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Ahmeduana: MR MAN OR WHATEVER YOU CALL YOURSELF! WHY ARE INSULTING AND ABUSING ME? WHEN I MADE MY COMMENT DID I INSULTED ANYBODY?

Ahmeduana: POL SCIENCE! I NO know THE THING WEY THEM THEY LEARN FOR 4YEARS FOR UNI, WEY BE SAY NA ONE WEEK YOU GO TAKE LEARN UNDER THE TUTELEDGE of ADEDIBU OF BLESSED MEMORY AFTER eaten amala dudu with gbegiri and ewedu; OR UNDER THE SUPERVISION OF JONA JANG WITHIN ONE HOUR YOU WILL KNOW THAT 16 IS GREATER THAN 19! YOU WILL NOW GO AND WASTE GOOD 4 TO 5 YEAR FOR UNIVERSITY!

marieolae: lmaoo

1one: As cool as it sounds to the ear... really, a girl wooing a guy is just gross!!!

I've not gone through all the posts yet, but from the pages I've read, such relationships don't just last.. It doesn't because it goes against the natural order of things... "Imagine a fish eating chicken meat.. The girl-guy dynamic was not designed to operate that way.

I've never been wooed by a girl and it has nothing to do with being ugly, on a good day I'd pass for 6.5/10 in looks.. which is a pass mark on a verrrrrrry good day, I dey even enter 7.5 sef

What I'm saying is most times it just puts the guy in an awkward position and makes him to give in just because of courtesy or because the girl is pretty... all guys that have accepted wooing proposals from girls all had this common denominator-"she was foooooiiiine". Later on they might discover the girl has more character flaws than they can handle and this leads to stress in the relationship. If the guy in this situation chooses to stay in the relationship, he stays mostly due to the fact that he pitys her and remembers that she was the one who wooed him.

The flip side to this is that it also creates an atmosphere where the guy doesn't want to do any tangible work to feed the relationship under the guise that well after all babe, you were the one that asked me out so I don't have to stress myself doing anything that makes you or us happy, the work is on you.


This is 2014, as a girl in one other thread said and yes by that definition, a lot of things have changed, bordering lines have become blurred, women are more brazen, driven, the society has seemingly become more liberal and accomodating to notions like this - A girl wooing a guy. However, I think when it comes particularly to relationships, lets just keep it traditional... It works better that way... Give the guy "green light".. blind him with it.. Let it be so bright that even if Nepa takes light he won't notice.. That's the best you can do to a guy you're interested in as a lady... Start from dropping subtle hints and clues, if he still remains clueless, then increase the tone, if he doesn't still get it, then leave him be.

Never Never Ever walk up to a guy and ask him out.

marieolae: Believing him even when I knew he was lying.

icedpope: . .
3. stare at her picture before going to bed...

berem: when will he be sworn in?

Dolemite: May you burn in hell Sawyer!! Nigeria plz treat your doctors well.

Dolemite: May you burn in hell Sawyer!! Nigeria plz treat your doctors well.

Jinyjagz: ..my frend get out of here,dis thread is 4 matured mind nt for sum fake a$$ wizkid wannabe

Dubby6: E pain am
id-iot; fine, u no fine..get sense, u still no gree. na wa oo.
For d bolded word, e be like say u just hear am recently, u no even check d meaning ,learn how to use am...SMBH 4 U

Dubby6: Bloody fools everywhere...
For ur mind, u think say as u don talk dis shiit finish, d op go give u free pusi...my friend be wise oo...use ur head
For d records, ive never sent a pm or email to any gal on nairaland....

sweetylicious: It seems u bark a lot.Anyways I am to big to exchange insults with you.Street fighter,I guess that's your hubby.

Dubby6: Foolish gal...
Gaddamit i really hate fools
Halfcaste koh outcast ni

marieolae: I'm nt thinking about what anybody is tryna say!!

EroticAngelina: Hi, i want to use this opportunity to warn nairaland guys to stop disturbing me with emails!!! I jx registered, and lots of guys are sending me emails. D one dat made me loose my mind was wen i logged in, nd i saw dat abt 35guys sent me emails, i had to do sumtin to stp dis madness! It is making my mail box crowded wit useless mails, nd i hate letting my email get crowded! Its tooo much, and it gives me headache. I try to be nice nd answer 'em all, bt thrz jx too much a girl can take okay? pls stop sending too much mails. Am sure thr ar some gals who ar facing the same thing im complainin of. Ask bfor u send, nd if i say no. Pls dnt try to send! Iv tried to make u guys stop, bt it seems impossible, so i had no other choice but to post lt here as a topic. And pls does anyone knw hw to ban someone frm sending u prvt msgs or emails on nairaland? If u knw, pls share wit me. I rly need it to tame these nairaland guys Sorry if i sounded rude, but like i said, i had no choice. No insults pls.

Ormorlehwah: No prob. No be fight, jst trying to tel U d fact. Dats jst me, I cnt chnge who I am.
#cheers