₦airaland Forum

Pweety4me:
_{Hehe wat about u? we'll i don't have lesson till later on in d day so i can stay a bit longer. .} .

follypimpi:
I know of dudes that wld wait 1yr till she gives it up while banging sum nxt girl on the side and still wld walk away.

Pweety4me:
_{But u r big 4 me. . .}

ibkaye:
Alright, so how's about we all wake up and smell the coffee lol

platinumnk:
why would you get bashed? because you dont limit yourself to nigerians?
you arent the only one

Pataki:
So I reckon you are a black Jew.



What in specific do you wish to know 'romantically' about Yoruba men?

Pataki:
@ madlady (what a queer name),

I hold no offence. How far back in the day are you talking about? Of what input does it add, knowing about the Jews culture or the German culture, except I happen to be doing it for academic or a special ''vested interest''. As I earlier submitted, knowledge in this area is often at times, highlighted on the negatives than the positives.

You are yet to disclose your culture which I asked earlier. Prolly I may have a vested interest in your culture anyways. . . .lol

Pataki:
@ madlady,
You are very right. But these days, if you do not have a vested interest in someone else's culture, why bother to learn it, even if it is intriguing? Permit me to ask, what nation or culture are you from?

While trying to understand a Yoruba man, or any man from any other tribe or nation, it will be totally wrong, to stereotype any gender based on their culture. As often the case, the ills of a culture stick to the brain faster than the good, which often times makes one to think more of the negatives than the positives to any human being. I think everyone should be noted for who they are not based on their culture.

platinumnk:
wOW, maybe u can find somone that is able to compromise.

shhhh (that's easy, but my heart does not follow my head)

How did i get on this @Topic, I may get a bashing soon

platinumnk:
Marriage should between two people and it really shouldnt be limited to race. outside faith I dont agree.
Though I would perfer to marry our own, if I bond great with someone else from elsewhere who are we to say no?

What I dont agree on, is people looking for a particular race to marry, eg, a black man looking specfically for a white woman, ignoring others which might have been his other half.

Who really knows who we are meant to be with? Only God o

These days - Open mind, open spirit

Pataki:
The way this romance board is filled with Nigerian men . . . .this and that, seems we are demi-gods.

@ Poster,
The key to a good relationship is communication, which should be effective and proper. A yoruba man loves a lady who is spontaneous and does not wait to be told what to do, while at the same time respects and values his man and his opinions.

Shug316:
I am dating a Nigerian man and i like him very much but i dont really know that much about his culture. I would ask him but i want to find out for myself. I would appreciate any information you would be willing to share. Thank You and God Bless

platinumnk:
there is nothing sad about it. keep an open mind and spirit and u wont have to complain about Nigerian men.

lovemoi2:
u just need to broaden yah horizon
must it just be a guy from Nigeria

if u focus on just one particular race u will miss out and always feel left out, especially when u are in a country where yah race is basically the minority

dayokanu:
Gators,

Most AA guys dont even have a job and leech on their women

If every Naija guy desires an Akata wife that would be the easiest thing to get