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SatoshiX:
And so it begins. The end of the evilI reign has come.

The only evil regime in the middle East is Israel. I can mention numerous atrocities committed by Israel and still committing with evidence while you will struggle to mention just one atrocity committed by Iran with evidence. But I get it, that's what years of brainwashing do to people

That's what the coward Netanyahu wanted all along

SINisSIN:
He is not serious. 5 years? What was he expecting? She no go knack for five years?

Besides, the wife has already moved on reason why she kept the pregnancy. Women are not dull like that to the extent of keeping a pregnancy when everyone knows your husband is not around.

Five years is not too long to wait for someone struggling and still finding his feet abroad, you think say it is easy?
If she knack, must she be careless as to get pregnant?
They have two kids together and he's sending money to them. She should have used her sense

Dbegining:
The president is being an hypocrite.

What he is doing to Gov. Adeleke is the same thing he acussed Obasanjo of doing to him.

We have a dictator as a president. Only that his own dictatorship is like a sissy when it comes to herdsmen issues.

When PDP was controlling local government in Osun state, why did the governor refuse to let local government open accounts for receiving allocations from CBN monthly? Now, he's crying that local government will finally have their own separate accounts

Kobojunkie:
The topic is on why people resort to abandoning their children altogether after a divorce... not on what the adults do with or to each other. Using the squabble between the adults as an excuse not to admit to abandoning the children is silly, at best.

And people are telling you why

Kobojunkie:
Stop rambling! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Outside of the courts, while the mother may be the primary custodian, the father is meant to remain the secondary custodian — he is expected to at least provide support in that case. However, the courts have the power to give custody to the parent it decides is of best fit for the child. A man who wishes to gain custody could easily take his case before the courts. However, the vast majority of fathers don't even bother taking the issue to the courts and simply walk away, abandoning the children altogether to their mothers. So, how can you continue arguing that this isn't what it literally represents?

2 . Nonsense! We are asking why you chose to abandon your children because of their mother. Why do your children have to suffer for the sake of your ego?

You are losing your shit.
You do know that you are really annoying but we still manage to engage you as maturely as possible?

Kobojunkie:
1. Not being able to see them is proof that your money is not being used for their care? Oh, wow!

How would you know if they're malnourished?

2. Oh! Yet more reasons why the children should be abandoned without concrete evidence... I see.

If you behave like they're not mine, may be they are not mine

3. So, the support for the kids can wait until after the adults resolve their personal issues, abi? In the meantime, the children might as well starve or die.

Adult who is using kids to take revenge on their dad, lol. The man is better wise up

Kobojunkie:
Personalize the kids? Why not simply admit that this is the same as abandonment, since it takes two to make those kids?

You decide to have custody since by law, you're the primary custodian. If I'm given the choice, I know I would love to be too. But since I can't, you shouldn't deny me the opportunity to see them regularly if they are mine and I'm doing right by them.

Kobojunkie:
Na una way... attack the messenger in attempts to avoid broaching the questions asked.

I'm not attacking you, I'm calling your attention to what everyone is is calling your attention to.

Kukutente23:
Israel when after Hamas
Gaza is just a part of Palestine and it's not even the capital so why will Israel single it out if not that it's the habitation of Hamas
Civilians were given ultimatum to evacuate which some did and others refused
Nobody is making any noise. I'm just calling out the hypocrisy of those who kept in crying about genocide in Gaza but have gone mute now

Evacuate from where to where when every single building in Gaza has been reduced to rubbles? Patients were even bombed inside makeshift hospitals. So, what are you yapping about?

Kobojunkie:
1. Ah! So, the father feels punished by her action, and in retaliation, he targets the child?

2. A father giving support to his own child should depend on whether the child is being used as a pawn or not?

I disagree.
You personalise the kids, you bear the burden alone

Nnamdipapa:
That is the heights of irresponsibility. I can never neglect my kids or ex wife no matter what. I would rather die than neglect my kids.

lol. Wait until you meet frustration pro max

Kobojunkie:
1. What a convenient excuse to shirk one's obligations towards one's own kids.

