₦airaland Forum

connectpoint:
this thread is for people with the hope for marriage and not otherwise...

why women? Are men not looking for wives Beside gone are those days women are pressure to settle down... things have changed, please if ur having challenges getting a wife, leave your high horse, go out there and look for one.. women were not made to search for husbands. Our men now are just so weak to face their responsibilities.

Xda59:
How she go look happy when she don realize say she underestimated the bondage she waka enter for the rest of her life.

dont tell me what I already know... so many arent happy in their wealth. I rather marry into simple marriage and be happy, than an overly soffisticated and sad one.

banmee:
What is it with Nigerians and marriage? It's not as if they all have the financial muscle to care for an entire family. Life is not all about marriage na.....

like seriously I dont get.. its not possible everyone must get married. . Some will and will not.. so people should accept their fate with open heart.

BABANGBALI:
e pain am

lmao! U just proved me right.

So what about that for men who want to marry this year? The truth must be told there are men out there also searching seriously for a woman to call theirs, they even go as far as praying in church, this isnt just a woman thingg, so u people should stop deceiving urselves. Instead of coming out plan to say women should be more out and friendly so dat they can be more approachable by the men, u are playing smart putting up dis stupid trick. If u like dont be man enough and approach a lady...

BABANGBALI:
e pain am

lols.. you got to be kidding me.. lunatics must comments.. its not by force to say something, but do if its meaningful. Whatz d meaning of "e pain am" ?? And how does that relate to this comment? I dont need to see u to know you are bush!! ? Mehn u are local. Smh!

BABANGBALI:
she is ogbanje,she is allergic to church

lols.. I had no idea.

Them no dey ever say the yoruba man or hausa man, but when it comes to igbo its a different story, they will even give out the names of ur ancestors

D wife doesnt look happy.

lefulefu:
well as for me sure i will forgive her frm the depths of my heart but i will move on

everyone has the right to their decision....

lefulefu:
ok lemme reply to ur post.there are certain reasons a man might cheat.if he"s inborn womaniser there is nothing u would do to stop him from cheating.also if he has no attraction for his wife he would go for the lady he"s attracted to behind his wife"s back.hope u do know some men get forced into marriage with ladies they dont like.if u have a wife that u love,u sexually compactibale with...whats the need to cheat?

still doesnt justify their actions...those ur reasons are also reason dat can make a woman cheat, but 80% of women forced into marriage stay faithful. So what are we saying here?. most guys who are in a relationship cheat or flirt outside and their gfriends forgive them... dis same guys find it difficult to forgive. So bro we all in d sin together, so we have to be in the forgiving together.

pelumi111:
this Aunty must not go for swimming in public if not........

so be small... when she is done wiping off those make up then I can tell if she is beautiful or not...

lefulefu:
cheat if i am in a serious relationship?
why would i?
like i said before some ppl mistake bootycalling for relationship.
u meet a girl in a club today
u chyke her and tell her she"s preety and maybe she smiles and says ty.
for the guy mind he now think he"s dating and he now expects her not to talk to another guy just because he told her she"s beautiful.it doesnt work that way .

your reply isnt in line with my comment. . Pls can you reply accurately. ...

Kokaine:
thats right. my only question is how she is able to keep away from me now. i dont even feel she is hurt. she didnt beg for long at all in my own reckoning. i dont want to see people in the light i am seeing this girl because it may not be healthy for me in all my relationships.

people are different in reacting to issues... let me use me as an example. .. I love deep, when I mean deep I mean it. but I also believe in letting go and allowing nature take its course. If a man tells me he isn't interested in a relation, I don't even believe in begging not to talk of begging for long. I take it thats how life wants it and I move on.. doesn't mean I am insensitive or never loved him... thats it, people are different... in other words someone can beg and beg, and still come back to repeat that act or be worse.. thats life.

zicoraads:
This is that type that thinks it's the man's sole responsibility to cater for a lady's financial needs. They usually can't hide

its so unfortunate u dont know me in person, I have male friends who I lend cash on regular basis, and with your statement its obvious ur a dumb as* cos u would av noticed my comment was solely on the cheating aspect, so bro go and work ur intellect, so that u can be able to comment intelligently.

lefulefu:
how are u sure such women are happy with a cheating unrepentant husband?
cos they upload pics on facebook and snapchat?

its in d Dna for most men to cheat but women still marry them knowing what they are up for, a man can cheat,beg and expect a woman to forgive him but its difficult on the part of a man... what I actually meant by 'these women happily live with a man after he had cheated because they always believe in second chance. Yes you are right some of this ladies aren't happy. . Bro I dont know u, but I can bet u have either cheated in ur relationship or made an attempt to....

Kokaine:
so in your opinion i should contact her?

I am not in the position to tell you what to do, if you heart tells you so, then go ahead, keep pride aside. Dear ur d one wearing d shoes oo! I have seen relationship that had worse issues than yours ending up perfect... so its up to u.

Ur taking advice from social media concerning your relationship.. I feel for you.... women forgive men who cheat, some even live with these men(husbands) and are still happy. So many people on NL have not got relationship experience, talk more of knowing what love is all about. My brother follow your heart oo!

Whatz wrong with her legs? Was she experiencing phobia or what? Doesnt look sexy.

Mehn! This is hard work.

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Papiikush:
Go to Mile 12 and go and be asking for Brisket bone you hear?

English is confusing itself...

lols

MediumStout:
Buhari introduced BVN.

Buhari arrested Nnamdi Kanu and quenched the biafra agitations.

Buhari faced the igbo's and let them know politics of hate is bad by calling them 5%.

Buhari is fighting corruption unlike GEJ who said stealing is not corruption.

omg! are u kidding me?? You couldnt even outline a reasonal point.This is the reason why Nigeria is backwards... may God help us.

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NwaAmaikpe:


This does not justify your philandering.

I'm just saying life's thrill is mostly the adventure.
There's no more adventure in this relationship,
There's no spark,
Everywhere has been conquered and subdued.

It's only rational to pick new battles,
To explore new territories
To face new frontiers
To experience something new.

thats my point, why should a lady be obligated to supporting a broke man wen obviously in the future she's gona be seen as the conquered territory, there is no difference btw your kind and ladies who dump a broke man for a rich one. Its all about interest. So everyone is guilty of d same sin...

godsluvee:
Exactly. I can't stick to one. Once the money comes, you become an old cargo

babe thats it, they aint loyal... no try am.

NwaAmaikpe:


If this girl was a game; Crazeclown has completed all her stages.


He should dump her and try something new.

I wonder why a guy will date a girl for many years, even if it is diamond he is mining.

its because of men like you, ladies find it difficult to stick with a broke man. Afterall when d money comes they move on to the next level, so why should they try.. pls son if u having girl problem, go sort yourself.

Pls I need help people. I just got an invite from WORKFORCE, pls how genuine are they?? Pls I need response b4 I enter one chance.

dechar:
na so una crase go line up

Taking panadol for another man's headache because of OIL.. Rivers people right now..

Its simple, open your boot. This is how they come to Nigeria to misbehave.

I got the same invite, and I cant remember sending any application, so I didn't bother. The shocking part of al this is dat they got web and the company is on the net, with this anyone can fall for it.. Cant the efcc go to that address and fetch those guys... they are extorting from innocent individuals.

You are a criminal.. hope they get u soon.

Officialkenshin:
Sounds like you stole the laptop, just saying.

he stole it.