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Who knows... Maybe the End will tell.

If some one is owing u 1.2 million and he sends pls call me, know that he wants to complain. He wount be having 1.2million to pay for a debt and still sends pls call me. I'll go foR my mom

LogoDWhiz:
There are lot of things to gain from a 'No Sex' relationship.

It all lies on your reason of entering the relationship.
Is it all about sex?

So, if your sole purpose of being in a relationship with a girl at the beginning isn't all about sex, then u should be able to do away with it, and keep up with the relationship for the other reasons why you are with her!

You can gain things such as, love, affection, care, support, encouragement and so on!

those are the things the guy should gain naturally from the girl. But a situation when he is not getting them, and the girl suddenly adds NO MORE SEX to the list of things she is not giving. What would the guy do.

HARDDON:
As much as I don't fancy the business like manner of approach d op cloth this with , when u guys go demanding(recharge, bis subs, hair,nails,shoes,bags to name but a lilliputian few) it isn't businesslike? When u can't date a guy without a ride ,it is not business like? When u go beeping for him to call back itz not bizlike? When u go hookwinking d maga wit a lil puni taste b4 lunching ur mega drops, it ain't business ?

In life generally, bon d Luv, as V wud admonish : itz all about what in it for me.
After all, what is really in it for a yr1 guy not having marriage in mind now? Luv? That can be found with a lil stroll across d street

U invest ur time, money n ur entire life sticking to no sex ish while another is digging d ish? Ouch!

Op, noting is in it for u! If she apruptly came up wit that idea as they always do after u guys hv bin rumbling , tell her these two sexy tins:

1) No sex? Aiit , but do know that with that goes the special spending, no more recharges, no fixing of hair , no shawama, no shopping , in fact no nothing. If she can't eat d left over beans, let her take a hike

2) she shld not get jealous when Chioma is helping her weed her forest she left fallow . it is not all about s3x nida is it all about spending! Ouch! Knockout blow! They immediately fine tone

thank you sir. You just hit d nail on the head. No sex, No spending, No Nothing. The guy can be doing the phone calls just to keep relationship going. Cos she has stopped calling a long time ago.

Ladies are sometimes the reason why men cheat in a relationship.... D man can't just be watching you and be swallowing spit.

Oboy na front page be this

mencade4:
hey stuuupid biiiiitch dont just try me with your maggot behaviour, cos am gonna burn you alive.

Be warned......make u no try me.

she don 1st refuse u bleeping b4??

OlamiB:
Youu gain love that isn't based on sex

which kine love for mouth be that??

Timohunk:
No money,gifts,recharge cards,bb suscribtion and so on in the relationship also

Which girl will do it for a guy?

badoolee:
Like seriously what's d importance of sex in a relationship?

sex is important when the girl has nothing else to offer in the relationship..

ndcide:
A genuine question I must say. The problem is that we are increasingly becoming too self sufficient and business minded in our generation. even interactions are now on social media hence one can be alone with a phone and a PC and will not bother about his or her immediate environment. so you discover you can do without the person beside you. This is the reality we've found ourselves.

So for both sexes, you must be coming with something to add to the other person. Since majority have not even discovered themselves, they have little to add to the other. What happens is that people are now in relationships because others are in relationships too. people marry coz other are getting married too.

A lady goes into a relationship with someone. when you ask why she is in a relationship, she can't give a good reason.

now humans are naturally selfish. now the girl wants to get something from the relationship & the guy wants same too. Hence you see the lady makes unnecessary demands while the man try to get enough sexx if he can't get anything else.

Since some of the ladys don't have money to give , they'd have to give sex. Now she gives sexxx , what else can she give. NOTHING. after some times the guy calculates his investment and returns What does he get, nothing but Sexx. First girl, second, third fourth etc. They add nothing to the guy just only sexxx.

You can't help but ask.

This is Exactly what I'm talking about... Now the only thing she can give which is sexx is what she says she wanna stop giving. I don't mind using the term "USELESS" to qualify her.

See as all of una dey provoke..
This is d whole story.... They started dating some yrs back and everything was going fine(bleeping, calls, visits, obvious love etc) then all of a sudden, she left calling to be only d guy's duty. If d guy don't call, they wount talk on phone. though she demand for money some times which d guy gives her, And one day she. Says No more Bleeping that she is now a different person. Now the guy has to make a lot of calls and fix several dates b4 she will agree to visit. It is now the guy that is now active in the relationship.
I used the word "GAIN" not because relationship is a business but because it is mutual. It has to favor both parties.
Now what do you guys think of this

iamrealdeji:
The guy should sign out,that girl is a hoe and wants to take the guy as maga,she would Bleep some other guys and collect money from the maga guy

Thanks bro.. But I think in this case, she is not a demanding girl... All she claims is that she love the guy and of course you don't eat love.

Please my fellow nairalanders I need your comments on this. How can a guy be sure if a girl loves him when she suddenly says No sex in the relationship. What else will the guy gain from dating her. Since relationship is mutual and the girl is closing her part, what will the guy be gaining from her.

