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MRAKPORS:
Hmm

I am 5'2 and financially ok
I proposed love to this lady who should be about
5'1 but she turned me down saying I am too short

Please is 5'2 also short? I am tired o

ogbonti:
you are wise my brother

never date and support a student financially - it almost never end well

More than a decade ago, I dated this girl I met on the day I was leaving Nigeria after a short visit - we met at the airport as she was seeing a Rev Sister in her parish off and we got talking and one thing led to another we exchanged numbers - i got to the states and we kept communicating and she was an undergrad at UNILAG then - and after a few months of chatting and phone calls - she started complaining how her parents are not supporting her education because they were poor bla bla bla and initially I was so reluctant in sending her anything - but after a while - I said to myself - if this girl calls me all the time and we laugh and joke and open up all the time about life's dreams, and matters- why not just give her even if its 20k to survive a bit - that's not up to what I spend in going out on a Friday night to hang out with friends- so I sent her 20k like 3 times within a year and I was not expecting anything from her - I just felt like helping afterall the money i sent cant buy me anything tangible - its beer money here - afterall she is a "good girl"

cut a long story short - i had to get some documents from a business partner who was having housing issue and going thru a divorce, who resides in Ibadan and I sent this girl 10k to go to Ibadan from LAGOS to get the documents and keep it safely for me as I was planning on coming to Nigeria in a few weeks time (although I didnt open up to her I was coming to Nigeria - I wanted to surprise her) - she took the money and she didn't go and she started avoiding me.

I was stunned - and furious because it was important that she does, after promising me she will- do you know when we got into a little heated argument - I just told her - "girl, I am disappointed u didnt go get those documents- afterall each time you call to tell me ur problems- at east I show concern - only once and the first time I asked you to do something for me, you didnt.... she thundered in response, "what and who do u think u are ? because you live abroad, you think you can just order me around? - or is it the little change you gave me? Did I send you to help me? hmmm thank God she never begged me for money oooo bla bla bla - I froze!!!!

This girl didnt even realize that I was planning to empower her with $5,000 to open a provision store so she can study in there and sell - then still go to school - I was trying to surprise her with the package because I was already developing feelings for her. After she insulted the living day lights out of me - I simply knelt down and thanked my God I didn't give her that money and I celebrated like for a week - because she pretended for 15 months as being so sweet and caring and a PRETTY wife material that I almost made a blunder - N60K in a year of benevolence and N10k for an errand she didn't honor are nothing compared to $5,000 I would have given to this ungrateful girl

so - if you do not desist and leave this girl alone - when she graduates and starts working - you will hear things like

1. did i send you to help me?

2. what did you do for me that someone cant do?

3. is it not your mate that take their gal to shop in MARS and the MOON?

4. ordinary food, phone and tfare you gave me, you are shouting - are you this broke ?

5. what's your own - did i not give you kponmo?

6. when your mates were serious with life- you were chasing after women - (as if she is not the woman that ate you dry)

7. I beg make we hear word, when people are talking about opening a business - you sef will be talking

8. which kain yeye business u open - is laundry business a business ?

9. I am not the one who wrecked you oooo - please go and look for those who ate your money

10. what did you spend for me - calculate it and I will pay you back - nonsense (that is if you are lucky she has any integrity)

OP - stop dulling yourself and leave this gal alone - you are are not Jesus Christ and let her go and meet her father for help. Chikena!!!!!

maak400:
Continue the good work @BlackNeo, saving the brotherhood from female manipulations and deceit is a task that must be accomplished. We must put as many men as possible on the right track to self improvement and life success.
Guys, the journey to self actualization starts with focusing on your own improvements and pursuing life ambitions, women should never be the focus.
I salute other redpill bosses who have helped guys become better versions of themselves. @ubunja, Martinez39s, Pansophist and many others More blessings.

