₦airaland Forum

mrvitalis:
Why not address the root cause

It should be addressed, I support. But that shouldn't give people like Simon Ekpa free pass

dkidd:
At all... If ur eyes are truly open U will see the real reason and motive behind her staying there. She was definitely gaining a lot but U probably didn't know what it was. Most women are users and will use U even when U are at Ur lowest and some of us men think they're being loyal staying when no one else was available lol baba check am well the real reason for her staying isn't to ur benefit but hers

Some of them could really smell potentials in men which they themselves are lacking. All what they need to do is to patiently wait for few years to see you transform. It is a prediction game

Wananonly:
The garri was all he had to offer her and she stayed bro. Giving him cooking and cleaning and doggy and monkey. Whereas people were who would have given her more if she followed them.

She didn't buy the garri but what she sacrificed was 10x more.

I don't care bro. Let the simpsults rain on me.

Below quote should be enough to cure your Simpson symptoms. No need to rain on you, you just need our support to liberate. No need to lose another brother to Simpson disease.

HawkTuahGirl:
Most Nigeria women struggle with you because they don't have better options.

dkidd:
Never

My wife is an example. She has near absolutely free pass

Mariangeles:
What was she gaining when the guy didn't have much to offer in the first place? Waste of time?

Thankfully, sensible ladies don't do that.
They just patiently wait for y'all to blow, then come for them, while they build themselves in the meantime.
And come for them, you all will eventually.
You have no choice.

Kudos to the ones that are holding fort though.

I wonder why baby mamas and single mothers litters everywhere. May be women are now impregnating women

dkidd:
I hope U know there's a whole lot to gain from someone asides material things...

Speaking of those waiting for guys to blow lol.. I even prefer not to be indebted to anyone woman cos Una wahala na premium. You will never rest from the "I made U who U are" just because she managed to come through a few times forgetting all U have done for her too. But then if she's worth it like she doesn't remind me at the slightest or tries to take advantage of my lowly situation at the time, any man will move mountains for that woman who really sacrificed for him and believed in him when no one did .

They don't understand that majority of the men don't forget.

Mariangeles:
And why would you expect any lady to do that?
Is that her responsibility?
Is she your mummy?
Does she owe you that or anything for that?
It's the entitlement mentality for me.

Y'all better wake up and smell the coffee, because this manipulation will not work.
Ladies are becoming wiser and investing in themselves instead. They have families they'd rather support, than strangers in the name of boyfriend. 🙄
No time to waste on nonsense!

Men are still the number one sponsors of women lifestyles, any day any time. Majority of you are still low income earners anywhere in the world!

Great question! When he was drinking garri, did she offered him pounded yam with turkey?
Staying with him is not enough, what did you offer?

nairalanda1:
Nigerians should realize that Ekpa is a feature, of bad governance from the local government to aso rock.

He has appeared because many of us don't ask our leaders questions. We praise the ones we love and abuse the ones we hate, and in the process avoid solving our problems.

And all our leaders engage in silly populism and tribalism to keep us fighting.

Let's wake up.

Nigeria leaders are bad, selfish, corrupt, wicked, we know. But dissatisfied citizens abroad raising and sponsoring terrorism back home shouldn't be supported, we have enough problems already

fredoooooo:
Ekpa..Abeg send am to Nigeria

Make Nigerian government use am do experiments. His trial will last decades just like his counterpart, court trials without judgement. Governments will just be using them as relay baton

marv1:
Let the trail begin. If you say you won't allow people to rest you too will not rest.

Nah so now. No rest for the wicked, Kanu, Evans, Simon, and the rest

mrvitalis:
Another one bite the dust? Really?

As a nation we should be wondering why a man who won medals for Nigeria turned around to demand break up of Nigeria

There are many many more coming up like ikpa, many more like kalu unborn

We should be wondering indeed if he was only asking for breakup. But he was instigating south east armed criminal gangs against security agents, politicians, traditional rulers and masses. Killing people and kidnapping people like it is nothing

Good. Late is better than never. Finnish government showed no concern for his terroristic activities for too long

I can't remember, e don tey! The need for earpiece before FM radio can work on many phones is a turn off for many people

Paragonpric:
Not true...my cousin left her valuable rich husband based on infidelity issues, her husband cheated on her. She only asked him one question.. ""if I cheated on you in our marriage will you forgive and accept me back?"" He couldn't answer.

He judged himself. He could have lied to save his marriage. And if his wife later cheat on him and he finds out, it would have been up to him to decide what to do

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now.

Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

Either she listens to your explanation, withhold having sex with you for now, go for tests with you, rebuke you, punish you and slowly and gradually forgive you or she divorce you. Life still continues. Nah learning the hard way be dat

hisexcellency34:
Whoever Aregbe endorses will win in Osun
In Ekiti, the puppet called Oyebamiji will be reelected

Really? How come I'm in Osun state and I didn't know this fact? ? The same Aregbe that doesn't even know where he is going!

Na registered voter's cards update we need now

Did he now become millionaire through money rituals or he was just selling human parts to high paying customers? Do we still believe money ritual is real?

ivandragon:
And you can defend it because you registered the people and know all about thier poverty and vulnerability status, right?

It is not your or my job to identify poor and vulnerable people but you must know that there would be a way to do that. That is the job of the local government employees, they were in charge. And how do you identify poor and vulnerable than to send people to go to their midst (CDAs)?
I'm not defending Tinubu or Buhari or APC but my point is that don't rubbish what you don't understand based on the kind of mindset you already have towards the system.

