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LalastiklaIa:
The matter just tire me. Met one rich one handling 3 businesses and planning to retire with her husband and get 2 yachts. After building an informal relationship showing me pictures of the businesses she runs. After few weeks dropped billing of just small $300. You know Wetin this woman talk “say sorry I don’t give loans even to my employee” lol
Oya bring $150 this one no gree. But e go shock you say this type of person will spend $5000 on something very meaningless

Illusioneffect:
Actually, you are wrong. It's not a racism issue. It didn't die of because he's black! You guys make everything about race. It would even be a worse issue right now if he was white. What he did was unimaginable👀 you dont still understand? The internet doesn't forget - it was not like he did something someone else has ever done - this was something no one else has ever done. It became a meme and this memes last forever people still use it till now.
Any actor as famous as Will Smith will have the same issue! People less famous than he is will die off. Look at Mel Gibson and how he got blacklisted by Hollywood to the extent he has to make Christian movies now. Also the directors and actors and musicians that just made just racist comments that can't hurt anyone have been blacklisted forever.
Please black folks just tend to protect themselves using race as a shield and that's totally wrong

hersarhn:
I have come to understand that people don't just choose to be homosexuals life just happened to make them that way he more homophobes know this, the better for everybody.

PinkNature:
Recommended A+ horror movies for me.

Bintasukai:
Bro don’t listen to all these red pillers of nairaland. Na dem go ruin your relationship pata pata. Relationship of 7 years? Haba. You need to die dia. Show her that she is important, show her that you know you are not worthy of her love, that you know she is just managing you, she will pity you. Na mind games bro. She is just testing you, so that she can know that you will love her regardless of her missteps. Bro, go harder. Spend money on her. If she no gree, tell her you don’t mind being the second guy. If she doesn’t take you serious, tell her that you are willing to prove that you are ready to take the back seat, tell her you are willing to watch whenever they are having segs. That she will see you won’t get angry, and if you get angry, she has the permission to leave you finally. You will get her back with all this game I have taught you, don’t worry. Being a simp is not a bad thing, okay. These other guys are just incapable of loving.

Ericmaestrooffi:
Good morning house

I’ve been following this thread for a long time but I’ve not commented before. I want to ask your opinion on cohabitating with a lady that’s not your gf or wife.

A female friend of mine who recently graduated reached out to me that she wants to come stay with me and use that opportunity to look for a job, she didn’t tell me how long she intends to stay but from our conversation it seems she will be staying for a long time.

I’m currently a banker and not doing bad for myself, I don’t have any issue housing or feeding her but I don’t know if it’s right for a guy and lady not dating to live together.

N.b: we are only friends and nothing more, although I once dated her sister.

Please I need your opinion on this before I take a final decision on this.

Zonefree:
He's not in communication with his family for 6 years because of the Jezebel he called his wife.

Now, he remembered he has a family cos he got served

The family should allow him go through the pains alone for now. When he's done grieving, they can take him in.

People should be held responsible for their actions.

Westman001:
Abigail 6/10

Seems this ppl have no clue how to give us better vampire movies like

The Underworld.
Dracula


Please recommend tight vampire movies

NowYouKnow:
🤣😂

I see what you did there. Why did you choose that gif of a couple arguing to describe married men?
Anyway to honestly answer your question, yes I sometimes envy single men.

But I will still advice you get married and join our club Misery loves company.

10thTenthMan:
A sensible respectful counter mention. At least there is still some hope that some persons think and reason before they talk.

If you observe, I do not respond to mentions that have no reasons or basis for the insolence that is displayed here.

Now, If it is the other way round, the woman can decide to leave. She should not go on a rampage, either. If she goes on a violent rampage, and hurts someone, her life too could be finished. If you think you cannot take it then leave. And yes it depends on how much you value faithfulness. Leave quietly than go on a bloody rampage that will turn your story to '' Cheated on; Arrested and Tried; Convicted and Sent to Jail; etc. etc. all because your female ''delusions'' told you to fight the lover of your husband.

