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Fedayeen02:
They are Japanese

Bros, you seriously need an education. Not books o, you need to travel. You are the type that will call someone from Edo or Ughelli Ibo.

Travel please

Dyt:
You no kuku believe me


You actually think I meant me telling you sorry?



Water and garri

Goes near her to check what is wrong again!!! 'Oh, her epileptic fits are starting up again' ......i am praying for you

What is this

Nigeria no be Zambia mate ooooo. See ball. Na ill technicalities dey draw us back since.....

ironheart:
No sentiments, its not easy for anyone at the moment, we all need to endure the hardship for now and put better structures in place for a better future.. we used to have vision 2020 but no one cared to work towards it. This government is working hard to correct a lot of ills and we are not being patient enough to wait. Let them dance because its not easy

no, they will end in the grave because their thoughts are shallow and are not ready to use them to work.


i do not work for the government but i am ashamed a lot of our youth make too much noise about poverty yet can afford mb to fbk, Snapchat etc, when the going get tough u cut down on waste.

I do not use dollars so i have no clue as to how much it is, all i know is there are lots of alternatives to foreign goods.

Emeka at Obalende lagos makes good shoes of 5k and your imported 50k shoes does not compare to the quality shoe emeka makes. We needs to start looking inward.

While we are online bashing ourselves and the government, Lebanese, indians, Chinese, even boys from Benin republic are busy smiling to the bank because the jobs we refuse doing, they are doing it.

I have been in lagos for since the beginning of this year and i see our youth argue about politics n football instead of learning skills that will pay for their taste for a better life.

Philippinos are working as maids for some nigerians and the least i have seen this house help collect in a month is 200k. I mean the least. While our girls are busy roaming the street with heavy make-up and wigs living off their jobless complaining boyfriends.

Its high time we get renewed in our minds. I am a graduate but my boss has never seen my certificate, my office looked for me from the site i was working.

Hehehehe.....we all use the dollar directly or indirectly. The shoemaker that does shoes for 5k, where does the machine he uses to sew, fine-tune or even leather come from, Aren't all important?. Do you think if the economic team of your government knew what it was doing our currency will be that pitiable?. I hardly know a Nigerian that have Philippino househelps but if they really did, it's the same mentally of every government that has being in Nigeria that has affected their judgment(to them it's status to hire a foreigner) or those that weren't trained in Nigeria like kemi Adeosun with her accent. Do you think does Nigerians that hire and pay house helps and pay 200k would wanna hire a naija girl that roams the streets(like you put it)?.

We that have learnt skills and have put them in use, how is the government helping? Do you know how hard they have made it to run
a business in Nigeria?

He who wears the shoe knows how it pinches. We are in this because of people like you, who see the suffering from a distance.

ironheart:
No sentiments, its not easy for anyone at the moment, we all need to endure the hardship for now and put better structures in place for a better future.. we used to have vision 2020 but no one cared to work towards it. This government is working hard to correct a lot of ills and we are not being patient enough to wait. Let them dance because its not easy

I know you work for the government of the day. Its your job you are doing, I understand.

That being said, kindly think of those who read your comments...haba.....why? Do you know much people are suffering? A kongo(rubber plate )of rice is 650 naira(just ten cups ooo). Where I live, we have had just three hours of light since last week. A dollar now is 500+ in those bureau de change. People are tired,hungry dying!!!. Do you think when china or Korea republic went through transformation their leaders had kids in foreign universities? Those handling our economy are just not worth it.

Tell your bosses to do what they were voted for.

Yinka4dad:
gtv will show it on multi tv

Please what's the frequency for GTV and joytv? They went away for over a month now

Prettiepearlz:
Dear Uncle, it's now obvious you didn't completely read my first post, you only read the first paragragh. I already gave him my piece of advice on how to be free. You can do well to go back to completely read my first comment on this thread.

Dear Aunty ....ok i will

Prettiepearlz:
Dear uncle I got your point, the only issue I have with you was your earlier comment about a man owning the house because he paid, bought or rented the house so his wife has no right to stop his mum from visiting everyday. But you have actually made a point that isn't biased with this now, so you're free

Dear Aunty. You have not been released. You have not given the OP a conclusive opinion as to how he can tell mama to reduce her visits

cococandy:
For one they could both be earning and paying for the house together. Don't use your personal life to judge others. Not every wife is dependent. And even if she were the man's income is still the family income. It belongs to both of them. Since the wife most certainly is doing other things to keep the home running. And the man brings in the money. It's a division of labor hence their contributions are equal. You can't chew money. Someone has to manage it and make it into something edible, wearable or livable. The house belongs to both of them. Their relations should apply wisdom and caution when visiting. It shouldn't only apply to her relations.
Stop the one sided hypocrisy.

