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Karlifate:
TikTok and BIGO Live is really exposing the foolishness of many modern [Nigerian] men.


Enter those two apps, and you'll be dumbfounded with the level of thirstinesss, going on there.

Bigo live is the mad one i could not just open the app before uninstall it because wetin my eyes dey see ehn na nonsense

emmaodet:
……. @ she will bleep you. I don’t know why they so much attach too much importance to that pussy

that how one was telling me that she will give me her number if i buy what she is selling from her, without swallowing her saliva i replied her what am going to do with her number.
imagine the audacity.

that the last thing on earth i will ever allow a girl to do to me when am not stupid

you sure that is your kolo

😏😏

Kipaji:
We can now use other émoji on Nairaland

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Great!

How

heartofcity12:
You have a point, however it all still depends on the interest level of the girl. Even if you use sms, a girl with genuine desire wouldn’t mind and you’ll have your way with her, and if you call a girl not interested for hours, that doesn’t mean her decision will change. I believe it all depends on the girl’s interest level..

You get it, The level of interest of the girl matter.

Dabronze:
To go deep in the underworld game of women is not for the faint hearted
It strong mind to go deep in the rabbit hole
I have couple of friends that I've introduced to this thread but at some stage they withdrew from this thread because they can't handle the truth
Not everybody want the truth

True,Not Everybody can handle the truth.

CrystalTiger:
The rare exceptions are those who truly want you...Spoken words are extremely powerful, any girl who wants you genuinely wouldn't mind talking to you for hours..

For me, texting zone=friend zone..

Exactly

heartofcity12:
A quick observation about modern dating;
Calling now seems to be going out of style. Ppl now prefer to be texted than being called. I personally prefer calling to texting but things are changing at a fast pace.. Some get really nervous to pick a call.. You can get a girl wet for you and make her come over that same day through text alone nowadays, you can also easily set a date through text alone, same girl might not even pick up your phone if you had started with calling.. Times are changing. There are always few exceptions tho..

I still prefer calling to text because many guys are in all these girls DM.
You meet them the first time, create interest of you in them collect number.
Call when you want to

Lakaka:
Lol. Any guy wey follow all these laws will never get a woman. You want to date a woman and you won't chase her, spend on her, pelt her and even beg if needs be? LoL, dey play. She'll just go to another guy that know her worth. I know friends that toast a woman for two years, eventually the girl later succumb. Imagine if the guy has leave her alone when she said she's not interested

Can you just take down this nonsense

Amperes:
I thought there was something wrong with me, now i know i am perfectly normal. blue pilled simps have made it look like it is impossible to say no to women/sex. i am actually very choosy when it comes to women, i wont fvck a lot of them even for free. i have to find you really attractive and intelligent.

And women would hate you for this but i will tell you it's normal and right thing to do.
Even me too can't have sxx with all girls i have come way with

ItooWorWor:
The future is payback time

Future is too far i want it to start now

JayOnly:
Marvis Ishanqueen
Victor Ibe (later Victor Ruth)
Helen Nelson
Toochi Ugoala
FIN (Females in Nigeria)
Sledgehammer Ogbunigwe
Nkechi Bianze
Ohaeri Kachi
Jacqueline Tiger
Chioma Amaryllis Ahaotu
Nsikak Effiong
Chinonyerem *something, I can't remember her full name
...and so many others.

If you saw the audacious ridiculousness displayed on Facebook by the above mentioned wvmən and boy-girls between 2012 to 2017, you will not only be ashamed of being a Nigerian man on Facebook, you would apologise for the actions of your grandparents and great grandparents which validated the most noble cultures of our land (those things that made our forefathers sane and balanced beings).

It was so terrible that a lot of men on Facebook became apologetic of themselves.

Some of the Facebook rules of these wvmən included:

1. A man kiIIed by his wvmån for cheating, had it coming, and he deserved it. The mvrderovs wvmån is a victim of years of silence.

2. Wife is not a cook, so women must stop cooking for their husband.

3. Touching your girlfriend or woman without her express consent is rvpe.

4. A man cajoling his wvmån to have se× after she said "No" is sexval harassment, and it is rvpe if she later agreed because she didn't intend to have se×.

5. A wvmån who kiIIed her cheating hvsband is part of an ongoing revolution against Patriarchal society of Nigeria.

6. A man calling a wvmån on the phone without her consent is harassment and stalking.

7. If a man sees a wvmån walking on the road in the night, he must be considerate enough to hide so that the wvmån doesn't see him and become afraid of being rvped. It gives Fem!n!sts trauma to see strange men on the road in the night.

