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You've just gotta love the nicknames white folks give themselves.

Red card Roy

BBQ Betty

Permit Patty

Good luck Chuck

Golfcart Gail

Cornerstone Caroline

If na Naija you just need to check their phone- you go dey see:

Big yansh Jumoke
Chuks Chuku Chuku
Long head Larry
Linda Lagerback
Matilda Manchester
Dele Manpower
Adamu Schumacher
Nelson Nackerson

ezugegere:
Marriage should be for matured adults only. I can't get angry because my mother-in-law walks into my house without pre-notifying me. Even if she come meet me fucking her daughter, na she and her daughter go fight, nothing concern me.

I think the OP might have a wife that travels often and he probably lives a double life, maybe flirts around with other women at his home when wifey is not around. He is just scared his mama in law might catch him red handed with another woman when he wasn't expecting her to show up. Lol.

But on a more serious note, I don't see why it should bother the man if the mum lives close by. The issue should be when she lives miles away and has to sleep over cos she can't return the same day. The reasons for this are understandable:

1. They may not have planned for her catering/hospitality needs and weren't given adequate time to.

2. They may have planned to travel before her arrival and this would disrupt travel arrangements.

3. She might be the talking/gossip type and go share information about their personal/financial state to the outside world, especially if it's not very good at the time of her visit.

4. She may be a troublesome fellow/distraction who expects to be given 100% attention.

5. She may have come for money which they don't have or haven't prepared for at the time.

6 She may always give wrongful advice to her daughter and cause marital problems for the new family.

7. She may make requests/demands of the husband or both couples that he/they may not have the ability to achieve in his/their current physical/socio-economic status. (For instance: a troublesome brother in law might have been arrested for stabbing someone and she wants you to go get him out, not caring how you do it).

8. Some mothers in law don't know when to leave. They turn the home into theirs (even worse if she is a widow, cos fathers in law tend to control their erring wife in this respect and keep them at home) and even command everyone about, including the husband of her daughter. When you fall less of her expectations she starts calling everyone of her children, including your family members and distant relatives to report you that she is being maltreated in her daughter's home.

In laws should learn to give new couples time to bond properly before the children start coming. Most marriages that are dissolved in old age happen because the couples never really got quality time together in the beginning as man and wife and feel as though kids were the only bond holding them together through the years till they grew up and left home. This is either because the kids came in too early (pregnancy before marriage or were constantly barraged by in-law visits until the kids showed up and even afterwards). Those who invented honeymoon are not stupid. In my opinion the honeymoon period should be longer than most people observe. Especially for couples who weren't living together prior to marriage.

TUBLEZ:
For sale
1. Tv stand 15K

2. Ps 2 with 1 pad and memory 15K

3.single face hot plate 5K

4. I better pass my neighbour gen 10K ( SOLD)

5.Sony powerful home theater with 4 tall speakers, a small speaker and woofer 50K

Wil load pic later

Watsap 08121680787

Please load pic of the home theater

iamoyindamola:
Sure
Happy waiting

Thanks sir.

iamoyindamola:

That guy go tey for here

Its better to wait long than ..... wrong.

harbeedemi:
6k last?

Not possible.

AyarmBoye:
how much bro ?

12k slightly negotiable. Contact me on WhatsApp.

Contact in Signature.

harbeedemi:
How much and location?

12k slightly negotiable. Contact me on WhatsApp. Check my Signature.

PS4 Red dead redemption 2 for clearance sale!
Location: Lagos Mainland
Contact: check my signature.
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Red dead redemption 2 on PS4 for sale.
Lagos Mainland.
Contact me on WhatsApp via the number on my signature.
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iamoyindamola:
Lol
You still never sell this game since

I travelled previously. Just returned last night.

I've got Red dead Redemption 2. DM me via whatsapp (contact in signature) for fast sale.

I'm in need of the following items.

Home Theatre
Chandelier
Side stools (3 - 4)

wiseone28:
His pocket

Big boys don't load their pockets with cash anymore, they use bank cards or transfer. Na poor man dey fear to keep money for him bank or has withdrawn it all. Secondly, poor man no get car, so every thing wey him carry come out from house dey him pocket.

