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DonMekino:
Am ready

who else is ready....holla moi
let's go produce d future generations

Lol

katyeee:
Lol....he has seen d right woman but he still waiting for the right money....jst calm down nd bear with him....lol

For how long?

Titilayooni:
AMEN..some guys can be mean jare,funny enough the guy go get better jo now,thatss when he will remember that she is too old for him...

Exactly,that's what happens most times

shegsky:
Guyz Are Not Ready To Marry A Liability As Wife. Lobatan. The Secret Is These , A Guy Wont Be In An Hurry To Walk U Down D Aisle If Perhaps His Monthly Income Is Nothing To Write Home Abt,but Should In Case His Supposed Wife To Be Has Her Own Job/handwork, He Won't Be Afraid Cos With Time, Things Will Take Shape.

So what if the lady has a good job and yet still,no proposal.

udemejacob:
u see the problem with women, they r always impatient and in the end some of them get to regret it. y not stay put n pray God should bless d guy for u shap shap so that u won't stay as his galfrd again u wanna marry shap shap n bla bla bla, make una calm down o

Hmmm,what makes u feel if God blesses the guy he will still end up marrying the girl

halfricanadian:
By 24 i wud b married whether d guy im with is ready or not i will slam my wedding iv to him

U tink i will b doin love till 30? Cos of a fellow human being ko jo laye

Im calm now cos im young lemme ger to dat 23 24 age

N*ggas will kno im a female dragon cos of my attitude will scream FIRE CONVERSATIONS ND ATTITUDE

Lol,u r really funny

Oma307:
that ur prayers strong ooo

As in enh,too strong

halfricanadian:
Simple lord please hear my humble prayers
Dear God, on behalf of the entire female race world wide any guy that derives joy in wasting our time wen dey kno dey av no plans for us lord jesus any guy that wanna waste nd delay our time the number of years such guys use to waste our time or lord delay their BREAKTHROUGH,SUCCESS,PROSPERITY,HAPPINESS,MARRIAGE,HAVINH CHILDREN,BE PRODUCTIVE etc. With the same exact year they hurt us.in jesus name i have prayed AMEN

Ladies fear no evil

It is so annoying,if u leave them,they will say u left them when they needed u most and before u know it they will marry another person, u wait and u will clock 30 still being called girlfriend while ur mate have children of 5 years and above yet u will turning other guys down because of them. So painful!

PushPlay:
Ladies need to learn how to trap their man into marriage.

Pls teach us how to do it biko

You date a girl ready for marriage and u refuse to takes steps to marry her after a reasonable time. Read a girl's story" am in a 3 years long relationship. I met my boyfriend when I was 26,he was 27.When we met,he said I was his wife that we will get married soon bla bla bla,I was reluctant because he was still young and I was looking for a matured guy to get married to but because of pressure,I decided to give in since he looked serious and really showed maturity. Well,3 years down the line,no proposal. Everytime I try breaking up with him,he will beg me to give him time that he is not ready yet that why am I rushing,that if I love him I will wait for him,he will cry and beg. The reason we are waiting is that he wants a better job,only God knows when the job will come. Am so angry right now,why will men keep doing this,u know a girl is ripe for marriage and u keep her there for years as a girlfriend just because u know she loves u and she will stay. If u see a girl ready for marriage and u are not ready,pls stop pressuring her to date u if u r not ready to commit(marry)her. If u want a girl u can date for 5 years,then date a 20 year old.". Over to you guys,why do u keep doing this and what can a girl in this situation do?

mrjojo:
in every relationship, there should be at least a little bit of ATTRACTION. Op didn't you noticed she wasn't pretty enough for you when you asked her out? Abi this "buck teeth" of hers was missing when you were busy kissin and se.x with her, so what exactly attracted you to her in the first place??
if you are not attracted to her and not proud of her , please let her go and find someone BETTER that will, don't marry her cos of pity.Marriage is toooo long to be hiding one's wife.

Hmmmm

lagosflexcamp:
Shey the babe in question get Toto, boobs and a nice looking booty? Well if she have all this attributes I mentioned, then you absolutely have nothing to worry about. Beauty is transient and a bad set of teeth shouldn't deter you from marrying her as long as you guys love yourselves. People are marrying cripples nowadays, so a bad dentation shouldn't be a problem.

Just consider this things I listed

Nice Toto
Sweet boobs
Big booty

If the babe get this three wonderful assets, guy forget about her bad teeth. If you are bang**g her and don't want to see her teeth, you can use pillow to cover her face.

Hahahaha,u r a joker.

Originalsly:
I guess you have to marry her because your mum says so. But why marry someone if from jump you are not comfortable with her looks? I suggest you dump that ugly buck tooth girl and get a pretty one that you can show off and make you feel you like a real man...and don't worry about ehmmm....Bucky...she'll be alright.... one of your frends would't hesitate to replace you. 'A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

Lol,my brother,I can't stand any of my friend taking her.

YUNGLURD:
Truth be told, i think there should be an iota of beauty in choosing one's partner if not the OP would still resort in looking elsewhere thereby infidelity creeps in. Most of the comments above are not being real. We are talking of someone u would be seeing almost everyday when married. That being said, beauty is in the eyes of beholder!

I have realised that in this life,you just can't have it all,u have to be able to let go to gain. My friend that has a very fine babe,the girl doesn't have money and she is kinda materialistic,always demanding from my friend while my girlfriend never demands,she earns very well and even assist me financially. Life though! You can't have it all!

