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Sanctecosma:
Hmmmn. OP This your matter tie wrapper o.

Yes O

Hintona:
I know mixed race girl who is just like you.

Thinks she's too pretty for Nigerian boys.

I feel she is being too egotistical because she focused on her beauty.

Most beauty and drama queen thinks they will stay beautiful forever and don't see the need of character build-up

As for me, I know that Nigeria women are beautiful in my sight, but to me they are too Nigerian and some are traditional.

I have had this western personality trait since childhood at age 7

As I grew older, it get worsen to the point that it has become my demise

AmancalledGod:
Op your problem no even Carry weight self, if i tell you my own, you go just pity me right now

I for like know your own before oh, so that I can have more inspiration.

Villagedude:
Am a psychologist

Very nice

Whoknowsme:
I wanted typing something but mere looking at his profile name, I decided to save my breathe against someone who is soooo self centered and thinks everything should revolve around him

About my profile name(Lostchild)

I see myself as a western person who is lost in this jungle of a country (Nigeria)

MY QUESTION TO YOU

You are a Nigeria person with a Nigerian personality

You traveled to America yet you still have a Nigeria personality.

You in america, you find america culture very strange.

You started looking for egusi soup and banga soup, but you could not find any in america

You downloaded Nigeria music to listen to

You downloaded Nigeria movie to watch

Now You are looking for Nigeria wife but you haven't found any

You are looking for a Nigerian wife because you are a Nigeria person

You want a Nigeria wife who can watch Nigeria movies with you

You want a Nigeria wife who will play and listen to Nigeria songs with you

Why? Because you are a Nigerian personel

Will the Americans says you are self centered?

Can you please answer my question?

viosky:
The only problem i figured out from your post is that you really have a problem

You are a Nigeria person with a Nigerian personality

You traveled to America yet you still have a Nigeria personality.

You in america, you find america culture very strange.

You started looking for egusi soup and banga soup, but you could not find any in america

You downloaded Nigeria music to listen to

You downloaded Nigeria movie to watch

Now You are looking for Nigeria wife but you haven't found any

You are looking for a Nigerian wife because you are a Nigeria person

You want a Nigeria wife who can watch Nigeria movies with you

You want a Nigeria wife who will play and listen to Nigeria songs with you

Why? Because you are a Nigerian personel

Will the Americans says you really have a problem?

Can you please answer my question?

Can this my question and prove me wrong?

JeffSiberstein:
You already know the cure, just stay focus. You will achieve everything you seek

Thank you

SoundOsonic

You are a Nigeria person with a Nigerian personality

You traveled to America yet you still have a Nigeria personality

You in america, you find america culture very strange

You started looking for egusi soup and banga soup, you could not find any in america

You downloaded Nigeria music to listen to

You downloaded Nigeria movie to watch

Now You are looking for Nigeria wife but you haven't found any yet

You are looking for a Nigerian wife because you are a Nigeria person.

You want a Nigeria wife who can watch Nigeria movies with you.

You want a Nigeria wife who will play and listen to Nigeria songs with you

Why? Because you are a Nigerian personel

Will Americans see you as a phycopath?

Will the Americana says that you have a mental disorder just because you have a Nigeria personalities?

Would the Americans say to you that you have a personality disorder?

Can you see that I am in the right and not wrong?

Airtel?

I subscribe 6GB at #1500

Airtel zap 3GB from my data for just 5 hour browsing

Why people no go run from Una

Thief network

My ways is the best. Nigerian women are not worth it

You need fasting and prayer to marry here in Nigeria

Some nairaland babes may disagree but it is the truth.

soundOsonic

Your Nigeria as a country they have cultural disorder and not me.

My personality is splendid and not made for Nigeria crazy culture

In time being I will show you that I am right

Nigeria culture is crazy

Villagedude:
Sorry for ur bro. Trust and love are not the same thing, when go into relationships seeking trust first, it usually makes one restive and expectant. And when what you expect is higher than what reiceive, you;ll easily get disapointed. You have built barriers to help escape the harsh realities of this world. But it is important you undestand that there varius estraneus variables you can't control. So adjust!
Pray work

I must say that you have a great sense of judgment

Thank You

Carchoice:
I share some traits in your post but it seems you have some core Nigerian traits you are hiding. It’s glaring. Work on yourself first.

In what areas of me should I work on?

Duplexxx:
My guy this your story too long

Na true
You know say, Nairaland na very harsh forum

Reex12:
lost child it will be okay seek help I for one hate nigerian music(esp burna boy)

Thank You

DrObum:
Brother introvert, you can go Bleep yourself.

