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NORTH again??

Zilifish:
Sabi sabi. Op is somehw wrong but why should his wife start yelling and commanding him. He said he told his cousin to always consult him, he never shouted but the wife eavsdropped.

in a normal home the kitchen belongs to d woman, she should be the one measuring not the man, its abnormal for a man to do dat.

Beyhiodie:
In the first place you aren't married and you are living together, who tell turn her to your wife? Youths missing it this end time....

if they are married traditionally, then they are a couple lready.

Plankton2017:
Good day fellow NL,

Please judge this case. Last week thursday my sister inlaw visited me and my wife from NYSC camp. I was shocked when I welcomed her because it was no ordinary visit. she came with a full ghana must go. We greeted and I got to know that she escaped from camp due to the tough tasks on camp. My wife never told me her sister was coming to stay. We have lived amicably till yesterday.

My lil cuzin that stays and helps us with chores was mandated by her to cook 2 big pots of water for her to bath. I scolded my cousin and told her why didnt she use the electric kettle so as to save gas which we just replaced with 6k. I now gave her a warning that whatever my inlaw wants that she should ask me 1st. I even got to know that my wife lied to me that her parents knew she left camp. My wife heard our conversation and started antagonizing me that why did I tell my cuz to always ask me b4 she obeys her sister. she was shouting at the top of her voice even my inlaw could hear. This angered me and I shouted back and told her to leave my room. she continued shouting and even slept in the sitting room as I slept alone.

This afternoon while working on my computer for hours I came out of the room only to find out my sister in law has packed her things back to her NYSC camp without telling me but my wife knows....I am slatted to officially do my white wedding next saturday. I just feel down because we quarell too much and my wife talks in a domineering way. I have warned her about it and I do not want to turn a woman beater. Any quarell we have she tells her parents and siblings which make them never free with me and act cold towards me. Damn it! pls advice me

kaii I feel ur pains, from your story u seem nice. Patiently Talk to her about how u feel concerning her attitude, its not going to be easy, relationship isnt, may God give u d strength to tolerate. I wish u all d best

Thank you

BlizzydoDo:
I agree with you on this, age does not define if the bweast should firm or not. Boils down to how you takia of uuu

Av been in an environment where almost every young girl has flat bweast & the very few ones with firm bweast act as if it is gold on their chest.

very true.. it depends on how u handle and how many hands handle it... the gene also determines.

adonbilivit:
at that age, their bwests go just dey remind u of FLATTINOS

havent u seen a mother of 4 kids with firm bwests Its depends. I have seen a lady at 22 with flat.... so its not by age oo dat determine how firm or flat the bwests would be..

conductor101:
Nnamdi Kanu has the right to pay tax on commodities imported via Lagos port and should fly through Ikeja if he wants to visit another country but has no right to come see his people in Lagos.

I'm just looking at Yoromuslims with their empty threats. Ask Northerner wetin im eye see for Aba and Owerri last year.

This won't be like the one they imprisoned your Oba of Ife since January or the one they installed Emir in Kwara. Let me not say much sha because I'm a new Nairalander who just registered today

welcome to nairaland, be ready to receive insult cos u are trying to express your opinion, I wish you a wonderful nairaland adventure, its fun and also can be provocative... u are now officially a nairalander...

DeGuyNxtDoor:
lol my dear, you're funny... I sacked her already tho.


I DONT take advantage of people below my standards.

mayb d next one u enploy u dont ask her to serve u in your room, a decent girl won't feel comfortable doing it.

DeGuyNxtDoor:
if you don't trust a guy like me, you can NEVER trust anyone in this world...believe me on that.

] I dont know u but I dont trust you also... a sensible man will not ask a lady that age to serve him in his room unless he is looking for something else. So I dont blame her for acting that way...

DeGuyNxtDoor:
if you don't trust a guy like me, you can NEVER trust anyone in this world...believe me on that.

I dont know u but I dont trust you also... a sensible man will not ask a lady that age to serve him in his room unless he is looking for something else. So I dont blame her for acting that way...

[quote author=djemillionia post=58931895][/quote]olodo!

ikp120:
But what he said is very true. I guess you're offended by it because it's too raw and straight to the point. He didn't sugarcoat it.

my dear been offended is far from the case here... if a man chooses to deceive himself dat he is happy with his life style mean while he is miserable, that is his business not mine oo so many men are miserable and sad but wont be sincere... well.. everyone has the right to choose his or her path... and what ever path u choose comes with its consequences...

AreaFada2:
Sadly my sister, the dude has a point, to my dismay.

Too many women have made it clear that money and materialism are their priorities. Too many. It might not ring a bell with hardworking, dedicated & focused ladies out there but guys in the field have this experience.

In fact some guys as young as 21 now take it as a philosophy to make money above everything else. Because lack of money has been used to taunt them constantly by girls. Some even see their sweetheart being cornered by a much older married rich guy.

I once jokingly told a girl that I thought was very educated & level-headed that materialism is becoming too much and a guy should not be judged by his pocket only. Next thing she said was "go & make money like your mates".

