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Cc Dominique.
Rule 10.

Greenbullet:
my friend is not her maga, they were genuinely dating, the girl when I encountered her seemed proud, she didn't want to greet me but that doesn't concern me because it does not change the figure in my bank account !

You think girls no dey date their maga? Happy new year.

kimbraa:
I don't know the big deal in washing a few clothes if you actually love the person who happen to have a busy schedule but you can demand for money for hair-do?

This thread is clearly different from the other thread. That guy felt he was entitled to it, this guy clearly pleaded and explained. I see no wrong in helping him.

After collecting money for hair you cannot wash clothes because you're not a slave. I've a feeling that guy is the girl's maga.


The lady you're arguing with seems confused. Her former and latter posts are contradicting each other.

kimbraa:
But it's her duty to demand for hair money and expect the guy to give her ungrudgingly. Na wa for una!.

As in ehn the way I weak. Maybe she didn't read that part when the guy gave the girl money like it's his obligation.

sweetetlove:
What brought feminism into this

I wanted to ask this oh.

ardiva:
Ok, I see it's about the money,
well tell your friend he could use that money to hire a maid instead. Or maybe define the relationship from the beginning that he needs a girlfriend/maid. You think it's not an African thing? Can you date an American lady and ask her to wash your cloths or cook for you? Of course you can but if she refuses you will swallow it up like nothing happened because you have no choice. Ever wonder why Nigerian men abroad complain when they bring there wives over they change instantly. Please, relationships should be centered on love and affection, if she loves you so much, you don't need to ask her to cook and wash, she will do it willingly because she wants to make you happy in appreciation.

See how you just avoided or will I say failed to see when the guy pleaded with the lady to help him. You also deliberately ignored the fact that she's totally dependent on the guy.

Are you a feminist?

9jaBloke:
Okay, that's fine.

Done.

cyberaddict:
Thanks sport!

I really like your views but you ain't got chill at all. Lol

Thanks.

On nairaland, you'll be fustrated to throw your chill out the window.

AntiWailer:
Lol.

He no reach that jor.

Something that make up will hide now now.

All she need is a good makeup artist and you'll be wondering where the tribal marks went to. Lol.

9jaBloke:
Sorry love, Saturday issues. I'll buzz you soon.

Okay dear, or should I send a message first?

Slaye:
Sekxy? That Bush aba scammer, oh please spare me that crap, ivvyy, please come, have we had an encounter before? Abeg come answer if I have ever spoken to you.

Sekxy that was begging for money online when I sold my car and land, I nor gree give her cause I told her drop number let me verify if you are real or better still upload a picture of you holding your username, ni you say reject me? Abeg go read our chats, seems like you are one the scammers, oh well, run along for I have no money to give to you mbeke girl.

You think your naira get value for here?
Bring your naira here and see if you'll survive here for three days. Mtcheew. Keep your money and give your sisters so they won't depend on men again.


If you don't have proof she was begging for money, then shut it.

donstan18:
Slaye na troublemaker like me

No mind am

He's just suffering his own rejection, he'll be fine.

Because I declined being his friend and I said I won't write for his blog. But I guess he'll be fine, no be today girls dey reject am, sekxy and ivvyy did.

Slaye:
My sisters would be ashamed to see me having a conversation with such human of no value and of very low class; probably from the slums, please do not quote me, I do not want to soil my reputation with dirt here by association with someone like you, you have been noticed. Now run along.

Stop quoting me na.


Someone will start associating me with scammers.
It's actually funny how you're saying this. Are you not the one quoting me everywhere saying you want me to write for you as if you can pay what I charge for my works? Are you no the one who quoted me last time saying we should be friends? Now because I declined, this story don start. Pains of rejection, I even thought you'll be used to it by now even in reality.

Slaye:
What an idiot! Like I said, when you done reach 25 you "might" begin to have sense, I just pray you don't remain as foolish as you are right now when you get to age 40,it will be a shame to see you be a fool @40, I am done having this conversation with you mbeke girl.

Now that you've seen you're wrong to have quoted me before reading what the op had to write, this is your damage control.


Oya goan give your liability clothes to wash and stop disturbing me.

