₦airaland Forum

femisplash:
I am having a difficult time replaying the scenario in my head, I'm having a brain fog - no mental clarity right now. Security experts and students of international relations can help me out. How will they pull this off?, would they put Trump and the US Congress on sedatives? . Are they only flying a kite that won't take off the ground?.

Would they need approval of Trump and the US Congress because I don't understand your rhetoric?

Melagros:
COMRADES,I pity the unknown lay off staff because getting another job after losing your current one is very difficult

They should use their payoff to launch themselves

IrepChrist:
Yes, cyberbullying of Christian clerics, or any individuals for that matter, would be considered a sin in Christianity. Christianity teaches principles of love, respect, and kindness toward all people, including religious leaders. The Bible emphasizes treating others with love and dignity. For example, in Matthew 22:39, Jesus teaches, "Love your neighbor as yourself," which is foundational to Christian ethics.

You meant the scammers

Ashawoman82:
bro a lot of ugbos are killed in lag fir being just igbos...

Lol. Na lie go kill you. There is no tribe in Nigeria that is more accommodating than Yoruba tribe. Igbo tribe is the least accommodating tribe in Nigeria.

WeirdAlien:
Black people hate themselves more than white people hate them!
The level of tribalism in Nigeria is more than the level of racism in a white country.

Greenlandz:
Oyinbo loves we black way more than we black loves ourselves.

Na black man stabbed am or what's the meaning of these senseless comments or its relevance to the news?

MasterJayJay:
Nigeria is a crime scene. No where is safe. Your region follow for the crimes.

Stay away from South East my brother, you can't compare SW and SE in terms of security and safety

Lol. Igbo youths on Nairaland supporting IPOB/ESN go hear am. These criminals are serving them all round but some are still busy blaming the imaginary invaders

Musk has abandoned his own businesses for chasing clouts and shadows

Judolisco:
Why dem dey fear na? Na only thief dey fear security camera... Na only Manchester United fans dey happy if competition no get VAR

So, just to prove to Trump and Musk, they shouldn't fight to protect the employees records against someone who shouldn't have access to it? Common sense is far from you

By the end of his tenure in office if he last that long in office, USA will have become joke of the world

It is just 440 million dollars aid, SA should be able to do without it.
Good luck with the resettlement. May be they will be first set of settlers in Gaza

They're waking up from their slumber and start seeing IPOB/ESN members for criminals/killers/kidnappers that they are

“I don’t want to do that,” he said. “I’ll leave him alone. He’s got enough problems with his wife. She’s terrible.”

This is why the Clown will never earn respect of anybody but only clowns like him.

dynicks:
...you thought.....an ugly phenomenon that occurs even in foreign land is what you claim Igbos claim never happens in their land....

Good thing it's between you and your thought... keep battling with your thoughts and hustling for ugly events that you would pin down on the Igbos...

One guy here actually commented something like northerners are animals or something when it happened in the north few weeks ago. I had to quote him and reply him that there is no difference between north and south when it comes to scooping fuel from the falling tanker

Rebuker:
I don't know if this is just poverty or some high level of stupidity 😭😔

slimjohn2k5:
With poverty forget risk

That's not poverty, not having anything to do with poverty. That's pure ignorance.

They would never learn, like northerners like southerners

IfnobeGod20:
If a wife die in your custody and her parents is suspicious of her death, my brother, police go chop money for the husband's hand o. If you know how many cases of such in police stations

This is normal now if there is any slightest form of suspicion, I fully support it.
But in the case bf/gf sleeping over, na cell straight!

RealityKings1:
The report was not 8 million children, it was 10 million Almajiri children. The issue of Almajiri children is a different case entirely and doesn't fit into this position.

The question is this, would you trade your sanity and health just to be seen as a responsible woman?

And you think millions of children are not roaming southern streets too, right? May be you should go out often. Though, it may not be on the same scale as that of Northern region

osuofia2:
Attention seeker well done, you are tired of marriage, yet your wife wants to leave you and you don't want her to leave. I thought you should gladly let her go if you ain't longer interested

Thank you. The same thing I inferred from his write-up

ymaruf01:
Same here bro ! I fill like running from my marriage as well too! My marriage is close to 6 years now, with 2 kids boy and girl.. The most painful part is I do not have reasonable things doing , have been hustle day and night for complete 6 years ! Am I graduate but no job! No money to do business.. My wife keep threatened of living the marriage !! I alwz try my best best I love my kids, both of them are In school ..I don't want to loose them to her
! I awlz stress out
She keep given attitude
She chart wit male frndz
Evrytime she is not in d mood to HV sx
No single food stuff
Hux rent
NEPA bill
Water bill.
Hardly she talk to me.

I just need help .honestly it not easy out there

If you don't know how to drive, go and learn it. Talk to people (drivers) in your environment to link you with someone who can give a motor to drive, preferably intra city taxi. You will be better financially in no time. From there, you can plan your next move concerning business or something else.
As for the wife, you have to understand that when a man can't provide adequately in the house, the pressure would be on the wife too as she's the one who is always facing the needs that are not yet met.

