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Bellotelli:
As a man just try get enough money. A friend once complained about his wife depriving him of enough sex. Meanwhile his wife had never being like that when they were dating. But i got to realize that my friend isn't doing well financially, but the story eventually changed when his financial status began to change for the better.

WTF

Saintinoo:
The only reason I haven't blocked my ex is that I want to see that unfortunate guy she will end up with. I go put am for my prayer.

You're epitome of generosity chai 😂👍🏾

Savedday2:
The SIMPlest way to solve the problem is to go bring all your village people to come and kneel down to beg her.

And i will be proud of his SIMPlest move 😂😂😂

addmole:
She was not a virgin before I MARRIED HER. Infact I know her ex. Though she doesn't cheat on me. She loves to be alone, make money, cruise, vibes with her friends, family. But not with me. Dont cuddle her, don't tickle, don't laugh with her. She gets angry with every little thing. Doesnt apologise. I once cheated on her but apologised. But now, she's starving me of sex, coupled with the height of disrespect from her. Last time I CALLED her elder brother about our frequent quarells. He just said he would talk to her. But he never did. Her mother shouted at me, if i wanted to divorce her, i should go ahead. So much quarells. I am tired. She even left the family prayer whatsapp group i created. OMO, I don't know what to do. I am just tired.

Boss, The woman you married you're not her dream guy or let say you're the available one for her to marry.

I have a married woman as a friend she once tell me how pregnant and stress of taking care her children is degrading her sexual ability and her husband is complaining and angry at her.
That she that her and her husband used to go three rounds or more than before she is running now from sex.
After she told me all these, i asked her is she not feeling her husband again.
She replied, God forbid bad thing that she is feeling her husband just that the strength to have sex is not there but the urge is there.
Then i told her she have to be making herself available for her husband.
I know it's not easy for her from taking care of children, making foods, working.
But she should try in all possible ways of making herself available for her husband because i don't want her lose her beautiful marriage.

So your woman making excuse or whatever she is doing and people here are saying.
Brother na lie how on earth making love your husband an issue if truly she has issue of what people here saying she should have tell you or her people should have, Even the rape talk included.
Her brother and mother refusing to amend you guys issue is another red flag.
Especially her brother he suppose to understand you better as a man instead he lied to you that he would speak to her but later he didn't.

Brokeandnolove:
Hi fellas, I will go straight to the point. My girlfriend of over a year hardly ever initiates sex, so sex between us strictly depends on when I make a move. Sometimes it might coincide with when she's Hot and everything goes well. Again I don't like going for more than one round of sex because I hardly cum during the second round till it eventually turns to hard work. She will still be the one that will complain that she's tired. I believe that sex is meant to be enjoyed and not stressful.

Now I am not a freak for sex, and can comfortably go for a week without sex depending on the situation of things between us even though we stay together for now. I don't initiate sex if we are having issues and sometimes she complains that other men come crawling to their women for sex at night after an argument with most times leads to reconciliation but I always lock up as if I am staying with a man thereby making some of our issues linger longer than necessary.

She gets moody each time she's Hot and I don't make a move, I simply told her to initiate sex anytime she wants because with the economic situation on ground sometimes sex is the last thing on my mind.

We had sex yesterday afternoon and later that evening we were gisting and we talked about early morning sex, she pointed out that I hardly initiate early morning sex and I told her it was because she hates being disturbed when sleeping. I proceeded to tell her we will have early morning sex today. Unfortunately I worked all night and slept around 4 am so I couldn't initiate any sex. She woke up moody and angry which made led to an argument that culminated in her leaving the house.

While chatting on WhatsApp she told me not to carry my boring sex life into marriage. So guys is there anything wrong with a lady initiating sex when she wants it I am pretty sure if she initiated sex this morning I wouldn't have refused.

How you guys tek dey manage ogbanje girls dey wonder me sha.
This story remind me of a girl but i put her for where she belong to sha.

No capping before i found out about redpill my heart is so cold for loving unnecessary if i don't see or you show why i should take you 50% serious i back out immediately.
My mental stability is important biko.
Thanks God you've learn your lesson and have the experience.
Now you can go into any relationship or have any girl for your pleasure with your heart at back of your mind.

Such status these days na smile i dey smile to them pregnant goat 🐐 i no like wahala 🤣

workchopNG:
I don't know if this is the right section for this topic, but then, since it's about relationship/friendship, I decided to post it here.

So, I read a rumour of how a young girl who scored 9 As in her WAEC result was poisoned to death. I can't confirm the authenticity of that story, but it took me to memory lane... Maybe, it was her best friend that poisoned her to death out of jealousy. That led me to create this thread.

