WHO DETERMINE THE SEX OF A BABY? The Woman of course! (Season 2, Final Season)

This is the final part of this article, in case you miss the first one you can like my facebook page and read it there.
Now to the business of the day.

In my last post, I mentioned that the “condition” which influence the type of sex chromosome sperm that will get to the female egg (It has a live span of 12-24hrs) and fertilize it, is called OVULATION.

How does ovulation affect which sex chromosome fertilize the egg?
i. Timing: The most important gender swaying factor is timing of intercourse.

A. The closer to ovulation you have sex, the higher the likelihood you will have a boy. This is because male sperm are faster than female sperm, and will likely reach the egg first. Intercourse should take place during times of peak fertile mucus, or not more than 12 hours before ovulation.
B. If you have intercourse two to four days prior to ovulation this favours the conception of a girl. This is because the female sperm live for much longer than the male sperm. It allows for more female sperm to reach the egg.

ii. Vaginal pH: These sex chromosome sperms have tolerant to different pH condition, i.e. acidic and alkaline condition. The pH of the vaginal during ovulation changes

A. An acidic environment is more favourable for the conception of a girl. It’s apparently not as welcoming for male sperm, and the acidic environment kills the weaker male sperm first. This leaves a greater number of female sperm to reach the egg.
B. The ideal time to have sex for a boy is when the vaginal environment becomes alkaline, which is on the day you ovulate.

Also note that ejaculating via stimulation through the G spot the closer you will be to the opening of the vagina, and the more acidic the vagina is here and this could give you more chance for a girl, while ejaculation via stimulation through the A spot with deeper penetration will apparently place the male sperm closer to the egg, giving them a head start.

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Symptoms of Ovulation

There are several ovulation symptoms you might notice. These include (in no particular order):
i. Light spotting.
ii. Slight cramping or pain on one side of the pelvis.
iii. Heightened sense of smell, taste or vision.
iv. Abdominal bloating.
v. Increased sex drive.
vi. Breast tenderness.
vii. Cervical Mucus: Your mucus changes in response to being at fertile or infertile stages of your cycle.

You can search on the internet for the days at which a woman will ovulate as long as you know the day she starts her last period

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QUICK EJACULATION: A Curse, Weakness OR Lack of Experience?

I have heard and read a lot of things about causes and solutions to quick ejaculation, to be candid with you I just laugh at most of them, why? They are not really!

Once you know the problem, for you to get the solution, you need to get the cause and device the solution.

Why do most women “hate” quick ejaculation? Simple, they felt prolong sex could give them the sexual pleasure they desired. This desired sexual pleasure is called ORGASM, I have discussed this before on this platform.

Is prolonged sex with a woman the only source to give her the desired sexual pleasure? NO! Learn and practice Cunnilingus and simultaneous ripples (I discussed this in my best selling e-book).

But then what are the causes of quick ejaculation?
Answer:
i. Over anxiousness
ii. Not knowing how to control the striking on G spot and A spot
iii. Tiredness/weakness

I want to talk more on the second point above- Not knowing how to control the striking on G spot and A spot.

Do you know most men don’t know that as interesting as the vagina is to them, it is only TWO regions in it that is sensitive, they are the spots I mentioned above, here is another truth, most women don’t know it too.

The G spot is close to the vagina opening, while the A spot is around the womb opening known as cervix.

Now when a man is striking and ramming in and out of a vagina your penix (most especially the cap) strike on the G spot (the location varies in different woman but it is still close to the vagina opening), as you touch this G spot you get a pleasurable stimulation, likewise the woman too, the more you strike on the area the more pleasure you and the woman get BUT the quicker you will be getting close to ejaculation (Note: the pleasure you and the woman get is due to some hormones within your body that are released into your blood stream, to be candid these hormones have their benefits such as: relieving pains etc).

Now to the A spot, have you ever been inside the vagina of a woman, and she pushed your buttocks closer to her, for you to go deeper? What she wants is that you should stroke on her A spot (I mentioned earlier where it is). There are different techniques used in stimulating A spot such as Circular, spiral etc thrusting methods (I Discussed all these in my best selling e-book). Whenever you are inside a woman and she said you are hitting her womb, that area is where A spot is, but the thrusting method you are doing is not right that was why she will be pushing you back because of the pain. As you stroke the A spot with your penix cap, the same pleasure you had with G spot that is what you will have, in fact you ejaculate faster.

