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Now that the president that calls you every day have arrived, have you being able to locate the Chibok girls?

Cholls:
My brother God bless her......but I wan see the pix where she kiss that oga with this her teeth. Lol

..Akpo man

Happi birthday to her, but she look older.

Na GEJ course am, or Buhari

This is Change that we prayed for, soldiers should please extend their power generating horse whip to ENUGU EDC PLEASE.

Hope there action will Change the price of Fuel in Nigeria,

Thirded my brother

I will comment on this topic later please.

Hmmm

Eleleleleleleooooh!!!!. Am sure that was what the man was screaming. Kongi i hail oooh

Chai! This man do pieces this girl London key, wit his anakonda.

U na badoo

believer01:
i am a regular member on nairaland and i create this user to remain anonymous. i need mature guys and ladies to advise me on a way forward.
dont mind my grammar and typographical errors

i have been dating this guy since our 100level days in school, most people fear in school is that school relationships ends at the gate but our did'nt end at the gate. we went for youth service and still continue with our lovelife though the relationship was collapsing during service year but we built it up again and everything was okay after service. i happened to serve in his state and i was retained after service which makes us to start staying in the same town.
In school all our focus was to finish school, serve and get a good job. marriage was not really discussed cos i was thinking it was too early and since we were doing fine for 7years i believe marriage is inevitable (i hope that word is correctly use). there is one thing i discovered after service
1. he is not ready to talk about marriage not because he is tired of me or anything (cos i know i am one of the best things that has happened to him) but cos he believe he must have millions of naira in his account.
2. he believes the tradition of not marrying early in his family could also delay his marriage even though i have met almost all his family members.
3. he brings up quarrel or another issue when i bring up visiting my family even though he has met them twice.


my questions:
1. should i wait till "forever" when he will be ready to discuss/ready for the marriage?
2. i love him but now i have offers from different guys and i know the offers won't last forever(i have turn down 2 already). should i stay and pray he comes to his senses or leave him?
3. we are so closed to each other and understand each other so well that it will be difficult to understand anyone else like that.
4. am not against him having millions of naira but "money is never enough" his friends that are not as okay as himself are getting married already.
5. am not trying to rush him into marriage but how am i to know i won't regret waiting until when he will be ready? what if he leaves me after the long wait?

7years relationship now. plssss no insult we all do crazy things for love but we learn everyday and i believe this forum will give me the candid answer i seek

Believe me, that guy will never marry you. Reasons.................... He is not afraid of losing you to other serious guys that may be your destined husband that's why he refuses to Discuss you future with you. 2 did i hear you shouting 7yrs of dating (sex) without marriage? Hmmm what a mistakes dear. What he is suppose to pay before getting it, he has gotten it b4 the payments so it will only take the grace of God before that guy discuss marriages with you. My advice to you is summon courage and quit now or..................

And Edo governor is busy marrying Ethiopia woman