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Gunmen in pickup trucks attacked the village of
Gumsuri, just north of Chibok, on Sunday,
shooting down men before herding women and
children together.
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"They gathered the women and children and
took them away in trucks after burning most of
the village with petrol bombs," a local
government official said on condition anonymity
for fear of reprisal.
News of the attack took four days to emerge
because of a lack of communication.
Telecommunications towers in the region had
been disabled in previous attacks.
Local officials learned of the attack from
residents who fled to Maiduguri, the capital of
Borno state, where the officials had moved a
year ago to escape Boko Haram attacks.
The militants stormed the village from two
directions, overwhelming local vigilantes who
had repelled Boko Haram attacks over the
course of the year, said Gumsuri resident Umar
Ari, who trekked for four days to Maiduguri.
"They destroyed almost half the village and
took away 185 women, girls and boys," Ari said.
Resident Modu Kalli said the militants fired
heavy machine guns on the village and poured
canisters of gasoline on houses before setting
them on fire.
"We lost everything in the attack. I escaped with
nothing, save the clothes I have on me," Kalli
said.
Hundreds of residents of Gumsuri continue to
arrive in Maiduguri, which has been struggling
to accommodate thousands of residents fleeing
towns and villages overrun by Boko Haram.
Campaign of violence
Boko Haram has terrorized northern Nigeria
regularly since 2009, attacking police, schools,
churches and civilians, and bombing
government buildings.
This month, at least one female Boko Haram
suicide bomber killed five people in Maiduguri.
Last month, suicide bombings killed nearly 180
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saying that it does not represent the interests of
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Another way of wasting money. Nice though.

frisby:
Louis055 this goes for you too.

I do not think it's advisable seeking opinions from people who know neither you nor your ladies.
I suggest you pay more attention to your relationship, study your ladies more closely. Experiment. Throw random situations at her and see what makes her show (even the slightest hint) of care, note this, and build more experiments around the first successful one.

Every human being is unique. So no one here can say THIS is why or THAT is the reason.
It could be that she isn't into you. Could be interested in someone else.

Could be that she likes you but just doesn't find you exactly interesting.

Could be that she's just wired that way. Some people are more passive than others... and some, less expressive than others. (all wonderful in their own ways). Tell me, does she sound excited when you call? If she does and u think it's genuine, u may be worrying over nothing. You may be dating a true introvert.

And then, (this is something many ppl fail to realize), how old is she n how old are you? Truth is, some people do not fully awaken to the entire romance thingy until they are totally ready for it. True, they may jump aboard the dating bandwagon because it sounds trendy these days. But deep down, they are still....dunno exactly how to explain it, but I'm. Certain you get my point.

And then I don't think telling someone to "show more care" is a wise move. At least I know I've heard it a couple of times from a couple of ladies, and to be frank, it even made things worse, as ur subconscious automatically translates that to mean "I'm clingy and wanna smother you", even when ur head knows that may not be true. So instead of telling her what to do, keep SHOWING her how u'd rather have it and give her time, she may eventually pick up.


And finally, be sure u aren't expecting too much from her. Never build ur expectations around what you see in movies or what your friends tell you about their own relationships. Every girl is unique and love at their own pace.

Thank you so much... I certainly understand every point you made. This is gonna be do helpful. Thanks.

Vankyvictor:
My galfrnd is not caring, I can't remember when she called me for like 2minutes. Though she doesn't request for airtime but sometimes I do buy for her, but that doesn't mean she shouldn't even giv a flash at least once a day..... buh she doesn't. only when she realises that I haven't called lyk for two to three days that's wen she ll b calling/flash but she doesn't demand.... And I am the kind of guy that loves to be cared for.... I have talk to her but she told me that she ll try.... that her Ex took her love n care for granted... but always tell me she loves me more than her Ex... does she really love me or should I quit d relationship.... because that's what I feel like doing now

my case is not different from this one. If I don't call her she don't bother to call and I'm quiet sure she is not seeing someone else. We've quarreled a lot about her "not caring" attitude and all she keeps saying is dat she will change. Is it that she is tired of d relationship and don't know how to say it or its just part of her? Should I be patient with her?? Advice needed pls.

Lwkmd

Marc9:
Are u having problem digesting wat MTN said abt the initiative? Didn't u read the initiative was directed at ordinary people who might nt be able to regularly afford the minimum N100 recharge?

Can u be more analytical than MTN business developers?! Or don't u knw the idea was to give the people the power to recharge in multiple of 10, as against the multiple of 100?. Now people can decide to buy N30 or N40 or N60 or N70 airtime, as against buyin N100 or N200 or N300 airtime.

If u can't imagine urself goin to ask for MTN N10, then try imagine the time you used to drink garri when nothin was at home!

lolz.. Its a welcome development. But I think its jst too small. N50 would have heen just fine.
Anyways its another business strategy to get more customers. Its kinda funny though.

Just imagine your self going to a phone boot and say give me MTN N10..
Jeez!!! That sucks. It will be very shameful..

Dollarchap:
I guess it is an abbreviation just like MTN. You pronounce it by spelling.

copy that

EroticAngelina:
hahahaha!! I belong to numbers 3, 7 n 16 number 1 z so true lol u find them at front, me na back I dey stay near wall. so that I can do things without getting caught

badt babe

To be Honest, I fall in d "good listeners" class......
Nice thread. I hope it makes FP.

How do we pronounce the word "TSU"..

Psylas:
wetin concern me, I'm glad that I have my own lawyer

lwkmd

Watermelon seed tastes like d real meLon it self. Until I see proof, I wount dare to bite it, and if I do by mistake, I'll rinse my mouth quickly...


































Gross!!

I tink dey go back to where they come frm which is hell. If dey don't go back, dey look for d next available body to enter. The bible say when d edge is broken, the serpent bites

HoW re we sure its not judgement day? HoW re we sure its not judgement day?