Nwaikpe:
Thank you, Elon.

ELON MUSK is now an American household name.

You have done a lot for America. God bless you.

Most especially from government workers who have lost their jobs to farmers whose labourers have been deported and now can't harvest their produces to consumers who are struggling to get alternative products at high costs

mactoni91:
Trump wey no stable.

Very soon, he'll have issues with Benjamin Netanyahu.

But i trust Isreal, they don't mind severing their relationship with the US to defend its people and state.

You need education on this. USA is the one funding Israel's genocide, even funding Israel herself. Almost 100% of bullets, bombs and funds being used by Israel's in this campaign of extermination of Palestinians come from USA. So, severing relationship with USA is 100% impossible

kushme:
Typically, speaking from what i have seen, several times. A man with a gov' appointment started stealing in order to make his growing family happy. The stealing ways of the appointed man would now affect and make a lot of families unhappy.

You don't need "growing family" as an excuse to steal, people who are not married are stealing too when they have opportunity.

Can people be compatible or coorperate for that long if they don't have the same interests? I doubt. You want to talk about sci-fi and Yamal of Barca while she wants to talk about Verydarkman and latest celebrity weddings, marriage and divorce.
I hope she gets the piece of your mind for you guys to live peacefully.

I believe that one can find happiness, companion and peace of mind in a partner. We struggle with these three virtues daily from external to internal forces. So, finding one person to give you all three is an angel.

Marriage is a continuous work even when all the needs or requirements are met, no perfect marriage

ivandragon:
Very obvious...

Majority of those that even got were the cronies of apc and other political office holders.

Those are the ones that come online to deceive themselves because of crumbs and corruption.

You can't defend this allegation. Those who benefited registered through Community Development Associations both under Buhari and Tinubu

infohenry:
They are intentional about it, nobody in Nigeria have benefited from this scheme, it is money marked out to settle party men and women.

Even the report didn't say nobody benefited from it. Just that people in charge are diverting and stealing larger percentage

Immatex:
This picture can’t tell the complete story.

But this is does not look like a mistake.

I would assume this is an old structure undergoing a makeover and the contractor believes knocking down the existing stairs will weaken the the structural integrity of the building and so prefers this design that looks like attempt to retain structural stability.

It’s also possible that the under stairs will get knocked down later.

So this photograph can’t make for an informed opinion.

They won't knock it down because they already use its pillars for the new one

Mekuseh11:
Are you due for marriage because you are 40 Or because you genuinely want a companion and life around you?
Sometimes we allow societal standards determine our course of action. Don't be pressured into anything.
Your priority now should be getting a stable source of income and then you can find a partner to build with ( there is someone out there for you).
Afterwards you can get married and still enjoy your life.

You can't rule age out of marriage and child bearing. He wants a "companion and life around him" and it is getting late (40 years) to start because of lack of money.

Mekuseh11:
When you pay attention to the intent of a word of advice, then you can gauge if it's from a place of care, concern or disguised mockery.

" Go and marry" is far from what it looks like, it has become a source of pain, caricature and a reminder of a looming failure.
The pressure takes a toll on people.
The sigh of relief that comes after marriage is mostly from a place of freedom against the society, instead of a genuine path to a beautiful next chapter.

Alaye go and marry if your age, finance and status is okay for marriage. Happiness, companionship and your peace of mind can also be found in the woman you chose to marry

funshint:
Read what I wrote very well so that you can comprehend. So if the stupid Chinese tells you to put your hand inside fire you'll do it? But trust Nigerians we have tricks to things like this. This might not be his first time doing it, the Chinese observed that he's good and fast at pulling things out of the clog so naturally they'll call him to do what he's skilled at doing when occasion calls for it not minding the risk. But this time he was unlucky. I've seen Nigerians risking their lives at some of this factories, you'll wonder if we truly value our lives?! This might not be the case but I'm just painting a scenerio. But all I'm trying to say is we should learn to value and love our lives. Really sad and unfortunate.

I don't buy any of your assumptions. The machine got stuck, it was possible for anyone to assume that it had been switched off except the operator. Besides, those Chinese, Lebanese, Indians treat our people working in their factories like subhumans, I haven't seen any Nigerian who worked there and had good story to tell about everything in there from the pay to working hours to working condition.
The Chinese probably wanted to catch fun.
This is a loss of life, you don't blame the victim who was asked to do certain thing, you blame the animal who was supposed to switch off the machine before sending someone inside it unless you are of the blacks out there who look down on themselves and blame themselves for everything because of their own skin colour, aka inferiority complex

Mannyq124:
Who told you, you’d be lonely at old age when you have money? Haven’t you seen how people (old and young) rally around old rich people? If you have money at whatever age, you can never be lonely. There is always something fun to do with money regardless of the age. Don’t let anybody tell you otherwise

You are deceiving yourself. Money can't buy you people at old age when you serious health challenge. And what if you are not rich because richness is not guaranteed?

MONEY247:
I work where I come across old people....
Mehn I don't want to grow old....

It's another measure of suffering....
As long as I fulfill purpose and attain destiny....

I am okay

What's your fear, poverty or poor/deteriorating health? Because you used pictures of poor old people and that of old people with health challenges. Be specific

Racoon:
The importance of a automobile chassis can never be over emphasized. A good vehicle take a good engine and chassis. Forget the body build. Therefore, when thinking of a good vehicle take good note of the chassis first.

To change the chassis of my minibus now will cost me nothing less than 600k. No chassis, no vehicle