Solution to Quick Ejaculation

In my best selling e-book, I shared 6 different ways to learn to delay ejaculation (If you can learn this you can naturally “heal” some ailment in your body).

Let me mention few of the solution
i. Deep breathing
ii. Kegel exercise
iii. S and W
iv. Tantric techniques etc

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WHO DETERMINE THE SEX OF A BABY? The Woman of course!

To some of you in this modern age this article topic looks somehow, that you start to think:
i. Is this writer serious or crazy
ii. What does this writer has to share to negate the science discovery
…etc

Science made us to understand that a man has two sex chromosomes that are responsible for a baby’s sex. Sex chromosome Y- Boy, Sex chromosome X- Girl. This claim negate our “illiterate parent” believes that the woman is the custodian of what determine the baby’s sex since a woman has sex chromosomes X.

Science is right but also wrong, our “illiterate parents” is right but also wrong too! Hmm I hope you are not confused now?

Science is right by saying a man has the two sex chromosomes, but is it all that is needed to have a particular baby sex? No, for any of the sex chromosomes to get to where the egg is in a woman (fallopian tube) and fertilize it depend a lot on some condition which seriously lies with the woman. This condition is not in totality known to a man and funny enough most women don’t even know likewise.

And our “illiterate parents” are wrong because the woman sex chromosomes are the same chromosome X, so this does not “really” determine the baby sex. But why are they RIGHT to say the woman is the one that determine the sex of a baby? Simple, the woman is the custodian of the condition that influences which of the sex chromosomes i.e Y and X that get to the female Egg first. Seriously speaking, our “illiterate parent” don’t know this too it was just instinct at work.

Now let’s discuss the characteristics of the two sex chromosomes sperm in a man

Y-Chromosome sperms: They are smaller, weaker, and faster than the female sperm and have an average 36 hours life span in a woman,

X-Chromosome sperms: They are bigger, stronger and slower and have an average 72 hours life span in a woman

Now to the woman; the “condition” which influence the type of sex chromosome sperm that will get to the female egg (It has a live span of 12-24hrs) and fertilize it, is called OVULATION

Do you remember that I said earlier that even a man don’t know when a woman is ovulating and also some women too don’t know

How is Ovulation responsible for the baby sex, what are the symptoms and signs of ovulation, what are other conditions responsible etc I will share these with you in my next post

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Since the unprecedented emergence of Senator Abubakar Bukola Saraki as Senate President and Senator Ike Ekweremadu of the opposition Peoples Democratic Party, PDP, as Deputy Senate President of the 8th Senate against the permutations of APC leadership, Nigerians discover things have fallen apart for the Senate Unity Forum.

But instead of Senate Unity Forum to tow the part of honour, which is in line with spirit of sportsmanship to congratulate the winners of the elections, you have resorted to mudslinging and blackmailing by alleging that the Senate Standing Rules used in the conduct of election of principal officers of the 8th Senate was forged and to make matter worse you staged a walk out on the 11th of November 2015 on the senate sitting presided over by the Deputy Senate President in the person of Senator Ike Ekweremadu.

I need to draw your attention here to a statement credit to the Secretary of Senate Unity Forum, Senator Suleiman Hunkuyi (Kaduna North) titled: ‘As President Muhammadu Buhari inaugurates the Federal Executive Council (FEC) of the change agenda, PDP takes over the hallowed chamber of the Senate.’

The statement clearly shows that you are towing on a line to divide this nation with this set of action you displayed on November 11th 2015, have you forgotten that your group of Senators went ahead to submit yourselves to the same Senate leadership, which you accused of emerging via “forged” Senate Rules for swearing-in and some of you have also accepted and are carrying out Committee assignments from the same leadership. This is hypocrisy of the highest order.

Are you not aware of states assembly currently in the federal republic of Nigeria where the speaker emerged from the minority, how much more deputy senate president?