What's her mother's single motherhood got to do with it? Yea who knows the reason. What if it was the father's fault that they are divorced? But no you can't think of that. All avenues to judge the woman right?

From your comment I guess it's perfectly acceptable for the wife to threat his relations like poo if she's the one making the money? Did you even read your comment before posting it?

Wasn't using my personal life to judge the situation. A woman or Man should draw a line of privacy and make it obvious to his or her extended family. The reason I asked about the wife's mum being va single mum is simple. Some single mother tend to say things that aren't too true about men to their kids based on their experience with men.

I wasn't being a hypocrite when I wrote my piece. I was being objective

Prettiepearlz:
Uncle, don't get me wrong too oooooooo, what gave you the impression that the wife didn't give financial support in the building, buying or renting of the house? You make me laugh I swear. Let's even look at it from your angle, so because her son bought, built or rented the house as the case maybe is now a GOOD reason for a MIL to come and invade her children's privacy thereby inconveniencing the wife right? Please don't get me wrong, a wife shouldn't stop her MIL from visiting her son's house but all I am saying is she shouldn't make it an everyday thing and that's what these women who come here complain about and nairaland guys eat them raw by judging them but now the table is turned and you come up with this? Goodness me! You guys are selfish and manipulative! All you do is think about yourself. Just imagine! A man owns the house, so what happened to a man shall leave his father and mother and join to his wife and they shall become one? . Why una nor tell am to endure? After all, they are one and the house belongs to them both now.



You made a statement about a woman becoming the boss of the house if she was the bread winner, I ask you is it all women? Haven't we seen women who are breadwinners who didn't for one day disrespect her husband (if you haven't seen any, I have). Now I am not saying we don't have some bad eggs amongst us but you lots should stop generalizing things. And lastly, once married, the house no longer belongs to the man, it belongs to both the husband and the WIFE. So stop making it seem like you're doing women favours by marrying them. You're both doing yourselves favours.
Cococandy, please read this uncle's comment

Dear Aunty, don't misquote me. Its funny how I get mentions based on my earlier comment. Marriage is a collective responsibility. When a woman complains about a MIL's frequent visits and how it disturbs their privacy, a Man should act immediately. Same way 'mama's' visit(constant) disturbs the OP and he has told his wife severally,What do you want him to do?

Guys aren't manipulative or selfish you know those that are manipulative(I don't wanna sound chauvinistic).
Make I no talk too much

Prettiepearlz:
At last all powerful master, at least this complain is coming from a man and not a woman. I am surprised at the comments coming from our men, they aren't insulting him but if it's from a woman, this thread would have been filled with insults, now you can see that what's good for the goose is also good for the gander. Nobody wants his or her privacy being invaded. I just hope you guys here will comment this way if it's from a lady, but NO! It's a selfish world! A woman has to bear the pain.

@dynamite11, you know to achieve your aim, you might end up turning into a bad guy but for someone like me, I don't care. Since your wife isn't doing anything tangible about it, you have to put your foot down, you have to face her. Let her know that her presence is bugging you, you need your privacy, you need time to bond with your family and she isn't giving you that with her everyday and unnecessary visits. But if you can't do it, then you have to live with it.

Ps: Ikupakuti, come and see a guy complaining, let's see what you have to say about this now.

Aunty don't get me wrong o but the reason y most people aren't insulting the OP is simple. ITS HIS HOUSE(He earned every penny he used to build or rent his house) so he can choose to see anyone he wants.

If the situation was a turned one and the woman owns everything do you think she will even let the man talk in that house talkless her mum-inlaw? The reason y most people talk or comment negatively when a Woman complains about their mother in law visits is simple. In most events its her Sons house,(he had all the money before yu married him), she lived already with him or was a constant visitor before you met him. I hope yu catch d drift?. @OP you no dey try at all. Tell her simply that you would love it if she stops her constant visits. If she doesn't put your gateman on the spot.

Besides do you know y she ended up a single mum?

Does JoyTV still work on freetoair? What's the new TP frequency?