2. So, not being sure, is reason enough to WITHHOLD resources meant to go towards supporting the child until adulthood?

3. Ladies love to do what you claim, so the men take it on themselves to use the ladies as a convenient excuse to, altogether, abandon their children, right?

4. The husband then took the opportunity to abandon the children — flesh and blood— in response?

If you can't see the kids you're spending on, definitely your money is not being spent on your kids and that should call for concern on the man's part.
If the mother hid the kids from their dad despite doing his financial responsibility on the kids, may be they're not his kids. Because we need to talk about why the kids are being hidden from him.

loyaltygame:
To me no good reason to neglect your kids,
the kids are innocent.
You must take good care of them, even if your ex is denying you access to them, that cannot stop your responsibility as a father,you can be sending money to her account for future purpose.
When the kids grown your record will be visible.

It may be erased, it will be erased

Kobojunkie:
1. You gave them the best life until you decided not to give them the best life anymore? Do you know how a child would interpret what you just said there? 😏😏😏

2. The kids are your life, yet you felt they ought to be denied this former best life you claim you once gave them because you had a falling out with the woman? 😏😏😏

3. I have attempted suicide myself, many times, but it was never over a kid or anyone else. So, yeah! 😏😏😏

4. Sounds to me like your depression is over the loss of what you used to have and not really over concern for your kids. If you really felt bad about the kids, wouldn't the first thing to do be to ensure they are eating well and living well wherever they may be? I am just asking out loud cause it sure seems to me like your depression and all is for some personal pity party — directed inwards — and not really out of real concern for the kids themselves. 😏😏😏😏

5. You don't blame her, but the kids are currently paying for it? I mean, the fact that you cut off funding of their formerly best life is proof that the ones suffering are the kids in this case.😏😏😏😏

These stories you are telling me here now, can you actually look your daughter or son in the eye today and repeat all of this as a reason for why they should no longer expect to get the best life from you? For real, the way many of you dey process issues concerning your flesh and blood na.... very terrible heart indeed. 😏😏

You are like radio broadcast, you only talk but doesn't listen.

Kobojunkie:
1. Imagine me as a child asking you why my dad should withhold his responsibilities towards me, his child, in the case that he is not allowed to see me? Do I stop needing to be fed, catered for, nurtured, etc., because, for some reason, he is not allowed to see me? Why should the child have to suffer because two adults are not mature enough to set aside their issues?

Why should your mum do that to your dad to begin with? To punish him, right?

2. My concern has never been about the ladies or the men's, but about the responsibility of parents to their children. So, stop bringing up meaningless issues between two equally immature, vindictive adults— withholding support from your child because the mother is not cooperating with you is a vindictive move against the child— and focus more on the fact that the abandoned child is caused to suffer needlessly, all because of what?

It is up to which one of the parents who is custody of the kids to decide if the kids should be used as pawn or not.

NothingDoMe:
Watched a video of the Jets in action in Tehran! It was like a movie! I was on the edge of my seat screaming!

Iran was firing anti-aircraft rounds and heat seeking missiles. The jets were using flares as counter measures to divert the heat seeking missiles.

Amazing!!!!!

And whose crying is echoing more now between Iran and israel? Ehn?

Helinuse:
Because of those countries, Israel is pretending to be moral. Take those countries off and then you will see that Israel will turn not only Iran to dust, but will join Pakistan in it and refer to it as preemptive strike.

You don’t know that it is just intelligence holding them back. But they are more s a v a g e than m u s l i m s.

How far now?
I heard that Netanyahu is going mad nowhere that Trump has mentioned two weeks to find peaceful resolution instead of joining the war.
Israel's weapons, bombs, warplanes and funds come from USA because Israel is USA outpost in the middle East. Go and read some stuffs on the net

DomPerignon:
I love how karma is biting you guys down in that shit creek you call holy land.

The fate of the Palestinians to whom you have been committing genocide awaits you.

As you claim that Israel is above international law in the name of self preservation of its stolen land, you don't and should never approach the UN or ICC you have threatened its members with death .

