₦airaland Forum

yarimo:
According to majority of Nigerians voters

Tinubu is the least loved Nigerian at the moment

Lol. We go see

Love800:
It doesn't matter. The main thing is, your children are already adult before old age will kill you finally. And having money to train and supply to their needs is another important thing too.

It does, it definitely does. Even the psychological effects on your kids won't be a joke.

Wealthoptulent:
LIFE here is DIFFERENT here, TAXES on cars n likes are HIGH even after purchasing, so rather to keep paying huge on purchased CARS that they drive once a while (u cant drive alll cars at once) all year ROUND. they dont see that as PART of good TREAT, dey eat GOOD, dress well and own JEWELRIEs and perfumes , properties are what dey spend well on, for CARS nanah especially MIDDLE AGED n old ones.... only the younger ones and IMMIGRANTS show off

Like I said, I'm not a fan of wasteful spending. So, having too many cars is out of the question but a CEO of large company or a dollar millionaire shouldn't be frugal to the extent of using "using cheap and mid luxury car" because of the so called tax. Some things just don't make sense. One or three needed decent cars for your family use and their taxes can't definitely can't bankrupt you if you have such money

Love800:
Man's hustle is so much. Atleast by 49, a hard-working man suppose to have a good bank account for settling down and starting a family. Why the rush? Atleast by 75, most of your kids must have reach 20. If you die, your wife will take over from where you stop!

The age gap is just too wide. Imagine your first born getting admission at the age of 20 and you as a dad can't attend because you're either too old or too weak health wise

brain54:
This kind wound dey kill soldier...?

Infection for one. Two, he was still on the battlefield when he recorded which means that another bullet could still get him after the recording.

Wealthoptulent:
he dey JONZE, NIGERIANS, AFRICANS are the same, they think BING CAR na BIG MAN! but i sit near EUROPEAN CEOs, Millionaires on CENTRAL LINE n ELIZABETH lines, you would never KN OW who they are they CODE a lot, 65% of dem drives CHEAP and mid luxury cars (not all ) but u see AFRICANS on FORBES DEBT LIST ehn! aseju po

What is the essence of having too much money but still can't spend decently on yourself? How would you even be able to assist people around you when you, yourself can't even spend it on yourself? Sorry, I don't see any moral lesson in there. I'm not a fan of wasteful spending but millionaires in dollars using "cheap and mid luxury cars", what is the lesson? At the end of the day, they would name cat or dog as their heir

ogahshtu:
Check very carefully, the pilot was a terrorist with hard black spot on the forehead

Your parents taught you this trick, right?

Kobicove:
How is the way to go?

Why should a patron pay to get a bag to carry the stuff purchased in an establishment?!

Because government has banned it and its usage now come with a fine. The solution is to look for alternative. Many developed countries already banned it and their citizens have adjusted and adapted

Afolue:
this is a beautiful one. I have been reading through but this just seem to boost one’s moral. Nice!
To be candid, males are really facing economic challenges, those who have overcome don’t know what their creator has don for them.

I know it is not easy out there for many ladies not to talk of guys. Things are hard, like very hard for many people most especially unemployed and underemployed graduates who are still running against time. This is why I can't stop investing because economy is getting harder everyday with this man's economic policies

HelipsTech:
You fit da wait to make good money before you marry, and still fit no make the money till you old oo.

Then you loose on both side.
When, Your children is suppose to be growing, you are busy looking for money and T-pain keeps stashing all the money, reason you always see a man of above 50years having a 4year old as his first child.

Better plan your life

Very common more than you could imagine. One man I knew literally said that as his life story. He said that he worked hard and waited long enough to make it before starting a family. He started a family very late and still, no enough money at the end of the day. He said he wouldn't have wasted time starting a family if he knew that he would still turn out like that for him.

Love800:
38 is still young for marriage. As a man, from 20-49, you should be married. If you are 50 and above and not yet married, something is really wrong with you!

You get married at close to 49, don't even bother about having kids anymore. I meant, what is the difference between 49 that you approved of and 50 that you considered late? 40 is late but still okay. At 50 upwards, you can still marry but don't even think about having kids again

Nnamdipapa:
You are talking crap and should not be taken seriously. Faith ko, faith ni.

Obiedun:
I am not supporting sharia. Even Mohammed the greatest apostle of Islam did not establish it.

Who said you should support it? Is it meant to serve you? Otherwise, why would your opinion matter on it?
You said Sharia, Sharia what? Is it Sharia courts or Sharia Arbitration Panels? My point is that you are not even adequately informed to form a definite opinion on the subject just like the rest opposing it. Bandwagon effect

I'm not surprised about the SW Christians opposition to the establishment Sharia Arbitration Panels for Muslim community in SW when they even find it convenient to harass Muslim girls for wearing hijabs to schools or court rooms. Otherwise, why would you oppose or be concerned about something that is not meant for you?

CodeTemplar:
Islam.

God punish you

hatchy:
It is not a Terrorist attack, even though it happened on a Friday which is a popular day for those who do such. Also, we know that there must be shouts of "Allahu Arkba" if it was from those people who slam their heads.

Mod, I no call anybody name o, so don't ban my account of over 10 years here.