Back to the topic. “It is better to be alone, than to be in bad company.” – George Washington.

I had my taste of a very bad friendship which lasted for more than 10 years. We met in school (higher institution). He approached me during my first few weeks in school, and we became friends.

He had some good sides, but the bad sides makes me question the good ones. We study and sit together during exam. We share answers codedly in hall, but I'm now thinking he might have been giving me the wrong answers while I was busy supplying him with the right ones.

All of this guy's effort was to have a better result than mine, and to make over 3.0 CGPA which he eventually succeeded at. There are times I could've gotten an A in some of my courses including a carryover, but this guy blocked it and have me got a C. I don't want to go into details.

Many things happened between us until few years ago when he referred me for a job, I got the job and was made the manager. The same company employed him a month later as a line manager. This is where he couldn't hide his true colour anymore and started being a thorn in my flesh in our work place.

Apparently he was pained that he referred me and I got a higher pay and position than he got. After many years of friendship, it was then I found out how dangerous that guy can be. I had to cut off that friendship few months into the job, and I'm never ready to have anything to do with that guy in my life again.

It's surprising how the same guy you dine with, drink with, party with, even travel to their hometown and sleep for days, has always been in competition with you without your knowledge. Such a person can kill out of jealousy.

We have to be careful of the kind of people we keep as friends. The funny thing is that I'm not even the best student while in school, why competing with me instead of the best students? Abi first class no dey sweet you Some people are perhaps and furthermore 😂🤣, even notwithstanding. 🤣😂😂

Una good morning o jare

Jaido P Song E get Reason come to my side 🤣

Which kind wahala be all these.
Shey no be male/Man be that 😒

The imagination of comparing work of 5k of then to Now Job.
Bro am not saying you're saying Nonsense or youre not making but the fact is that these days are harder.
Na prayer everybody dey do now and i pray things work out for us all.

What kind of funny pic be this 😂

See this one he dey talk as if he / goodfathers and ancestors no dey among those spoil Nigeria to this present stage and probably future.

Cunning bastard

Wait what Wetin i just find out

KingEarnest:
Seconded.

Manipulation at it peak 🤣

FuckYou:
That mental part to me is the most important.

the mental will tell you your weaknesses and how to better improve and you'll learn very fast and face your fears and you'll manage girls/women better.

Mental strength is what I believe in most.

Reading helps, watching serious and realistic movies too helps, listening to understand helps too. Taking time daily to think about your past life decisions helps too.

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The way i value mentality ehn
I even post about on my WhatsApp like two to three in a week.
That is really fuckin importanta

Kipaji:
https://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAloneWomen/comments/12ktp1i/i_want_to_be_a_stay_at_home_wife/

This is the last one. I'll stop here as you probably get the point. Women are just people, human beings.

Your reason or plan for posting all these can't work on us okay.
You should posting all these nonsense.

zenithgroup:
Do you mind sharing?

i will but later

logicalhumour:
@abba190, I just mentioned you advising you on "sexual discipline", etc. I noticed I didn't write on how exactly to achieve this, and nobody else told you how to. Everybody just went like "discipline yourself bla bla bla"

Well, I wanted to withhold this info until you tell me how she took your 5k. For some reason, I'm interested in knowing. I'm dead serious lol

As for how to achieve sexual discipline, I'll tell you something now that you won't find anywhere on the internet, and something I have personally experimented with to give results in the past:

Here:
Get yourself a girlfriend, and NEVER have sex with her (just kissing and other hot stuff, but not sex). Never, I repeat, never have sex with her. Doing so, try as much as possible not to spend anything on her. You can also systematically guilt her into not asking you for aids since you're not having sex with her. Also, the relationship shouldn't last tooo long. If she doesn't break things up, you must after a while. It is also VERY important to this procedure that hot kissings and touchings happen between you two (but no sex).

This is just one method of achieving sexual discipline as a man. I have other undocumented approaches. I might provide more details if you want

OG Level

Kipaji:
The redpill is woman worship. I had to go monk to see it. I am thankful for taking this journey.

Alright stay bless.

Kipaji:
I am not redpill anymore. Going 5 months and a half without porn, sex, masturbation, and redpills showed me that the redpill is a scam, a distraction, and an obstruction to joyfulness.

I will help my son being masculine by encouraging him to find, be, and stand for himself, not by teaching him redpill tactics.

