Naija Husband Doesn't Give Oral. PLEASE READ FIRST, THEN LEAVE HELPFUL SUGGESTIONS.

I wax, I cleanse, I make it smell good and he doesn't give me oral.

When we first met, I gave him thinking he would give me and never did. I asked him why and he said he wasn't used to giving it,
then said for me, since I am his wife he would do it. And he has, only twice so far.

All he does in oral, is look at it in disgust and barely lick only the top part.
It feels emotionally hurtful, like he doesn't find me sexy or attractive. I just ask him to stop.

Any HELPFUL suggestions? I know he is willing.
**So any men out there have suggestions on how to make Oral to his wife desirable for him?**

I think it's so beautiful. I'd love that. My Naija husband is a good man but a terrible lover. Nothing much I can do but pray he takes the time. If I were in Polygyny we'd have zero issues. ... So I stay positive minded things will get better. One day our world will live in true equality.