₦airaland Forum

hatchy:
Hahahahaaaaa very funny. Just imagine, the government is tired of fighting. They have lost the battle so they are now recruiting women to go and sound a warning to a terrorist to surrender now or....

What you cannot hear in this country does not exist. Abeg in which country have this kind of thing ever happened. A sovereign state begging terrorist to lay down arms instead of bombing them to smitten.

Shameful!

It is easier to say government when you don't want to admit that army is made up of individual Nigerians who have been fighting insecurity for 18 years and thousands of lives of heroes lost in the process. Some families lost more than two sons in the army. How many members of your family are in the Nigerian Army? U go soon be recruited by force

Capernum:
Nonsense and ingredient... Must all opposite parties die because of APC and the power drunk president?

SEYIKP:
Tinubu Sha wants to make Nigeria a one party state. He wants to destroy every opposition so that APC can be the only dominant party.

Don't you guys read from the content that the internal leadership crisis within Accord Party predates Ademola joining the party? Not everything has to do with Tinubu the magician and miracle worker. These people were already fighting for the control of the party long before Ademola, it might not make news headlines back then until now that they now caught big fish

Kukutente23:
So can you clearly explain how he is at a disadvantage compared to marketers who import fuel from far distances [/b] and have to pay import costs as well as logistics and do not get the benefit of naira equivalence?

If we are refining enough for Nigerian market, why the need to issue import licenses for over 7 billion litres for Jan-Dec 2026? Most especially when their retail price is not distinctively lower than that of the one produced locally? That's economic sabotage for personal gain

Farouk don buy market, corrupt lots. I know that many ignorant Nairalanders would have already dragged Dangote in the mud

Could be lie if they can't name or identify those government officials

yinkus6750:
Atiku finally nailed PDPs coffin.
One man's selfish ambition ruined a party.
So unfortunate.
Am not blaming the governor's, you can stand with a torn umbrella under heavy rain.

He chose Nobody Okowa as VP instead of enigma Wike.
He refused to let the PDP chairman comeback from the south since he was a presidential candidate, he made sure that both presidential candidate and national chairman were from the north.
This is the same person who ran to Dubai seeking refuge after 2019 presidential election

manuelkel:
A well scripted murder could be planned as such. Logic can be manipulated that's why in law court substantial evidence matters and not just logic.

It is more than that, people who were close to her could see it coming.

In an emotional post, Mary admitted she’d been “trapped in a never-ending cycle” of plastic surgery and was constantly going under the knife to fix botched procedures.

She wrote: “It’s not a fun little adventure anymore, it’s just draining in every possible way.

“My time gets drained, my bank account, my energy, my health.

“And in the long run, you just kind of end up digging yourself into a really expensive time-consuming hole.”

Coupled with her last cryptic message messages, no need to be searching for what's not hidden. Unless her accounts were hacked and those posts didn't originate from her

cr7lomo:
Why is Tinubu and his gang creating problems in all opposing parties .... this simply shows that IBB and Abacha dem were right...yoruba man no suppose rule...they are even worse than military regime ... see the level of manipulation and intended confusion they are creating... how can u call it a democracy when all u want is a one party system .... this is absolutely wrong...Tinubu should be kicked out in 2027 .... Yoruba dson cast themselves and have justified why Abiola and Awolowo wasn't allowed to rule ... Obasanjo wasn't ur regular yoruba man ...reason they hate him and didn't vote fir him in 99... every single SW state voted against him cos they never saw him as one of them...even upto this day

Tinubu sent Obi out PDP to LP?

Tinubu sent Atiku to ignore Wike's request for PDP chairman to be zoned to the south since since Atiku was presidential flag bearer?

Tinubu sent Atiku to put one leg in PDP and then the other one in ADC?

Tinubu made Obi to put one leg in LP and the other one in ADC?

Tinubu caused Wike and Makinde to be fighting for supremacy?

Tinubu made Ademola to steal another party's primary ticket five days before the closing date for all the primary elections?

You need your head looked into

Truths9ja:
dey play, same Inec was in the venue of the primary election today. I pity Adeleke here, he's a goner. Even the leaders of accord party don't want him in the party.

press9jatv:
the same Inec that attends today's primary election. Dey play. It's court of justice that will settle it.

If you read through the entire content of this news, you would observe that the punch didn't interview or talk to the organisers or participants of today's primary election to ensure balanced reporting. This means the punch was paid by Adelekes to do dirty, one sided reporting

This shameless thief should go hide somewhere. Look at how he was begging, harassing and later threatening someone for 150 million naira. These are the men of gods that encourage politicians and carer officers to loot public money so that they too could get their cuts. He's not even ashamed of himself, still get mouth to talk

manuelkel:
E fit still be murder or natural cause death due to excess surgeries either one, she should rest in pieces.... psychopaths like this don't deserve this earth.