Your damage control is very sick, I'm glad you've now realized that I'm not like the females in your family who depend on a man. No hun, I use my sweat to work hard for my money and I spend it how I like, I owe no one anything even as simple as an explanation.

donstan18:
Comment interpretation differs, the way you saw it might be different from mine I'm sure the only thing that got you upset there is "Na only to spread leg" not that I'm trying to justify him oo

But, keep your cools in deciphering comments

Lol, that one is a troll that goes around picking on my comments. If he quoted me using his brain, I would've replied him with respect.

But respect is earned baby.

If I said, "why not? I'll wash his boxers join because he's my boyfriend and I love him."
I would be the ideal wife material. But this is nairaland where you've to be a hypocrite to be loved.

Slaye:
Lol she just proved to us all with her comment that she is a vegetable up stairs, Imagine; a man is sheltering you, taking care of you financially and otherwise, if someone is trying to am you, you will scream at the top of your voice for your guy to come to your aid and you cannot wash his clothes? Misplaced priority, I am not saying guys should start forcing their gfs to wash their clothes but for Pete sake you as a girl that your boyfriend is ensuring 90% responsibly of your ass, all you have to offer is sex? Really? So you cannot use your mind to help him with the house chores, wash his clothes and cook for him while he goes out to earn a fortune for you both while you do little to nothing to help him make that fortune you are enjoying? Okay, what qualifies you as a girl to be entitled to his money if you don't want to help him with chores? Smh, mkydebbie. Get sense, you are stil a very small girl. So I don't really blame you when you reach 25, you go begin to wise

This is how you know stupid people who don't read before jumping to quote you because they get orgasm from your replies.




Did you read where she said she was visiting for the first time since he got a new house? Is she living with him? Someone that came for a visit to know where her boyfriend stays. This mumu is mentioning when she's living with the guy. Comprehension was not embedded in your DNA.

Even if it's me in this context now, am I living with a man aka boyfriend?

The fact that the females in your family get 90% aid from their boyfriends doesn't apply to all females. Get that. I work for my own money can't be bothered about anybody.

You quote me all the time, I don't reply you. You'll go on another thread to say you don't care about me but even that day, you mentioned me that morning. I don't know how else to tell you to stop disturbing me, I hope you get all the orgasm you seek from my replies.

donstan18:
It depends on the my financial stability , what i wants in the relationship, flirt or settling.


Slaye didn't say he wants ladies that does chores only, he condemned your comment that said that you'll use the clothes to clean fan,I guess!

Understand him.

It's hard to understand frustrated people oh. Stop trying to justify his stand abeg, go and read his comment again, this time slowly.

So what are you useful for if you cannot help with chores? What are you offering your bf in return? Nah only to spread your legs you sabi?


Since I cannot do chores, I'm useless. Simple.

Most marriages and relationships of these days are like that.

That doesn't make it right.

Akthedream112:
YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY CORRECT... LADIES LIKE HER ARE THE REASON WHY WE GUYS TAG LADIES AS "FISH BRAIN"..

I don't understand how people can be confused. Happy sunday.

donstan18:
Lol maybe I misinterpreted you, because I saw something like "Men complaining about ladies being entitled to their money

But una dey complain na. Will you appreciate a lady feeling entitled to your money? Na girlfriend oh.

And once again you'v proved my comprehension on your earlier comment right

@bolded, Ofwhich she should be entitled to her man's money for doing the chores, so as to avoid the man eating his cake and having it back right?

I don't know if I'm getting you right but I don't approve of such relationships. Boys like slaye feels that a woman shouldn't be bringing sex to the table, the only thing that matters is chores too. She must be hardworking to keep the home. If marriage was like that, then I think all the married or rather single men should go to the village and get one hardworking village champion, and they've found the ideal wife material that wouldn't just bring sex to the table.
Pardon my typos jare, I'm in church and I'm typing fast without going through.

Lol, sex is the different

That's office romance then. Housegirl and employer.

9jaBloke:
Lol. Hi dear

Sweetheart. Didn't hear from you again.

cyberaddict:
Yeah! Maybe...but you'll totally destroy what's left of the relationship.

You best bet is to firmly express your displeasure and try to reason politely. You may end up earning his respect.