Openbusiness:
For all the mentally weak men out there, that your wife or baby mama will be using sex as a weapon against you whenever they are angry or feel like. When a woman sees sex as a weapon and sees sex starving you as a punishment, then it clearly shows she sees you as a weak man. Let me tell you, if a woman uses sex as weapon against you don't hide your feelings or thoughts, if she denies you sex, just tell her point blank you will get the sex with another woman, don't even tell her you will go outside and get it, tell her to her face you you bring the girl home and fxck her in her presence. Her brain will re-format and she will start behaving herself. But this will only work if she knows and see you as a strong man that always keep his words, that always do what he says sharp sharp. You start losing value in the eyes of a woman when your words don't mean anything to her again, when she sees your words as mere bluffing that you can't do anything. when a woman starts seeing you as a man that doesn't do what he says, then your words stop to carry weight and she sees you as a weak man. Be a man that when you speak, your words will be ringing in her head that my guy means business, he doesn't joke around with what he says, if he says he will fxck me up he will do it, so let me behave myself. She will never use sex as punishment against you again. Cuz you have show her the equation, and she go reason am say na she go lose by the time you start bringing different girls home. Her eyes go clear, she will behave herself and treat you with respect. Never forgo your respect for any puci, never ever!

Openbusiness:
For all the men out there, LISTEN and LEARN. Matters like this is why YOU SHOULD NEVER DO A COURT WEDDING. Do church or traditional but never do a court wedding. A court wedding gives the woman the upper hand in legal ligitation if matters like this arise. The court system is programmed to favor the woman. But if you didn't sign any court papers, then you have the upper hand. So all that Ikoyi registry trips society keeps pushing men to go and put pen on paper, guy you are signing away your rights and advantages. Don't do it! You are putting yourself in legal chains at the benefit of the woman. A court wedding is a NO-NO. But only wise men will understand. The society has been programmed over the years to keep men foolish. Women have used their bottom power to manipulate the system in their favor, so you have to wake up and avoid the loopholes like court wedding that will keep you enslaved. Check am well, who usually pushes for court wedding? The woman. Because when you sign those court papers, you just transferred a lot of legal powers into her hands that she can fxkp u up with anytime. Na una Sabi oh, if u like go and do court wedding.

Openbusiness:
OP you are very funny oh, so because someone accused you of cheating, and even sef, if you actually cheated, nobody has the rights to take your children and run. That's the height of weakness, where a woman has so much confidence she pulls a crazy stunt like that without fear because she already knows how mentally weak a man you are, and you ain't gonna do shit about it. No bloody woman can try that rubbish with me. I had older sisters when growing up, so I understand women well, but I had elder brothers too and thank God my first born was a no nonsense guy, so I learned a lot from him how you respond to a woman fxck up. The guy no dey waste time, omo, if ma sisters do anyhow, na correct beating straight, he no dey waste time, he go don beat dem well well before my mama and papa come to d rescue. Sometimes if na only 4 secs sef, d beating go enta before ma mama take 6 steps reach there. You don't tolerate shit from women or else they will make it a habit. None of my sisters could misbehave while we were growing up, not because of my mom or dad but because of my firstborn, the guy no give dem chance at all. Come back home late, omo if he hear, na better slaps go follow, slaps wey heavy, wey if he land for face na for ground d girl dey go. Mom would step in to protect but she always used my firstborn as a discipline weapon, she go tell dem, if you misbehave I will call your brother for you. Omo everybody go arrange demselves. Cuz d guy doesn't fxck around. If he handle u, 1 week ur body go feel am. Popc sef no dey even worry again, cuz my firstborn was up to the task of discipline in our house. So me too I was always a no nonsense guy when I grew. Even my sisters, they know my do's and don't. Don't ever try to slap me, no matter how angry you are, cuz if you slap me I will slap you back 10 times. If you angry, just insult me all d crazy insults u can think of, no problem, I won't cross d line or react to you more than words, but if you try rubbish and wanna go physical, omo forget say u old pass me oh, so far u be woman, just respect urself or else I will treat ur fxck up live and direct. I was raised to respect woman, so I won't go beyond my boundary to be trying to disrespect women any how or look for their trouble anyhow. I won't do such. But I was also raised that you got to put a woman in her place, cuz everytime she will always be trying to cross the line and do what she not supposed to do. The only woman dat can try any rubbish with me and get away with it is my mother. Anything she do, I go just take am like dat cuz she is my mother and I know the hell she went through to ensure her children didn't suffer. So she has a free pass forever. No matter what she does, I can only forgive and move on, and continue to love her. But no other woman has that privilege. So don't come around me acting crazy and think there won't be consequences. Taking my children and run is the height of crazy. I will fxck u up big time

