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Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Slaye: 11:05am On Feb 04, 2018 |
donstan18: Hahahaha |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by makydebbie(f): 11:09am On Feb 04, 2018 |
pocohantas: Hypocrites! Vindictive selfish people that wants to eat their cake and have it.
Infact the thread will be about how women are hoes and all.
They keep insulting ladies, but all of them claims the women in their family are different. So that means we're all good for each other na. Only women should be wife materials and we should take every gabbage they bring to the table. If I ask any hypocrite on this thread what they bring to the table, they'll tell me rubbish. They'll love and care apart from money. As if I no get mama who love me. And I'm not making my own money. |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by donstan18: 11:12am On Feb 04, 2018 |
makydebbie: If you observe, I didn't bother commenting earlier to the thread, because I don't think it's obligated to a girlfriend not even wife to wash and do chores for a boyfriend, it's a thing of choice, my believe. I'm driving at your financial stances that men shouldn't complain if a woman ask them for money. Now, irrespective of the thread "Chores complaint" and your stance "Financial complaint", am I to believe that a lady should do chores for her spouse just for money? |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by dingbang(m): 11:13am On Feb 04, 2018 |
he should have asked her nicely.. 2 Likes |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by hardeysola(m): 11:13am On Feb 04, 2018 |
Moses247:Of course I am. |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by cyberaddict: 11:13am On Feb 04, 2018 |
9jaBloke: On point! |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by FuckingSteel: 11:15am On Feb 04, 2018 |
- Y'all shut the Fuçk up with all the fůcking bootless ,bloodyfūcking inept and stupid arguments! . (*Spits) |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Iseoluwani: 11:17am On Feb 04, 2018 |
ReinaFarine:
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Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by cyberaddict: 11:18am On Feb 04, 2018 |
makydebbie: Two wrongs. |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by donstan18: 11:20am On Feb 04, 2018 |
Slaye:Tellz you man Still waiting for "Sex doll 2017" game |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Slaye: 11:24am On Feb 04, 2018 |
donstan18: Lol
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Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by makydebbie(f): 11:26am On Feb 04, 2018 |
donstan18:No, I'm not saying men shouldn't complain, I'm asking why they're saying women are entitled to do his chores and also complaining about women feeling entitled to their money. Like Sweetheart, you can't eat your cake and have it. To your question, me I cannot see that has a relationship oh. Na unofficial housegirl work the girl dey do. Abi what's the difference? 1 Like |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by makydebbie(f): 11:27am On Feb 04, 2018 |
cyberaddict:He'll learn not to try it again. |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by donstan18: 11:33am On Feb 04, 2018 |
Slaye:Ma Nigga Ma Nigga Only u be bosses |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Slaye: 11:35am On Feb 04, 2018 |
donstan18: Abeg take am easy. Una when be oga for real life una go just come NL they form boy. Abeg nor set me up |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by cyberaddict: 11:38am On Feb 04, 2018 |
makydebbie: Yeah! Maybe...but you'll totally destroy what's left of the relationship. You best bet is to firmly express your displeasure and try to reason politely. You may end up earning his respect. |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by 9jaBloke: 11:41am On Feb 04, 2018 |
cyberaddict: Gracias |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by donstan18: 11:41am On Feb 04, 2018 |
makydebbie: Lol maybe I misinterpreted you, because I saw something like "Men complaining about ladies being entitled to their money makydebbie: And once again you'v proved my comprehension on your earlier comment right @bolded, Ofwhich she should be entitled to her man's money for doing the chores, so as to avoid the man eating his cake and having it back right? makydebbie: Lol, sex is the different |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:43am On Feb 04, 2018 |
Cheap backward motherfucker should buy a washing machine. If the whole thing went down as described, that guy has major league issues. 1 Like |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by donstan18: 11:43am On Feb 04, 2018 |
Slaye: Baba, be wyning em boy |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by 9jaBloke: 11:43am On Feb 04, 2018 |
makydebbie: Lol. Hi dear |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by makydebbie(f): 11:52am On Feb 04, 2018 |
cyberaddict:I seriously dunno what I'll be doing with a guy with such mentality but your logic is beautiful all the same. |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by makydebbie(f): 11:52am On Feb 04, 2018 |
9jaBloke:Sweetheart. Didn't hear from you again. |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by veraiyke(m): 11:53am On Feb 04, 2018 |
Hmm at first it might have been a play but in the end it wasn't. As a girl you are under no obligation to wash a bf clothes. That said, you might have controlled the issue better with your replies. As for the guy let him be if he so wishes. For me as a guy I would say he is picking fights where there is none. Its annoying and heartbreaking but if you have tried getting him to understand and he isn't then so sorry your relationship is ending for no cause of yours |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by makydebbie(f): 12:01pm On Feb 04, 2018 |
donstan18: But una dey complain na. Will you appreciate a lady feeling entitled to your money? Na girlfriend oh.