I seriously dunno what I'll be doing with a guy with such mentality but your logic is beautiful all the same.

cyberaddict:
Two wrongs.

He'll learn not to try it again.

donstan18:
If you observe, I didn't bother commenting earlier to the thread, because I don't think it's obligated to a girlfriend not even wife to wash and do chores for a boyfriend, it's a thing of choice, my believe.

I'm driving at your financial stances that men shouldn't complain if a woman ask them for money.

Now, irrespective of the thread "Chores complaint" and your stance "Financial complaint", am I to believe that a lady should do chores for her spouse just for money?

No, I'm not saying men shouldn't complain, I'm asking why they're saying women are entitled to do his chores and also complaining about women feeling entitled to their money. Like Sweetheart, you can't eat your cake and have it.


To your question, me I cannot see that has a relationship oh. Na unofficial housegirl work the girl dey do. Abi what's the difference?

pocohantas:
You dey mind them?
Wicked, selfish generation, all of them...male and females.

Hypocrites! Vindictive selfish people that wants to eat their cake and have it.

If this thread was the lady asking him for money in such rude manner, can all these hypocrites swear with their erection that their comments won't have been on how Naija girls like money?
And how he should go make money and watch girls flock around him.

Infact the thread will be about how women are hoes and all.

Would any of them ask him what he offers aside his prick and tell him to be a husband material by donating cash?hypocrites!!

That's why they keep meeting 95% ladies that offer just sex, but the women in their family are always, always...exempted.

They keep insulting ladies, but all of them claims the women in their family are different. So that means we're all good for each other na.

Only women should be wife materials and we should take every gabbage they bring to the table. If I ask any hypocrite on this thread what they bring to the table, they'll tell me rubbish. They'll love and care apart from money. As if I no get mama who love me. And I'm not making my own money.

donstan18:
Ofwhich a lady should help her spouse do chores just for money

Na dem sabi. The only time I can approve this rubbish is when a lady has only sex to offer, then it's either the boyfriend decides to let her go or make her useful. But on no occasion should a guy say it's my obligation as his girlfriend to do his chores, or a girlfriend to his money. My own policy.


I don't do boyfriend issh, but if my boyfriend needs help with his clothes, I'll just help him take it to the dry cleaner.

Moses247:
Story any house chores u can't do for ur boyfriend.u can't do with ur husband.....spare me d next page of brainwashing.

Because I'm dating a guy, I'm entitled to do his chores.


Why do guys complain when ladies feel entitled to their money? Anyway this is nairaland, what am I even expecting again.

Moses247:
I wish we could go back to those days....when our mothers no dare tell our papa's say Dem no fit wash clothes. all this Feminist mentality is going to destroy alot of girls..no marriage for Dem. no man go marry u with this attitude
we know Wetin we want, we go only chop u(feminist) while it Last. but we know d type we gonna Marry at last. we know lol....

This one na boyfriend and girlfriend not husband and wife. If na husband and wife we go understand.

Isn't it funny how someone will be pained by just a statement?


It is really sad how someone can be fustrated this early morning. Life must be hard. I thank God for my life, I cannot be caught dead exchanging words with frustrated fellows this early morning.

Slaye:
Shut up mumu, the females in my family are well educated, with proper moral values, well mannered with good courtesy and are more successful than you will ever be or anyone female in your family, not you Bush okoko girl insulting people's family online for no reason because you are butt hurt with the truth and your dimwitted piece of gang banging shit filled brain couldn't think of anything useful; it's quite evident your mother failed at your up bringing, useless girl disturbing nairaland with your useless comments that add no value to mankind, you should be sold to ritualists, maybe your head will yield something useful, you and that useless aba Bush girl sekxyqueen.

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Slaye:
So what are you useful for if you cannot help with chores? What are you offering your bf in return? Nah only to spread your legs you sabi?

Speak on behalf of the females in your family and stop disturbing me.

I'm kuku a lazy girl before so I don't think he'll want to try it with me.

Imagine the arrogance in doing it. Dropping the heap on the floor and telling her to make herself useful.
If na me I go just vex use all the clothes clean fan. Such guts, mtcheew.