Openbusiness:
Oga listen to wise and mature advises here and learn. See let me tell you, you're not weak, you are toooo weak and that's why the 2 of them can boldly conspire to do that thrash an take your kids and leave. How you handle this matter now will determine whether such a thing will repeat itself continuously. Don't ever beg anybody or your wife family. Dem don see you finish. Women need strong hand, they need a man that can put his foot on the ground and show them say he get craze for head if you try rubbish. Just go and report to the police anti-kidnappjng unit, that you left for work and when you came back your wife and her mother have kidnapped your children, want to go and use them for rituals, and let the hardened police go after them, and deal with them, then let them charge them to court, in the middle of the crisis, they will have sense by force when they are detained and go through shit in the police station. After dey don show Dem pepper for station, then at last minute withdraw the case, because na Dem go they beg you at that time to let una settle. I can bet it with you, that will be the last time anybody among them will try that rubbish with you and carry your children to unknown place and run. See your children are girls, that's how very soon your wife and her mother will program their mind to hate you and poison their hearts against you, and condition their thinking to see daddy is only useful as an ATM machine they can extort and dump. I pity 6ou, you have allowed a lot of weakness to grow on you too long and that's why your wife can be treating you like shit after all the sacrifice and good you have done. You better correct yourself now or else las las, na those 2 women go conspire to kill you and inherit your shit for themselves. My baby mama wanted to try such rubbish one time, that she will carry my children and go, told her point blank, see you can go wherever da fxck u wanna go, I don't give a sheet, but my children stays and ain't going nowhere. If you try to sneak my children and run when I'm not around, forgerrit, unless you run out of this country, I will find you and beat you into hell fire, I'm ready to go to jail because of it. I don't joke with my sons. One bastard girl will now say she wan carry dem run, hmmm, she can never try it no matter how angry she is, because na her obituary be that. When her family was misbehaving, I told dem to fxck off, do dey think am a weak man that a woman will be controlling? I told dem if dey try rubbish with me, I no dey hide my own, I go find dem go their family house and give dem d trouble dey are looking for, give dem so hoooot, they will buuuuurn . Since dat time, d family sef dey behave their selves, dey caution d girl say dis ur guy get craze for head o, abeg no dey follow am drag before he go break ur head. See, you have to let a woman know your do's and don't. If she cross the line, punish her immediately, no time for pity party. If you show weakness in how you handle this matter now, i can bet you from now on, maybe every 2 or 3 months, any small matter, you will be coming home to see that your children have disappeared again and they will teach them to grow up hating you. Wake up! And be a real man

Seun:
Because the foreign leaders that our leaders normally copy ideas from clearly don’t know what they are doing, our leaders have been forced to come up with their own ideas, and this is the result. I don’t like it. *UPDATED*

WetSmoke:
I love comedy. I really enjoyed horrible bosses. Please I need recommendations to enjoy my weekend.( comedy only pls)

One4me:
Everyone should be happy with the way Technology is helping shape human relations.
Women like you want to "subdue" men by all means necessary, hiding under the pretext of "equality and protection", when in actaul fact, what you are aspiring for is "subjugation and oppression" of the men folk!

The trend has been on the rise for sometime now, especially in the West.
And a lot of people wonder: Why do men go into this arrangement called MARRIAGE, that seeks to emasculate, subjugate and oppress them?
The answer is that most Men are created to want "Love/Sex and Children.
Most men see Women as THE ONLY MEANS fo realising those two things.