I don't know if I'm getting you right but I don't approve of such relationships. Boys like slaye feels that a woman shouldn't be bringing sex to the table, the only thing that matters is chores too. She must be hardworking to keep the home. If marriage was like that, then I think all the married or rather single men should go to the village and get one hardworking village champion, and they've found the ideal wife material that wouldn't just bring sex to the table. Pardon my typos jare, I'm in church and I'm typing fast without going through.
That's office romance then. Housegirl and employer. |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by okk4sure: 12:18pm On Feb 04, 2018 |
Iseoluwani: U're rite bt d guy ot to av politely asked her instead of imposing it on her. 1 Like |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by donstan18: 12:19pm On Feb 04, 2018 |
makydebbie:It depends on the my financial stability , what i wants in the relationship, flirt or settling. makydebbie: Slaye didn't say he wants ladies that does chores only, he condemned your comment that said that you'll use the clothes to clean fan,I guess! Understand him. makydebbie: Most marriages and relationships of these days are like that. |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by makydebbie(f): 12:29pm On Feb 04, 2018 |
donstan18: It's hard to understand frustrated people oh. Stop trying to justify his stand abeg, go and read his comment again, this time slowly. So what are you useful for if you cannot help with chores? What are you offering your bf in return? Nah only to spread your legs you sabi? Since I cannot do chores, I'm useless. Simple.
That doesn't make it right. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Slaye: 12:36pm On Feb 04, 2018 |
donstan18: Lol she just proved to us all with her comment that she is a vegetable up stairs, Imagine; a man is sheltering you, taking care of you financially and otherwise, if someone is trying to am you, you will scream at the top of your voice for your guy to come to your aid and you cannot wash his clothes? Misplaced priority, I am not saying guys should start forcing their gfs to wash their clothes but for Pete sake you as a girl that your boyfriend is ensuring 90% responsibly of your ass, all you have to offer is sex? Really? So you cannot use your mind to help him with the house chores, wash his clothes and cook for him while he goes out to earn a fortune for you both while you do little to nothing to help him make that fortune you are enjoying? Okay, what qualifies you as a girl to be entitled to his money if you don't want to help him with chores? Smh, makydebbie. Get sense, you are stil a very small girl. So I don't really blame you when you reach 25, you go begin to wise 3 Likes |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by donstan18: 12:40pm On Feb 04, 2018 |
makydebbie: Comment interpretation differs, the way you saw it might be different from mine I'm sure the only thing that got you upset there is "Na only to spread leg" not that I'm trying to justify him oo But, keep your cools in deciphering comments |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Slaye: 12:42pm On Feb 04, 2018 |
makydebbie: Mumu I asked you a question, since you cannot do chores, what does your lazy ass have to offer? Simple question your vegetable brain could not process to give an answer to instead you decide to lash out your frustration (disgracing your self and your parents who failed at parenting) by insulting the females in my family whom you can never measure up to just because I asked you a simple question, you are the frustrated one here, you are frustrated because you know you have only your stinky black okoko Ghana pussssy to offer and nothing else and thus the early conclusion from you saying I meant you were useless, you were pained because I spoke the truth, it hit a nerve. |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by makydebbie(f): 12:46pm On Feb 04, 2018 |
Slaye:This is how you know stupid people who don't read before jumping to quote you because they get orgasm from your replies. Did you read where she said she was visiting for the first time since he got a new house? Is she living with him? Someone that came for a visit to know where her boyfriend stays. This mumu is mentioning when she's living with the guy. Comprehension was not embedded in your DNA. Even if it's me in this context now, am I living with a man aka boyfriend? The fact that the females in your family get 90% aid from their boyfriends doesn't apply to all females. Get that. I work for my own money can't be bothered about anybody. 4 Likes 1 Share |
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