This lunatic thinks only Muslim extremists are terrorists

Edygrin:
Why do we rush to ascertain the cause of actions without proper investigation, what if its a terrorist attack?

You have forgotten that it was mentioned that there were eyewitnesses, it doesn't take laboratory or forensic to know a drunk. Terrorists attack in Lagos? That's over reaching

ValarDoharis:
I have a feeling she was pushed

Could be. Or, trying to escape

Love800:
But injections are different from tablet. And injections directly goes into the bloodstream!

If a bacteria is resistant to a certain drug, it doesn't matter whether its tablets or injection is given to the patient. Such drugs/antibiotics would be automatically ruled out during the culture

Tolu2024:
Talking from experience

I think I'm confused here, who is talking from experience? . If it is me, you're wrong. But I'm knowledgeable enough to know basic things like that.

Gotocourt:
You are things turned out good for you. I know childhood friend her husband ran from her as the hardship got worse

One should stay focused, that's the secret. If one is not careful, one will be 40 and still won't be able to get married.

calabaman:
Do not let anyone put you under pressure to marry

**Op I married when I clocked 40**

Some things I would advise though:

> Marry a soul mate who you can tell sit down on the ground and she will.
> You are a man and can marry when you are ready , however if you are waiting for millions before you marry you may never marry.
> I didn't have up to 200k in my account, but had a 3 million wedding with spare change.
> Don't let your wife to bes people dictate the spending on your wedding ( you are the one paying not them)
> My experience - I fought the TM list and reduced it drastically (whilst telling them they can marry their daughter if they won't budge) my wife did the needful.

Funny enough now, there is pressure on my wife not me to have a child.

I have asked her to chill, some days she listens...some days she doesn't stating menopause.

But me.... I put my feet down and told her whoever is putting her under pressure can come and give her belle (she won't cheat)...but the idea that I don't care puts shiver down her spine.

In summary, the decision to marry now or in 10 years time depends solely on you. Looking for a homely girl ready to settle down and not a broke a55 slay queen with a broke a55 family to make your forever partner.

Imagine demanding for a bike (okada), big gen amongst other outrageous things - regalia for a great grandfather who don kpai since all in the name of tradition for this economy. Aunty come dey say it's tradition (all in the name of looking for marriage) mchewwe

Good luck bro!

One or two kids is not much, don't wait too long so that you're not 65 when your kids are just 20

Gotocourt:
My brother, I will be 35 in March. Am planning how to better my life and future kids. I've reached that level that no one stresses me. Without proper planning, you will be doomed. Job stability is key, my elder sister wey b woman do tell me to get a job before starting family (na woman b dat)
I know a man that is still paying debt two years after his marriage 😥 because of wedding expenses (for what na). Look well oOoOO

That one didn't cut his cloth according to his size. Wedding doesn't mean the groom should incure debts

Kobojunkie:
You can't feed yourself and make sense of your life as it is but you are dreaming of having a whole other human adult as a dependent and intending to even raise children on top of that? This thing wey dey do una, na the water e dey abi na the food?

How much should he have and what should he have before he can get married? Won't his wife be working as well?
I didn't even have a stable job when I got married, I was in NYSC when I got married.

arkad321:
The rate at which people are telling me to get married lately is alarming, it got me looking at the mirror to check why they are doing it.

Every person I meet, which I have not met for a while, would ask me if I am married or single.
Every week whenever someone younger than me in my area is getting married my friends would say to me "you really need to get married people younger than you are getting married" I keep thinking why always me? There are lots of guys older than me and unmarried but they don't pressure them about marriage like they are pressuring me.

How did you know that they too are not being "pressured" or being asked about wife? It is the same everywhere in this part of the world, it is our cultures.

I create this thread out of anger, because I have just come back from where I sit with my friends, and one of them suggested that they should contribute money and find me a wife.
Just because I am 30 years old.
Is 30 years a curse or what? since when i hit 30 years, people have made me depressed they kept suggesting that at 30 I should have this and that.

Its disgusting. they think its a joke but honestly I begin to hate it.

If care is not taken, you will come back here in 30 years time to start a new thread with the same complaint. Sometimes, it is really about age but being financially buoyant and people are aware of this

bestman09:
Confused idiot.

He should be deported to wherever he came from because his name does not even sound American!

And what about the majority of them whose names sound American and originated from from America? Where should they be deported to? Fvcking racist

History555:
Craze jam craze. Trump na were

Baba were

Quelme:
These are hard working Nigerians, people like this can never suffer because they are not lazy.

If beef is expensive, these are alternatives.

About 250 million population should go fishing

descarado:
All your threads both ones wey make no sense always make front page?
And they all have video to watch.
What's your deal?

Hehe
May God deliver us from monitoring spirits, laughing. May be he is bribing Seun, is that not what you are insinuating?

LocalFARMERS:
*Boys fishing
*Few from the Cat Fish we caught
*Other species of Fish
*Enjoying some fresh fish pepper soup

You made me remember the old time in the village. We were used to going to the village during holidays and every Friday and returned to the town for school every Sunday evening. Very large river (actually dredged) and plenty of fish

Jayrockk:
Anybody way no make money for this AI era na him do himself

I have no clue what you are talking about.