Dpaulie:
Marriage not as bad as u portrayed it, don't generalize it... you just in a bad one!

He's lying. He basically mentioned the problems which are financial responsibility, lack of freedom/privacy that he was used to enjoying as a bachelor.
If he's doing the right thing in the home, why would his wife be threatening to leave him? I think he's behaving in a way to make the wife get tired and leave since that's what he secretly desire

livebullet:
Bro don't let any woman threaten you with she leaving. Are you at her mercy? If she wan leave make she leave. Just make sure your children don't leave with her... All these nonsense woke generation.

Let her go... Settle down and take car of your kids... Cook for them and bath them, take them to school and back.. pls don't re-marry. Cos another evil spirit go come maltreat your beloved kids

His wife is not the issue, the person you're advising is the problem. Look at what he posted, the wife threatening to leave was just an added reason, not the main reason he's complaining. Besides, we don't know what he's doing in the house that made wife threaten to leave him.
Bro wasn't fully prepared for the married life, he's missing bachelorhood and he's wishing to go back to it. Lol

Tit4Tat1:
You don't have to break a bank to go on a vacation..

Organize a sleepover during the weekends in one of the hotels in ur town with good facilities like swimming pool, games etc...

Lol. He's tired of the financial responsibilities, he basically said it. Economy is hard though, alaye want a way out

MatrixReloaded:
It's everywhere but you can travel to Ghana under the guise of business trip. Let her breath, cheat if she want but send monthly stipends to her and look after ur son welfare. If she runs out of the house while u are still living with her the blame will be on you I can tell u that.
But if she runs out whilst u r away, it will only be a matter of time you will return and live freely as you wish. As for your son she ran away with never send a dime to her unless she returnd the child wholeheartedly that she cant cope, but Let her train the child till adulthood with her promiscuous lifestyle (and never accept her back afterwards)

Firstly, why do you assume this irresponsible Op will be able to care of the boy (materially and also looking after) since the kid is also the part of the reason he's crying.
Secondly, you're the one advising Op to run away from home and travel to avoid his own responsibilities and you're still the same one tagging the innocent woman "promiscuous" if she's ever tired of waiting endlessly for an irresponsible husband and decided to move on. You're as sick as the Op you're advising

funkmrflexx:
I've been married close to 4 years now with a 2 year old boy, but marriage isn't what I envisioned it to be.

Like the said, if marriage was renewable every 5 years, I wouldn't even bother. I feel like I'm losing myself to this thing called marriage, aside from the responsibilities that comes with providing, the mental and psychological stress.

I've never been this stressed in my life and I'm someone who's usually able to handle a lot of stress, I just feel like I need time alone from everything and everyone, no calls, no text. Nothing.

And my wife even makes it worse with threats of leaving the marriage over any small issue. I think the biggest mistake of my life is getting married and I know a lot go men go through this to but they can't talk.

And that's why a lot of men die young these days.

You already want out because of the new responsibilities that come with having wife and kids and now, you claim that your wife is always threatening you that she would leave. Why not encourage her to leave since that's what you are secretly wishing for? Or, may be I didn't understand your rant very well. Irresponsible man

descarado:
Whose kidney were used.

All the kidnapping and ritual killing.

Good question. Many Nigerians most especially Northern youths are selling their kidneys, very rampant

They probably got it through black market since Nigeria is the number one leading country in kidney black market most especially in the northern region. And these patients and their families may get in trouble if they are caught abroad trying to buy or use kidney gotten through the black market

ValCon888:
The man may be a gun runner,but he's not a Reverend father. I know for a fact that the Catholic Church has no deaconess.

There is a poor lack of fact-checking in this story.
That police officer has to be an illiterate not to know that Reverend father and deaconess cannot coexist in the same sentence.

Lol. Denial and distancing them from the Christianity as usual and as expected . Wake up!

Lol. And Nigerian Christians are busy telling the whole world how Muslims are killing them. Insecurity in Nigeria is more of economic incentives driven than any other thing like religions or emancipation

Kewekubosineh:
Don't believe their narrative. It's all lies. There is no way they will collect N100m ransom and still kill him.

The killing is hired by his opponent. The man he dethroned.

The Boy is not actual culprit,but a phantom killer was the one apprehended.

Believe police narrative at your own peril!

It is you, Mr Nobody that I should believe instead,right? Even after looking at the culprit? You sounded delusional.

Ironfaceman:
Stop talking nonsense and be civilised for once accidents do happen,

Accident is different from accident, this type of accident can lead to prison.

what if your wife die in your bed, then it's OK.

Nothing do you then. The point is that one is very risky

emmabest2000:
What if u go to her house and you become the one who die nko ?

Death is inevitable dude
Death can happen to anyone at anytime in any location,

The message is that it is dangerous regardless of who goes to whose house and who dies between the two.

Even if you're married and your wife died in her sleep without any signs of sickness before that night

Police will still arrest you

That's a lie to disagree with the Op. Like husbands and wives are not dying overnight and how many have you seen being arrested? Lol