Vyntra:
Earphones

Ok I thought you were referring to the PSVR headset.

Vyntra:
please mention if you have a PlayStation headset for sale

Do you mean PSVR headset or PS4 earphones?

LMS1:
Op It Depends On Your Tradition, Some May See It As A Taboo While Others May Not.
But Technically It Is Not Wrong To Marry Her Sister Since They Both Are Diffrent Body Entirely Except For The Fact That They Share Same DNA.
Tho Bear In Mind That If The First Died Due To Difference In Blood Group With The Man Then The Second Also Has A High Chance Of Following Same Path.
Gudluck And Happy Incest To Him.

Please can you throw more light on the bolded? What has Blood Group differences gotta do with death?

32 inch 3D TV for sale with 4 free 3D glasses. (Optional - 3D movies for sale too).
#350,000 #150,000
Location: Lagos.
Contact in signature.

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3D Tv's are extremely rare as most companies stopped production in 2017 owing to high cost of production.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jXQ6FT3SCHs
Still available.

icloud503:
10k

Contact me on WhatsApp. Please see number below in my signature.

[quote author=Greatmanifexto post=99167052][/quote]It's in my signature sir.
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Greatmanifexto:
Can I pay #3500

Please send me a message on whatsapp. Contact in signature. Thanks.

majorbravo:
32 inch 3D TV for sale with 4 3D glasses
Location: Lagos.
Contact in signature.

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3D Tv's are extremely rare as most companies stopped production in 2017 owing to high cost of production.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jXQ6FT3SCHs

Below is the true cost of a 3d tv in Nigeria

Guys please does anyone have or know where I can get a good capture device for recording gameplay in HD? Or some other way to record it in high quality? I understand the PS4 comes with a playback capture when you press the share button. But i need this for some games on my PS3.

feistymikey:
I’m interested... I’m in Ikeja . if you gree 8k, I’ll buy today

Bring 12k. I'm tired of this sale already. My whatsapp is in my signature.

32 inch 3D TV for sale with 4 3D glasses.
#150k
Location: Lagos.
Contact in signature.

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3D Tv's are extremely rare as most companies stopped production in 2017 owing to high cost of production.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jXQ6FT3SCHs

Toy off road truck with trailer and boat for kids.
New, never used, still in pack.
#5000
Lagos.
Contact in signature.

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Doubis:
Brand new throw pillows for sale at 600 naira each. 8 pieces available. WhatsApp or call on ____ to buy.

Done

Gang90:
Dude it is great you counted your blessings but we are having it all differently, you are in your thirties congratulations in your achievements but don't compare our lives you don't know what challenges the other person is facing, you might have gotten your masters at 26 but I could also become a governor at 36, don't ever feel proud becuase you are better than someone at so and so stage, you could be older than Marckzukabag but he is among the top 10 richest people in the world, give advice devoid of ego.

You have not heard my stories you had only heard my disgust, are you saying your poor father obviously left nothing to be proud, because if he were Bill Gates you would be assembling lawyers now to claim his properties, look I'm proud of my father and above everything I would want to inherit his mini home library, even if I can't have all of it at least most of it.

So calm down asking for your fathers properties is not a sin becuase if he were owing money you will still pay it, don't be carried away by societal pressure, so you got strife on your own lol, why do they inherit kingdom in England why won't the prince or princes go get himself or herself a brand new Kingdom.

I seriously can't get how you twist advice given to you. When I said I was living on my own abroad at 26, it wasn't to tell you i'm better than you. I was giving you an idea of how independent I was, and achieving stuff without looking at my mum or siblings like you have and to alert you to how you too can be independent at such an age, not to see yourself as still a baby waiting to be spoon fed.

How much my father is worth isn't the topic for discussion here. I never said he was poor like you are suggesting. But if my father didn't rely on his own father's inheritance to become as great as he did, I don't see why I should.

