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Patrioticbreed9:
we are in the same shoes bro,mine is due to anxiety and late sex,i had my first sex when i was 18,during the sex rump my mind wasnt at ease,the whole stuff was still going on till my back start hurting and i came down and was like so this is the almighty then i gave up on it.the whole stuff changed a day when i was having sex in my dream and i came,i woke up and checked it and was actualy sperm and not pre-cum to say i was happy would be an understatement,i letter found out that the whole stuff lies in the mind,dont get tensed up when you want to have sex or take it too seriouse,get a naught g.f that will be ready when you are,continue having sex till that tensed feeling when ever u want to have sex disapear's then you are good to go.. till date i cant cum masturbating

Is it because of the anxiety?

Okay

falcon01:
What are we tackling now? the fact that you dont Ejaculate quickly or you wanna Know if you could give birth? well it depends on your sperm count if it reaches the number enough to fertilise an egg then you are good to go and about the delayed ejaculation if you do masturbate reduce it and if you dont, try other things sha maybe like kinks and your fetish. Don't depend on the traditional lye down and gba gba gba gba way just find what Gives you a powerful sensation and go with it.

Which girl can agree to kink and fetish in Nigeria here. And I be doing such with my wife everyday or every time we want to have sex

Please come to my rescue, I am dying with depression. How can I be happy ? I'm not enjoying my sexual life. People say it is an advantage that I have delayed ejaculation condition. That so many older ladies love long lasting men on bed. Yes it's true but at my age I am not up to the level to mate with older ladies that do really love delayed ajaculation. At my age some of my age mate opposite sex can't be able to take pe.n.is not to talk more of long lasting sex . No matter the time we trust I will not cum, until I will get tired. And can't even thrust again. How can I father a child when I can't pur sperm inside my wife. How will she be able to get pregnant na. It is so painful . Help me out please. I need your advice now pls

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Barrywilly:
This is child molestation, period. This guy really bleeped up and he is going in for a very long term in prison. Just for only few minutes that the lady stepped out, he couldn't control his JT n started molesting the baby girl. If you can't control your prick, get a girlfriend or wife or get an ashi to avoid being chew raw by the feminists. By the way, why didn't he go for the princess herself considering the fact that she has two huge loads in the front and behind too

Child sabi sweet

AntiAPC2023:
the cases are rising and this second wave seems deadly.
What is happening in India isn't a joke.
I call on the Federal Government to close all international airports and banned flights traveling into the country.
Schools, churches, markets, businesses should be closed for now and a Dawn to dusk curfew placed in all the 36 states so as to curb the spread of the virus.
Inter state travels should be banned for now till the cases have died down
We shall overcome and this too shall pass.

Thunder go fire you o I swear

stancydg:
The above mentioned music reality show currently running on DSTV and GOTV platforms may likely be the "wackiest" (for want of words) music reality show in recent times going by the quality of opinions thus far by the jury, made up of a 3man panel of Obi Asika; a Record Label Exec, Seyi Shay; a perpetual upcoming artiste going by the unpopularity of most, if not all her songs and DJ Sose; who at best is skillful at selecting songs that'll mostly appeal to club audiences.

One would have thought the record label executive in the person of Asika, who ordinarily should have been exposed to artistes of various kinds, will as a father figure, be in full control of the selection process, by way of influencing the opinions of the others even though the antecedents of past judges on the show clearly sets a pace for divergence in opinions that in the end, engenders a robust decision for or against the candidates. This is terribly in deficit this time on the show, as as much as a snarl from the perpetual upcoming artiste is enough influence of the opinions of two supposedly mature and independently minded men. Sose even managed to take his obvious lack of knowledge of music and consequently, a lack of sound judgement to annoying levels by always concurring to whatever Seyi Shay breathes, despite his body language telling otherwise.

All of the above is obvious in the audition of the young music producer, whose image you'll find attached to this post. I can bet that IK, the show host was shell shocked that the young man had to be turned down for no reasonable point, except for displaying his musical dexterity. If that's a crime, then pray tell me what Idols is all about?

I was part of the very first Idol show in Nigeria that produced the likes of Timi Dakolo and Omawunmi and what I can clearly remember is that singing foreign songs or even displaying your vocal dexterity wasn't a crime. If it was compulsory for candidates to do local pangolo songs for the show to be seen as "Nigerian Idol", like Miss Shay foolishly posits, then I dare the show organisers to switch the nomenclature to "Naija Oosa/Ojuju etc" and compel the judges to speak Yoruba, Hausa and Igbo.

