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iyke926: Before I die, I want to know God more and make life better for my fellow man.


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larrymoore: Before I die, I want to leave my life above a couple of billion dollars and ve houses in all capitals and....

golpen: 6. That is part of the testimonies you'll give as a muslim. I have a feeling that you must have thought the same of christianity - unanswered question. Islam encompasses every bit of one's life and when you are a total muslim, you gain your peace and thoughts of it being a myth is off.

7. The practice of islam is with the total body soul and spirit. In fact the prophet (saw) says, every action is judged by intentions, which means your intention is first checked before the action. Searing allegiance to Allah (iman) which is the first pillar of islam goes beyond speaking of the tongue (though the tongue must speak it), it is an heart held creed that must not be shaken off. Likewise other islamic practices too. Praying, fasting and all.

8. Here I think you need to read about the christian crusaders and in your intelligent mind, you'll realise that it is christianity which has been spread by force. Their's no compulsion in the religion of islam. Those who perpetuate evil acts are cowards who only do so in their personal interest. They only use islam as a cover.

9. A true muslim is one, who submits completely himself to the will of ALLAH swt in expectance of self peace.

10. We don't believe that Jesus christ died. The qur'an confirms that he was never dead, it was only made to them to look so. What can save man, believing in ALLAH, adhering to what HE enjoins and permits and keeping away from what HE forbids. Then man shall be saved.

bettermike: Honestly, you've raised good points. However, i believe you misinterpreted my points abit. Ofcourse there's no way one will not meet girls on a daily. What i actually meant was staying away from prospective dating or sexual relationshps for 4 months (which is very feasible). Believe me, if he stil harbours any second though regarding sex, it wont be long before he returns to the daily habit once again. And ofcourse, when he walks by the street, seeing girls, it should be easy to look away. Point is, he's got to stay clear of girls for 4months straight. AS A MATTER OF FACT, here's is an extreme therapy for MACELOT if he can do it. Every 3hours, repeat these following words to yourself for the next 2weeks or more. (1) I HATE SEX. (2) I HATE BREASST. (3) I HATE GIRLS. Please dont hate girls o, i believe you wil get married to one of them someday. This is just a short term measure till you gain ful control of your senses.

bettermike: Honestly, you've raised good points. However, i believe you misinterpreted my points abit. Ofcourse there's no way one will not meet girls on a daily. What i actually meant was staying away from prospective dating or sexual relationshps for 4 months (which is very feasible). Believe me, if he stil harbours any second though regarding sex, it wont be long before he returns to the daily habit once again. And ofcourse, when he walks by the street, seeing girls, it should be easy to look away. Point is, he's got to stay clear of girls for 4months straight. AS A MATTER OF FACT, here's is an extreme therapy for MACELOT if he can do it. Every 3hours, repeat these following words to yourself for the next 2weeks or more. (1) I HATE SEX. (2) I HATE BREASST. (3) I HATE GIRLS. Please dont hate girls o, i believe you wil get married to one of them someday. This is just a short term measure till you gain ful control of your senses.

bettermike: Yo girlie, take it easy now. I dont think he said anything offensive. You can never advise a man on this kinda issue since you are female and know little how it affects men. Let me give you a simple example. Women secrete very much less liquid during sex, very unlike your male counterparts. More liquid = more important nutrients lost. When one repeats the act frequently (more than once a month), in no time will it lead to a very serious deficiency which is a clear reason for Macelot's persistent tiredness and other symptoms he is presently experiencing. Point is, the effects of selfservicing or frequent sex differs significantly in males and females. There are so many other things involved that i wont be able to expose ritenow. By the way, MACELOT, please also do try to delete these following words completely from your vocabs: fvck, mojo and sex. Plus try to stop singing along to any song that has a sexy undertone to it (be it wizkid or rihanna or anyother). Believe me, our body has a way of acting out things we say. If you succesfully restrain your self while you're awake, your body wil stil have its way while you're asleep. Am talking about wet dreams which will be eventually taking one back to square one. Take heed bro. I wish you the very best.

DeLamb: There is nothing wrong with you. you do not need any drug. Most people at your age experience such sexual urge, its just a normal natural physiology. Don't feel guilty about that, if self servicing helps to calm the urge, then its ok. but moderation is the key.

alutacontinua: Oops! You don't even av an iota of belief in me, well, der's no point trying then-apparently, you think I got nothing to say.


However, dude, next time, don't write people off like that-that's a very 'uncool' post you got up there!
[color=#FF0000] Lots of females can help your situation, [/color] in lots of ways! I ain't gonna boyher again, anywayz!

Cheers!

alutacontinua: You did not answer my other questions....about your sexual life and how often you masturbate.

alutacontinua: Hi dearie, how often do you ma*turbate?
Why do you hate it or feel guilty after?
How is your sexual life? I mean. With the opposite sex!


To all d depressed pple out der, one word I have for you is to focus on the positives in your life. I was thinking about the experiences I've read about here and started wondering why I've never even thought of killing myself before, despite the kinda childhood I had. I then realised it was because I always focus more on the positives in my life than the negatives. Each person's life is filled with both positives and negatives (maybe in different ratios) but what keeps you going is to know that there is someone out there that is worse than you are! Your life is a beautiful one and some other person would give the world to be 'you'!

Once again, there is always a positive! Dewll on that! Good morning!

bettermike: Believe me when i say you absolutely NOT NEED ANTIDEPRESSANTS FOR SELF SERVICING. Please dont even attempt it! I beg you. As per solution, what you need is this: The will to stop; A target; Restrain yourself from looking or thinking about s*x; and if possible, avoid girls completely for up to 4months. Self servicing is very dangerous as it can indeed kill. Our creator did not design s*x as an everyday tonic like food. It is only for childbearing. Unfortunately, man has over time sold sex as a fun/recreational activity for frequent indulgence, which is not supposed to be. So, start today in your attempt to quit self servicing. Start with a 3day target, then one week, then 2 etc. Let me know if you encounter any problems along the way. You can do it bro. Just believe.