Therefore, I put this to you that if this your action does not stop:

i. You are letting Nigerians know that your self-interest precede our collective interest and peaceful co-existence as a Nation
ii. You do not have respect for the Rule of Law and thereby encourage impunity, knowing fully well that the senate deputy president was democratically elect on the floor of the senate on June 9th 2015
iii. You put the existence of minority groups in any part of this country in a position of which they will have NO say in the matters and affairs that involve the running of this nation which therefore negate the remark of President Muhammadu Buhari speech of “I am for everybody, I am for NO one”
iv. You could be hold responsible for the fueling of the marginalization of the minority which is leading to some protest across board
v. You could be hold responsible for the retrogression in the speed at which the 8th senate handle the legislative duties of this nation, knowing fully well that you have pledged to “uphold the honor and glory of this nation”
vi. You are telling the people from your senatorial districts in your various states that your interest precede their mandates

I trust that you ALL will do the NEEDFUL and that you will shield your swords for this nation to move forward by doing your proper legislative duties, knowing fully well that you are not a loser because we are ALL one Nigeria irrespective of our ethnic, religion, parties etc.

Long Live Federal Republic of Nigeria, Long Live the Senate

Thank you

Olu Joshua (A Concerned Nigerian)


Twitter: @olujd

@Otipoju It is your choice to follow on twitter or not, talking about being myopic, I felt you should be the one to be ascribe this, If you felt you know much, what about the Ocholi James SAN, or maybe you never watch the screening. And how as the CBN Governor become a comparison to the ministers, I know very soon you will compare INEC Chairman too

When president buhari brought out the list of his ministers, there was lots of uproar as regard the ages of the nominees, anyway that is past now, the nominees has been screened and assigned portfolio yesterday 11th of November 2015.

The Lawyers nominated as nominees are Raji Babatunde Fashola, SAN; Abubakar Malami, SAN; Ocholi James, SAN; Adebayo Shittu; Senator Aisha Al-Hassan; Geoffrey Onyema, a top class intellectual property lawyer; Dr Emmanuel Ibe Kachukwu, a first class investment and corporate lawyer; Senator Udoma Udo Udoma; Senator Heineken Lokpobiri; and Alhaji Lai Mohammed.

For those of us that watched the screening live or the repeated version, we expect the SANs among these lawyers nominated to be eligible for the position of minister of justice/Attorney General. With this we are left with 3 nominees, who are:
i. Raji Babatunde Fashola, SAN (Lagos, South-West)
ii. Abubakar Malami, SAN (Kebbi, North-West)
iii. Ocholi James, SAN (Kogi, North-Central)

Going further, with the way these SANs performed during the screening one would expect either Raji Fashola or Ocholi James to be the next Minister of Justice/Attorney General of the Federation But lo and behold we were ALL wrong, it went to Abubakar Malami, SAN (Kebbi, North-West)…lol (I told some friends that Fashola will never get that position)

Now why did Mr. President did this? Did you smell any rat? Anyway in my own candid opinion and as a political strategist, these will be the following reasons:
1. Minister of Justice/Attorney General is a very sensitive position with powerful duties, please check: http://www.justice.gov.ng/ In fact you can say the minister is the most powerful of ALL the ministers.
2. From One (1) above, with the nature of the ministerial position, why will a president from North-west give it to any other political region considering Friends like Enemies around him (mind you in politics No Permanent Friends No permanent Enemies, so they said)
3. You have a Vice president next to him, Yemi Osinbajo who is from South-west, giving this minister of Justice/Attorney General to Fashola also from South-west and couple with Femi Gbajabiamila (Honorable from south-west) still fighting tooth and nail after losing the speakership battle with Dogara (The speaker) from North-East. Buhari knew he will be boxing himself to a corner, he could be easily impeached and “power” goes back to where?
4. The same political logic as stated in three (3) above also play in with Ocholi James SAN from Kogi North-Central. Do you remember Lots of APC member that are anti-saraki (Unity group in the senate) believes that the senate president Bukola Saraki who is also from North central is eyeing the presidency position. Hmmm, who knows Ocholi could betray his boss and work with his fellow north-central guy, and you can guess where power will shift if the President and Vice president are impeached.

