₦airaland Forum

Larryndelaw:
We are waiting for another letter from Obasanjo and his Brother Baba Tewonde to.relocate now that Tinubu has been elected president of federal republic of Nigeria

Mona dey chill abeg

Earthquakes:
Since Igbos have been the problem of Nigeria, don't you think it's a good idea to Tell Tinubu to let them go? With that they will need visa to come to Lagos any SW states and you can use tax and visa restrictions to control them from coming to Lagos or Nigeria as a whole
Don't you think so since they are so so inconsequential and troublesome as you claim

The problem here is Igbo should have never say LAGOS is ( no man land )
Which people define Lagos and the indigene of it.
Google this or Ask old people that know about the history of Nigeria.
If not you too will be among the people that tinubu would deal when he sworn in.
And not like am a supporter of BAT but overdo from y'all Igbos is annoying how can you be saying you're are the owner/indigene of where you're given chance to grow your business if your state is good for business you should have grow your business in your state then

Me wey never dey dispora don disassociate myself from Nigeria you call me Yoruba and that doesn't mean i disassociate myself from other tribes ☺️

Earthquakes:
Since Igbos have been the problem of Nigeria, don't you think it's a good idea to Tell Tinubu to let them go? With that they will need visa to come to Lagos any SW states and you can use tax and visa restrictions to control them from coming to Lagos or Nigeria as a whole
Don't you think so since they are so so inconsequential and troublesome as you claim

The name we bear mean fraud so how could we expect Fraud to turn to good deed 😂

AndrewTate:
Be nice first...
She's a human being.
I haven't really seen her troll annoyingly, she's just one of those women that's fascinated by the opportunity to finally have a firsthand experience on what men are really thinking about them in the inner circle. They're always curious about that(women)!
There are many others following up this thread and reading silently page by page.
Hence her theatrical presence here.
If she becomes a line crossing troll then I'll ignore.🤷🏾‍♂️

Na from nice una mumu dey start

Miracood2:
I doubt say any Nigerian girl fit make this agreement.

me sef dey doubt am

Hand Up ✋ for this comrade 😂😂😂

joeeee240:
Go into war of words with the truth and facts?

Dey play

Is like you don't understand me, What am saying is my redpill is Natural cause my father is a redpill because almost every words said about redpill here show in him.
Same thing with my stepbrother while my brothers from my mother side come see heartbreaks yakata 😂😂

joeeee240:
You're right. The majority of men are simps.
The red pill you see online is exaggerated. Most men aren't like that. Many don't know and many don't agree with the red pill

Then the few that agree with the red pill, majority are fake. Only a few amount of men know what they're doing. Even online too. Majority are fakes

That's why there seems to be a disconnect between offline and online

Thanks God It's Naturally and at Early Stage or i should say i was born that way if not i would have go into war of words with you.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Easier said than done. All men will tolerate/endure any kind of behavior from a beautiful girl until it’s gone extreme. I didn’t even experience cash scarcity all these period because men were going out of their way to bring me new notes and I’m not even dating them ooo, just toasters. I keep telling you all that your redpill is mainly an online thing, it’s so different in reality.

You need attention now you get mine what are you going to do with it. ? 🤷🏾‍♂️

UppaZakum:
Fellow Redpillers, I greet you all. I would like to seek your thoughts about something that happened between my supervisor (boss) and me. A female colleague of mine beckoned on me that my boss would like to see both of us. We went straight to my boss' office. I stood in front and engaged my supervisor to know why he wanted to see us. There were two seats in front but I chose to stand; the other lady stood too but behind me. The following conversations ensued:

Supervisor: You two can seat but it is ladies first!

*I was in the front so naturally I would sit first if I wanted to and there were two chairs side by side* So he expected me to go behind the lady so she could come in front and sit first*

Me: Anyone could seat in front regardless of their gender.

Supervisor: (smile) No, Mike (fake name). It is ladies first.
Female Colleague: *interjected* No, I'm okay to stand
Me: It shouldn't matter who sit first unless we have elderly ones or disabled.

Supervisor: It is gentlemanly to offer a seat to a lady first Mike go and read about being a gentleman.

Me: smiled.
* then we started the main conversation while I and the female colleague stood.

So this was a spontaneous conversation that happened. Me be in front wasn't based on any superiority feeling; it just happened by chance or my Redpilled nature subconsciously made me to be in front - leadership (possible, I don't know).