What else does a man want froma woman, apart from those two, think about it for a minute?
Your wife will give you regular sexual satisfaction (as much as you would give her too though they like to pretend that it is just for your own benefit!) and then she will be pregnant with your child and bear children for you, to continue your lineage.
That is what majority of Men cheirsh in marriage that keeps them falling into the same trap of marriage, despite the very visible dangers it poses to their health and life. But that is changing radically now and l am loving it McDonalds
Men is very desperate situation who lose their mind when they cannot take the female oppression of their wife anymore, resort to violence as a counter-measure but l think and see it as an act of weakness in that losing control of yourself will always be a negative, an act weakness over "self".

Now, l am certain that in about five years or ten at the most from today, a man will no longer go into marriage solely because he thinks he cant have SEX or CHILDREN, unless he marries or engages a woman in any manner that requires responsiblity ot a woman.
This is the best thing that can happen to women, since the invention of The Pill.

A man can have unlimited Sex and have his own Children, .....yes, his own children, without the need for the drama and dangers of women!
You dont need a WIFE to have sex children and ensure your family name is carried to the next generation.
From surrogate Mothers, to outright in-vitro ferterlisation of a donor egg (which we can soon be buying off Amazon or Ebay, in afew years time ) with your own sperm!
Who needs to bother his head with laws that seek to cage men or give his sweat to an ex-wife or make him pay Child support to fund the wayward lifestyle of a bitch?
I watched Andersen Cooper on CNN the way he held his baby and there was not single mention of "his Mother"....... and that blew my mind!
Women will just have to live in their own lane (Yes, have their own Children and sex, without Men) and Men to will live in their own lane.
No more taking advanatge of any law to "protect women" or give them a leg-up.

And l also forsee one thing: Very soon, just like the clash of the planet of Apes, we are going to have an open, physical, bloody war between men and Women, and at the end of that war, one gender will be conquered and out in their place.
It could be the male or it could be the female gender!

ubunja:
damn.
It is what it is.

I'll talk to her on WhatsApp.

Fisher007:
Been reading your comments on the wall, women's sexual market value, women on rotation, the peak years of men and women . I can see you have an in-depth knowledge and am feeling the vibes until this one.

It is always just your turn even in marriage. No amount of frame, alpha traits, redpill you keep. She will still bring out that female nature (hypergamous nature which will eventually leads to cheating, shit testing, manipulation, play the weaker gender move, slave you into plantation with or without your knowledge - subconsciously).

You will need to be passing shit test on a daily basis, if not you will become a statistic ( i.e get fed up and divorce).

Ubunja is great and still sane, at least he still believe in a relationship. My brother when you take the redpill (full extreme like me) you won't even want a relationship with women. You will enter level 1-2 of MGTOW. You will just pump and dump.

You will realize the following about female/women and work on yourself:

Women are incapable of love ( it is always provisional, conditional or transactional).

You can never make a woman happy.

Women are emotional being. They can never be rational or logical.

Women are full of false pride. They will never accept they are wrong.

You can never trust a woman ( even our mothers ) you need to remove that smokescreen that my mother, sister, cousin, fiancee are trustworthy.

She is never truly yours even after marriage, it is just your turn.

Once you hear I will never do that to you or not all women are like that. My brother just pull back or else it is coming for you.

My brother, hypergamy is real. It is in their nature. Women hypergamous nature is inscribed and embedded in their DNA.They act it unconsciously without even knowing.

Focus on your money, looks and status. Learn to embrace aloneness not loneliness.

Always stand your point and views with women, they always end up respecting you over time.

No cohabitation or living with a woman. You will end up regretting it.

Never validate or give women your attention. You will regret it because it brings nothing in return.

Control, manage and use your spare time for your self development. Cause giving your time to women will yield no interest or gain ( even if it is cuddle and vagina you get). It will only bring more liabilities ( infections, pregnancy, financial request, waste of time, emotional tappon and trauma).

The wall is surely real and it is coming for all women. It is undefeated.

