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RomanceRe: My Fiancee Is Pregnant by mabeni(op):
maya007:
You should have thought about this first before flying into that thing that produces baby without protection na lol happy fathers day in advance o
Thanks and i promise to be a good father.
AgricultureRe: Just Killed This Animal But Don't Know It's Name. by mabeni(m): 12:03am On Apr 07, 2020
It's GRASSCUTTER.

A. K. A...... Oya
RomanceRe: My Fiancee Is Pregnant by mabeni(op): 12:01am On Apr 07, 2020
ZINIBANKS:
I can't blame you when it's comes to sex a man's dick is more wiser than him the use of the main brain is useless
Op akwa ibomi bride price can kill you sad
If you don't die God love you
But you will later fall sick seeing the list angry
people says this
RomanceRe: My Fiancee Is Pregnant by mabeni(op): 10:16pm On Apr 06, 2020
pocohantas:
Tell your mother. She will tell your father, who will in turn tell her own father. grin

If you don’t have money for bride price/marriage- you should be knacking a girl in her early 20s. Not knacking someone in her early 30s raw and be talking of financials. Financials kor, spreadsheet ni.

Poorer people are getting married. The difference between them and some of us is, they lay all their cards on the table.
RomanceRe: My Fiancee Is Pregnant by mabeni(op): 10:10pm On Apr 06, 2020
faithugo64:
Leave friends out of this...
First explain the new development to your people, expect some tongue lashing though. Then let them go with you to meet her Parents. It will boost your confidence and also tell your prospective in-laws that you are serious about their daughter
Good luck!
wow! I appreciate.
RomanceRe: My Fiancee Is Pregnant by mabeni(op): 10:09pm On Apr 06, 2020
CheedyJ:
Congratulations bro but next time,if u aren't ready,learn to use boot till u re ready anyways, d deed has been done...just plan a lowkey traditional marriage & promise to do something bigger in d nearest future..
you are not perfect either. It can happen to anyone
RomanceRe: My Fiancee Is Pregnant by mabeni(op): 10:04pm On Apr 06, 2020
anthonyuncle:
buy condom! buy condom! - u said no.

now it have entered.

my guy, that money must come out o!

da advantage is that whatever u tell them u have, they will accept it.
so u will spend less on marriage rites
forget it bro,. 32yrs not too young to get married or to have a child. After all, I can take care of my child and his mom.
RomanceRe: My Fiancee Is Pregnant by mabeni(op): 9:59pm On Apr 06, 2020
Romanoff:
Go see them with your family first, take responsibility and tell them your plans.

Maybe your family can contribute for bride price for you.

Collect list for bride price, pay it in a small ceremony strictly between both families, go to the registry and seal the deal. O tan.
thanks a lot for this
RomanceRe: My Fiancee Is Pregnant by mabeni(op): 9:57pm On Apr 06, 2020
Phenomenal16:
..if is a boy name him David.... A girl ..I suggest splendor....
Congrats in addy
if he's a boy.... Raymond......... A Girl...naming her after my mom

Thanks! I love this
RomanceRe: My Fiancee Is Pregnant by mabeni(op): 9:54pm On Apr 06, 2020
faithugo64:
So you want to have your kids out of wedlock?
I don't know how it is done over there, but hope you are aware that the kids are not rightfully yours until you have paid the bride price of their mother?
Be a man, Go and see her people and take your wife home.
I will surely go see her parents. Though, they aready know me and I am accepted into the family. But this new development, I don't know how to go about it. Will it make sense if I go with a friend or alone?
RomanceRe: My Fiancee Is Pregnant by mabeni(op): 9:37pm On Apr 06, 2020
faithugo64:
Take the first advice, go get married now, lesser expenses involved..
If you were man enough to have unprotected sex with her, you should be man enough to face her people. They can only talk not kill you.

