Yeah man, get your stake ready.

Do we have any serious predictors and gamblers? I am in this section for one reason: to help people make Naira! I will not leave until someone makes IM with proof. I will give you crazy odds, starting this weekend.

Greetings Nairalanders! I bond well with older women. They are more honest, open and loving, and definitely more experienced in bed; young women of 30 years and below are irritating and tend to dwell on petty issues. Tell me Ogas, especially those with an experience of dating women between 40 - 55 years of age, is there anything wrong? These young girls of below 30 who still smell urine are just troublemakers. Can an older woman make a good second wife?

Why should you feel sad? for enjoying God's wiring? You people are becoming too westernized, and i frankly believe that there is nothing wrong with young people exercising their organs before they meet their life partners. So are you suggesting that fornication is "less sinful." And this is how the white man criminalized marijuana, now everybody thinks it is BAD - yet they have never smoked it.

Someone help me: what is Ogbanje

Because it is strange for a hen to chase a cock.

Good question sir. That is where you come in. But I will answer you because you asked an honest question. Men and women are from two different worlds.

Man was made from soil; woman was made by flesh - on the eighth of creation - after resting. To be a male is by birth; to be a man it is a choice.
This is why it is hard for a man to lead a woman if you lack certain skills.

Women compete with ducks over two things: their love for water, and how they walk. Men, on the other hand, belong to either eagle or chicken family, it is the man who choses.

Not like that. Facing downwards. nobody is wailing, we are watching closely

You are comparing onions with tomatoes and yet you know the difference. It is disgraceful for a man to beg a woman not to leave him. LET HER GO!

I think she means that the ratio of men:women is not equal.

Never believe the words from a woman easily; let her body language inform you if she is legit or just another slay queen. This is what can save you from greater suffering later. Men should know the meaning of a woman fanning her legs the moment you enter, or when she is smiling cheek to cheek. The hair betrays a woman interested in a man. She MUST go for her hair to capture his attention. Am I blind?

You are an idiot. Real men cannot do that.

1+1 = 1 Good Marriage

1+1=2 Forced Marriage

1 + 1 = 11 Complicated Marriage.

We all got it wrong in school.

The Indelible Scars of a Narcissist

Narcissism is as widespread as Covid in 2020. It is more prevalent in young adults between 20 and 40 years old, and it less present among people above 50. Beware of anyone who calls other people narcissist; they usually turn out to be narcissists themselves. The problem is that if you are suffering from narcissistic abuse, you can become a narcissist with knowing it.

This is a deeply personal problem that might involve a spouse, a parent, or a sibling. To begin healing, quit making efforts to please them: you can never please narcissists. You too deserve a chance to be happy and become the best you can be. The wounds of abuse after long-term manipulation can be deep. Click the link below to find an online therapist who follows the rules of confidentiality and anonymity.

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Remember that you are your best therapist. Affirm yourself on a daily basis, award and reward yourself consistently. Engage in the activities you love and distance yourself emotionally from them. They rarely change. They distorted your reality about who you are; it’s time to believe in yourself and dream again. If you need help, click the link below:

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Find out who is the other woman.

It happens all the time. It is a condition called LIMERENCE. Watch out for excessive criticism from your spouse to know that she has spotted greener grass. She suddenly wants to appear more beautiful but has no interest in sex? She probably getting it somewhere? The good news is that both physical and emotional affairs end. And they end up bad. Limerence ends after about one and a half years: are you willing to wait, Oga?

What the ***k happened to decency and grace in women. I have conducted a study and apparently, women have outdone men in having affairs. What a man can do, a woman can do better. The problem is when they realize the cannot control the consequences of their behavior. This is why talking about love is like talking about ghosts: very few people have ever seen ghosts.

I think that is a brilliant idea. I will buy you a soda. seriously.

It is easier said than done. Sometimes it must be a selfish process where you start minding about YOU. As for the people who may have contributed to the trauma, think like them. Give them no room or audience to trample on you.

You made my day complete! Thank you

Let them come and investigate the Shakahola massacre in Kenya. One pastor, a former taximan, starved nearly 3000 people and buried them. Exhumers paused after recovering 468 corpses to celebrate Christmas. Check the fact for yourself. Investigating politicians as one man says is another story.

It happens long before the marriage is over. Technically, it happens before during, and after the marriage.