8. If a wvmån is walking in front of a man in the night, the man should be considerate enough to slow down his pace so that if she is a Fem!n!st she would not be afraid of being rvped.

9. A real man must inconvenience himself to please a wvmån. Such a wvmån must not be his girlfriend or w!fe

10. A man must never be allowed to carry, touch or help a female toddler to avoid sexval molestation.

11. W!fe should do revenge cheating once they suspect their husband of cheating. The Facebook Fem!n!sts had a hookup arrangement for w!ves who wanted to cheat back.

12. A man who raises his voice on his wife must be d!vorced, because he is a potential w!fe kiIIer. Their mantra was "don't ignore the signs".

13. A man must declare his finances to his intending bride. His bank statements and income are important discussion during marriage proposal. Love is not enough.

14. A man must declare his support for Feminism or he is not a husband material.

15. A husband pressuring his wife for se× is sexval harassment, and rvpe if she later agreed.

16. A man who wants to propose must discuss his relationship with his mother, siblings and other family members, and explain and agree how their visitations would be after marriage.

17. Mən are sćvm

18. A man being persistent after a wvmån turned down his asking her out, is "stalking".

There were many more rules. Well ... 85% of these wvmən and boy-girls are unmarried today, the 15% who are married used their money, genitaIs and resources to marry their husbands. Their husbands are mostly either unemployed or underemployed.
Some of them are now d!vorced after a brief marriage.

credits: AllaKaduna.

All my response to this is

Karlifate:
Even Google search engine does not care about you.

Put yourself first.

wahala in portable voice

Wish for More of this

TMTR:
One thing I love about the female nature is that you must learn one way or the other, either you learn through the easy way or the hard way, it's up to you to decide the way you want to learn but the Koko of the matter be say last last you must to learn by fire by force

I am happy and glad that I am one of the previliged few to learn through the easy way that is , I didn't have to get burned before I did

This is because your brother or one of your relatives male have had seen shege in the hand of girls which you witness and made you understand girls nature.

heartofcity12:
Numbers might be exaggerated but it’s happening.. Not even surprised. We already seen this coming.

eyyeee

sajmark:
It's all a transaction these days, evolve or get burnt. You cannot afford to go into any romantic relationship with your heart kings.

Simps can't vibe to this

Zarzah:
Although this is an Old News, I love this non regardless, but I still discovered there's a little flaw in the judgement in my opinion.
The Two Children are 6 and 8 years Old respectively.

If it was the other way round ( The Husband paying the Child Support ), the system would have made him pay till the kids were probably 18 years old, but see how they reduced it because she's a woman.

I love women , they only demand for equality when it favors them

Nice and Good Observation.
I thought it's in their law that the judge make the length so now Because she is woman he/she reduce it the length.
Omo na when man go break this chain of modern of slavery

Dabronze:
I love this

though it sound somehow to me but the other way should be happening

joeeee240:
It's all about self control and discipline.

But spinning plates is the NUMBER 1 test of someone who understands female psychology. That's where you see things happen in the real world

Every girl with her different tests, manipulative tactics and personality. You get so much experience nothing a girl does can shake you

That's when you've been really red pilled. The more plates you spin, the more power you have

Of course, everything is done with discipline, self control and proper relationship management

Well since then, nothing dey shake me about them sometime i just act as if i don't know what they are doing or upto

There was one like during like year salah festival forming good girl the moment i reveal real self to her madam was surprise she wasn't expecting the action from me.

CrystalTiger:
Just saw the comment below on a front page topic, was so mad at first but I don't know why I started laughing about it later on..

Can't just stop laughing still

That guy suppose to be writing comedy story or movie
Why person no go laugh

joeeee240:
Like i said, if you're not getting bìtches but spending hours of your day jerking off to red pill books, you're a clown

red pill that has one of the most delusional idiots (second only to feminist)

So you read a red pill book then jerk off with vaseline abi

In a short words you're saying redpill is all about women.
Man slow down your cap
You've done and talk enough

Zarzah:
Oh you have pvssy Goals now

Damn, always knew you were a Pussy Worshipper, but never imagined you'd be this deep into pússy worshipping.

Setting Pussy Goals

Honestly Bruh, I'm a huge fan.

Am a huge fan bruh just imagine

Zarzah:
Glad I'm not the only one that sees the B.S......

Talking about having 5 or more biitchess to prove you're Alpha.... Real B.S

Had a conversation with one of my Homies on New Year Eve, He told me throughout the year 2022 he had sex with just 2 different women. Initially I was thinking his Game was bad, but Homie has it all, Homie is well to do, then I asked him why the numbers were so low, This was His response :

**Azuma, The only two women I fvxked throughout the year was my Girlfriend and My side chick, A lot of other women were coming, but I realized earlier that if I get overjoyed by the surplus availability of pussy, sooner or later I'll be in big trouble. So I decided to Commit to just 2 out of almost 10 to 15, That way I keep myself in check and I know that My self Control Game is Top Notch**

At that point it dawned on me that it's not by how many you're getting, It's by how many you're Rejecting.....