I was shocked. I did not complain about my economic fortunes & I did not indicate any interest in dating her. We were talking about a friend whose fiancee was planning an outrageous wedding that was economically way out of their league. My guy was already panicking. And the bride-to-be was already showing attitude each time my guy cautioned on cost.

By the way, it takes two to tango. I doubt most guys set out to maltreat or to be mean.

But whatever, if a relationship has become too toxic, I see no point in continuing it.

hmmm.. ok.

chukagates:
bro try to make the least dough and u will find there is notin special about'women' u will use and pass em down to ur palz to use too ..keeping a Woman wont be the probs its keeping the WOMEN THAT WILL BE THE PROBLEM focus on sucess and your career

its obvious u are a sadist. .. people like u make such comments cos of ur sense of insecurity. I bet people like u get turned down by women on a regular bases.. a man who is in a happy relationship will not make such statement about a woman.. I feel ur pains.

Rorachy:
A time will come when the real ladies will get tired of fighting to keep their man especially if better guys that treat them well are coming after them.

incase uv not noticed. The time ur talking about has already surfaced... life is too short to sacrifice ur happiness for anything.

divinehand2003:
Na lie

True definition of olosho.

Real ladies fight to keep their man for better and for worse.

so a woman was created to come and be fighting for love when d man is doing other wise. Men are forgetting, even the bible says a mans duty is to love and care for this wife. Sorry to say, any woman who is fighting or killing herself to be noticed by a man who wowed to be for her, must be on a high way to her early demise.

technicallyrich:
You are mad.i am a full ijaw woman from okirika if you doubt me further send me your phone number if you are in rivers state let me invite you.
Most rivers are now supporting biafra and I don't know what you even mean by niger delta.i am from the old eastern region
A yoruba man cannot divide me by creating niger delta.
If you won't send me your number so that I prove to you that I am okirika pls don't qoute me again

u are looking for who u will kidnap abi? Sorry ur plan has failed... its not only number, na BVN... is "u are mad" the only reasonable thing you can think of?? Then u are a psychopath. Pls dont give urself Hbp oo! This is just nairaland. Besides madam its quote, not qoute and I will as I please, come and beat me, if u cant then leave nairaland..

technicallyrich:
You are mad for saying that I am not from rivers state.
All ss and se politician are fighting for their pockets and nnamdi kanu is the only sincere person I have seen,rejecting bribe everyday.
Come to rivers state and see how we are embracing biafra everyday.
Anyway I don't blame you as I use to doubt like you.but when I listened to our radio I saw the truth and was extremely angry with nigeria.
Madam now that they have thrown out restructuring,are we going to continue been slaves with wike going to bow down for sultan of sokotto and pledge loyalty.
I repeat
I am a rivers woman.
Ojukwu is my hero.
Kanu is my mentor.
Ijaw is my tribe.
Biafra is my country

Madam stop deceiving your self, u leave somewhere in the outskirt of rivers state doesnt make u an indigen. And please when your mentioning biafra or south east leave south south out of it, is not by force for ss to be part of biafra and stop making people believe so. Or is it the fear of becomin irrelevant without the ss? Lolss... abi uv not heard dat if Nigeria eventually break, ss will be Republic of ND.. by d way which radio are u talking about, it is the one dat uses language 95% of ss dont understand? To be fair here, ss cant never co'exist with the se for so many reasons.

Osinbanjo should stop visiting Rivers state, he is not welcomed anymore. he isn't mature enough.

technicallyrich:
Let the both of them go to hell.
They are only fighting for their pride and self interest.
The only leader I have as a rivers woman is mazi nnamdi kanu,the first man that nigeria couldn't bribe.
Ojukwu is my hero.
Nnamdi is my mentor.
Rivers is my state.
Biafra is my country.

madam ur not from RIVERS State, Stop impersonating. That is how u people will be misleading the public. A rivers indigen can never make this statement... pls go back to ur village where u rightly belong...

0b100100111:
Rivers people re very primitive!

people like you need to borrow some sense, ur so ignorant that u didn't realise that location isnt even in rivers state. As far as rivers state is mentioned, u dont think, u just spit foolish... the man is even lucky he wasnt killed like most of your brothers do. Please oga look for the nearest gutter and enter.

jamesversion:
Is Agudama-Epie in Rivers or Bayelsa. I noticed if Rivers isn't added to bad news it won't sell.

u don see am naw.. rivers state is their selling point. They do anything to tarnish the image of the loving state.

I laff in Chinese!!

Old story.. is it new? If u are knowing this for the first time. U are a learner.

NwaAmaikpe:


Investigating the cause of rain and flooding?


He should go and ask God or consult rainmakers

Joker!

people like u are the first to blaim govt, still the first to complain when they decide to do something, u sure u arent mentally disturbed? trust me, if u go make some findings, u will realise u need help.

Why are d guys hating, uv not seen a happy woman who is single before.. give her a break.

mofeoluwadassah:
i pray you dont go back 2 your vomit

lols.. who says a woman can not be happy without a man, needs to go back to kindergarten.

tonididdy:
what husband?


d one wey don return bride price

ask am o!

henritinecy:
She looks beautiful. I pray things get well between she and her husband. There is nothing like a happy home.

she isnt going back.. she is even happier now...