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RaDaZaBaNa:
apparently my last paragraph about you is very wrong....

Like i stated, it is merely my honest opinion and i dont hope it changes you.

And again thanks for the insult...plus would love to see your a makeup free or less makeup face ..

Enjoy your life young lady. It yours and yours only. We live it to the voters to judge..

Cheers dear

The truth is that, if we rate these girls by what they post or their diaries which is like a confession to a priest. Then we have failed in our judgement, have checked out other girls and to be sincere apart from romantic talks,they have written nothing educational or something to test their I.Q so let's not go there. So let's leave it to their facial appearance,you talked about makeup. I have seen mysticgal's picture and honey trust me those are no heavy makeup buh just a simple touch any everyday girl will do given the opportunity,which means the girl is fine without makeup. For me mysticgal is the one and I will vote her cos she is the best.

Teechawa:
Are you alright?

Are you lost?

This man juju strong ooooo,probably his life is stuck to a snake. Find the snake,kill it and let's see what happens

O boy!!!!! Lola's gene make sense for dis children body. Just imagine if peter married a dark girl, e children go just be like mercy Johnson children.#just saying my mind oo,no offence#

mysticgal:
What kind of milk?, because we have diary milk, full cream and the rest. So which is best?
Cc.Lalasticlala
Tjiskii
And MissyB3
See fine topic

There’s a type of milk for every lifestyle. Whole milk contains at least 3.25% milk fat (M.F.), which is lighter than cream but has more body than lower fat milk. When a portion of the milk’s fat is removed, it becomes partly skimmed milk, such as 2% milk and 1% milk, depending on the quantity removed. Skim milk is virtually fat-free, with only about 0.1% fat. For me I take skim milk because of my lifestyle, so girl its all about you and whar works for you. Always check the content of your milk to check if it suits your lifestyle.

Read well,unless followed by a lot of activities. It is assumed that people have a lot of work to do in the morning. Drinking a cup of warm milk at night is very nice and if you want to take milk in the morning its not a bad idea because you have a lot of work to do.

Take a glass, before u sleep.

Ezedon:
I CAN NEVER KEEP A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

Its all about choice, if you can't then don't.

Long distance relationship creates room for cheating but if you must date at a distance then you have to trust your partner with all your heart knowing fully well that he/she might be misbehaving where they are but you choose to overlook it cos you truly love the person..

I love your comment dear, its a nice technique buh so had to do.

I think it’s about time I shared some learnings I learnt during my long distance relationship. Originally, I swore off ever participating in something so difficult. I think the ease of the relationship at it’s beginnings is what kept me going. When time came to part ways, it hurt but I thought it’d be worth it. Here are the lessons I learned thus far:

Lesson #1: Don’t lose yourself.

This is a lesson I continue to learn despite the relationship I’m in. I have a tendency to lose myself in others, friends or otherwise. If you find yourself changing things for another person, you’ve already drifted from one of the true foundations of a successful partnership. If you are confident in who you are, if you have your own life outside of the relationship, you have a strong position. I don’t mean for this to sound like a competition though. The key to a successful relationship, long distance especially. is finding the balance. Know who you are and stick to it.

Lesson #2: Set an end date.

Sometimes the hardest thing about being apart for so long is not knowing when you will see your loved one again. If you have a date in mind, there’s always something to look forward to. You have a goal and can make plans accordingly. If there is no end date, communicate plans to set a date sooner rather than later.

Lesson #3: Go with your gut.

We all know that aching feeling deep inside that says whether you are making the right decision. It’s so critical to listen to it when you are making big (or even little) decisions apart. I constantly needed validation that the decisions I made were the right ones and I would seek input from others. What I should have done was recognize that I had the answer all within myself and it was my gut screaming. Trust that feeling and go with it.

Lesson #4: Beware the scenery change.

My long distance relationship came with a variety of scenery changes all over the world. That was a bonus but sometimes, it was not an ideal location for one of us. When we were together in places like Portland, we had some of the most amazing summers of our lives. It was hard to duplicate that and live up to a dream-turned-reality. I recently moved to Christchurch, New Zealand, a broken city with not much appeal for the average American. My partner was unhappy there (or rather would have chosen another locale) and sometimes his unhappiness was contagious. Know that no matter where you go, you have to WANT to be there.

Lesson #5: Don’t rush things.

It’s important to take things slowly. We were forced to make some big, legal decisions and things were rushed at times, ultimately leading to some unwanted pressure on the relationship. That’s the most difficult and un-romantic thing about dating a foreigner– you have to think about things in terms of legalities and sometimes rush the relationship where you aren’t prepared to do so yet. So don’t. Do what’s best for you, regardless of time.

Lesson #6: Self love still applies.

You must realize that finding happiness comes from within and no one else can provide that for you. That’s what makes your identity so important. If you focus on your needs (mind you, this is different than being selfish or conceited), you will be happier. It also puts less pressure on your partner to provide that love and support if you already have it for yourself. Lastly, it gives your partner confidence that you aren’t depending on the relationship for your happiness.

Lesson #7: Find friends who understand your woes.

When you move countries, join a meetup group, specifically one with fellow newcomers. You may be lucky like me and find some close friends this way who are in the same boat as you. As the saying goes, misery loves company. There is comfort in having friends who have been through it too or are going through it with you and you can chat over wine about the tough times behind you or ahead. Stay in touch with them! They’ll become friends for life.

Lesson #8: Over communicate.

Lots of things get lost in distance.Even over video chats, I often left the call confused as to how my partner truly felt. We made an effort to share emails with videos, photos, and even sent hand-written letters or packages to compensate for the lack of being physically together. We tried apps like Avocado (specifically for these purposes). We weren’t extreme in the sense that we had to talk to each other every day. That, and our time zones were SUPER different, making it hard to really schedule these things. Try hard to keep in touch often because it also means there is less stress to fit all the “heavy” stuff in during the times you can finally catch up on Skype. Knowing that you can’t always just sit and have a coffee means a lot gets lost. Make up for it in other ways.

Lesson #9: Be present.

Change is inevitable. Knowing that you will be apart (or together) soon means you could be drifting your thoughts toward those times instead of taking advantage of your time together (or apart). Stay present as much as possible and enjoy what you do have. Nothing ever lasts forever.

I nominate
Www.nairaland. com/mysticgal

I Nominate Mysticgal,she has what it takes to be Miss nairaland. Vote for her,na only she look like say she get brain n beauty

My guy don chop better money ooo,see as e leg don fair pass e face

Anything coming from China na fake oooooooo

He is still alive?

Ok............ ................................................................................,..................................................................................................................................And so? Nigeria's economy is still suffering from Inflation!!!!!!!!!! Mtcheeeeeew

Don't agree with You OP,this is simply generalization and assumption.Every girl has a nice way of telling her guy she wants sex,she must not go through this rigorous steps stated here.