The points I highlighted above could and not be (caveat emptor) the reason why Buhari gave the Minister of Justice/Attorney General portfolio to Abubakar Malami, SAN (Kebbi, North-West) who is also from the same geopolitical zone as the president, at least Buhari need to protect himself and get the person that can do is bid. And if you are familiar with the game of chess-It is all about protecting the QUEEN

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KelvinKelt:
It's de joy of every man to satisfy their partners but it's easier said than done. Men easily get satisfied but to take a woman to orgasm one must sweat

Yes you are RIGHT, it amaze me that even most women don't voice their displeasure to this act by men, that is why I wrote this book, for men that don't know how and also for women that want their man to know about. And sometime when a woman mention this to a man, some men feel she is going wayward hmmm, I wish they can learn more from this my book and understand their wife's agony

ORGASM

When God created Man, he look at him and said it is not good for him to be alone, and that TWO is better than ONE, today topic is one of the reason

Orgasm is the sudden discharge of accumulated sexual tension during the sexual response cycle, resulting in rhythmic muscular contractions in the pelvic region characterized by sexual pleasure.

i. Orgasms usually result from physical sexual stimulation of the penix in males (typically accompanying ejaculation), and the clitoris in females. Sexual stimulation can be by self-practice (masturbation) or with a sex partner (penetrative sex, non-penetrative sex, or other sexual activity).

Achieving orgasm

In general

Orgasms can be achieved by a variety of activities. In men, sufficient sexual stimulation of the penis can be achieved during vaginal or anal intercourse, MouthAction (MouthAction), non-penetrative sex or masturbation. In women, sufficient sexual stimulation can be achieved during vaginal intercourse, MouthAction (cunnilingus), non-penetrative sex or masturbation. Orgasm may also be achieved by the use of a intimacy gadget, such as a sensual vibrator or an erotic electrostimulation. It can additionally be achieved by stimulation of the nipples, uterus, or other erogenous zones.

In addition to physical stimulation, orgasm can be achieved from psychological arousal alone, such as during dreaming (nocturnal emission for males or females popularly called wet-dream, please when you experience this, stop saying it is a spiritual husband or wife influence, just ask yourself what were you thinking before you went to bed that is sexually related some minutes, hours, days or week ago) or by orgasm control

Orgasms vary in intensity, and women vary in the frequency of their orgasms and the amount of stimulation necessary to trigger an orgasm. Clitoral orgasms are easier to achieve because the glans of the clitoris has numerous nerves ending like 8000 of them.
The G spot, U-Spot, A-spot may produce an orgasm, and the urethral sponge (More on these in my E-book-Couples Only: Improve your sex Life, it’s just N1000! Click here to get yours
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Note: A man penix needs to be long to stimulate and apply pressure to some area of this spot e.g A-spot, if you have ever had sex before and a woman is pushing your buttocks so that you can get deep into her, please take not it’s because she want you to stimulate her A-Spot, for G spot you don’t really need a “long” penix.

Benefit of Orgasm
i. Orgasm could help to prevent cancer
ii. Burn out excess calorie
iii. Release pain relief hormones etc

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Cutehector:
Nice one op..
But I'm not buying ur ebook

Thanks for appreciating the write up, and do note that the ebook purchase is NOT compulsory but obligatory.Thanks

A kiss is more than the joining of your lips. It is an emotional experience that goes far beyond the physical act of kissing someone. It is an affirmation of attraction, perhaps even love, and the setting is just as important as the act.
Some people don’t like kissing because

i. They are coy and shy
ii. some offensive odour such as alcohol, onion, garlic, cigarette etc, from their partners,
iii. Terrible first time experience

When you are kissing, you don’t have to stick with the traditional kiss. Kissing should be an expression of your attraction to your partner, and that doesn’t have to stick to rules or a formula. It should be as spontaneous and varied as you want it to be. Have a little fun experimenting with different techniques of kissing. Don’t try anything that is so complicated that your partner doesn’t quite know what you are doing or it will just turn into a big mess. Also, when you try to go in to give a different kiss, then your partner may just try to do a normal kiss.