A typical Nairalander here talked about my reference that ''the man isn't the ''king'' in the life of the woman anymore'' and claims some men being more delusional than women. IT IS THAT SAME DELUSION THAT IS MAKING HER ALSO CALL A GROWN MAN “BABY”. And I shake my head at the idiocy and expected lack of deep thought of such a statement, because if not for delusion, why would two people decide to exchange bodily fluids, know about dates of bloody discharges from private parts and inform a man about it, etc, etc.If not for delusion, why would I pick a woman on the street I barely know, claim to observe her for a few weeks to years, give her my surname and take care of her needs and ask/expect her to bear me sane healthy children? If not for grand delusion of both genders? ''he is so romantic'' simply means he really knows how to create delusions in my mind with roses and flowers and dinners and trips and etc Delusion is necessary for procreation. An act that for humans, happens mainly through a process so disgusting and unhygienic that people catch diseases and die in the process. Self-delusion is required. Delusion, is for a woman to claim to ''love a guy'' because of some words the spoke and food he bought at a restaurant that she is willingly to open her legs and show her private parts. That same delusion to the words and actions of a man which a mainly scripted is the difference between consensual sex and rape. So yes. Delusion is there and both genders/ individuals take it to various levels. So to that person, no matter how tough you think you are, you are still delusional in this ''man and woman'' thing.

Another talked about whether it is so easy to leave. Then kill the person and go to jail and ruin your life over another persons' hotel enjoyment. Which means ab initio you probably weren't destined for much in life either. Oh your temper? You lost your temper? Ok..good..but you will still go to jail.


Anyway, back to your comment. Everyone has a choice to leave. The decision might be harder to make for some. But it is better off to leave than kill yourself or someone. Hence, in this case and if the case was reversed, I still do not think going on a maniacal rampage is the best option regardless of whether the person cheated on is the man or the woman.

Martinez39s:
Using style to change the issue of discussion to give yourself an escape doesn't fly. Stop wasting your time.

A man who has a sexual past is not doing anything amiss or being hypocritical when he wifes a nonvirgin. His past doesn't matter, and women and men are not the same. Get this through your dense skull.

Finally, redpillers unashamedly want virgins and there is nothing you can do about it Once again, stop wasting your time and energy. Sit your ass down.

Ojagun:
@Emboldened


Are you blind or you cannot read? because it is crystal clear you did not see that the supermarket has been shutdown for their discrimatory practices by the authourities

A kenyan talking about chinese racism?Wasnt it a chinese national 2 to 3 years ago who was secretly recorded telling a group of kenyans in a restaurant that he hates kenya because all kenyans have ugly faces and he hates seeing their ugly faces everwhere and the kenyans there sat down and said nothing and the video was posted online until the president kenyatta deported the chinese national because of your online whining?

What about all the kenyan women all over kenya birthing fatherless mongrel children for lowly skilled/pan-faced chinese workers who later runaway from that country?

Next time,pocket your backhanded,thinly veiled xenophobia before pointing your grubby fingers at others

Ofodirinwa:
Gradually Nigerians will learn what racism is because it seems most of our people think there is logic to it or it's normal thinking.
If someone is racist, they will rather become poverty stricken than receive money from black customers. Many luxury brands have openly asked black people to stop buying their products even though that is their main customer base and their fellow whites are not interested. It is a mental illness

Baddestguyp:
There is one weird take I've seen in several movie/series discourse...
And it's becoming rampant here also...

Some people have this notion that because they do not understand a movie/series, it automatically does not make sense or it is overrated...

SOME PEOPLE HERE EVEN GO AS FAR AS TO ACCUSE OTHERS OF "PRETENDING TO UNDERSTAND" A MOVIE/SERIES



Here is my response to that:

If you do not understand a movie/series and others understand it, the problem is from you, not the series and not those who understand it...

Do not blame a work of media just because you fail to understand it when others do...and others appreciate it...

Maybe it comes from the self-esteem issue of feeling like your media literacy must be above or be on par with everyone else...

We are seeing it on this thread with DUNE where those who don't understand the movies accuse others who understand it of pretending...


The same thing happened with Jujutsu Kaisen S2 when some people claimed it made no sense simply because they didn't understand it.
Same thing happened with Attack on Titan.


If you don't understand something and someone else understands it...it makes sense...the problem is from you...
The problem is not from the movie/series or from the person who understands it.

Baddestguyp:
Again, you missed the point of my post on the parallels between both characters...

The main reason is because you never understood Attack on Titan and also sure enough you never understood DUNE.

