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RomanceRe: This Thread Is Officially For February Born by lodphil(m): 3:48am On Dec 29, 2016
Lawlahdey:
Errr.. Thanks.
birthday mate.We are fine people.
RomanceRe: What Hussling Job Can I Do To Make A Living For Myself? by lodphil(m): 11:53am On Dec 28, 2016
ikp120:
Alright... Still drafting the shiit
Thanks bro
RomanceRe: What Hussling Job Can I Do To Make A Living For Myself? by lodphil(m): 10:30am On Dec 28, 2016
ikp120:
shocked
Na wa o... No problem I'll mail it to you once I'm done with it.
Bros abeg oooo me too,I sent you a pm.Help a struggling brother
RomanceRe: For Wrist Watch Lovers,share A Picture Of You Watch by lodphil(m): 2:53pm On Oct 04, 2016
Nice watches

RomanceRe: Girls Which Do You Prefer?( Photo) by lodphil(m): 6:02am On Sep 14, 2016
rose54321:
10%-12% damn where are these type of guys na..

All I see is 40% or 30% or even one that's not on the list - broomstick body cry
Babe we are everywhere ooo
LiteratureRe: Books You Must Read! by lodphil(m): 4:09pm On Sep 12, 2016
Pls can someone send me think and grow rich.My email is philchidi99@gmail.com
RomanceRe: Tired Of Life, Want To End It Anytime Soon by lodphil(m): 10:08am On Sep 10, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
I don't need solance undecided
super gal,we all need it at a certain stage in lyf.Be careful of your words both online and offline so u don't end up learning d hardway.
RomanceRe: Tired Of Life, Want To End It Anytime Soon by lodphil(m): 10:01am On Sep 10, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
because I spoke to the Op smiley
So you really wanted him to die undecided,just pray you don't get into the OP's kinda situation cos when it happens u may not ve a place of solace.
RomanceRe: Love Is Too. Wicked, I Regret Ever Loving This Igbo Girl by lodphil(m): 11:45am On Sep 07, 2016
Take heart bro,shit happens.NL has greatly changed my perception about love.
RomanceRe: What Did You Learn Too Late In Life? by lodphil(m): 10:02am On Aug 22, 2016
ShakurM:
You can get further with a kind word and a gun than you can with just a kind word
Al capone
RomanceRe: 10 Types Of Male Virgins by lodphil(m): 12:44pm On Jul 28, 2016
Hahahaha team 10,we make gals cry and request for it only to deny them.It's only a game to us.
RomanceRe: Why Are Handsome Guys Always Single by lodphil(m): 9:07pm On Jul 25, 2016
Some gals don't feel safe with handsome guys,even if they lyk u they will give u serious test b4 dating u.Buh what they don't know is DAT is that womanizing is based on attitude and not physical appearance.
RomanceRe: Please Help Oh! Please I Need Your Advice by lodphil(m): 8:12pm On Jul 25, 2016
Ephiks:
She wants to visit her male friend and will be staying for a week........ Should I allow her gohuh??
I don't think it's advisable,to avoid stories that touch.
Buh why would she want to visit her male friend and stay a whole week.
RomanceRe: ladies: How do you feel about dating a very cute guy? How do you deal with it? by lodphil(m): 4:22pm On Jul 25, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#0099ff]nether have 1 but I don't really like the commitment.

In yer case though there are likely a number of reasons why you'he not been in 1.

❤Apart from yer appearance what do you have 2 offer a womanhuh
❤Are you really a "good guy" ,or just a self proclaimed 1
❤Have you turned away women who have wanted serious commitment with you because they didn't fit yer physical preferences in a woman instead of looking at her attitude and common relationship goalshuh?

