MiVida:
E dey pain to imagine, I know....


To imagine the shooking, how big the thing be, whether e big pass your own, how deep the thing go inside your woman, how the man take enjoy your property... chai e dey pain!


Take heart bro.

OnG. When you see her sometimes, Na Wettin dey come your mind

Mrscarter:


Well I believe in giving ppl a chance but cheating once (depending on circumstances) can be a mistake but if they repeatedly do it then it's deliberate.
It's nice U gave Ur girl a chance but if she does it again don't let her take advantage of that kindnesses. Forgiving someone is good for you but to have to constantly forgive them for the same thing is a whole other story.

How can putting yourself in a position to cheat a mistake ? Went to the location, chatted, your back on the bed, pants down and you couldn’t correct the mistake at any of the above steps ? Aba!

mariahAngel:
Let her go.
Never tolerate betrayal.
A person who truly loves can never give themselves to another.
For now, you can't even be friends with her. Later maybe....

So, no coming Back

So, babe and I have been on and off since UNI,. Finally asked us to be committed 2019, I accepted. December 2020, I travelled for Christmas and came back towards the end of the year.

Gf told me she slept with some older guy and couldn’t deal with not telling me. Said she made wrong decisions and could have done better, that I always gave a vibe of not been committed and would usually give her doubts about our relationship.

Really hard to process, cause I was considering taking things serious this year and she has been buzzing my phone, but already had a discussion with her that I do not want to continue.

Thing is, I really like the girl, I was her first - coached, provided guidance on life and career, cheer her on, encouraged her and stuff. Said she wants me in her life and would do anything to make it right, I just don’t know how to move from here, plus if I accept her, it’s likely to be a long distance relationship cause I’m out of town most times.

Please, is there a way to come back from this, even though my head is telling me to move on , but the fvcking heart is trying to reconsider.

TL:DR. Long term gf cheated on him and confessed, told her it’s over but still Carr deeply for her cause she’s day one and any new girl would only meet an improved version/person and not the guy starting from base 1

praiseneo:
I just forgive my gf after I caught her cheating and she admitted all her wrongs
I love her sincerely and I’d help her with her flaws.

Are you fr? Mine confessed to me and has been begging, I didn’t even know.

But bro, I don’t want to take that risk ! And I would mostly be paranoid about things