When it comes to a romantic and exciting kiss, it isn’t just about the kiss itself, but about how your bodies are entwined with each other. It is more about the whole picture than just the lips. Embracing the other person can transport your excitement to them so they feel the excitement right from the beginning as well
The whole body kiss is great. This is when you hold your partner in your arms and kiss while your bodies are entangled. Rub their back, legs, arms, hair. It can also be done standing up. While you have them all wrapped up, they feel comfortable, warm and safe, kind of like in a big bear hug.

Kissing with a smile is great for the obvious reason that you are happy to be kissing this person. A happy kiss is one of the best, and the person you will be kissing can feel your smile, too, which makes them even happier to be kissing.
Differences between Men and Women

Just like everything in life, men and women have different feelings and thoughts towards kissing. Again, women tend to think of kissing on a more intimate and emotional level and men on a more physical level.

When men think of a kiss,
i. They think of it as two lips (and a bit more) joined together.
ii. They think about the person they are kissing and how hot or not they are.
iii. They may tend to think about what this kiss may lead to physically (A lot of men think of kissing as a step needed to be taken to get to something more, e.g., sex).

On the other hand, when a woman shares a kiss with a man,
i. She will be thinking about how this will be affecting their relationship with this man
ii. How much she has wanted him to kiss him,
iii. What he thinks of her kissing technique, and so on.
iv. The thought of sex probably hasn’t even crossed her mind at this point, with the exception that she was planning on having sex with this man before the kiss

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Question of the day:
Which of the lips is more sexually linked, Upper or Lower?

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@plaetton For every effect there is a cause which always has reason(s), what is posted here is about a Cause, recently Emir Kano Lamido sanusi married an 18year old lady hmm can you fathom that?

crackhaus:

I have just one question,
Are all women predisposed to suffer from vaginal laxity due to child birth (say after 2 or 3 kids)?

Yes they are predisposed to suffer from it, there is solution to this laxity you can check here-https://www.nairaland.com/2672675/how-woman-get-vaginal-tighten

Thanks

@edwife you sound very funny and looking to score a cheap point with your first sentence that I should not misinform people, please read through what I post here and what you share from prof. Fletcher and tell me where you are misinform because right now people that read my article and you comment are laughing at you

EfemenaXY:

I never said it was.
What I'm saying is: a partner predisposed to playing the field will do so, irrespective of what "steps" the other half takes to avoid it. Afterall, didn't Prince Charles cheat on Princess Diana before, during, and after their marriage, despite her beauty, desirability, popularity, etc?
And with whom? A woman who didn't half measure up to Diana in any aspect.

Waoh your example look quite interesting, but did you get to the root cause of the cheat, most times here we treat effect instead of CAUSE, And also mind you vaginal laxity is ONE not JUST the reason why men cheat by going after young ladies (please note- Young Ladies)

1. Women Don’t Know What They Want

Have you encounter a situation whereby a woman will tell you this now, in a few minute you will hear another (Not like lying ooo), like when kids tell you they want candy (sweets) and next minute you hear I want soft drink no more candy.

i. Many guys have the mentality that if they want to learn about what women want, they should ask women. It seems logical enough but it doesn’t work for one major reason – Women don’t know what they want!
ii. It’s a sad reality that very few women will actually admit to you. A woman’s emotions are all over the place because of hormones and thousands of years of genetic coding.
iii. Woman constantly battle whether to follow primal urges or to listen to advice from women’s magazines or friends, or her conscience. One day she might be in the mood for a sensitive guy, the next a funny guy, then a week later she’s in the mood for a musician type. One day she wants a guy who’s domineering and the next a sweet sensitive guy who gives her all the space in the world.

This doesn't necessarily mean that women have no idea what they want, it's just incomplete. This is why you need to take what a woman says about what she wants in a man with a grain of salt. Never assume that you're not her type, even if she says it. YOU can easily become the type of man she wants.

My Next post will be on No.1 Mistake 99% of Guys made when trying to get a girl, the topic is “Idiot Throw Logic Out

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In my last post, I mentioned that Vagina laxity is ONE of the reason MEN leave their wife and go after YOUNG LADIES. Did you miss it, then check here: https://www.facebook.com/trelationship/photos/a.901776559911618.1073741829.900228543399753/901776496578291/?type=3&theater
OR
https://www.nairaland.com/2671413/one-reasons-why-men-cheat#39093046

Causes of Loosing Vagina

i. The pelvic muscles can become stretched or weakened due to ageing and more specifically due to pregnancy.
ii. Difficult childbirth which overstretches or tears the pelvic muscles and giving birth to several babies within a very short time span.