Mailthaddeus:
OP,
I believe that every woman is beautiful, jst package her a little and datz all. She has good job, a good character and she is a likeable person, above all, u guyz love each other! jst package her datz all, make her hair, help her dress sexier and all that!

She is packaged just that she is not just fine,the truth is that u can't just have it all

ronald4lif:
You're not proud of her and that's a catalyst for relationship/marriage instability. Not flaunting her before your friends will only lead you to infidelity and emotional/physical abuse.

You don't consider her beautiful and this isn't going to change after marriage neither will her character change your perception about her looks. You'll end up cheating with babes you consider beautiful and may become violent if she start revolting on your philandering ways. Don't proceed with that marriage, it won't work.

You won't understand,I have to marry her,sometimes I only wish I was with a very beautiful woman

Donlino:
Dump her... And go and toast fine girls that you can use as dp

Hahahahaha

Daniel2289:
Y not go ahead and marry her. Besides u are marrying her for urself, not for anybody. Since two of u loves each other y not go ahead and marry her? As times goes on and u have money, u can beautify her d way u want her to b.

This girl is classy,she dresses very well and all but just that her face isn't just fine so I don't think she can be better

STFUareyouG0d:
If you aren't proud of her, your friends will never rate her. You have to change your mindset


Be confident enough to flaunt her around. Start seeing her inner beauty

Ya that's true

Donlino:
So wetin you want make I come tell you ?

Your advice my brother

Donlino:
Pictures first before I tell you what's up!

U know that's not possible na

I have the best girlfriend in the world. She is a a Doctor,well behaved,she can cook,she loves me so so much and it is very glaring that she loves me. She is classy and everything u can think of. My problem is that she is not fine at all. She has a buck teeth and it makes her very ugly. My mum even said she wasn't fine but she still likes her since she is a good girl. I really wish something could be done about her teeth but it seems it can't be changed. I really want to marry a beautiful lady at all cost because am not blessed with good looks. I love this lady so much though and I wish she was fine,even just a little,not so fine oo,just a normal face. All my friend flaunt their beautiful babes on their DP and I feel ashamed putting up hers cos when I do,nobody praises the picture like when my friends put pictures of their own girlfriends. Pls how can I overcome this feeling cos I must marry my girlfriend,she is too good in other aspect except her looks which is not her fault.

All this people booking space upandan,I hail una,besides she is very beautiful,more beautiful than when she is made up.

mikolo80:
may God be with you and your decision

Amen,tnx.

mikolo80:
o ok

Ya

mikolo80:
what's that

Am feeling your last comment

mikolo80:
obviously we prefer to be the provider but the reality is that most good paying jobs(sales) available today favor women but what I believe is if men could marry women with no job and send them to school and sponsor business (usually boutique or shop) then women can do same. sponsor him to become self employed so he can become the provider. what I (me o I cannot speak for other men cannot take is to made into house wife against my wish{cooking and cleaning})yes it is good to support your wife o but let it be what the man has humbled himself to do not impose it on him. all this female activists have done it and it ended in divorce or b.itch asss men(no woman is attracted to a b.itch asss man,.so find out whether he is ready to be your sugar husband or you continue to be submissive (cooking and cleaning etc most of which you can outsource anyway) till he can rise to his proper place without losing face (sorry it's how we're programmed by default. you need to decide how much you want him as your husband and what you're willing to do to make it work. I suggest setting him up in a business. but if he is not self employable type then just keep encouraging him till he breaks through while not turning the FACT (yes it's a fact) that. you are the major bread winner of the house especially when you have to nurse your child and still cook and clean (hopefully he is your partner and picks up the slack without being an asss about it. not easy but my suggestions

You are thinking what am thinking

VaginaTerrorist:
Ladies earn more these days in Nigeria Because the older Men are always ready to render a hand to them. So if you know whats good for you better hurry and get married to that your Man cos.

MEN THAT EARN MORE THAN LADIES ARE SCARCE IN NIGERIA.

Hmmmmmm,God will help us

mikolo80:
agreed but not many couples don't seem to be able to handle it. all of a sudden women want to dominate while men start to resent this wives. even for Yankee higher earning women usually increases probability of divorce

I know myself,the problem won't come from me. I respect my man and I don't attach money to it. My fear is that my man may start feeling inferior overtime. Men how would u feel if u are in such a situation as this?

mikolo80:
you better don rush into the marriage. give it time to really see how he handles it in long term. are you willing to not complain about cooking and cleaning even though you earn more. are you willing to help him through his hour of need. does he like money. does he have pipe dreams. is he hard working. how does he behave around his friends and female family members (is he an alpha or beta). learn to read the signs o cos it's till death do you part.

Ya that's true

esosa993:
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yea very very, but since you said he's free minded you have absolutely nothing to worry about.... other factors that could change him his is friends, but if he has good friends and he's a good man then there's nothing to worry about

Okay,that's true

esosa993:
you'd be surprised it does hurt some men's ego, not all tho.


there are some men who can't just stand a woman making it in life than them , I have heard of several men say it.....a guy once said if his wife is getting promotions at work he would go to her office to destroy her reputation , so if I earn more money than my man before marriage I'll be concerned , this is Nigeria bro


one of the reasons why am working hard to settle down with my present bf cos he's free minded.

My fiance is free minded too