Really hope the likes of Diogu and Al faruq will up their game so we can shock Argentina

I watched the Match. At a point the whole fans in the stadium were shouting MOUSA! MOUSA!! MOUSA!!!. At that point , I really felt proud to be Nigerian. At the end he won The Man of the Match

wow....nice cobranet is like spectranet right. i know Ugo flix is one of their fast packages...

Bros 20k if you are interested

CuteCeo:
Introversion. Talking with opposite sex is a problem for me

Are you are a male?, if you are, being shy around women that aren't related to you is normal for introverts.With time, your experience with the opposite sex will cover up for your being shy

Christgalaxy:
no sir

None?

CuteCeo:
Hello guys...I need help

What's wrong?

Being an introvert doesn't make us less friendlier. We are the best friends you can never have. Me being an involves the fact that I don't talk very loud,I listen when people make all the comments. I only talk when its necessary. We are fun to be with(When we have made that friend). We aren't always in peoples faces (except when important). We might be shy but bold and witty. Those all this relate to any other person out there?

Can I get free cartoon stations (a few) on 60mm, 90mm or 1.2 m dish. At what directions please?. I am keen on English spoken cartoons. Someone should help

Wailers and the Zombies should please shut up for once. Its really embarrassing to call ourselves youths at this point in time. Men in their late 50's, 60's,70's and even 80's pay some of us to come be their mouthpieces.

We should all be ashamed. It seems Buhari didn't prepare to be President. How can a person win an election in March was inaugurated in May and still couldn't constitute his cabinet 3 months after his assumption of office? Yet social media representatives come here to defend him?

I hoped 'HOPED' he was going to truly be the leader,that leader. Yet he has disappointed so badly
!!!

The British PM knows what her goals are n she has already hit the ground running.

In Nigeria when politicians win elections they use a whole month for multiple thanksgivings and conduct prayer sessions as if we asked for a chief priest n not a leader.

I am really tired!

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I read @OP's update n I felt like crying. What in the world is wrong with you?. You just gave her a heads up . Her seemed depression is as a result that she got caught not cos she's sorry. Op now she's would hatch a plan to be extra careful with her phone and general conversations. You really messed everything up,didn't you. Now she thinks, 'oh well,I am the dutchess of this castle,I cant be shaken. He cant do jack'. Kai,you fall your hand I swear. Who gets a drug dealer for doing codine,when you can can catch him for peddling cocaine. You weren't thinking were you?. Even if you really want to keep your marriage,you should have made it seem that you weren't interested

My advice might have come a bit late but pick a thing or two from it.
Patience is a virtue they say(though I pray for it daily). At OP,what have u even heard that you are burning with anger?. The truth is that if u can exercise patience you will get more ammo to fight back later. Brood over this,be moody for days if you wanna, my brother supress your anger(when she asks you y u are moody,say that you are a bit under the weather). DON'T REACT OR CONFRONT HER YET. You have gotten a source real and credible information about the woman you married. Listen to and save her recorded conversations till you hit the jackpot. You will find out real secrets soon. They(her and her family) want to put you In a situation no man wants(loosing the trust of those who care about you. Keep it cool till you hit a homerun or a knockout!.

Don't react yet

AlienStar:
I can never advise you to divorce her esp since she is not infidel... This generation forgot that marriage must have it's ups & down, it ain't a bed of roses. And you should know that she knew her siblings b4 you (I'm ain't justifying her o, buh it's the reality) so it may be easy for them to manipulate her esp as she's the last born! So now copy does recordings to your phone (as proof) and ask her about it, tell that this is her home that she shouldn't allow her siblings to run it for her to avoid expensive mistake. I think you shouldn't invite a 3rd party and always pray together ("cause the family that prays together, stays 2geda".)

Really? Is this an advice?

Vavana:
Am a yound lady that made mistake in her early 20's. No pity pls. i made a wrong chioce n paid for it.

Am a divorcee n he got to know about it in 2013. since then i just wana be. All the men so far want sex in the relationship but i say NO. So i don't have bf. He even gave me counseling that all men are not same that i should engage in relationship.

But last year became close which i didn't emtertain.

Have i answered ur question?.
Thanks

What's your take on polygamy?... Be sincere please.

He wants intimacy or he wants to make you his second wife?.
The simple truth is that you are too attached to the gifts you are getting from him and I can smell confused feelings in your post.

If its just intimacy,then its not worth it. Look elsewhere for a job.

I think its lust on his part. Run

Lemme ask a question, can you be a second wife?

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