Anyone who has seen both media and understands them will understand my post.

You clearly don't.


In both cases, it is not the writer's fault that you lack media literacy. It is you who needs to work on yourself...

Or maybe stick to your Nollywood home videos since any media that has depth that requires anything higher than your 5 IQ becomes "overrated" to you.



Someday...when you can actually understand media (if that day ever comes), perhaps you should try rewatching both Attack on Titan and Dune and see for yourself why people highly rate the works...

Thank you

PhillipPHD:
Can someone kindly give a holistic approach of how a financially comfortable redpill guy should handle billing from ladies?

As a guy who’s evidently neither broke nor stingy, how can one handle billing?

FRANCISTOWN:
This life is very easy, I swear. It is not hard.
Just study what stupid people are doing, then don't do that, and you are good to go.

I recently saw a thread where a man was sponsoring a potential girlfriend until the girl ultimately turned him down. And now he is whining like a kid.

I said it in my previous thread that "O ye foolish men, thru your sufferings, I will achieve pleasure".

• I just laugh when I hear people say that the ultimate goal of a woman is marriage.
Marriage? Lol! Who told you women love men to want to be in a long term cohabitation with them?

Whether you want the truth or not. Every woman secretly hates men. But they can't totally avoid them, which makes them hate the fact that they can't avoid who they hate.

If women's ultimate goal is marriage, why do women divorce then?

Gone are the days when women's ultimate goal was to be a good wife and raise good children.
21st century women's ultimate goal is money, she wants jewelries, designer clothes and bags, trips around the world so, she can oppress her fellow ladies to show class.

Since many women don't have the determination, persistency, tenacity, wisdom, strength and understanding to make money the way men do. They often opt for the easy route, which of course is to take it from men. Hence relationship and marriage.
The richer a woman becomes, the more useless she sees men.

• Also when people say, 27+ women are desperate for marriage. Often than not, the broke ones are the desperate ones. If she was extremely rich , she can get kids and just raise them all by herself and get occasional sex here and there. So, she's good.

That's why it is almost impossible for rich women to be married unless if their husbands are richer.

Now on the flip note. It is men, stupid men, foolish men, idiotic men, godforsaken men, imbeciles who think the 21st century woman wants marriage. I mean , think about it. For what? You think a woman really wants to wake up early to make your meal, wash your clothes and clean your house, or put up with your bullshit?

A larger percentage of women understand that men are dumb, because men are always looking for emotions and love(which doesn't exist) and they see such men as a lost puppy looking for somewhere soft to lie down.

You as a man, when you say the word "Baby, I love you". Please look into the mirror, are you not ashamed of yourself? Look at your mouth.
Your mouth must def. look like that of a fish. Do you not feel disgusted and nauseous? Are you stupid? Where did you see love?

• Work hard and make money then women will rush you. You are very stupid if you made money and you think a random woman deserves to be a partaker. By that time women are already useless to you. Tell me one usefulness of a woman to a rich man. When you were struggling, she was having fun and wouldn't look at you.

You can pay for surrogacy, therefore procreation is well taken care of.
You can afford cleaners.
You can afford nannies for yourself at old age and for your kids at infantry.
You can afford cooks and occasional chefs.
And you can simply get some 19-23 yo ladies with more firm bodies instead of some human nature with flappy arms and cellulite for random sex.

You must be very stupid if you're a man and you are looking for emotional support. What's that nonsense? Since when has emotion been a part of men? Emotions only make you weak and stupid.

I've been thru many things in this life, had a record of juggling between 3jobs daily before I became the shit I am today. No woman will have a cup of drink unless she's a relative. I'll spend my money on myself with a whole lot of peace of mind jetsetting the world and breaking other people's relationships since your women always want to have sex with rich and handsome men.

Money aside, men and women are useless to each other. Men are just as much useful to a woman as much as a bicycle is useful to a fish. The only difference is, women understand this but men do not.
A woman can act like she's under a spell and pretend to be passionately in love with you until your guards are all down. When she's only passionate about the money.

Since women claim they don't like sex, let women be then. Don't assume on their behalves, that's stupidity. Men should zip up and practice celibacy (semen retention).
One of the reasons women see men as idiots is because men always want to have sex with women.
Once a man has subdued his own sexual urge. He completely sees the uselessness of women except relatives. And in reality, is there any other usefulness?