Congratulations baba junior and safe delivery to Iya
thanks but can't we do whatever we should have done after given birth? Heard some people gets married even after given birth to 4 children
RomanceRe: My Fiancee Is Pregnant by mabeni(op): 9:34pm On Apr 06, 2020
Sunfull:
Make sure you arrange your marriage within this pandemic period because it's less expensive now. No social gathering.
that means my family will not be able to come. They lives outside the state I resides...considering that lockdown.
RomanceMy Fiancee Is Pregnant by mabeni(op):
How do I meet the parents of my fiancee that their daughter is pregnant for me? We are both in our early 30's and have planned to get married probably in 2yrs times for financial reasons but she's over 2 months pregnant now and we are keeping the baby.
My major concern here is not keeping the baby and my fiancee (I can convinently take care of them ) but how do I face her parents that I don't have money for marriage or bride price now.

Note: She's from akwa ibom
HealthRe: Stubborn Rashes On The Head: How Can I Treat This? (Disturbing Photo) by mabeni(m): 8:03pm On Apr 05, 2020
This is BUMPS. He contracted it from a barber shop
HealthRe: Coronavirus: Share Your Experience Staying At Home by mabeni(m): 7:06pm On Apr 04, 2020
I have been doing almost all the house chores. Mehn!!!? Give it to Women, dem dey try.
CrimeRe: Ondo Explosion: I Didn’t Know I Was Carrying Explosives – Truck Driver by mabeni(m): 6:20pm On Apr 01, 2020
What do we believe now?
EventsRe: Nigeria Wedding Drama: Share Your Experience by mabeni(m): 6:02pm On Apr 01, 2020
4reala:
. Shei shocked, nkan be! Did they carry on with the wedding?
NO. Every where scattered(people ran cos non have ever seen things like that before. Including myself ) , bride rolling on the floor and from that I concluded they were not joined together.
EventsRe: Nigeria Wedding Drama: Share Your Experience by mabeni(m): 8:00am On Apr 01, 2020
Dr7Manhattan:
Nollywood
it's true life story not nollywood.
EventsRe: Nigeria Wedding Drama: Share Your Experience by mabeni(m):
I went to a traditional wedding where the bride's mom commited sucide. She drank gamaline-20 to take her own life. I ran four fourty.
Rumour has that she had warned her daughter against marrying the man but she refused then mom vowed she's not gonna marry the man in her presence.
HealthRe: Coronavirus: Share Your Experience Staying At Home by mabeni(m): 7:55am On Mar 29, 2020
I foresee a lot of pregnancies at the end of coro
PropertiesRe: My Landlord Disconnected Our Light Without Telling Us Why He Did by mabeni(op):
layzie:
The point is that u can't be looking for benefits of being a tenant when u re no longer one. Rent payment makes u a tenant. U have stayed 3 months without rent. it's either u re a tenant or u re not, right now u are not. The earlier u leave, the better for everyone including u. Na ur water em go comot next or lock up the toilet since na face me I face u apartment.
why are you taking it personal? I said I haven't gotten apartment. Should I pack my properties and relocate to under bridge since the house is his and I am no longer a tenant according to you?
PropertiesRe: My Landlord Disconnected Our Light Without Telling Us Why He Did by mabeni(op): 2:31pm On Mar 22, 2020
layzie:
@ mabeni
If your rent expired in Jan 2020 as u said and u have not renewed, it means u have been living for free. Agreement between landlord and tenant is based on rent payment.
Just pack, u have saved 3 mths rent already. Or is there something else u want to achieve there?
I want to leave but haven't gotten a suitable pace. You and I knows how difficult it is to get apartments in Lagos.
PropertiesRe: My Landlord Disconnected Our Light Without Telling Us Why He Did by mabeni(op): 8:41am On Mar 22, 2020
Hotfreez:
The guy is an idiot. Go back to the Mediation centre and report him there that he has removed your electricity cables and he's threatening you.

I suggest you begin to look for another house though. Use the rent Y I would have paid him to look for a better apartment.
thanks
PropertiesRe: My Landlord Disconnected Our Light Without Telling Us Why He Did by mabeni(op): 8:28am On Mar 22, 2020
Atiku:
I go build house finish.
Then when i give my so called tenant quit notice, e go rush go meet mediators. What nonsense?