Now, I understand that OG Redpillers have warned against having conversations that suggest one is Redpilled. I fully agree with this view knowing fully well that it is a blue-pilled world. I don't know if my boss or the female colleague knows about the Redpill but I wanted to ask if you were in my shoes, what would you have done?

Was I wrong to have displayed those attributes that may have suggested I'm redpilled? If yes, how could I have managed it? I'm open to getting fellow Redpillers' perspectives on this.

P:S: It is unlikely that this event will strain the relationship between me and my boss. He holds me in high esteem. He's a nice person and gives me good performance appraisal becuase I'm naturally a hard worker! However, never say never. Any thing can happen but very unlikely.

Been a guest reader but decided to register today.
Respect to all the Redpillers in the house. Stay Taliban.

Don't apply redpill knowledge anyhow or else you will get disappoint and also get sack from your job.
Use your common sense man

Mentholated:
I am surprised. That was cold. She visited him twice in prison most likely to assess his current and future value to her. Briffault's law.

And there was this popular male celebrity that went to prison while in the prison he will his fortune to his wife believing he doesn't need them again.
But the wife did the unthinkable by investing his fortune to 100 time folds without divorcing him along those time.
Man came out of see his wife doings burst into tear.
There are good women out of there but one need kinda eyes 👀 to penetrate and see their doing 😂

Pukkalolo:
You are fucking right.


The Internet, which is probably the 8th Wonder Of The World, is a place where you can have access to almost anything you want.

With the internet: You can register for anything, you can find a job, you can learn just about anything, you can find hook-up, you can order goods, you can arouse yourself and jerk off to porn stars while thinking about any girl. You can hire assassins to murder anyone that piss you off. Yes, pretty much everything can be done on the internet.

All thanks to the internet: most people looks more attractive than they actually look in real life; most people seem more important than they actually are in real life; most people seem more experience than they actually are.

Using "experience" for example, the problems with the Internet is - anyone can seem like an expert, regardless of the level of experience they have or don’t have. And It’s almost impossible to identify who's the real deal.

Take this thread for example, I observed that some dudes with no real experience with are giving advice about women and redpill. It's so sad because they are only doing this to get validation of other guys.

So many fake stuff on the internet many capping in buju in voice 😂😂😂

Unique9:
Boss be far from phone doctor na correct scammer.

I don't know about him but i don't reply him.
Thanks By The Way 👋

In whatever and whatsoever father are the best they will surely teach you one thing about life whether bad or good.

GrandMufti:
Fone oti'lo

You no even motivate person Oga Grandmufti you just drop the atomic bomb with immediate effect😂

genius43:
Either your battery is bad or your charging board is bad.

Take it to a professional. If possible change both.

FYI there is nothing like Down Board. It is called Charging Board.

it's called Sub-board which i called it before.
Anyway i have fix it it's now charging,
is the same phone am using to chat you up now.
I think the issue is flex that connect the Sub-board with the panel ( Motherboard )

genius43:
Please can you be more clear in your write up. It is difficult to understand

What i mean is that the down board i have it change it once but the battery is still not charging so i had to return it and continue using the follow-come down board.
and for more explanation if the battery have to charge i will have to open the phone heat the down-board,clean the battery the connector before it start increasing when charging but now the battery is not charging neither increasing.

What could be wrong with my redmi 9 the phone battery is not increasing when charging.
Have tried to charge to change the sub-board but it still the same.
ATM the battery have run down and it is not showing charging not to talk of increasing
could it be battery or what ?.

What could be wrong with my redmi 9 guys the phone battery is not increasing when charging.
Have tried to charge to change the sub-board but it still the same.
ATM the battery have run down and it is not showing charging not to talk of increasing
could it be battery or what ?.

AlphaAlex:
I swear I always thank God I met one of the most manipulative women Ever on my journey of life, she helped open my eyes to Lots of things about women 😂🤣 it was a bitter sweet experience but I’m glad it happened.

Baba share the story na ☺️😜

heartofcity12:
She already made her choice by monkey branching while the simp bf keeps cooking for her, that’s how ruthless the female nature is, no empathy. You must always expect ‘monkey branching’ from them as a redpiller.
The accuracy of the Redpill must be studied. 😆

Is that pastor part about ( stability from bf in Nigeria ) for me 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Esoresor:
I really miss some people on this thread sha but I’m happy the thread is dying because it’s an instrument of corrupting the young minds.

