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foolinlove:
Wonderful! You're killing it and I love your posts

Thank u.

Tenkobos:
how about women focusing on being great women instead of opening silly topics online to fight that they be allowed to go unclad? or are they forbidden to be great.

Does it make any sense to you?

How many threads did the op open when that woman was killed in Kano? How about the one killed in abuja?

Listen dear, every man or woman who doesn't care about the effect his or her actions and inactions(including dressing) has on the society should have his or her sanity tested cause na so madness dey start.

Tell that to the men who think because they re men can act however they want but would police every movement a woman makes

You dont create an enabling environment for women to be great. Most great women are great because they damned u and other men and what u think altogether.

You dont want great women, u want women who u can walk on as u want.

chai just like that

jamalnation:
in other word wat are u trying to say ??

Be rational and logical when keeping laws not biased and selective.
Doing the later hurts many women but u wont understand because the society favours your gender more.

Tallysmallz:
Probably a fatal accident of some sort. Dont exactly know.

wow very pitiful.

Certifiedbillio:
yeah, I agree in which I always go against when ever I hear such, but the dressing issue u and I know that too, even in western world , topless say is just a day in tho whole year

Funny u will say this, but single women go topless everyday before single men huh, in private. They enjoy the sight of her bossoms in their rooms (they will still shame her later anyway) but would curse her if she bares herself in public. Whar is the difference?

Certifiedbillio:
whenu say sex b4 marriage both party carry the blame, it's only rape that's against moral in that sense

Both parties were suppose to take d blame in a normal sect, but in this world, women who fornicate are shamed and made fun of, almost every time but what happens to the men that sleep with them? nothing bro, nothing. You and i knw the truth.

ITbomb:
A wise man told me, never marry just because of love.

That girl is sick, don't be surprised she might find some sweet mouth who is a pro in making girls fall.
After the show, she will be all over the place ranting "all men are the same"

Lol i hope u will be out to defend women when men start calling us golddiggers for staying with rich men.

Tallysmallz:
I saw the picture on facebook and the comments on it was so heartbreaking.

What happened to her?

Certifiedbillio:
I'm glad u said most, personally, I don't judge, every one does things with their reason , but in this issue, we have to follow the morals of the environment we are

Morals? Do u choose your morals?
One of the morals of the society, our religious society is that every man abstains from sex until marriage.
How many men are shamed for not keeping that?

Talking of exposed cleavages, thats whats "in" Men still marry women, a lot, that bare their boobs until only the nipples are hidden.

It is even glorified on our "altars of worship" Pastors look away as if its now the normal way for a bride to dress.

At the end, the bride may not be spared being called many names bt who shames the man for marrying such a girl?

We are very selective and bias when it comes to keeping the morals of our environ.

foolinlove:
It's more than them picking. It's an ingrained perception. It needs to be remedied.

Even if men were successful, they will still have poor attitudes to women.

Have u ever thought of it this way...most men here dont care about how a woman feels. She is suppose to feel the same way as they do.

If they say, A is not a wife material, they expect u also think same.

Moreso, what happens to respect? Everyday women are slut-shamed, shamed for being single, shamed for disagreeing with other women, shamed for being "sexy", shamed for putting on make up. Shamed for walking out of a relationship, shamed for everything

Even if its ingrained to be silly, dont they have any atom of respect for us?

ireneeony:
Nice speech..
Not just Nigerian men, most black men.

Gosh i hate black men sometimes.

Most re beginning to irritate me.

If only the malefolk in this part would stop picking on everything a woman does and focus on being great men, maybe some of us wld not start topics like this.

ehikwe22:
I don't want to see your tits. Just don't get how telling women to cover their body is infringing on their rights. opening your boobs is invitation to calamity. you're in Africa. except maybe you're not

How is opening of ur boobs an invitation to calamity?
Every saturday we see pictures of brides with exposed boobs getting married. U know, its what is trending now. Explain how their husband's are insane?

buharisbae:
I just came to check names!


its in their blood

You are bigger than this darl. Anybody can be gay (did i just say something very basic?)

The sexism on this forum is very appaling

Cute > sexy

MUVA:
LuveU2 turn up!

Synzuing me again huh

Still didnt change anything sweetheart. I am still with King Falconey

wow, too bad.

Go to the Religion section; when the contest is over u come back

The fulani hausa and igbo brides are gorgeous

O *pukes*
People like this are walking diseases.

Davidolives:
like seriously?

Yes David

sben2308:
All na make up joor ,pls give us some natural ladies .BIKo

Light make up is recommended for all ladies nd thats whar they hve on.