What's the Use of Being A so called Alpha Male who gets all the Pussies but lacks self Control....

Kings, don't let anyone deceive you into believing that your value is in Scoring Pussies.

You wouldn't want to be in a situation Whereby by May/ June others are counting tangible achievements, while you're Counting 5 or more pussies.

Spinning plates but it comes with problems i remember when i started i had three girls in just one month if no be say i know how to control myself and others.
I would have been trap down with someone else child.

Frankled:
https://www.instagram.com/reel/CmkpsTvKFDh/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

na sorry be her name
They always thought they doing the right thing until it happen.

TheDarkGamer:
I'm glad you found the message of the video valuable. Now, the next step is to implement it in your life. Stay consistent and disciplined in your self-improvement journey.

I'm rooting for you bro.

Yeah i will bro

Johnchrix:
Ph is soft, it depends the class of people you roll with...if you walk within business class and educated individuals, you will not notice or be a victim of any cult display.

But anythings can happen even when you don't plan or notice them.

adambeatz:
To be clear it's not that the states didn't work for me but rather the challenges there would toughen you.


There's a saying "if you can make it in Lagos, you can make it anywhere". Lagos na madman land no cap, the life there is something else, most people think those living in Lagos are living large which to me na big lie, most of money earned goes into paying bills, you tend to spend most of your time in serious traffic, everyone is on the look out due to the criminal elements hence you're always on flight or fight mood, if you're not sharp enough to recognize opportunity ontime it tends to slip past you and you end up with regrets, Yoruba people can be the most accommodating people especially if your an extrovert, na jaye all the way, a typical Yoruba man just wants to make money so he can spend and enjoy life. I've seen Yoruba guys cash out and go broke the same day, I've dated some of their girls and I most say if you jam Yoruba girl with serious home training, my brother to marry go dey hungry you.
The potential for greatness comes with the potential for greater evil as the evil sets among them give them bad names, the bad sets among dem go to great lengths to orchestrate their evil plans but here's a tip I'd give you if you find your self among the bad sets, learn how to water the ground wherever you are and even the bad sets would leave you alone, some even go as far as helping you in times of desperate need


Everything and anything goes in pH, their people there are another breed of human beings, the day my friend's neighbor found out I came from Lagos to visit,she told her husband and they invited me over for some home cooked meal, I chop lick hand, once you know yourself and others know that you know yourself they'll be nice with you, pH people are a military minded people cause the state people head no correct, cultism is the norm and one thing I must warn you if you decide to visit there, vet any babe you carry or wey carry you, she fit be senior man babe, I've seen a guy shot in a beer palour and killers even had time to buy orijin plastic before climbing bike. I once took a bike and enroute to my location colored men were jollying on a street, everywhere blocked I told bike man to use another road he said nothing would happen, when we reached them he and dem started capping laughed and we passed, one even gave me bottle water to drink. I love pH too.

Between the two states I'd say if your into tech then Lagos is for you if you can shoulder the stress and you're sharp. If you believe in ruggedity pH is for you, in these two states if you were to get into argument with and average lagosian they would first make serious noise before anything follows but in pH theyll shoot first and ask questions later. Simply put if it's pleasure before business I'd say go Lagos if it's business before pleasure then go pH.

Lastly abj, these guys are into soft life ibeg, if you jam person car for here, na to park one side discuss like gentlemen, Dem no like long talk for here, tech here is very good especially if you know your craft and can package yourself Wella, the market is not too saturated here so no much competition, even gee boys here no dey show off anyhow cause who you want impress, a house girl in abj is probably a millionaire or has connections you can only dream about so wetin u wan talk. Basically it all boils down to what you want and how fast can you spot opportunity the average man can't see then utilize it.

Sorry for the long epistle but it depends on you and how your mindsets works.

E be like abj life go be for me, that ph lifestyle shoot before asking wetin happen that one too go far what if the person they shoot don die nko
That one na sope otilo .

Frankled:
One of the most difficult situation a man has to go through is the process of a girl hooking him up with pregnancy, even though you know that the reason she said it was you is because, you are the more wealthy and resposible nigga. I know DNA test is invoke right now but the stress you will go through isn't neccesary if you take caution
I don't like using CDs. I never liked it. But i had to develop love for it now, lol. This girls are cold hearted, God punish them