Now To the Business of the day…

Vaginal tightening refers to the tightening of the pelvic muscles to achieve or maintain the right degree of elasticity of the pelvic floor muscles.

There are lots of ways to achieve vaginal tightening, such as: Vaginoplasty, Pelvic floor physiotherapy, vaginal rejuvenation, kegel exercise, use of ben wa (Geisha) balls etc

Some of these solutions require surgery, while some are natural vaginal tightening procedures and products

Let’s discuss the Natural one that can be affordable and effective: Ben wa balls
Ben Wa balls are known by many names, including:

• Burmese balls
• Venus balls
• Geisha balls
• Kegel balls

They’re small balls that can range in size from small marble sized balls to 2 or more inches in diameter. They’re often made of metal so they are naturally weighted and easy to clean, but can also be found commonly with a variety of silicone coatings.

They’re great for kegel exercises which will cause vaginal tightening and improve sexual performance and bladder control.

BENEFIT OF BEN WA BALL
i. Ben Wa balls as a kegel exerciser is commonly recommended as a way to tighten the vaginal muscles and strengthen the pelvic floor
ii. Increase sexual pleasure and performance but also improve bladder control.
iii. Not toxic and replaceable

Where to Buy

You can order online from jumia, search for Ben wa balls it's just N3800

OR
Konga


How to Use
Inserting the balls, or “wearing” them as you might hear it referred to is a relatively straight forward process

1. Use lubrication on the balls to help them glide in.
2. Lay down if you haven’t done this before, then insert the ball (or balls) into the vagina while in a relaxed position.
3. Hold the balls inside the vagina by tensing your leg muscles together and doing kegel exercises.
4. Once they’re in you can sit up or move around depending on your ability, women with more experience can insert them without having to lay down and keep them in while moving around the house.

Point 3 mentioned kegel exercises, if this is done with the Ben wa ball inside you, you will get faster result, To know more about kegel exercise, you can get my E-book: Couples Only: Improve your sex Life, it’s just N1000! Click here to get yours
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@EfemenaXY We are looking at one of the root cause of cheating, vaginal laxity don't have to do with age, although it is more in elderly women due to number of child birth gone through.

There are lots of reasons why men cheat on their wives. Oftentimes, it's out of spite and neglect, while the other times, it's because they feel they will never be caught. If you will like to read about it, please get my article on “Why men cheat on their wife” from our Facebook page

In this article, I want to discuss ONE of the reasons why men cheat on their wife by going after young ladies.

This question was asked in a Forum, and to my surprise, a 40+ woman and a mother of 5 said it without adding sentiment and not minding what anyone thinks or care

Answer: A loose vagina is generally the reason men cheat. They look for tightness - also a reason that men are attracted to younger women.

Hmm is this a fact or fiction? Let’s see what vagina laxity and tightening means

i. Vaginal laxity is when the pelvic floor muscles loose the right degree of elasticity.
ii. Many things contribute to the weakening of the pelvic floor. Pregnancy is a big one, but so is being overweight.
iii. As the floor weakens the pelvic organs may descend and sag into your vagina causing a vaginal prolapse.

During sex, what brings about excitement to the man is the ABILITY OF THE VAGINA TO HOLD THE PENIS TIGHT and give it that sensation at the tip. And what brings excitement to the woman is the stroking of the two erotic zones in the vagina (This is where a MAN should know that it is NOT about BIG PENIS SIZE, if you know these regions).
Do you know that there are only two regions in a Vagina that make sex pleasurable for a Man and a woman? They are:
i. center of gravity
ii. A-Spot

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As said earlier, during sex, what brings about excitement to the man is the ability of the vagina to hold the penis tight and give it that sensation at the tip.

Please Note; a woman that has given birth to one or more children can’t be as tight as when she has not given birth.

