |
Romance › Re: When You Can't Find Any Girl To Date by lodphil(m): 12:54pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Vikky014: ntn lyk forming. u dnt expect any girl to say yes the very first time of asking her out. the best way to do dt is to b close to her bfore making ur intention knwn some don't just don't know when to stop playing hard to get, even when u get very close to them,maybe until they see u with another gal that is finer Dan them. |
Romance › Re: When You Can't Find Any Girl To Date by lodphil(m): 12:51pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Vikky014: ntn lyk forming. u dnt expect any girl to say yes the very first time of asking her out. the best way to do dt is to b close to her bfore making ur intention knwn ur answer seems logical,buh we both know gals ain't dis logical in real lyf. |
Romance › Re: When You Can't Find Any Girl To Date by lodphil(m): 12:32pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Vikky014: y do u guys tak girls dt fall so easily for u guys as cheap lol,not all guys.Mind u dat when u suffer a guy u really lyk and know u will later agree to date,it pisses the guy off especially if d guy really lyks u.That likeness might turn to hate,so d guy might just bid his tym,waiting for u to fall in order to chop and clean mouth, just to hurt u. |
Romance › Re: When You Can't Find Any Girl To Date by lodphil(m): 11:59am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Vikky014: joe4christ indeed....Try dis wt me u wil loose me 4ver But why do u gals play DAT hard to get shiii when u know u really lyk a guy |
Romance › Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 6:08pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
foolinlove: The cry of a man with no argument.
Have a happy Friday. :DD hahaha U too |
Romance › Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 5:10pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
foolinlove: Is that all you've got?
I'm attempting to illustrate a point. It's obviously lost on you. chill joor! Don't tell me u lack a sense of humour,don't be so uptight.Not gud for ur health. |
Romance › Re: When You Can't Find Any Girl To Date by lodphil(m): 4:54pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
peter: U said it all. Thanks asin eeh the thing tire me no be small |
Romance › Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 4:46pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
foolinlove: I don't know when life starts. Science hasn't been able to determine that, because of the subjectivities involved. How do you define life?
I don't believe it starts at conception, because the foetus is merely a parasite until about 20 weeks when it can survive outside the womb (with a lot of medical assistance).
However, I dont think there's anything wrong with abortion. I wouldn't have one, but I'm not gping rp stop others. It's not my business what they do. Someone else having an abortion doesn't affect me. It doesn't affect you. It offends your morals, but that's about it.
I care about life. I care about the lives of the women who already exist and have been established. Rather than potential lives, whose fates we cannot possibly determine.
If you're concerned about potential lives then you have to stop spilling your semen unless you want to have a child - every sper.m is a potential child. And you're killing them by shooting them into thin air and not a vagina. hahahahaha,u never give up. Pls why are so u obsessed wit my semen?,hope u r not planning to make me ur baby papa. |
Romance › Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 3:37pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
[quote author=SWITANN post=47105632]LOL not possibly true. I admit the girl must have been wayward as a result of those her three abortions but everyone deserves another chance. every human makes mistakes.[/qu dear I never said anything about the gal being wayward.My problem is DAT the gal never told the guy about d abortions and her child,and she be forming love,now tell me whether that is not d height of deception.and am sure she wouldn't ve told him till after marriage |
Romance › Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 3:32pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
foolinlove: Selfish nature? Fighting for somebody to have choices in how they lead their life is selfish? Okay then.
I think it's selfish to force a person to have a baby if they dont want one. I think it's selfish to force children into the world if they are not wanted and if you have no means to support them adequately. I think it's selfish to force your ideals onto another person because it makes you more comfortable in your life.
Abortion doesn't affect you at all. It really has no impact on yout life.
As I said, if you don't like abortion, don't get one.
Please tell me which important questions I have dodged. It concerns me because the statement u made earlier can make a lot of gullible people think there's nothing wrong with abortion.And all ur logic can never make abortion morally right,unless one done as result of medical complication. You can't even tell me when life starts,u dodged the question artfully. |
Romance › Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 3:21pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
SWITANN: fine its an ugly mess but there is still a way out. the girl made a mistake by not telling her fiance, am sure its cos she didn't want to lose him. from your story the snitch I.e the girl's ex wants to break up your friend engagement. maybe he doesn't want his baby mama with another guy. its time for your friend to step up,yes he deserves to be mad,angry even get on d verge of breaking his engagement but.... is that all worth losing the girl he loves. he needs to sit and have a talk with his fiancée and the baby father about the child if he still wants to marry the girl. they need to discuss about the baby,the child can be living with your friend and his wife to be when they get married. they can make out a schedule when the baby father can come to visit his child or have the child over his house for the weekend. that way the baby still knows his father. the three of them just have to be in agreement,your friend should just take heart and of course do what his heart wants. if he still wants his woman,well he should just try and take my advice. actually,I think God actually wants to save the guy from a deceptive and manuplative gal;because am sure d gal wouldn't have told the guy anytin about a child and 3 abortions till after marriage,becos she feels it would be late for the guy to do anything by then. |
Romance › Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 3:09pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
foolinlove: So women aren't allowed to have sexual freedom? Women should be able to have sex when they want, and if their birth control fails, they have a right to abortion.