Just dey play 🤣

GreatAchiever1:
Even though it maybe unusual for women to be named in genealogies, in the genealogy of Jesus in Matthew 1:1-17, there are four women known asides Mary which are tamar, rehab, ruth and bathsheba.
Ruth was a moabite and worshipper of idols(ruth 1:3,4), rehab was a canaanite prostitute(Joshua 2:1),
Tamar also played the harlot (genesis 38) and bathsheba committed adultery with david(2 Sam 11).

Why did I bring this up? To illustrate that each of these women is an object lesson about the workings of divine grace. He took upon Him the likeness of sinful flesh and takes the great sinners upon repentance into the nearest relation to Himself.
To let you know that when one is in Christ, he/she is a new creature, old things have passed away.


We ought not to upbraid her with her past especially because it doesn't concern us in anyway. As long as she REPENTED of it and is GENUINELY born again, her hubby was/were aware of her past mistakes and wasn't bothered by them, we do not have the right in anyway to speak ill of her or the union, because at the end it's none of our business.

And lastly, I beseech y'all to do likewise and repent genuinely to this immoral lifestyle and turn to Jesus.

You just dey play yourself
You should tell me how God can erase or reset your Sex memories

There is big difference in this

In Relationship
Men lie to protect and prolong relationship.


In Relationships

Women lie to deceive and destroy Relationship.
Some women know this Some Don't Know

JovialRPiller:
I just say make I install tinder this morning when I read some interesting and horrific stories about the experience of men on the app

I opened it and broo... The level of entitlement that these chicks exude from their profiles alone ehn!!!!

With the way they even write it, you'll know for sure that a lot of simps have massaged and boosted their ego to the extent that they now have ridiculous standards!
One even said she won't reply you if you enter her DM with "hi" or "hello"

Simps day o!

E no reach 10 mins, I delete the app back

For women, tinder na bend down select market
For men, na Job interview

No be tinder bro, the way i uninstall those nonsense apps after some day i installed them.
The girls in those apps are nothing except sex and bitvh

Ofejiro20:
Guys, I need your advice. I'm the type of guy who loves to have sex frequently especially with the woman I'm attracted to and I informed my girlfriend about it. She came to stay at my place for about a week and this is the 5th day ...


Just this evening, she was doing something which I don't understand. Previously, she said that I injured her during our last s_x so she's going to do a water treatment. She sat down on a boiled water which contains salt and detoil for about 10 minutes or so....


We started a conversation shortly after she has completed her procedure and then she Futher concluded that "man nor fit Bleep her everyday"... directly to my face.


I felt insulted because she's laying down rules which I can't cope with at the early start of the relationship...I don't know if she's trying to test to see if I truly love her but that's not a good sign . I'm still new to the redpill so my leaders should throw some advice if any. Respect!

Why sexing everyday no be foods na🤣

Valwezzy:
You can't have it all.

Choose your poison wisely and deal with the effects.

They is no perfect wife or hubby, but women these days are something else

logicalhumour:
I have something to say. I've been in medical school for 4 years now (and I've been through normal B.Sc)

Listen up. It's about masturbation. I see that that topic have come back on track even though we abandoned the topic very long ago on this thread.

Generally, people's arguments about masturbation is usually based on addiction, spirituality, and weakness.

In just your first year in medical school, you get to learn a lot about the male and female gonads and reproductive organs. I'm going to use layman terms here, don't worry.

First, it's important to note what happens to your body when you masturbate. What happens? Well, you stimulate your peni.s up to the point where the feedback is enough for your brain to fire some oxytocin during ejaculation. Ejaculation is when you release "sperm." The oxytocin and contractions are responsible for the sweetness, it also makes contractions pushing the semen painless. For females, after sperm has been deposited in them, their uterine endometrium also undergoes contractions to aid sperm movement/movement of eggs to the ampullary region where fertilisation/ovulation actually occurs. During giving birth, contractions and expansion of the "vagina" are aided by mind-blowing releases of oxytocin which results in the most powerful orgasm a woman can ever achieve. If not for sweet oxytocin, men wouldn't have masturbated/had sex. I mean, look how sweaty, gross, and energy consuming things get at times during love making! Lol. Women would also prefer to just die instead of giving birth if not for oxytocin as well. The pain will kill them before they even make a choice. Lol. You'll cringe at the taught of hugging a sweaty woman the same way you cringe at the thought of hugging a sweaty hairy balled man if not for oxytocin and other related chemicals