Besides, in the first Idol show in Nigeria, the jury made up of seasoned music industry legend like Dede Mabiaku, Radio Joc; Dan Foster and a Ghanian lady popularly referred to as "It's not werking for me" had their independent opinions of the candidates even though one out of the trio always played the devil's advocate.

Question now is; who the hell is the devil's advocate that'll ensure a robust decision making process in the ongoing Idol show, when from all we see, all trio are sleeping with their heads in the same direction??

Reason the current panel needs to be disbanded, asides the joke Seyi Shay has made of the show by unprofessionally making mockery of young chaps she is meant to encourage, thereby wreaking psychological damages that may be indelible in the lives of the up and coming generation.

PS: I don't know the guy being auditioned in the attached pictures as I am speaking for countless others that are in my opinion, obviously far ahead of the judges musically, but were turned down.

Wel I don't have nothing to say. I just quoted because i love quoting

Murjem:
My dear I sincerely feel your pains and hope God Almighty give you the strength to fight through but you have to know that we all live in a very challenging world either physically challenged or not especially here in Nigeria.

The best thing you need to do is to find something extra ordinary to engage yourself in. For instance, singing , dancing, acting, sport even some kind of special knowledge acquisition that will make you stand out amongst everyone else..

Who ever knew that Aki and Pawpaw can use their littlenesses to glory?

Such are the things I am taking about, though it doesn't come with ease but through persistent struggle you will surely achieve more than your goals.

Wish you the best in life!!

Thanks for the encouragement

tito44:
Brother man, it will surely be well.

Just keep doing all you can, also keep applying for grants from International NGOs and other agencies, one day God will answer ur prayer and they will help you with money to procure or even prosthetic Leg. Its is not the end of life. Pls dont give up ok...

Wow thanks

HONESTFACT101:
ANGER MAY HAVE PURSUED YOUR HELPER

Everyone has a purpose in this world and you have to keep living till you find it dieing won't do you any good and it will affect does around you negativly,you may never know who you motivate or who you inspire or who your companionship holds great importance to......signing out

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MISSCONGENIALITY:
You have not seen blind people, crippled and even those without both legs?
You want to kill yourself cos you are rejected.
You better stop expecting people to accept you. Accept yourself and move on. Even those of us with complete everything are still rejected and thats not enough to kill yourself..no one really cares and those people you want to accept you won't even care if you kill yourself.
When you look good, do so for yourself.
You are the only one that has the power to make yourself happy or sad. People will always want to make you feel bad and those who care a little will even make you an object of pity with for me is worst.
Ita when you live for others that you start bothering how they feel or care about you. You need to live for yourself. Enjoy life now when you till can because whether you kill yourself or not, you will still die.
The worst thing that could happen to you I. Thai life is to hand over your happiness into the hands of others.

Hmmmmmm

Bilabong:
Don't do anything stupid. It won't solve the problem.

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TheGiftedOne:
Suicide has never been the answer.... Ayefele & Steve Wonders are still strong and living. Say "NO" to suicide. Life is a gift from God that must be kept. Think about the sorrow and years you'll leave behind.

Take note of those who love you and not the senseless few around. Stand up and be strong man. With love

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Samueltemi337:
Then kill urself already

Thanks

Mokason288:

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This is not a laughing matter pls . Someone is dying from depression . I can commit succide any moment from now . Cos I am even disappointed tonight by someone

I am a disable, not in born but I had a motor accident and lost one of my leg and resulted to wheelchair.. so I am a wheelchair man ...
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SOCIAL : Sometimes I feel like I am not wanted in this world , as I am typing this right now, it is with tears in my eyes . I am just confused about life . No matter what I do is not taking serious. Every where I go people looks me like an Allen , which sometimes I get angry and rebuff them. Somes times , I just accept the reality and move on .