A number of reasons. Think about em .Bye smiley[/color]
smiley I feel relationships are too stressful,so I don't see the importance and I easily loose interest in gals.
RomanceRe: ladies: How do you feel about dating a very cute guy? How do you deal with it? by lodphil(m): 4:06pm On Jul 25, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#cc00ff]you mean ta say you never even had at the least 3 girlfriends in yer lifehuh? [[/color]
hahahaha,gals are easily attracted to me,buh at the same time don't trust me.Have never really had any serious relationship b4.
RomanceRe: ladies: How do you feel about dating a very cute guy? How do you deal with it? by lodphil(m): 3:53pm On Jul 25, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#0099ff]Uhn uhn. i have seen alot of not so appealing(to me) players.
Player is subjective 2 the attudie and mindset of the man, not his face.
.......❤
That being said, themedia does make players out 2 be physically attractive and if you aren't careful that image can be internalized.
....I had this happen ta me embarassed but! I know better now!![/color]
U r very correct,a lot of cute gud guys are single as a result of these.
RomanceRe: ladies: How do you feel about dating a very cute guy? How do you deal with it? by lodphil(m): 3:51pm On Jul 25, 2016
Rexhenrex:
100 percent true most girls think being a player is by looks thats why they hardly take cute guys serious even the average cute guys sometimes suffer that
asin ehh,gals ve labelled me player just by looking at me without even getting to know me.
RomanceRe: ladies: How do you feel about dating a very cute guy? How do you deal with it? by lodphil(m): 3:23pm On Jul 25, 2016
A lot of gals fear cute guys.Some will lyk u,buh put u through serious test to make sure u r not a player.
RomanceRe: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by lodphil(m): 12:11pm On Jul 16, 2016
Randyhot:
my guy, i dnt make empty claims.. The truth is i am in love with her, i dnt pretend or deny that, thanks for ur advice anyway.
It is nw left for me to do the needful and moniter her very closely to know whats what..even if i finally confirmed it, i think i can still fight for her, since the uncle can not marry her becos they are related by blood.
I believe she is not past redemption.
Carry ur self imposed cross bro,buh don't blame God 2morrow.
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Shallow And Proud? by lodphil(m): 1:58pm On Jul 13, 2016
HahHaha d one that's funny is that some will still form attitude,and expect u to chase them for months when they know they really like u.
RomanceRe: No Girl Is Good, Yet Guys Are Getting Married Every Week by lodphil(m): 12:39pm On Jul 10, 2016
halfricanadian:
U use juju on innocent good girls u treat sluts as queens

Nd u tink God is a partial God he will watch u hurt a Good woman he will now hand over to u an angel?

Oga devil is building d woman dat will destroy ur lineage just b patient
u r an enigma.who r u wishing bad this tym around?
RomanceRe: Serious Response by lodphil(m): 10:07am On Jul 09, 2016
PunkyV:
Yeah, that's because on the surface aquarius can be very likeable, friendly & funny. The problem is with deeper feelings. That's where aquarius fails imo. They don't like deep attachments & heavy-duty emotions. You're not alone though. The women get attacked too because apparently we're mean, cold & cheats tongue Not true, at least the cheating part because personally, I'd rather break up...even if I'm insensitive about it but at least I'm not fake. I'm brutally honest. I guess that = mean to some people or whatever.
U r on point.We are thinkers and most of us are pragmatists,u know deep-attachment and heavy-duty emotions kind of alters sense of perception and logical reasoning,which is not really appealing to the Aquarius individual.
RomanceRe: Serious Response by lodphil(m): 9:04am On Jul 09, 2016
PunkyV:
I'm sure you're bags of fun. Just not dating material tongue In fact, aquarius people are NOT dating material. Full stop. They're only good as friends imo. Aquarius men have the most haters than the women though lol. You're known as the douchebags of the zodiac grin Check out youtube videos about aquarius men & see the angry outpour from females who got served the ice treatment grin
meaning we aquarius men are " beyond salvage".Funny enough a lot of ladies still find us attractive,not b4 they get burnt shaa.
RomanceRe: Serious Response by lodphil(m): 8:31am On Jul 09, 2016
PunkyV:
Ha! I'd never date another aquarius. Someone needs to bring warmth into the relationship & aquarius can be cold. So, no thanks tongue Libra or gemini is a perfect match. I just don't like librans though.
hahaha! U a right shaa,I could be really cold when I want to be cos am quite calculative;But on the other I could be fun to b with and very unpredictable.
RomanceRe: Serious Response by lodphil(m): 8:01am On Jul 09, 2016
PunkyV:
I'm not a libra. I'm an aquarius. Please, don't say you're a libra tongue
Punky am Aquarius,leave searching4love and come let's get married ASAP.
BusinessRe: BVN Information Error Correction; How Long Did It Take? by lodphil(m): 12:40am On Jul 05, 2016
Am also having the same problem.My BVN date of birth and name are both wrong,though have sworn affidavit and also gotten a drivers license,but don't know whether both can be used to correct the mistakes.
BusinessRe: Neteller Now Accept Nigerians by lodphil(m): 8:47pm On Jul 04, 2016
Pls I want to fund my neteller account,but I don't have ATM cos it got lost,pls someone should advice me.
RomanceRe: When you choose to be a fool for love. by lodphil(m): 7:08am On Jul 04, 2016
Mehn, if I should try this my dad will course me from the grave.I can never sacrifice my all for some one DAt will not reciprocate.It's better I give everything I have to charity,than one unappreciating chick that thinks d world revolve around her.
RomanceRe: The Art Of Seducing A Nigerian Girl by lodphil(m): 11:34am On Jul 03, 2016
Pushplay u are da boss,pls ur guy needs to borrow some knowledge from ya.
RomanceRe: When Your Ex Feels She's Better Than The Woman You Married by lodphil(m): 11:20am On Jul 03, 2016
chigoizie7:
U are very correct.