Your principal issue is inferiority complex that's why African tradition as exemplified in movies and music disgust you.

Your tradition and African mentality has made Africa a backward continent

I have even made up my mind not to have children in this dirty country

You that have a nigeria wife, Go fvck your wife

slyydave:
Your taught and personality must create room to accommodate others. my brother ,nobody is perfect

You are right

JeffSiberstein:
You are selfish, self centered, you are not an introvert but someone with developmental issues. All girls in the world love money not just Nigerians, take a look at DR DRE and his estranged wife to see what a western girl can do to you. Rural/village life they hungry you not being close to nature rubbish. The way you were brought up has a lot to do with the way you are reasoning today. A true lover of music knows that when it hits you feel no pain, so you don't have genres you listen to you listen to all. Find money and go to Europe or wherever you will meet your western girls because the Nigeria ones are not enough to go round. Most important thing here is that you need to see a therapist because you go still your western wife problems.

JeffSiberstein
Sometimes is good to be selfish for once in a while. You talk about DR DRE enstrange wife.

I guess you and I know the meaning of enstange wife?

A woman becomes you enemy the day you stop loving them.

How am I being selfish? Just because I state what I want?

Even my bible tells me that we should ask our heart desire and it shall be given unto us.

If Nigeria women/ mariage is more better than westerners why is there s much divorce?

I am not being selfish. I only state what I desire even though I don't know if I will find it.

A therapist has nothing to offer me just has Nigerian women has nothing to offer

Western women is my best bet

Traveling is cure to my problem

[quote author=Princeaniemeka post=100374205][Oga travel abroad and never come back.....safe journey in advancequote author=Lostchild post=100367696]

SEGLIZ:
with this response of yours, you will still get same answer like the initial (michael jackson).
to start with who are you? you can never talk of culture without you affecting race and skin colour.
beside when we talk about personality and trait this things are not so deep like you've just painted.
there is this clear cut difference between personality/trait and a chosen way of life. this a clear case of a chosen way of life. trying to chose a way of to or that will suit you personality and trait.

What you think is your own opinion
What I think and feel is my own

Your Nigerian women they are just too traditional for me.

I may get half of what I seek or I may not

My personality is just who I am

I cannot change eighter will I try to confirm any woman to live up to my standard

In a country of 200 million people you will find different shade of people and characters, so dont be surprise when you meet weird guys like me

MufasaLion:
Go to NASA headquarters in the USA. They'll sponsor your trip to the moon so as to find the woman you want.

Bombaclat!

You made me laugh

my3name:
get out abeg

Get in a beg

Lilpen3758:
Op what u need is weed......thank me later

Ha ha

My case is special, I think i need deliverance to reset my brain

SkengRay:
I understand you Op. You're having what's known as Uncle Ruckus Disorder

Lol

SEGLIZ:
he need to study up michael jacksons case out it started and ended.
he annoys me reading the few lines I did.

SEGLIZ
We are not talking of Michael Jackson here.

What I write here has nothing to do with race or color.

I am talking about personality and culture. I focused on culture.

I never said I dont like Nigeria women, not at all. I am talking about personality and culture.

Even an African america woman can give me all the trait I want than a Nigeria woman

JeffSiberstein

You are getting me all wrong. My problem is not about color or race here.

My main problem is with Nigeria/africa culture. Are there no blacks americans in the US ? Offcourse.

I will prefare a black american woman than a Nigerian woman because of cultural difference

Pmedia7787

It is better to be a coward for a second than being dead for a lifetime.

You are a fool.

Even in Nairaland you are just too foolish because you are a fool

I believe you can't stand my intelligence

soundOsonic
Let me gives you a digest version of myself

I may be an introvert but I can still work and flow very well with everyone.

I am faithful and true in my words and ways
I am gentle
I am tender.
I am meak person
I am very caring and respectful
I am selfless and kind
I am a professional in my work and field and what I do has to be well done.
I am a lover and a genuine care giver.
I love and help every I see.

I always smile and I try to put smile on the face of others.

All the hottie's I have dated in the past, they all wanted me to love them. To these women relationship is base on money and looks, but for me it is not

Many women and ladies respect me because they know that I am not a walking erection. I am person of discipline.

You said I have personality disorder because I don't behave like a typical Nigerian person

It is only Nigerians that will insult a person because he is trying to seek opinion. What do you understand about personality disorder?

What is the meaning of a psychopath?

Can someone with all the personality above be a psychopath?

I don't mean to boast about myself but this is why I see that Nigeria is an insane place for many guys like me to live.

I may be a Nigerian by birth but I am not a Nigerian by personality

You lack understanding because your fvcking brain is inside your hot temper