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[quote author=mondi_cheeks]for me, a guy who sells roasted ground nuts by the robots[/quote]strange

A relationship should define what chores means or duties.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]says the oliver twist who wants to date women way out of his league [/quote]what defines 'LEAGUE' To u?

Ladies pls comment on d topic pls

SniperInADiaper: A man is going to turn down free punny?!?

some men do u knw

SniperInADiaper: Why would it have to be that guy?

Sperm Banks...
Anonymous donors
One night stands
Pity fVcks..

Whatever you want to call it, a girl can take her pick of ways to make a child without having to involve the "father".

only 3rd option applies in our kind of environment

SniperInADiaper: Simple. I would be a single mother.

single mother n u wud stil av a child by him? Aint dat an indirect way of been a second wife?

carefreewannabe: Never say never but I prefer to stay single for life. Even though it's a terrible option, too.

hmmmm dats nt tooo decisive 'never say never' doh I know av kinda put u in a tite corner with d question!

Its just a hypothetical question,let's say u are a lady that tink she's gradually passing the child bearing age n then u luckyly or unluckily meet a man who wants to make u his second wife.

Would u rather remain 'single for life' or marry him? Ladies be sincere in answers pls!guys u cud contribute toooo

A cheap gurl is an OLD gurl who doesn't realy realise how old she realy I still jumping from cab to club when her mates are already happy with their kids n hubys

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]I don't have an e-mail address, only postal address[/quote]

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]I don't have an e-mail address, only postal address[/quote]hmmm liein tru d teeth,by d way it wasn't gon be wat u tot

[quote author=Mynd_44]hahahahahha. Desperate times and desperate measures[/quote]ur comment obviously reeks of jelousy or better stil BAD BELE

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]i dont cheat[/quote]hit me up on saysamuel@yahoomcom or meetigho@gmail.com wana ask u honest private questions

[quote author=mondi_cheeks][/quote]av answered u dearie,now u answer me

dmcdad:

nah I won't cos I malkeup my monmd on the d ladies I date or wud marry.av answered u,.Now ur turn dearie

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]wld u ever cheat cos of younger flesh?[/quote]Gosh I guess the moderator changes ones words. I asked mondi if she wud ever cheat cos of Diamonds et al!

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]well he wanted to knw why women cheat wit older men and I told him why [/quote]wud u eva cheat cos of diamonds et al tooo?

pleep: hehe, take it from a slut.

doi me a favo will u? Don't call her names!

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]dolce and gabbana doesn't come out of a d**k diamonds last forever...orga.sms don't [/quote]n I seriously was awaz ready to fite anyone ill abt u or victorian?u just disappionted me with ur post

dominique: So you made a mistake and suicide is the solution? Why do these people let the royals get to them so much?

just my same tots,n now all they can say is Sorry!wat a shame!

victorian: Guys mentioning deliverance, av done that already on various occasions, I even completed one, two months ago... And the Pastors always say , my way is free and open.. All I need is for God to bring my own husband to me and really good men are scarce and I should be patient. That God who created me knows when is the right time...I said ok.. Am not ready for another deliverance , av been delivered long ago.
@ maclantunji, I will take up what u said about a colleague, but pls not now...I need to relax and clear my head.
@lovemijeje and flytefalls, it wasn't easy... I used 5years to pray and meditate for healing of the mind and soul.. My pastor said am really lucky to be sane at this moment, that someone weak wud av gone bonkers... But am still firm and calm... It's by Gods grace... God has been kind and good to me.
@youngalex, am ok with just friends..... I need positive people without hidden agenders around me... I will inbox you.
@loveablesam, I know marriage these days , is about sharing the family responsibility with the husband. Times have changed, am not lazy.. And it will be burdensome leaving everything for the man...And I will never be a liability, likewise the man shouldn't be too....but play his own financial role.... I am ok, with a 50-50 relationship.
Thanks everyone for the advices, thanks for your support....but funny some people here think am a lesbian, or I have lesbian friends? That's not true o..... My few friends are straight and married but only one of them is happy in her marriage, the rest have issues in their homes, and I rarely have the time to discuss family issues except during my hols.
Thanks guys and my fellow babes

gat u dearie but av u noticed dat nobody tels u d real truths abt their marriages?av u also also heard abt d african myth abt things going totally wrong when u start telling people that things are going good for u?don't u think that's y they are been humble?if things are dat bad then y aren't they leaving their mariages? N pls don't give me d usual excuses dat its cos of their kids cos dats nt 'REALY TRUE'

victorian: Relationships these days, is nothing to write home about.. Initially when I see posts of men seeking to have kids only without being married, i often think at that time, that they could be making a huge mistake.. Like someone said marriage is not for everybody. 98percent of my relationships are with guys, who I thought are hardworking , good heart and have prospects, but unknown to me they are just coming to get what they can, also to make one's life miserable after marriage.... I wonder how a guy who claims works, will be asking of recharge cards?.... How to eat your food..? Claiming he is so broke at this time to even buy a meal...there is no day, he is buoyant to take care of himself..... Am not saying, spend on me... But please take care of yourself... Don't carry your load and place on my shoulders, cause u feel society expects me to be married.... Well, society expectation, is different from my peace of mind.
My most cherished and peaceful moments , is when am single....oh lord, the peace and money I usually save , then is incomparable....marriage is not for me, cos I can't be the only one taking care of my kids, the lazy husband and my good self.....nah, I can't carry that load... Married peeps, I hail..l. But count me out of being married.. At least, I command respect at my office, my environment, my church.. People hardly know am not married, unless I tell them so...
Am not in for all this cat and mouse games , between men and women.... Peace out.
Thses are my thots tonight ,while talking to my aunts that has been pestering me to get married...... Feel I have to share it, with my fellow Nlders.

for the fact dat u even tot abt dis is a sign dat u unconciously nurse d idea of gettin married someday!,nw I read ur post n two things came to mind, firstly u avnt rapped ur head around d idea of what marriage is in d 21st century (I.e)marraige is not all abt a man doing 90% of d bringing rather a 70-30 tin n in d nearest future mite becum 50-50 or secondly u av bin sitting too long unknowingly with lesbians who neva c anytin good in Men

Egba girl: NO it is not. There are other options: traditional and court marriage. White wedding na oyinbo ma tin. There is no need for it. Na just for show. If you want your wedding in the church? No probs! Just get a pastor and a few witnesses, go to church on a monday morning or whatever, and you are done.

Oh and the fact that you dont ave a white wedding doesnt mean you wont have a happy marriage. Two completely different things.A good wedding does not = A good marriage. Wedding na ceremony. It's about how well you can do that. Marriage na instituion.

oh oooo my kind of gurl.wud u marrt me?

iamswizz: But i still dont understand why christians are still in the north.... And some of them had faith but also died in sin,which means HELLFIRE.. Be wise xtians

do u know most of these christians are from d North its nt dat they migrated!

[quote author=Lasinoh]Definitely!
No home can be run with the income of a civil servant without diversifying.
The children would learn to fend for themselves for sure!
Armed-robbery included or become cultists! [/quote ]but remember that if u really wana do ur Civil servant job to please God then an alternative source of income wunt work.how would one combine a 9-5 job with a business?

Lasinoh: My father was a civil servant and did not have the kind of problems then.
It was the pension that was not paid. . . when CORRUPTION took flight in Nigerian politics.
Being a civil servant in modern-day Nigeria is one sure way to starvation. . . and PROS-TI-TU-TION!

I can't agree less,permit me to dare say that if a survey of prostitutes in nigeria today,60% of them would av grown as children of civil servants!