There is this girl, she is a nice girl to be with, but she was dating a bit advanced guy(the guy was kinda ready for marriage).

All this girl does is always talking the into "eating out"(when she visits the guy or when d guy visits her). And when d guy complains, she is just like "haba, I am just ur GF not ur wife, when u marry me, I will start cooking". I am not saying that she should turn herself into a cook for the guy, NO, @least, let him know that u are very good @ that.

There are so many things( more of our normal thinking as africans, there are things we know good wives with, like being domestic and all that). All the time they were dating, the girl always exhibited that "classy babe life style"( I can't wash for a guy I am not married to, I can't clean his house, I can't cook for him oh, for wetin nah?". I am not saying that u should be doing it all the time, @least, let him know u are perfect in doing all those(i mean, whic girls doesn't know how to cook,wash or clean?).

@ the end, the guy had to marry another girl, even when he knew that the other girl was a nicer person.

When this girl got the news of the guy getting married to another girl, she broke down, she cried, she queried why he got married to another girl just months after break up? She asked me to find out from my guy why he had to marry another girl, if she wasn't good enough for him?

Me, I was moved, because I know the girl was good to some extent, so, I confronted my guy, here are his response.

"Gozy, see, chinenye was a nice girl, infact I found it hard leaving her, but, she doesn't know how to cook,clean nor wash, even when I tried to make her @least try, she was reluctant, and u know marriage is a life thing, I can't keep managing, I am not saying that I want to turn her to my slave oh, but, u know nah. My guy, I tried.


I told chinenye what my guy said, she cried like a baby, after some time, she said to me, "gozie, I can cook, wash and even clean, but I don't know what I was thinking" please beg him for me, please let me show him I can do all that.

But it was late.


Marriage is over rated yes, not everyone can.

But for those who wished to marry, please do the right things, don't allow the society deceive u, be that girl ur mama trained u to be.
Some gals don't always know what they are thinking
RomanceRe: Will You Allow Your Girlfriend/Wife To Call/Have Your Friend's Phone No? by lodphil(m): 7:18am On Jul 03, 2016
My friends gals most of the tym end up liking me;so in my case I don't think it's proper,to avoid stories DAT touch.
RomanceRe: Will You Allow Your Girlfriend/Wife To Call/Have Your Friend's Phone No? by lodphil(m): 7:15am On Jul 03, 2016
foolinlove:
Yes...
u must be a ghost

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