I see you would rather ruin two lives than allow a woman to remove a clump of cells (like a tumor), all in the name of what? Please think deeply.
IF YOU DON'T LIKE ABORTION, THEN DON'T HAVE ONE.
There are many schools of thought on when life begins. Your sperm are alive - maybe you should stop spilling them all over the place, killing all those poor little potential babies. Although to me u r talking crap,since ur selfish nature doesn't allow u to give a baby the opportunity to enjoy life just lyk u do. I still respect u for ur civil nature,u never resort to insult;though u rily know how to play the femal right bullshii and also dodge some important questions. |
Romance › Re: When You Can't Find Any Girl To Date by lodphil(m): 2:44pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
joe4christ: Let me tell you the prime magic in this. Never ever get too serious with your approach, be playful about it, make it look as if it doesn't matter much to you, in fact make them doubt if u are even serious about the whole thing that way, you'll be at the top of your game. Don't you get it? This is a mind game, whoever wins dictates the outcome, whoever wins becomes the boss. For u to feel pained that she shuns your advance is a prove that she has beaten you to the game. Its just the fact. Some ladies actually show u attention cos they wanna feed on your emotions to feel important about themselves, and if u give in to their trap, then that makes u a looser and automatically make her a winner. But if you make your attention scarce, that would make her fall .into her own trap, and cos ladies are generally proud and egocentric, she wouldn't want to feel less than her perceived self esteem. So, she would wanna take the battle to another whole level, she will be like, "what does this guy even feels like that he's not even giving me the much needed attention" she might decide to beat u to the game by taking it to your door step. Thats where u must lay seige. By setting your trap and chop her kpekus. Once done, she's hooked. Some ladies are like wild cats, so you get to play wild too... |
Romance › Re: When You Can't Find Any Girl To Date by lodphil(m): 2:39pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
joe4christ: Let me tell you the prime magic in this. Never ever get too serious with your approach, be playful about it, make it look as if it doesn't matter much to you, in fact make them doubt if u are even serious about the whole thing that way, you'll be at the top of your game. Don't you get it? This is a mind game, whoever wins dictates the outcome, whoever wins becomes the boss. For u to feel pained that she shuns your advance is a prove that she has beaten you to the game. Its just the fact. Some ladies actually show u attention cos they wanna feed on your emotions to feel important about themselves, and if u give in to their trap, then that makes u a looser and automatically make her a winner. But if you make your attention scarce, that would make her fall .into her own trap, and cos ladies are generally proud and egocentric, she wouldn't want to feel less than her perceived self esteem. So, she would wanna take the battle to another whole level, she will be like, "what does this guy even feels like that he's not even giving me the much needed attention" she might decide to beat u to the game by taking it to your door step. Thats where u must lay seige. By setting your trap and chop her kpekus. Once done, she's hooked. Some ladies are like wild cats, so you get to play wild too... U r very correct,just DAT I hate DAT game bullshii.One is playing DAT rubbish game with me right now,and I want to totally forget her. |
Romance › Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 2:07pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
foolinlove: Seriously? Most medical abortions in the world are carried out within he first 12 weeks of pregnancy.
Within the first 12 weeks it isn't a baby, it's a clump of cells. A parasitic growth with the *potential* to become a baby. #science
I believe the life of a woman - a life that has been established and lived - is more important amd valuabe than the life of a *potential* baby.
I don't believe a woman should be forced to give birth against her will. I don't believe forcing someone into motherhood is right, it has negative effects for the mother and child - depression, neglect, poverty and so on.
Abortion is also helpful to those who have medical complications and possibly die due to pregnancy, or when the foetus is known to be severely disabled or diseased (like having Tay-Sachs disease).
I wasn't aborted, so moot point.
You may be interested to know that a large number of pregnancies are spontaneously aborted anyway due to the internal processes of a woman's body. The woman doesn't even know she's pregnant - even though an egg has been fertilized, she has a very early miscarriage.
