₦airaland Forum

Muna4real:
Married ladies please help.

Where can I find a husband material? No reasonable and responsible men anywhere. Where una de see these husbands sef?

GloryGlory01:
Trust me, it is far better to marry young. Those problems you are trying to avoid in marriage, you will still encounter them whether you get married at fifty.

Litmus:
In my experience of Africans, Nigerians are the kindest and best people on the continent. They are more honest than other Africans, more helpful, more supportive, less jealous, more imaginative and creative, and more realistic. Without Nigerian, Africa would already be re-enslaved by the rest of the world in term of offering nothing back but a burden, market, living laboratory, dump ground, and devotees of the cult of European and Asian narcissism. For me, Nigeria is the best "Black" Africa has and if Nigeria ends that’s me done with Africa.

Nigeria would be a safer, better more progressive place, if it could be cut from Africa and set adrift. African treachery is mostly responsible for the existential treats taking place in Nigeria. It’s a pity that Nigerians are so selfless and caught up with the idea of a united Africa that they fail to save themselves by investing heavily in border security and control that would keep Africa out.

Incognito403:
Very horrible.

These accusations are usually based on rumours.

As someone said, the IQ of a mob is equal to the IQ of its dumbest person divided by the number of people in the mob.

This is nothing but murder and barbarism. Our media should stop this tacit approval of jungle justice. They should stop using titles like "angry youth" to describe arsonists, anarchists and barbaric mobs.

ajailer:
Your sadness never start

ajailer:
Nnamdi Kanu came out and said he wanted Biafra for u guys and u were all jumping about jubilating but u guys never really sat down to think about what the movement really means, that it was going to mean that all non Yorubas will have to leave SW..... now d owner of the lands in SW are speaking reality to u guys and u want to start crying foul.

ibo ppl gat no sense at all, SW does not share a border with them so if they refuse to leave, we will push them all enter lagoon. I don't hate them but the insults they have been hurling at their peaceful host has now become too much and they need to be taught some lessons about life which they refuse to learn even after the civil war.

Yoruba nation will stand, non Yorubas will soon be a foreigner in Lagos and other SW states and nothing any tribe can do about it.

Antoeni:
WHEN THE CHURCH BECOMES A BUSINESS

1) Pastors function like CEOs
2) Members are turned into customers
3) Other churches are seen as competitions
4) Evangelism is reduced to marketing
5) Church planting looks more like franchising.

6) Numbers are primary measure of success
7) Prayer and Word study are replaced by formulas
Revival is reduced to a few days fund-raising
program
9) Preaching sounds more like motivational speech. All the people do is shout "I receive, Amen," throughout the concert. I mean the "service".

10) Praise and Worship is turned into a
performance. The best actors are made the worship and praise leaders.
11) The Spirit of God is reduced to "emotionalism". No real power of God other than hypnosis and sensationalism.

12) The saints are entertained instead of equipped
13) Disciples of Christ have become papa's sons, daughters and fans.
14) The Church, a living Body has now become a lifeless body
15) A leader's empire is built instead of the
Kingdom of God advanced
16) The pastor becomes the super man and Jesus Christ reduced to just another religious figure.

BlackfireX:
what is wrong with this Christians sefff, don't they know this is a Muslim country...




I implore the Army to.arrest them all, with the help of the hisbah police


@BlackfireX

You have a rotten mentally I must say. People like you is a curse to Nigeria.

A fool and the son of a fool

WalexyWWE:
Hello guys, how are you doing. so I posted some days back how my girlfriend persuaded me to invest in an online ponzi scheme and I didn't give in.

Well she called me back to apologise and said she is sorry. I forgave her and things came back to normal. she came to spend the weekend at my place areived on Friday we talked, gisted and all that.

She left on Sunday morning said she has church program to attend. I was taking a nap on Sunday afternoon when the sound of alert message from my bank came in I thought I was still dreaming I saw 20k debit alert 6 times (120k).

To be Frank I almost developed and hear attack. I quickly blocked my line via my bank app. I thought my atm has been misplaced.

I was still searching my room for my ATM card when my girlfriend call came in. she told me she withdrew the money(she knows my pin) and she wants to use it for the same ponzi scheme she talked about. she said why will i leave money Idle in my account when sha can make use of it.

I was so dumbfounded to be sincere, I got so angry took my keys and drove to her place her neigbour said they haven't seen her. called her line again she said I shouldn't bother going to her house that she wont be sleeping home for a while now.

She said I should replace the money with all the good times she has had with me. I'm very angry right now and I dont care what happens. I'm going to the police station tomorrow morning to report this case but how do I convince them she did it since she took the money from my ATM I want a strong evidence against her. I have informed her sister and her sister said any move I take she is in support. apparently she has done the same to her sis in the last.

WalexyWWE:
Hello guys, how are you doing. so I posted some days back how my girlfriend persuaded me to invest in an online ponzi scheme and I didn't give in.