In summary it is only a legacy that matter that is if you eventually want one. But thinking you can be redpill/ Alpha be married and maintain frame is purely delusional. She will simp you over the years. Your freedom with peace , quite and tranquility will be lost at a particular time.

You might never enjoy a free agent lifestyle. You will be caged in a shining prison once you decide to settle with a woman. Safe my brother.

Martinez39:
As in you hear things like :
1) "I caught my girlfriend cheating, what should I do?"
2) "How do I get my ex back?"
3) "I asked her out, she said NO. I am down, what should I do?"
4) "my wife won't have sex with me, want should I do?"
5) "I scolded my girlfriend/wife for doing something bad, did I over do it? Did I do something wrong?"

And many more nonsense. Some will be in a relationship, they are not benefiting anything from the girl (not even sex) yet they are spending on her because "it is what men are supposed to do". How can two youth corpers be dating yet the boy is deducting from his allowance to give to his girlfriend as monthly upkeep even though both are getting allowance? What sort of mental retardation is that? Some, after being dumped by their ex, still give their ex money when the she is stranded financially. There are hosts of other stupidity I could list out.

Though I am not against them bringing their stories to nairaland because they can get help and we can see the extent of the cruelty of female manipulation when a man, by becoming a doormat and fool, gives them boundless opportunities to manipulate. However, it is sad that this is what men have become. I ask myself, how do these men effectively lead their homes when they get married? How can these men be the leaders of tomorrow if they are this weak? Imagine someone feeling proud that he is a "real man" because he is a woman's ATM. I don tire.

pansophist:
A woman's love flows one-step downward, from her to her child. She can do anything, give anything, and sacrifice anything for her children. For men, his love flows two-step downwards, from his partner, and his kids downwards. Expecting a woman's love to flow upward in not in line with her nature. From time memorial, it has been men protecting, defending, and giving women. There are also reserved titles given to wives of honorable men, but not the husband of honorable women. So to actually convince women to see it from your perspective, you will have to edit a thousand years of evolutionary hardwiring, which is impossible.

For example, for a woman to know a man loves her, he has to spend and premium her interest, she understands love from a solipsistic perspective when it is all about her, hence, many say women are selfish and care only about themselves (which is not bad in itself, but a whole theory of natural reasons). If you also observe the female biology, she is designed to collect from her partner (e.g semen, resources, protection, etc) but give to her offspring (e.g breastfeeding, nurturing, maternity, etc). Biology supports her selfishness, it doesn't have to make sense, it is what it is. There has never been a time in human history where women are protecting, providing or acting in any way to make life better for men, so it will be illogical to expect such now.

Women do not evolve to give men but to receive from men and give to their children. How many times have you heard women sacrificing her life for her man? I have not, please let me know if you find any. Though, I have seen women sacrificing their life for their children. Though millions, if not billions of men have died defending women, from soldiers and firefighters, and all the dangerous jobs needed to make sure society is safe for her to thrive. Expecting a woman to give you is too much for her, she just can't. The evidence speaks for itself.

GogobiriLalas:
Even the sex she offers dies after 6mths to 1yr if you are not tired she will get tired and if you're in a long term relationship she will start using sex as a negotiation chip.

Besides, those of you mumus who get married to one woman and claim to want to stay faithful, the hunger for other women will drain you of concentration but you won't be able to do more than a dead dog, soon your beautiful wife will begin to show her age, her boobs starts drooping, wrinkles and creaking joints everywhere and the fat....

By 45 she's done, nothing to offer except menopausal hot flushes and dried puzi, you will spend money on lube while she reluctantly allows you to use her worn out baby dismantled body as a masturbatory aid, even her tau tau won't have any grip again; not to talk of losing your edge, the dearth of the hunter's instinct what a tragedy, you walk around like a neutered dog, other women lose their fear of you, they know you can't do nothing...

But you at 45, energy still full ground, your body will be wracked by longings for the young supple flesh you see all around you...very soon we will see you on BBC documentary sex for mark lecturer

Stay single fool

Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

Marriage is a scam.