If you don't like abortion, that's fine. Don't have one. But don't attempt to tell other people what to do with their bodies, especially women, because you have no idea what it's like to be a woman. I agree with the point u made partaining to the fact that abortion can be carried out due to some medical complications.But apart from that I think a baby should be giving the opportunity to experience life in its fullness. And for ur information,I will continue to tell anyone that cares to listen that abortion is wrong.If u r not ready for a baby,then don't do things that might result to conceiving one. And pls,when does life start? |
Romance › Re: When You Can't Find Any Girl To Date by lodphil(m): 1:41pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
joe4christ: THE mistake most guys make is completely yielding to their temptation, that in itself is a turn off for most girls, the secret is in not giving them much needed attention, less you look desperate and they will be running away from you, do you know ladies willbbe busy saying they wanna settle down with a very nice guy with the perfection of an angel, but practically they tend to be attracted by players. The truth is, they love bad bad guys, they love it when you're naughty and unpredictable. In fact most gurls experience orgasm when you become naughy and show then little attention. Its psychological, even they themselves don't know why they keep wanting it more. Its complicated bro... Just know when to show some affection and when to withdraw, and when you get the slightest chance, hit her pu33y hard as if it's gonna be your last, make sure to impress her, she might not want to give in initially, but u gat to seduce her, she definitely won't want to look cheap. So, u got to play your card well. Just f^ck her hard till she begs you to stop. If you do this, bro congratulations, you've just gotten yourself a babe, cos you've registered there, your signature is there, so therefore, she will definitely come back to get more... it works almost all the time... u r definitely correct,Buh u know some start forming shiii from the exact moment u approach them;even if u approach them not as a toaster,just because they know u know they lyk u,but they don't want to look cheap.Some even go to d extent of snubbing u the first tym u approach them,expecting u to approach them again later. |
Romance › Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 1:14pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
Oma307: This ur philosophy dey fear me Don't mind her.If her mom had aborted her,she wouldn't have made such an outrageous statement. |
Romance › Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 1:12pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Guys, Can Love Ever Make You Beg A Lady Like This? (Photo) by lodphil(m): 12:54pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
Maybe if she's made of diamond. |
Romance › Re: When You Can't Find Any Girl To Date by lodphil(m): 12:49pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
joe4christ: Learn to study green lights of affection easily thrown at you by girls who feel your drive. Trick her into opening up by giving her a little attention. You're good to go. Try this, com back and thank me  Bro but once u give some of them small attention,they start forming hard to get.That shii provokes me lyk hell. |
Romance › Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 12:44pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Please Advice: My Friend's Fiancee Has A Son Already And As Aborted Thrice by lodphil(m): 12:42pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
foolinlove: Abortion is a woman's right.
Lying is no one's right. Killing an innocent unborn baby is no body's right.If ur mom had aborted u,u wouldn't ve been online saying crap. |
Romance › Re: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - Nomination & Verification Thread by lodphil(m): 11:38am On Jul 01, 2016 |
Laveda:
  do I ve any chance of winning if I should contest?,though am a low key kind of guy. |
Romance › Re: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - Nomination & Verification Thread by lodphil(m): 9:33am On Jul 01, 2016 |
Laveda: School's been good and stressful too..
You nominated trucky, he wouldn't be contesting. I have a fine boy you can root for.  am I d fine boy? |
Romance › Re: I Just Lost My Fiancee To A Bad Prank Gone Wrong...women Are Selfish by lodphil(m): 7:25am On Jun 30, 2016 |
Hahahaha,OP u must b tom and she must b jerry.Unfortunately tom and jerry friendship never lasts,so take heart. |
Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by lodphil(m): 11:16am On Jun 27, 2016 |
Bro u r doing a great work
Pls there's this chick DAT has been giving me green light,but immediately I started talking to her she kind of always tells me DAT she knows what I want by my looks and DAT I will not get it.From her body language and d way she looks at my face and lips I know she really lyks me,she has even told me so once;there was a tym I sent her a friend request on FB,she never accepted it buh always accepts other people's request,I had to later cancel the request.Have asked for her number buh she declined giving it to me,saying she will give it to me later.
I just want to forget about the chick and move on,am not the desperate kind of guy.
Dis kind of thing always happens to me with chicks;they show me green light,buh once I meet them even without intending to ask them out,they start forming hard to get.Some even snub me when I say hello to them,and later start staring at me,expecting me to meet them again.
Boss pls I need guidance here. |