Though I don't like people in general. I don't like anybody in real life except my relatives, but if I was driving by and I see a man and a woman walking under the rain with no umbrella.

If I've got 2 umbrellas in my car, I'll pull over. Use one umbrella, then give the man the second umbrella and a few bucks for a hot coffee around the block, then return to my car with the first umbrella and zoom off. That's the only human being on the road. You don't open your door for a snake just because there's a downpour.
When I see two people in a relationship, I feel like throwing up. It's so disgusting and embarrassing.
These days, talking to a lady feels nauseating and makes me feel dirty. Yet they still wanna be around me. I curse this goodlooks.

Women say they don't need men. Therefore, men! LEAVE WOMEN THE F*CK ALONE!!!
WOMEN DON'T WANT YOU!!! You are useless to women! They don't need your marriage, they don't need your money and sponsorship and they evidently do not need you for sex!

If you refused to leave women alone, whatever your eyes see, e no go better for anybody wey go pity you.

#Men_Minding_Their_Own_F*cking_Business.

Laple0541:
Bro, the issue is, those Souties, Ghanian’s and many other blacks are just envious and hate to see Nigerians progressing. It got nothing to do with spending. I work with many of them, and I even married a non-Nigerian African so I’m in a good position to give opinions on this.

Naturally, an average Nigerian seems to do better than an average individual among these guys and it always give them headaches. Even Nigerians had surpassed the Akatas, Jamos who had been on ground longer in those western countries in terms of achievements.

Success brings hatred from losers, and that is the reason behind his lamentation.

Sportspredicto:
I have the worst parent which life would ever give someone! A stingy, cunny, saucy and arrogant father, a father that don't want his child to be more than him so deliberately stingy! Very clannish and trying to please his siblings exactly the way I heard that it was his eldest sister that link the devil that gave birth to me to him! He didn't even probated her character but agreed because he is always trying to please them! The woman that gave to me is the worst, I would never call her mother, a devil incarnate that what matters to her is impoverishing us and giving to her family! I prefer the devil more than her! But I grew up pushing life and keep saying that God wasn't fair to me by birth, why didn't I died through miscarriage than to have this worst parent!

heartofcity12:
You’re absolutely right, myself and a friend were just discussing about what you said, Nigerian men(simps) are the biggest issues in the dating pool same men will come out to cry when they get dealt with by these small girls see how this one was crying in the post and wanting everyone to blame the girl, monetary gift indeed 🤡, 20k he can never give any of his male friends, he thought he could simp his way to her coochie but that one ridiculed him with his 20k, he had to block her and rant online, too late, money gone. Nigerian men should deal with the monsters they made why won’t these small broke girls walk with shoulder pad and fragile egos? 🤷🏼‍♂️.. Women will always make you suffer for being a simp, that’s guaranteed.

kushe:
If you have japad,congratulations, but can you pls stop bashing the country and advertising your adopted country.
The pull effect has made many families run into debt,and some marriages ending because they are chasing eldorado.
Leave people alone to find their peace no matter the location. This is our home and running away will never change that. Nigeria's DNA is in you if you like relocate to the moon or Uranus.
If everybody ran from where you are running to who would have made it a sane society?
People like me will stay and make Nigeria better.
Money is not everything.

Rukevwe999:
You haven't seen anything. This is one of the best redpill groups you'll ever find on the internet. Not saying this because I'm Nigerian, I've been to the redpill groups in forums like reddit and 4chan and I'll tell you we're nice.Very, very nice. Though this thread might be flooded with incels it's still very grounded to reality and promotes self improvement(sometimes). Most western redpill groups out there are choked with racism and pedos. Some of the guys there talk like drug addicts who see Andrew Tate as a divinity. They are obsessed with video games, animes, Trump, war, wojak memes, roman empire and medieval Europe Unlike white redpill a lot of guys here like Cave are matured in thinking and more in tuned with the reality of being a man in today's world.

Wotowotoman:
And all women act the same way
Including your mama ?

Mentholated:
The way women take selfish decisions atimes should be studied as a course in the University. The brutality can be unparalleled, like you never meant anything. You will keep questioning your reality The man was stranded at the airport for 12hrs confused.