Things get more interesting...
The primitive germ cells responsible for sperm in a male human undergoes two types of cell divisions in a smart manner that ultimately lead to an infinite sperm making process in a man, in actual fact (medical fact), the more you ejaculated, the faster your body makes new spermatocytes. Sperm whe you release no fit even pregnant woman unless it passes through the final process that capacitates it which occurs only in the female genital tract: a process known as Capacitation which is when your spermatocytes gain motility (ability to swim) to become spermatozoa. Unless, of course, if the fertilisation occurs outside the body where the "sperms" are literally taken to the females oocytes ( "eggs" ) without the need for them to hussle or fight themselves for access to the egg (same way we fight for access to woman in real life while the woman just sits and waits)

I'm getting somewhere, but let's take a quick look at what happens in the woman
On the other hand, all the female's eggs for her lifetime are manufactured even before her birth. They are finite (unlike the "generatable" [*not a word, but you get] spermatozoon in man).

Now, if women were to release the eggs every time they masturbated (as men do), then wahala go dey as it would result to a devastating infertility before the natural 30 years of supply before natural infertility a.k.a Menopause around age 45. Thankfully, they only release these "eggs" during ovulation after many days. The eggs, if not fertilized, rupture/are destroyed during menses (that shedding of "monthly" blood or endometrial chsnges) women experience.

Misconceptions that make no medical sense
Those early days when guys discussed masturbation here, I even read some that believed that Doctors saying masturbation doesn't really have any effect/serious medical effects were just pushing Western propaganda. Lol. I laughed hard at that. Hear it from me today: the literal act if ejaculating will not affect you medically. HOWEVER, it becomes a problem (non medical) if that habit does things that disrupt your productive activities. Same way too much eating is bad/too much of literally every other thing!

Also, some tied masturbation to low sexual performance or sperm count. Dear Nairaland Doctor, are you the Nairaland Comedian as well? *in Puss in Boots' voice*

Aftermath of masturbation in men (medical)
If you masturbate daily, and you stop, you'll likely empty your balls in wet dreams few days/weeks into your no-fap period. Why? It's because your body has already gotten used to the "releasing" clock. Your body literally ups its production rate of your infinite sperm. It actually thinks something is not normal few days/weeks into no-fap It is just like when you get used to shi.tting 5am daily, every day, your body reminds you by 5am sharp to go and take a sweet poo

The more you resist masturbation, the quicker your body reduces these sperm production simply because it feels you do not need them often (please note that this is NOT low sperm count. Low sperm count has other medical causes). This makes the idea of sperm retention and fapping for specific reasons somewhat ridiculous, medically. It medically doesn't matter if you empty your balls daily or yearly, or never! You'll still function as a normal male human being.

SPIRITUALITY
As for the spiritual side to it, people will believe whatever they want to: some believe in Gods, some believe in cursed spirits causing masturbation, and some believe that if you masturbate during a full moon (or shortly before the full moon) you'll attract blessings to yourself. This is tied to the fact that most women's menstrual cycle is fairly constant at 28 days, which is surprisingly the cycle of our moon. And of that 28 days of the 28-day menstrual cycle, a guy must have sex at least 4 days before the woman releases her mature ovaries (which is constant at 14 days before the end of bleeding irrespective of the number of days in her cycle. Us this info as you wish ), or at most 1 day after the release of matured eggs if he wants the sex to be PRODUCTIVE (i.e. to result to a child). The moon masturbators tie their beliefs in this productivity zone. Heck, some people even lick/swallow their entire ejaculate while focusing their thoughts in a specific directions for spiritual favours that manifests in the physical.

There are so many weird believes tied to the simple act of masturbation, and I know all these because I'm a silent observer of a very weird (non Nigerian) "forum". Many people on the same forum go on the no masturbation/semen retention direction, and they have pretty solid backings of it as well. Their own arguments are mostly tied to energy and self-control direction.
Please note that the medical approach mostly ridicules both directions: flapping/no-fap.