They're trapped now. The only entity Israel can call upon now is USA

Kukutente23:
When Israel went after Hamas, you all started shouting genocide
Iran is hitting residential areas and no one is hearing cries of genocide from hypocrites
Even the clown at the ICC is quiet

Israel went after Gaza and its entire population, you're a liar.
Besides, did our shouting of genocide for the last two years stop Israel war crime? Why should your own shouting matter now?
May be you should listen to the news from Iran to know exactly how many civilians in Iran have been killed by Israel since last week

Port8080:
While Iran is focused on destroying Israel, Isreal's only focus is to take out the "terrorists" from Iran, as such their missiles are aimed at their top generals and their nuclear plant, rather than the people.

Israel this time around is using her civilian population as human shields

Watianoengineer:
When I remember the ikeja cantonement bomb blast of the early 2000's I can't but smh at the ignorance of people cheering this war. You are in the comfort of your homes taking sides. Interview the average isreali or Iranian citizen right now and they will wish to have peace over the unpredictable bombardment. In war every one loses.

Isreal's strike might be precision strikes but citizens of Isreal who are victims of constant rain of missiles know the damage they are experiencing.

Isreal struck first by attacking Iran, so Iran in my opinion has the right to defend itself.

When hamas struck Isreal on October 7, Isreal defended itself by going after them.

Above all I pray peace returns to every part of the world.

You don't refer to two years of genocide and complete destruction as defence.
BTW: Israel had attacked Gaza and other Palestinian territories countless number of times before Hamas October 7th attack

MIKOLOWISKA:
how

You think lgbtqia+ is stable
Or allowing crime is stable

This is not about homosexuality. That one has come to stay in America, he can't do anything about it. Not that I support it, but he's helpless about what has been institutionalised. Whatever little change he achieved now will be likely reversed by another president after him.
And about the crime, you think deporting immigrant will automatically solve crime issue in America? How far now? Has crime rate gone down?
But the real issue is not about those

Wickedfact:
Stop defending incompetence. Iran is a big disgrace.

Iran is the superpower of the middle East. Israel and Netanyahu can only cause trouble only when he Knows that he has backing of US president and by extension, UK support.
Have you seen Trump tweet? Have you seen Netanyahu wailing and calling for support? That's what I'm talking about

RockyEyo:
But u agree with me that it is there ?
Wether once in a while or not ..... a plumber, carpenter, iron bender etc can get that from u with ease ..... if u like call it contract if u do the right math u will see that those guysake money wether they know it or not

Not consistent like what Op wants, that's the point. If it is consistent, all of them would be living like a king instead of struggling everyday like the rest of the population. And any good income that's not consistent is not something really great

RockyEyo:
What or where did u invest 30m into that's would be so poor, cos even nah tbill u would still have a smile

I guess you didn't understand my comment. She wants 600k monthly on investment of 500k. I didn't say 30m naira doesn't bring 20k daily. But I did say how much does 30m naira investment bring daily.
Tbill rarely give above 10parsent annually. What's 10parsent of 500k? 50k naira in one yeah that's less than 5k a month.
What is 10parsent of 30m? 3m naira yeahly. That's less 300k a month. Does that compare to 20k daily on 500k investment? No. That's what I meant

43Ronin:
Israel wicked abeg cos in Islam if a female kafir kill you, no paradise for you

If no be wickedness, how u go send a female on a journey that now turned out to be journey of no return

TheStranger:
Iran dictator regime was always wishing death to America and Israel, for peace to reign, the regime has to be dismantled

Wishing deaths is now a greater sin than actual causing deaths. Too many brainwashed on Nairaland

She's deluded just like Nigerian Christians and Nairalanders supporting Israel believing that aggression and terrorism is a form of defence against imaginary attacks

Israel, a rogue state, said Pakistani official

Asebaba1:
Distribution of bread from bakery to sellers (serve as retailer) can give you such profit with minimal risk. Distribution of drinks too can give you such amount on daily bases.

Yes, she can make reasonable amount of profit from it daily but She will still need patience to grow customers base.

binary123:
if you think the 20k daily
profit for 500k investment is much.what will you have to say with some people with zero capital investment yet take home more than 20k daily for daily mineal jobs ?

Menial job can't give you 20k everyday in Nigeria. Where is even that job? That can only be once in a while thing