Well she called me back to apologise and said she is sorry. I forgave her and things came back to normal. she came to spend the weekend at my place areived on Friday we talked, gisted and all that.

She left on Sunday morning said she has church program to attend. I was taking a nap on Sunday afternoon when the sound of alert message from my bank came in I thought I was still dreaming I saw 20k debit alert 6 times (120k).

To be Frank I almost developed and hear attack. I quickly blocked my line via my bank app. I thought my atm has been misplaced.

I was still searching my room for my ATM card when my girlfriend call came in. she told me she withdrew the money(she knows my pin) and she wants to use it for the same ponzi scheme she talked about. she said why will i leave money Idle in my account when sha can make use of it.

I was so dumbfounded to be sincere, I got so angry took my keys and drove to her place her neigbour said they haven't seen her. called her line again she said I shouldn't bother going to her house that she wont be sleeping home for a while now.

She said I should replace the money with all the good times she has had with me. I'm very angry right now and I dont care what happens. I'm going to the police station tomorrow morning to report this case but how do I convince them she did it since she took the money from my ATM I want a strong evidence against her. I have informed her sister and her sister said any move I take she is in support. apparently she has done the same to her sis in the last.

seunny4lif:
Best gift you can give your Children is not giving birth in Nigeria unless you worth over €1M and you provide police escort for them up and down
Move your children to EU or Canada not USA
If your child don’t drug related matter, then your child is good.

Ilamina:
Love calling people lazy

Posting horrible unflattering pictures of their friends on Facebook
Just because their stupid, disgusting culture doesn't take Beauty seriously

Its,common to hear other Nigerian tribes tell their children not too marry delta state people

Screw you delta savages

Antoeni:
WHEN THE CHURCH BECOMES A BUSINESS

1) Pastors function like CEOs
2) Members are turned into customers
3) Other churches are seen as competitions
4) Evangelism is reduced to marketing
5) Church planting looks more like franchising.

6) Numbers are primary measure of success
7) Prayer and Word study are replaced by formulas
Revival is reduced to a few days fund-raising
program
9) Preaching sounds more like motivational speech. All the people do is shout "I receive, Amen," throughout the concert. I mean the "service".

10) Praise and Worship is turned into a
performance. The best actors are made the worship and praise leaders.
11) The Spirit of God is reduced to "emotionalism". No real power of God other than hypnosis and sensationalism.

12) The saints are entertained instead of equipped
13) Disciples of Christ have become papa's sons, daughters and fans.
14) The Church, a living Body has now become a lifeless body
15) A leader's empire is built instead of the
Kingdom of God advanced
16) The pastor becomes the super man and Jesus Christ reduced to just another religious figure.

Madmohamed1:
the way you attack Igbo show that you are a Yoruba man. This nonsense belong to trash

Madmohamed1:
the way you attack Igbo show that you are a Yoruba man. This nonsense belong to trash

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

dat9jaguy:
Spot on OP, the undiluted truth but you were kind of soft on the westerners. The wahala they bring to the table is their arrogance but all in all this is a beautiful piece.

Kayberg:
Mr, I've heard and seen many say exactly your words. And you know what? They eventually got into politics and they're now monsters.
But well, I hope you keep to your beliefs.

Kayberg:
You make me laugh hard here.
Wait till you get into politics.
Then believe me, you will change from good to worse.
I know people like that…. I mean people.

ghettochild:
Title of this movie Please?
The butterfly n the Snake

Kayberg:
OP, listen to my voice.
Truly, you're a lost child.
When you're found, you will improve your reasoning.
GOD bless us both.

ChoCho54:
Another butterfly who thinks himself a bird.

Hiss.

ATAKAM:
are you writing from ghana....?

KingAzubuike:
We heard so many chilling and scary stories about TB Joshua down the years. Still don't know how true they are.

ASUNDER:
My friend is currently going through a divorce in the UK and having a hell of a time. His wife mounted as many allegations on him as possible during separation - domestic violence, marital rape, child abuse, drugs and alcohol use, adultery, forgery just to name a few. He had to leave the house. He has moved to a room in a shared house and now even struggling to pay the rent. He does not see his kids anymore (not by choice). He is very broke and in debt because of all that is going on. He can no longer afford a lawyer. He feels so powerless, helpless and hopeless that he cannot fight most of what his wife is putting him through in court. He represents himself these days.

He has stopped looking after himself and is always looking sad . He also lost his job due to his arrest and all the drama. He was arrested because he tried to go see his kids at his former home and his wife called the police that she was afraid of him and that he had come to harass her. Police arrested him even without any traces of any harassment. Note that he moved out of the family house voluntarily thinking that the period of separation would ease tension between him and his wife.

I always feel sad seeing him in this state and just wish that he could recover and bounce back. He is considering moving back to Nigeria.

Have you gone through divorce in the UK or do you know anyone who has? What was the experience and what advice would you give someone going through this?

Thank you.

Kayberg:
OP, listen to my voice.
Truly, you're a lost child.
When you're found, you will improve your reasoning.
GOD bless us both.