Legacy is the only thing a man needs. As far as you have a child or children (surrogacy, abduction or baby mama). All na pickin, the rest is history.

Most people marry for flimsy, weird, crazy, survival, unfathomable and dumbfounded reason. I will speak for the men. Ladies you can speak your own too below in the comments section

You will marry a woman who's love for you is provisional, transactional and conditional. ( For better for worse statement na scam). If you doubt me try your luck. 95 percent of people in marriages are sad and cheat on each other.
The last 5percent are in a open relationship known to both party. Them just they push through for survival purpose

For men:

Na white knighting and captain save a slut wey dey do most of us. In order words beauty and toto dey too dey deceive us.

You will marry a woman you think you know. But you have no idea actually. She will form submissive, homely, loving until you done put am for house. Gbam the equation will change. Most ladies marry you based on their time don dey reach or based on they need you to provide.

You will now start understanding the famous quotes "my wife has changed. She is not the lady I married".

You see whoever you marry will always change. Change is constant. So don't complain. She will get fat, she will have hormonial imbalance, she will nag you. You will loose your peace, calm and quiet life. Just even forget sex - that one go turn weapon and manipulation tool for her. She will get old before you. Mind game go kill Una for house. It will be a power struggle since most women don't want to play their traditional role in the house. You will just be slaving and suffering for an ungrateful being brought out from your ribs.

To go home after work will be a problem, beer parlour and hangout will be your new base. She go police your life die. Na pure cage you go put yourself. But what do I know. Instead of you to stay single and enjoy your life as man. Nobody is rushing you. You will let stupid societal norms and Disney/ Naija/ Indian/ American movie fool you. Love doesn't exist man. It is only compatibility that exist.

You will hear excuse such as you will die alone. Lol. Did you come to earth with somebody before? Psssh

Qoute me at your peril. I done talk my own. Transformer and river is not far from you. Find the nearest one.

Spatta:
The vivid picture of 85% of today's women. the generation of good women who knows the value of a Home has gradually dissipated, the same goes for about 55% of men who were not properly domesticated. the rate of divorce is alarming.
women of this present age deceive men for sperm, when they get the baby their bad character begin to show and men begin to sing a mournful diddly like this one
all i can say is God "hep" us

Kalixx:
Im not the one who will tell this guy he married a harlot

Wait, are grownup males really this slow and unwise in this current day and age?

Just walk past any hotel / brothel and see how girls (even women) are always taken in by guys with obvious signs they are not their partners.

Watch how a guy with a clean ride comes to a hostel and picks 5 girls at a time. Even men that do not have wealth, but with just enough sweet mouth or looks, lay multiple girls; sometimes sisters or even friends.

See COZA's case as an example; 'prophet' Iginla too.

How do you guys see all these around you, and not harbour a feeling that you are currently dating a cheat or a past harlot? Why allow their soft and gentle looks fool you? Nawa o.

Come on, the chances are too high that you will end up with a currently bad or formerly used 'product'.

My message is not to you the poster cos Im disappointed but to young men who are too trusting, too simple and too godly. It may have worked in the past generation but not this one. Believe me, you'll be the end loser. You have to become very bad too, as in evil. You need to make money and freshen up and treat girls with disdain and disrespect, because it is what most of them deserve. You should not be loyal.

When I was young, I always resented elderly men who slept around. What did I know? Unless you started dating your girl at a young age and you're certain about her acts, you should remain faithful and loyal. But watch.

Im lucky to be in a relationship with a young girl who I love and trust. But I swear to you, if we should break up for anything whatsoever, any lady I meet from age 21 and above, can just never know anything like loyalty from me. Any lady u meet above age 21, you just have to accept that different kinds of sperm have been sprayed around and into her pussy and lead to touching stories like this.

meobizy:
In nature having one man is amazing but having two is even better. There is no greater assurance than knowing you can Bleep an interesting male then go back to your household to coexist with your once-interesting husband. If a woman plays her cards right she'll get resources continuously passed to her from both males. Society may frown at the situation but our biological urges are stronger than reason. I bet the woman in question started receiving more than normal proposals from no doubt handsome males when she got married. Most men will cheat once given the same opportunity.