PHYSICAL APPEARANCE : Not just that , I can't even have a better girlfriend because I am not better looking. If I try to dress simple and responsible they look down on me , they prevent me from entering some kind of places , like event venues , bars , eatries , hotels , etc they start looking me less less . The worst and painful part is that I can't pass peacefully on the road again because people start making attempt to dash me moneys like N20 naira and N50 naira until I start insulting them off . Infact before I even try to push my wheelchair a kilometer , I will be abuse by good Samaritan who wants to give beggers arms thinking I am a begger because I am on wheelchair. I quorell almost every day on that , I lay curses on them sometimes , I can't accept arms on the road because I have a small business I am surviving on and I am not and can never be a begger. As I was still saying People start avoiding me , some people start behaving like I am disgusting . Smelling etc . BUT IF I DRESS BIG .. the big dressing I mean is putting on a big trending shoe and maybe a hairstyle and shining clothes boom some start saying I look like a tout . All eyes on me , if even you didn't see me , your neighbor must tap you and be like look at that boy . All eyes on me . Cant even pass on the road again , shame would hold me cos of the eyes . Oh God , I want to live a kind of simple lifestyle and I don't really love dressing big but because of the insults I receive when I dress simple , that's what made me to always prefer dressing big and for my own happiness.
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Emotional Part I have passed through a lot of rejections . Nobody wants me in any where any thing I do . Sometimes I go indoor cry all through the day . But comes outside smiling like all is well . people don't see any good in me
. No matter how I try to be good , nobody talks about it . It pains me when people call me a bad boy either jokingly or seriously. It pains me more when people say my kind of person (Disables) are the most evil .

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Please I need your advice . Just talk sense into my head , say something that will inspire me to live
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This is not all my stories , I still have a lot of things to say , I am just tired of typing at the moment .

History555:
From lagos you saw it happening or you hve forgotten you are a upcoming artist in Lagos

Who is in Lagos?

funkekemi:
any confirmation please

I saw with my two coro coro eye . It is really happening

funkekemi:
others living in Owerri should confirm this news

Confirm

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Anytime I opens this thread I feels very motivated reading your advices . Pls can you keep it coming ?

Hello guys good day
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I don't know how to relate my problem but let me go it anyway I hope you understand. Thanks

I am an upcoming artiste . Who depends on people to help me , help in me terms of reposting, sharing my songs. So when I wanted to drop one of my track, I chatted and negotiated with a lot of people to that they would help me repost and reshare my new song , though I have done this kinda stuff several times but it isn't working out. So recently I decided to drop these New jams and then I had to chat a lot of people , when I say a lot of people I mean hundreds of my friends in my account friend list. I told them they are going to help me repost my song when it drops. Ladies and gentlemen all of them agreed to do so and I got hoped and assurance that I have a lot of people to help me push my song. To my own very surprised when I dropped this song I couldn't even get ordinary comments or likes. All the people I chatted up who agreed to repose share all went agog. I even went back to their dm to remind them of their promise. Some of them even snubs me and didn't reply me again . And they are reluctant in helping me share the post as promised. Wat pains me is my message showing seen and unreplied and the person is online . cry cry cry to my own very surprise , even my classmates all snubbed .
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Now the advice I need from you is this, should I block all this set of people and recruit a new set of fans. I've been thinking of what to do, am I surrounding myself with the wrong people? Please advise me. should I delete my account and create new one for new people in my life that will support my dreams career and goals. Or should leave them and keep hoping they would support one day ? Thanks your opinions are welcomed.

Mainlymanof:
Hello guys good day
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I don't know how to relate my problem but let me go it anyway I hope you understand. Thanks

I am an upcoming artiste . Who depends on people to help me , help in me terms of reposting, sharing my songs. So when I wanted to drop one of my track, I chatted and negotiated with a lot of people to that they would help me repost and reshare my new song , though I have done this kinda stuff several times but it isn't working out. So recently I decided to drop these New jams and then I had to chat a lot of people , when I say a lot of people I mean hundreds of my friends in my account friend list. I told them they are going to help me repost my song when it drops. Ladies and gentlemen all of them agreed to do so and I got hoped and assurance that I have a lot of people to help me push my song. To my own very surprised when I dropped this song I couldn't even get ordinary comments or likes. All the people I chatted up who agreed to repose share all went agog. I even went back to their dm to remind them of their promise. Some of them even snubs me and didn't reply me again . And they are reluctant in helping me share the post as promised. Wat pains me is my message showing seen and unreplied and the person is online . to my own very surprise , even my classmates all snubbed .
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Now the advice I need from you is this, should I block all this set of people and recruit a new set of fans. I've been thinking of what to do, am I surrounding myself with the wrong people? Please advise me. should I delete my account and create new one for new people in my life that will support my dreams career and goals. Or should leave them and keep hoping they would support one day ? Thanks your opinions are welcomed.

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More contributions pls

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Zzor:
You simply face your studies and come out with a first class or you go do something that stands you out among your friends, not all ladies gives a damn about the looks of a man.Can we see your pictures? let's see how you can improve on your looks

Here

Hello nairalnlanders ,
What do you do when you know you are not handsome and no girls wants you . Maybe you find it difficult to find a girl who would be interested in you . All girls you call on the road always runs afar . And you are still single Biko help a brother I am dying of depression