Leave the mans house na ahn ahn!
he's the son of our late landlord. Read my new reply... The man cheated us and that was why we did that
PropertiesRe: My Landlord Disconnected Our Light Without Telling Us Why He Did by mabeni(op):
CoronaVirusRelo:
He must be mad then.

For what reason?

I guess their is more to the story. Something . Just have happened that you not disclosing. He can't just go haywire
let me explain in details. He's not the landlord per say but the son of the our late landlord. Trouble started when he packed into the compound last year July. 2 months after he packed in, he noticed the water corporation were not bringing BILL and demanded to know how water bill is being paid. We told him water corporation has not been bringing BILL (Not only our house but entire neighbourhood o). 2days later, he came with a water bill of 7months which he claimed he got from water cooperation. We agreed to pay it but twice. We contributed the half of the money, gave him but he rejected it...claiming it must be ones and retured our money.
2days later, he came with a plumber to disconnect all the tenants from the water leaving only him and his mom connected to the water... Note: they lives in different apartments and his mom has never paid for water.

On the 5th December he served us quit notice. On the 20th of January 2020, he arrested us claiming we disconnected his light but it was lie. We didn't. At the police station, the DCO didn't listen to us. We were forced to write statements and we were locked up until friends and family rallied round to bail us the same day.

After the bail, the police made me to sign undertaking and we are going to fix the light and we won't make trouble with him. The next day, as we were about fixing the light, the PHCN STAFF showed up claiming they disconnected his light unknowingly to us . The landlord illegally tapped light from his mom's apartment to his and that Was what was disconnected. They stopped us from fixing it.
We felt cheated and reported him at meditation centre... At the mediation center, the woman in charge of the case again was not interested to why we brought our landlord but telling us we are stingy in the presence of our landlord and his elder brother and trying telling us to sign undertaking to pay all the bill including with the over 6months he cut us of. We refused and they chased us away.


Until 4days ago when he came to disconnect our light without prior notice from either from him or ikeja electric. This is everything that happened. No addition and no subtraction.

Note: we are all one room apartment tenants (7 of us).
PropertiesRe: My Landlord Disconnected Our Light Without Telling Us Why He Did by mabeni(op): 7:42am On Mar 22, 2020
Makavelli25:
Leave his house jeje
And stop ranting
I am not ranting but seeking for advice. I am not a troublesome tenant. Thanks for your contribution tho
PropertiesRe: My Landlord Disconnected Our Light Without Telling Us Why He Did by mabeni(op): 7:41am On Mar 22, 2020
Hotfreez:
How many months rent do you owe?
Let me know so I can give you the cheapest way to solve this.
i have never owened him before. He served us the quit notice last year December while my rent expires end of January 2020. No tenant is oweing him and had renewed their rent before he gave quit notice
PropertiesRe: My Landlord Disconnected Our Light Without Telling Us Why He Did by mabeni(op): 7:37am On Mar 22, 2020
CoronaVirusRelo:
Did you pay him for energy bills?
no. We pay directly to phcn. We does not share light with him
PropertiesMy Landlord Disconnected Our Light Without Telling Us Why He Did by mabeni(op): 1:19am On Mar 22, 2020
4days ago, our landlord came with some people believing to be ikeja electric staff to disconnect our without giving us one tangible reason as to why it was disconnected neither given us warning prior to the disconnection and up till date, nobody has addressed us on the issue. All efforts to reach the landlord proved abortive.

Note: he had given all of us quit notice before the disconnection to pack out at the end of April but we reported him at the mediation centre.

What should we do as regards to the disconnection our light?
Car TalkRe: Maintenance Tips For Honda Cars by mabeni(m): 3:19pm On Mar 10, 2020
A305:
Replacing mount is best but if you intend to beat down cost then replace bushing. Some guys at first gate agidingbin do a good job replacing bushings.
thanks
Car TalkRe: Maintenance Tips For Honda Cars by mabeni(m): 11:32am On Mar 10, 2020
Good morning Everyone. Quick one please. Which is the best between changing entire ENGINE SEAT /MOUNT or just replacing the bushing. My entire 4 engine seats are bad
RomanceRe: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by mabeni(m): 6:49am On Jan 30, 2020
Oh my God! I never knew I am an ALPHA MALE

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