So because of pussy you stop being redpill and worshiping daughters of jezebel

IAmRoot:
It's not. The real capacity is like 2000mAh or so

How Pls explain

jetoraphy:
It's 3,500mah per 1 battery

Oops i meant 35,000mAh

luminouz:
I've had same experience as yours. That's why I laugh at people who said redpillers hate women. I don't hate them but understand them. I have been helped severally by women when my own gender turned me down. Not to say men never helped me at all. But I've received help from more women than men. If not for a lady, I would have died in 2016 in Abuja when my classmate(who was married) suddenly decided not to host me after previously agreeing(said his wife disagreed) when I already got to Abuja park. I knew no one in Abuja and I was turned down brutally by 3 different churches(after talking to their pastors).

I called Oge who I met online on NL and had never seen and she came to my aid. She called two yoruba guys in Abuja and they rejected me. She tried to take me to her house but her parents refused because I'm Yoruba (just by hearing my name on her phone, even though I look like Ibo). Oge kept going from house to house in that area looking for where I would sleep, ignoring her parents' calls to come home. I later found refuge in a church owned by an ibo prophetess around 1am. She took care of me till I left for my interview that day.

I finished late at the interview and Oge sneaked me back into her parents house when they were at work. I was in her room for three days , eating good food and fuqin good pussy. I was notified after 3 months that I passed the interview (a scholarship) and my greatest regret was losing my phone with Oge's number and not repaying that prophetess for her kindness when I went back to Abuja. That is just one of many help I've had from people/women and other tribes/races, which is why racism/tribalism is dead to me.

That would be really painful 😣
I have been helped by female but my strong head no let me appreciate her instead i always ignore her on several occasions whenever she tried to talk to me.

luminouz:
He says 'love sex too much', not women too much..

You can actually love sex too much with just one woman or a few women(1-3). I don't see anything bad in that but what's bad is loving and having sex too much with different women(100-20000)... Shows a lack of comtrol

For me, I can't love the two too much because too much of a thing is a begining of disaster for the doer or lover

zenithgroup:
You're so on point, which is why it's important to have life mentor and coach, He will be the one ordering your step ...

People in my circle know me as no chill guy 🤣 and not that am not a cool but see being cold 🥶 make you live a better without pleasing anyone which might later become problems for you in nearest future.

Dexter08:
Dear men,

Having and maintaining frame cannot be overemphasized enough.

We were awashed with the news of a young man this week called Killaboi. Man lost his frame(probably never had one), murdered his girlfriend and now he is on the run.

One moment of madness, all his dreams, all his goals, all that potential dashed and now Killaboi is in the drain of regret.

To have frame is to be in control of your emotions. Given women biological make up, they are likely to get a pass for being emotive but for men no such passes, as society would not hesitate to punish an unframed man.

An unframed man is irrational. An unframed man let his fists do the talking since he cannot bring his woman to order. An unframed man is tyrannical. An unframed man is currently like the weather we have now, hot today, cold and wet tomorrow.

An unframed man is a chatter box. An unframed man cannot take rejection with grace.

Unframed men are the reasons feminist are armed with weapons that has decimated and emasculated men today.

Unlike an unframed man, a framed man inspires, a framed man is respected with his lady subservient. A framed man is confident, he is rational and will not hesitate to run 440 from a woman who can make him break frame.

Dear men I write to you this day that to maintain frame, to keep emotions in check is a good thing. It is one that would probably save your life.

Silence and walking away has been one effective weapon to bring emotions under control and it has prevented quite a few from sending someone's daughter 6ft under.

Dear men, it is your responsibility to maintain frame at all times. Never give yourself to any moment of madness.

For a man without frame is violent and tyrannical. He is a man society would happily cheer for his utter plunge.

Maintaining is not easy thing bro.
The one i see daily from the girls in my area,work area and workplace even sometime inside commercial buses.
Aside all these maintaining is about every gender not just only girls.
Even your friend self will want to test your abilities.

Karlifate:


The illusion of sex is what Ayra Starr is using to market her music.

Wear skimpy dresses that's almost revealing your coochie, then a lot of thirsty men would be dying & do anything to see it bare.


Very smart gal, I must say

She's a Gemini ♊, I'm not surprised.


I saw a post few days ago, where she dressed "decently" to see her grandparents.

In reality when i see such girls or ladies i will just Smile or Shake head that na Mumu this dey find

Jb95:
Who is stupid enough to carry you on a date?
I want to see that man, cuz he deserve a world record in STUPIDITY

It a stupid for you to replying this girl don't tell me you don't know her.

Nyascobar1414:
Women dont love, women will never love a man from another woman genuinely, if there is no shit for her to benefit,she wont want to marry you.

Men are meant to be used(marriage)

My Nigga

What do you expect from her before you think she love you.
My brother move on and face your hustle.

Wahala for who dey wish am death