PRODUCTIVITY
There are people that feel the need to relieve their sexual tension to be productive. If they don't, all they'll think of is sex, sex, sex, sex and sex, then sex, and then sex again. Oh wait, yes, sex again and this is bad for business. On the other hand, there are people who get too lazy after masturbation (I mean lazy and uninspired) —which is also terrible for business.

You see? That's why imposing your views on masturbation on anyone is as ridiculous as imposing your God on anyone.

From my explanation of oxytocin released during ejaculation, you'll understand why the Gods made it that way: men wouldn't undertake the stress of making babies and catering for these babies if not for how sweet the act of making a baby was (unless they wanted to sell the babies or something related), neither would they care for women! Now, men realised that it wasn't the vagina that provided the sweetness but the friction they subjected the pen.is to, hence, men's exploitation of the mechanism in the act of masturbation. Lol. Do you now see how the simple mechanism of the sweetness of ejaculation maintains the human race and civilization as we know it?!

So what's it about the whole drama?
Well, people like to intimidate people. Sometimes, the masturbators come up with better arguments, some other times the non-masturbators come up with the better argument instead. This usually results to fights and name callings among men (not women). Women do not fight about if masturbation is healthy for themselves or not. This is probably because they do not really release anything as conspicuous as the semen during masturbation. The semen is weird. It's only normal that men would get suspicious of it when it splurges out of their bodies!

Summary
1. Is masturbation good?
- yes: it is sweet, and sweet is good they say.
- no: *inserts some spiritual/psychological impact argument here*

2. Is masturbation harmful?
- yes: *inserts some spiritual/psychological arguments here*
- no: *blatantly ignores the entire spiritual/psychological argument*

What single word summarises the Ayes and Nays?
Answer: Subjective.

Medical advice...
Do not eat too much if it'll make you obese. Obesity is considered bad stuff. Too much of everything is bad, especially if it affects you.

Do you think your masturbation is out of hand? Don't worry, as someone already pointed out here, it'll reduce immediately you find other more important things that demands your energy...or with age when prick don tire to stand.

Also, releasing in women will result in babies. Do this if you eventually want babies; Masturbate, or use a condom if you do not want babies: as masturbation and condoms play the same role in contraception.

P.S:
I always say it loud and clear here that the beginning of wisdom is when you know the real meaning of sex and why our bodies are rigged to always want it. I wouldn't say more.

P.P.S:
You read my post down to this point? Seriously, get a job. Haha, just kidding No, seriously, get a job or something. Haha.

What an informative writeup ✍️ With this i have come to the meaning of masturbation.
At the bolded it takes me two todays to read this.

Talking about Job baba no be everybody get Job some people get job while some are lazy to work.

Faber:
OGA Na long grammar you dey speak, dopamine ko dokpesi ni...millions of RCC priests who are celibate, jerk off through self-service. They write the most spiritual books, encyclopaedia, scientific discoveries and have helped mankind in one way or the other. How else do you think they solve their konji problems. The psychological bla bla bla associated with Self-service is all bullshit.

Same way my uncle who is a Catholic priest was telling me to avoid girls and not loose my virginity until l marry else I will not be successful in life...Omo since I start dey bleep girls, I no even see any sign of failure around me.

Baba be calming down oh there are some girls you go chop your success do. Chop be that.

Miracood2:
Thanks a lot for your explanation.

Of recent, I've learnt from kings like you that a man's attention is one of his strength when it comes to dealing with women.

Now I have this situation. I'm a bit of a talkative when I'm at work or even when I'm in school.

Right now, in my place of work, I share my desk with a beautiful girl, which I've tried inviting her twice to my place over the course of 6 weeks that we've got to know eachother. She declined twice.. stating that she gets interrogated whenever she attempts leaving her house. (She's a Muslim).

Normally, I would have stopped taking to her. But since we share the same desk, I can't stop communication. I'm a bit of a funny guy also hence, flow naturally.

Now, I've got to know that everytime we talk, I'm directly giving her my attention.

I tried not to talk to her last week, she and the rest of my work mates though I was sick or having a personal issue with someone at home.

(I do want to get into her. Not like a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but something out of normal colleagues or friends)


I really don't know what to do.

why is that to give all your attention yourself is always an issue to you guys like what is hard in doing that🤷🏾‍♂️

gamaliel9:
He does not know. Such loyal girls cling to psycho level. They do not leave...they may either commit suicide or kill you, if you end the relationship.

He is calling the girl bitvh but the girl might be seeing him as her love 😁