She posted a cryptic ending of a movie alongside her childhood photo. She checked in to off herself, no doubt

She off herself because she could no longer push forward. RIP

In an emotional post, Mary admitted she’d been “trapped in a never-ending cycle” of plastic surgery and was constantly going under the knife to fix botched procedures.

She wrote: “It’s not a fun little adventure anymore, it’s just draining in every possible way.

“My time gets drained, my bank account, my energy, my health.

“And in the long run, you just kind of end up digging yourself into a really expensive time-consuming hole.”

muyico:
why Nigeria is playing with Russia fire!
i no support military 🎖️ 🪖 action

USA, EU and NATO are all supporting Ukraine against Russia, but but still doesn't stop Russia from advancing and taking territories inside Ukraine.

ultraviolet27:
my mum will warn us that if any of us is abroad and wants her to come visit or live permanently she isn't going without her husband but many of our nowadays mother's can never do that how can you abandon your man at old age to go live with your kids?if I use the correct word now bot will ban me and it isn't as if it's because she was my dad's only wife even that was how her grandmother whom she took after her character was she was loving,loyal,and devoted till the end and she wasnt her great grandpa's only wife.

I pray my son marries someone who will love him unconditionally as my mom loves my dad so also should you nairaland men pray to marry a woman like my mum who is also wise may you not jam a manipulative,unfeeling,self centered woman who will render all your sacrifices on your kids as a waste!!

Many wives wouldn't think twice before jumping inside airplane

Shikena:
This is exactly one of the things that I preach. Most of our people simply can't think outside the box.

Adoption is underrated. Most of our people forget that adoption is official and unofficial. My parent's house till today is loaded with children & young adults. We grew up having all sorts of people in the house at one point or the other. When we left, our parents never stopped bringing in one or two to live with them. It's a generational culture.

This is it. It doesn't have to be our biological children, we just need people around to keep our company. If your wife "doesn't allow" you to marry another wife or you don't like the idea, she shouldn't also prevent you from adopting kids either formally or informally

Exceed15:
Only foolish children neglect their fathers. Fathers give sacrificially without emotional stories. Mothers raise children to make them feel they love them more than their father.

Sad reality. More common than imagined

Bottom line : Men, that proprieties you are saving for children, sell one of them to give yourself a good treat because your children may likely forget you

Na so o, I love this. I go give myself nice treats and sure investments that bring cool cash monthly as I dey age

jiggyman:
Lol this happens to you when you have nothing goiing on in your life.

Before I got married, I lived alone, cooked my food, did my laundry, etc why is it an issue at age 60?

Well this happens to be an issue in africa because an average African man wants submissive wife, kids etc. So why they pass the age of submission, his life becomes miserable and boring.

We will check up on you later, paddy
Oyinbos that this has become their culture still feel lonely.

pansophist:
Old age loneliness is not an unusual thing, and kids should not be burdened with the responsibilities of not making their parents feel lonely. [/b]

There are ways things like this can be handled. One is adoption. Kids bring vitality to the household by their mere presence, and it’s a natural pairing of two parties that needs each other.

Kids needs training, knowledge, stability and finance. Old parents probably have accumulated all these, and can give it to the children, while having them around to do house chores and enjoy their energy.

Every smart person that can calculate the totality of situations can tell that mr Ned is polygamous for the reasons I outlined above. I So in addition to adoption, polygamy is also another way.

Wealthy men will rather trust their own blood, than adopt or let non-blood descendants to inherit their empire. Westerners have made peace with this things hence, they dominate the adoption market globally.

I enjoyed your unbiased contribution. I'm for polygamy but if it doesn't work out, I'm equally open to adoption. I have been thinking about the two in recent time. I want kids in my house for as long as I can train and handle them

Trymeee:
Kobojunkie, for my sanity, peace of mind and mental health, always do well to avoid any comment, post or mention of my moniker.


Have a great life.

🤣🤣
She will drain you with her gender biased comments. She doesn't reason with anyone but only what she "thinks" is the fact

lailo:
You guys are getting it wrong. Men nature is different from women nature. No matter what u do as a man, u are still likely to be lonely bcs naturally men dont rely on other but are self reliant. Even when they are suffering, they tend to suck it up and internalize the solution. Unlike women who naturally will depend on others to solve their problems. That's why they prepare and hope on the children to take off from where their father's efforts to provide for all her needs could not go beyond. No matter how close emotionally or socially u are to your children as a man, that independent figure will still play out and the children will see u as all sufficient but in the case of women who are natural dependant, they leverage on the emotional ties with the children to explore all opportunities. That's the difference. Men and Women have different nature and no amount of awareness can change nothing.