RealAdewole:
Can I still get the PDFs

AntiBalaka:
The killer is someone with money.

Since he can indulge his sadistic fantasy of strangling women to death.

He lures them with money and a flashy car. But may not check into the hotel using same car not to leave any clue linking him.

He is most likely soft spoken and reserved.

He doesn't sleep with his victims as most are found fully clothed.

Am guessing he drugs them before strangling them.

He makes no attempt to conceal the bodies so I am assuming he is sending a message of some sort ;"catch me if you can".

This means he lives a fairly boring and monotous life with no social life, friends and family whatsoever.

He is not married nor in a stable relationship. He has a grudge with women of low virtue. Am guessing he is HIV+ which he definitely caught from a prostitute.

This latest victim is the least classy. He changed his usual hunting grounds so as not to draw suspicion on him.

What the police should ask how he checks out without nobody knowing.

Are the hotels fenced or not?

Am guessing they aren't and are not manned by a security guard.

musicwriter:
What would be the impact of fighting off foreigners from your land from 1652 to 1990? Don't you think it would lead you to always consider foreigners as threat?

There's hardly any problem in Africa that can't be traced to white people. Having said that, white people can't be blamed for the inability of South Africans today to understand the psychological reasons behind their actions and heal themselves. But that won't be easy because as long as white people have given them the illusion of freedom while they're still being colonized, its clear to me how they'll transfer their aggression to fellow Africans.

AreaFada2:
I wonder o.

Virtually every form of "authority" in the lives of kids warn against sex and fornication. When was the last time anyone listened?

Until people realise that women enjoy sex more than men, we won't get anywhere. The idea that it's only guys who want sex is totally archaic.

Culture just restraints girls from showing it openly.

When I remember what the daughter of our neighbour tried to do with me back then, Lawd have mercy.

Her mum was the strictest disciplinarian in the whole neighbourhood. Her dad was a very fine gentleman. They would be considered "rich" by those days standards. High paying jobs, a large duplex, many cars scattered around the large compound, summer holiday abroad, etc.

I could not do such with the daughter of a family friend and neighbour.

When I would not play ball, he took her high libido to another boy in our neighbourhood. She was about 15 and I was a year older. And that was in the so-called good old days o.

ubunja:
Attraction can't be negotiated.

A woman knows the first 2 seconds if she wants you or not. If she turns you down first time its game over. You may get her later on but the relationship will be troubled and full of headaches for you cause hey she didn't want you to begin with.

I wish guys would stop vexing over things women say. Women's words mean NOTHING. It's her actions that matter

Yes honest to God she misses you. Yes. But AS A FRIEND.

ubunja:
Here's the Real 5 things:
1)she opens legs without complaint 2)she cooks 3)she does laundry 4)she kneels when serving food 5)she keeps her opinions to herself.

Banmeallday:
You people shaaa. See the truth but deny it exist.

You know the true winners of the Nations Cup are once again European managers...making millions for doing nothing.....


One day Africans will wake up from their Colonial and militarized sleep

Ewedegubbler:
Dangote is all about receiving looted billions from politicians and getting crazy tax and import waivers and loans, running out competition out of town, murdering hundreds of Nigerians with those evil trucks and then declare huge fat dividends afterwards..
such companies no dey feature for this kind report

naptu2:
1) Division: There have been divisions and factions in the Nigerian Football Supporters Club in the past few years and some members left the club to create a new club called the Nigerian Eagles Supporters Club. These divisions have affected the club.


2) Economy: Nigeria's economy is not what it was in the 1980s, 1990s and early 2000s and our purchasing power is not the same. This means that it's more difficult to take care of issues like flight tickets, hotel bills, etc. and there's no Chief MKO Abiola to bail them out.

3) Sometimes they are at these games but you can't hear them because some cities and authorities prevent them from playing their famous trumpets in the stadium.