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Zabiboy:

@ bolded is in the category of the man being in a tough situation..
Also,
Aside being fools,
The woman deserves to be slapped if she comes out to lament about being the one bearing the finacial burden..
Why?
Because No sensible man would get married when he hasnt gotten his financial, emotional and other areas of his life in order...
Meaning she married a baby Adult with the hope that what happens in Nollywood would happen to her

LOLZ

Silentgroper:
Hol up! .. All what his write up entails is nt 4 d woman to own up d larger percent of d responsibities but to own as much or close to. Get me!

Which is what lead to me saying such that there are thousands out there who not only own close to d percent of d man but more than the man. lets end this argument please. I consider it a huge disgrace to the man for a woman to be d breadwinner of an home when there is nothing wrong with him. well grace differs.

DamnnNiggarr:
what about your own family,
who foots the bill, you or your wife??

Won't ever let my wife do such. BTW I ain't married yet.

Zabiboy:

Let's not deceive ourselves NO WOMAN WOULD ENTER A MARRIAGE WHERE SHE WOULD BEAR THE WHOLE FINANCIAL BURDENS ( most wont even enter at a 70%(man)-30%(woman) split)..

I won't agree with everything you just said, well it's true no woman would want to enter a home where they would bear much or any responsibility but some marry their spouse even knowing they are better than him for the sake of love, even believing that the guy has a bright future ahead of him and later go on regreting ever entering such home because the potential they saw in him didn't manifest leading to them bearing the bulk of the responsibilities in the family. I have witnessed such upfront in several families which sometimes leads to strife in the family.

nwaezeemmanuel:
God bless you!

and you too sir.

DamnnNiggarr:
until you ladies start taking equal part of the expenses in marriage, and taking equal part of the responsibility in every day family life, is when you shall be regarded equal with men.

who's the borden of marriage expenses on?? it's always men.

who worries most in the betterment or moving forward of relationship?? always men.

who tells a woman how he feels about her?? until I see women do that, still always men.

who's ready to sacrifice both financially in relationship?? always men.

you ladies want to be accorded the same respect as men but don't want to reason like men

Oga what you just said isn't accurately correct i have seen several families where the wives have the bulk of the family's responsibilities on their shoulder. we should stop this egocentric rubbish

#COYG We Are The Arsenal hoping to bounce back from the defeat we are winning this.

#COYG We are Arsenal

DEEBOZZ:
Okay No wahala bro

bro and me too i go appreciate if you go fit dey drop games for me.

GreatResearcher:
If you are shortlisted for training, it means you have to end your schooling and report to depot Zaria for training.
I advise you wait. When you graduate you join as officer.

Thanks but please what is the age bracket for those applying as officers? and what is the probability of landing it?.

GreatResearcher:
Yes. But use O'level result to apply.

But Won't It affect my schooling?

GreatResearcher:
U de mind those clowns? When application is open for all they refused to apply. When those who know the value take their place they'll be shouting marginalization up and down.

Please can one apply for it even though he is an undergraduate in his third year.

I was sent a mail but the screening is slated for 24th of this month.

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#COYG

#COYG

We don win oh Up GUNNERS 4 LIFE #COYG YOU don't wanna mess with us.

BlueRayDick:
Nketiah really needs to establish himself as a goal threat.

it's quite frustrating but he has got potentials, with more game time he is sure to improve both in his decision making and finishing.

I believe we should be the one to lift the shield, I'm quite impressed with the defence display.

LEGGO We are surely gonna lift the Community Shield. #COYG.

UP GUNNERS who be Chelshit for where we da kwanu

Following

chiefoboh1:
meaning of #COYG' please?

COME ON YOU GUNNERS

#COYG

Omooba77:
We can win for pride

yea because we have got nothing to lose.

MrBrownJay1:
then go PROTEST in the school (again and again) until the money comes out... begging online for handouts is not the solution.

I wasn't asking for anything but honest opinions.

Ningen:
Why involve yourself with cult guys??

It Was Out of desperation. Shit happens at times.

Ningen:
You're too broke to even motivate police to protect you. Man, you've go into hiding for now.

Ok, Thanks.

MrBrownJay1:
go tell your story to your security outfit... and tell them they MUST pay you today!

The problem is we have gone on strings of protest to the VC's office but we are been told there is no money in the school's account due to the ongoing pandemic, that our director should go and source for a loan to pay us, which our director has rejected vehemently, that the school has to pay him before he can pay us.

I tried explaining to him the issue on ground but he didn't want to hear me out, threatening me that if he comes to find me in school tomorrow with his men and i don't have his money, it would be bad for me and now am confused and sacred on what to do because this guys are heartless and can do and undo. I seriously need your advice and help on what to do. Lalasticlala please move this to the frontpage, its urgent.

Please I need an advice on this issue, am a student hustling to survive and sponsor myself in school, I joined a security outfit in my school, FUTO in Febuary and up to this very minute, we are yet to be payed, towards the ending of last month, I met one of my colleague who is also a student explaining my plight that am really at the brink of extintion due to no money to eat and take of myself during this lockdown. He then told me that there was an avenue in which I could get a loan without collateral but they were Cult guys and I would pay triple the amount of whatever I borrowed, out of desperation I accepted the terms and went ahead to borrow the sum of #20,000 to pay #60,000 because at that period we were promised by our employers that we would be paid soon and mind you am being owed the sum of #135,000. with that in mind i was given 14th being today to pay the money back but the issue now is that we haven't been paid still, I got a call by one of them this evening concerning the issue.

#COYG