That person you quoted is a one way goer, 100% gender biased individual. Don't stress yourself about her

Trymeee:
Truth is their is nothing in marriage for an average man. Maybe to help the woman raise the kids. How do I mean, most kids sees and takes care of their mums before the dad's (if at all the dad) I will always tell most married men I see to invest into their future and not make any child or wife their plans or hope for happiness.
Marry as much wives if it makes you happy Las Las, one of them will always be there.

I pity men who believe that more than one wife is a crime, sin or taboo. Your one wife won't think back about the sacrifices you made to stay loyal to her even when you clearly could afford additional one when it is time for her to fly to her children's houses "to help them take care of their newly born kids"

Love800:
That is nature always dealing with men. Fathers really don not mark any presence in the boy-child life, so nothing the boy will learn from him, further when they grow up, they leave daddy.

You can reverse this sha, if you are so intentional with your baby-boys life.

And the daughters? Any theory on that? Because, some fathers have both while some have only the daughters

Tenrack:
Lol was the penultimate line to trigger me? You failed woefully. I'll flog my kids anytime they mess up, should I have any. Spare the rod, okay. You go learn. You think our ancestors were stupid, ba. You dey adopt woke culture.

This is why you should listen to parent who already has kids and his method is working.
Your kids will mess up but how do you respond clearly matters. They're kids, they must learn through mistakes. Their first mistake, you must correct it with words and love, not inflicting severe pains on them just like that. Second time, you are free to adopt different approach. But right from infancy, boundaries must be set. I guess many of you don't know what boundaries setting is

We4all:
Sons can inherit their father's bad behaviours. So, if a man is bad, what morals can he possibly instill in his child?

Bad behaviour of course. I'm just trying to make clarification that bad behaviour of parents can rub off on their kids but have nothing to do with traits.

I guess your kids haven't reached the age when you'd get to know who they really are or when they'd show you their true colours. It's only after that age when they can face off with their parents that you can say for sure your approach has really worked ... but, I doubt it ever works! Mind you, kids can pretend to be all obedient and submissive, but just wait till they're at the age of asserting themselves or when they believe they've come of age than to be the kids they used to be, kids that their parents pushed around.

You are just going in circles dear friend. The ones you are beating like animals today, what assurance do you have that when they become teenagers, they won't be telling you that "it can't pass beating"?
Beatings shouldn't be the first line of action when it comes to raising and training your kids, setting boundaries is. Making sure they don't have things their ways always, that's all. Beating only put fear in your kids, but you wouldn't know better because you, yourself are a product of beating

Tenrack:
keep it up. It would soon dawn on you.

Damn on me? Must I beat my kids even when they're most behaved kids you will ever meet? Constant beating when you were young has clearly damaged something in you and has wired your mentality that the only reason turned out good as an adult was as a result of beatings. I understand

Flangelo12:
Context matters in everything, though.

How would you be arming security agents with cutlass in these days that criminals are mounting big guns on motors and motorcycles and giving soldiers a run for their money?

DatNiggaDaz:


When you want to understand what fraudulent activities in corruption in high and low places looks like visit that region

Corruption defines the region. All the Apc politicians are in parapoism when it comes to looting of state resources

You are about tribalism here, dude. Well, your region is worse, there is a reason why you all are trooping to "that region"

We4all:
What if there is a father figure, but he ends up inheriting his father's bad traits?

It is not about traits as there is nothing like good or bad traits biologically or genetically as far as behaviour is concerned. You're talking about mimicking father's behaviour, more like garbage in garbage out.
Father has to set good examples always and set boundaries and be firm about it

humberjade:
The way folks in the Western society train their kids is appalling. You will see parents begging their kids to do the right thing, some even cry while at it. 🤮

Plus when there is no father figure in a house, it only takes the grace of God and some strict parenting on the part of a single mother to train an upright and well behaved child.

I always emphasise father figure in the life of a kid, most especially the male child. It is very important as mothers are less strict with the raising of children

HacheNoire:
Team “Talk yo the child” will be here soon to tell you how she needs to discuss with her child!

If that child had been flogged when necessary and felt severe pain, No way he will have ever have the instinct of going that extreme.

Now they have to talk to him again and ask him why he did such and why he should never do such again.

It is really not about flogging, beatings or "inflicting severe pains" either always or occasionally, it is about setting boundaries and being firm with your instructions.
I don't beat my kids or inflict pains on them but they sure behave themselves all the time

Why would they forget to mention his age? Only in the countries where kids have no regards for the parents because some parents don't know how to set firm boundaries for their kids until it is too late