Did I hear you say but his kids pass through my vagina and made it loses its elasticity, YES you are RIGHT, but men are not the same like you women. So instead of justifying why your vaginal should remain like that why not learn and get what it will take to get your vaginal tighten again, so you can keep your man and let him see reason why not to look elsewhere for tightness.

I will teach you, tell you what to get and where to get what you need to get your vaginal tighten again in my next post titled: How a Woman can get her Vaginal Tighten

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There are reasons galore why men pull wool over the eyes of their wives. Oftentimes, it's out of spite and neglect, while the other times, it's because they feel they will never be caught.

What makes men cheat? Dr Kamal Khurana, relationship counselor, dug through past research on male infidelity, and has even counseled couples and has arrived at the conclusion that most answers are from the wife's point of view. Here, some of his findings:

1. Disturbance in the marriage as the primary reason
When there are regular fights at home with his wife, which are left unresolved, a pattern sets in wherein he continues to be unhappy and 'disturbed'. In this kind of a scenario, either he can fight or he can flee. When he looks for an affair, he is looking to flee from dealing with the issues in the marriage, and be comfortable with that 'other person'. It is telling oneself that the problems do not affect anyone and life can continue in a better way with a parallel support.

2. Cheating men report boredom led to the affair
Some men may find the routine of a married life to be tedious and dull. These men find it easier to shift dominance or primacy to another relationship and feel the spark outside to be a thrilling option; instead of finding ways of charging their marriage. It becomes present moment for gratification versus the hard job that they will have to do in their marriage to resolve an issue. The extra-marital relationship provides them with a readymade and fresh experience, which is appealing enough to take the risk.

3. Cheating men love to experiment sexually
Sex has always been and will always be an integral part of a marriage. While some men are quite content spending the rest of their lives having sex with the same wife for many years, others prefer to experiment more as a need, rather than as an option. They want to sleep with many women, many times, and therefore do not think twice before an extra-marital alliance. It perhaps makes them feel sexually powerful and more adept than others.

4. Cheating men are emotionally dissatisfied
When their wives are too busy with their own lives, working or bringing up children or even looking after in-laws and parents, emotionally, men are left high and dry. But men are emotionally driven beings too. They want their wives to show them that they're appreciated, and they want women to understand how hard they're trying to get things right. Most men consider it unmanly to ask for a pat on the back, which is why their emotional needs are often overlooked. Sometimes the couple may not be compatible so however much the wife may do, the man will always find something to complain about.

It may also happen that the woman he cheats with is his co-worker or boss, someone who praises him, looks up to him, and compliments his efforts. That's another reason why it's so critical that he feel valued at home.

5. Cheating men have a history of EMR
Some men, in their childhood, may have witnessed cheating in their parent's marriage. This somewhere gives them a message that it is okay to cheat, even though deep inside they know this is wrong. All of us learn from our parents, so taking the risk is good enough. This acquired learning also happens through cheating resorts taken by elder siblings, neighbours, peer group and everybody who has been impacted. Sometimes as teenagers and young adults, some men have had multiple relationships, these men either intentionally or accidentally end up going back to their ex-girlfriends. The other lot goes back to their past style of having multiple relationships. It is well said, what a mind thinks, achieves. So there are females also who are either consciously or unconsciously looking for such men.

6. Cheating men have wives who cheat
Men also take revenge with their cheating wives, by having multiple relationships themselves. Even if their wives are guilty and come accept their extra-marital relationships, some men continue with their tricks. This is mostly done by men who don't want to forgive their spouses.

7. Cheating men think it to be 'divorce'
Some men are willfully adulterous and use it as a means for acquiring divorce. The law also considers adultery as a fair ground for the wife to seek a divorce. The man is cheating openly and is in a non-receptive mood, taking the wife's feelings of frustration to an all-time high. Although this percentage is less but it is there.

8. Cheating men need to be needed
When men feel that they are not needed by their wife anymore, they look out for some other woman, who can understand them and make them feel special. As an obvious outcome of a new relationship, they get that feeling from the other woman. And suddenly when they are showered with attention, which they haven't received in a very long time in their marriage, they toss their hands in the air and get deep into the new hot and happening relationship.