If this is how you want it, so be it. Better pray then that your dad wrote his will and you have something of worth in it. It's a dangerous line you are threading here, cos if any, even just one of your elder siblings think like you, you are gonna be in for a rude shock when you find out how heads roll during the fight for who gets what. If any of your elders or even Uncles and Aunts are more powerful than you, you are completely helpless to say the least and at their mercy in this regard. Even if you are entitled to inherit the World Trade Center from your dad, Justice in Nigeria is sadly for those who can afford it. If you have nothing, those who do would take what you have and you can do nothing. If you even get lucky and receive what you believe is rightfully yours, your type with your current lack of ambition to make something on your own will see whatever you get from it squandered in record time. For someone who considered being a priest, you definitely read the bible at some point in your life, so take a warning from the literal intepretation of the story of the Prodigal Son.

I repeat. Be wise and start thinking about the products of your hand not what others are doing.

Dude I'm having a headache actually trying to piece together all the stuff you are on about.
You say you aren't spoilt but you brag about how your mum treats you like a King and how everyone else besides her should follow suit. I don't know what other definition exists for a spoilt child than the above.

I am a last born like you but way older now (in my 30s). At 26, I already had a masters and lived on my own abroad. Heck, I even moved out of my father's house at 22. I can't and have never imagined myself chasing after my father's property cos following the culture, last borns like me are on the tail end of the spectrum when it comes to who gets what. This is something every last born has to put up with and this very issue made me more ambitious to make my own mark for myself in life and for my future family.

Now to the issue at hand, don't you think it's a bit weird that you came on nairaland to say all these about your brother's wife? You say she took your pillows, do you even bother to know why? Even if you feel mistreated, are you a hopeless child to not be able to get the clue you aren't wanted around and move on with your life? Arent you mature enough to know that your brother and indeed no one on this planet would pick you over their spouse? If that house were on fire and your brother could only save you or his wife before the whole house is engulfed. Who do you think would be saved? The mother of his kids or an entitled little brother who thinks washing his car once a week is the lottery? Even your sister would never pick you over her husband. So then, don't you think the best payback for maltreatment of any kind is to ensure you make it in life on your own?

You obviously still enjoy being a child and being pampered by your mum and brother. You claim you are an adult male but you're just having a taste of what it's like to be an adult and you don't seem to like it one bit.

Success stops unnecessary mistreatment especially from those who were once in authority over you. Your dad is no more (God rest his soul), your mum you say treats you like a king won't live forever and neither would your brother nor you.

Stop waiting for your father's property (you wont make half of what Jeff Bezos or Elon Musk is worth if you relied on it) or for anyone to clean the sheets or the very ground you walk on. Spend your time trying to build your own life and less on what your brother or his wife is doing. If you had any iota of self worth or principle, you would spend your usefulness (which you claim you have spent on helping your brother out in his house) on yourself, instead of laying claim to the respect you feel his wife should give to you.

You even said your family made your brother what he is today cos they invested in his education. Dude, if your brother was busy looking for who slept on his bed while he was studying and working, all that money the family spent on him would be a waste today and you won't see a house for you to claim a room in. You lie to yourself and deny the efforts your brother put on his own to convert the opportunities he was given by your family(which also happens to be his family) to become somebody today. You have been given same opportunities but you would rather whine about another adult male's wife's activities in her own home.

People like you make others think last borns aren’t sensible.

I’m giving away this Red dead Redemption 2 PS4 game (complete with 2 cds and full map hardcopy).

From the makers of GTA. Every true gamer knows Rockstar Games are on point on every game they have ever released.

N18,000 now N14,000

Location: Lagos Mainland

Contact: check signature

Brought in from UK
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I’m giving away this Red dead Redemption 2 PS4 game (complete with 2 cds and full map hardcopy).

From the makers of GTA. Every true gamer knows Rockstar Games are on point on every game they have ever released.

N18,000 now N14,000

Location: Lagos Mainland

Contact: check signature

Brought in from UK
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sod09:
The guy went on attacking rdr2 sellers

I contacted the OP and he has apologised for the mix up. He has also removed the accusation on my page. The alleged scammer used the exact pictures I posted on my advert.