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gboss4sure: It does in some sense, Sometimes i feel like driving against traffic like i do in GTA. Lots of times if i see someone messing up by the side of the road i feel like stopping and giving the person a hard blow to the face and when i see a police vehicle i feel like scratching them so that they would give me a hot chase like i do in GTA.

By the way when there is nothing to do for a day, try GTA you wont even know when 8:00PM will nack.

Warning: Don't play this game when your GF is around unless you want make she hate you for not listening to her. Is addictive and Sweet. With GTA there aint a boring moment

in other words the game conditions and programs one's mind, I don't know if I should play the one I bought

Money does not appeal to me anymore, I just want to get out of this Matrix....just gat to exercise patience

Yes they are, they don't like us though, but put in mind that when our people dwelt in the midst of this people,they took on their names

alpha.w.g:
Bros...u talk from d bowels of experience. Wetin woman do u?

bros im talking from experience o,i been love the babe and i still love am,but this crap about her supposed career and education,na hin make i fashi de babe, a grown and established man would take care of his wife regardless of her education or not,yes i want a woman as support but not for the woman to dey think say,if i no get such and such degree or career i no go marry, i see it as pride and immaturity, an established and responsible man would take care of his wife and family when he decides to marry,i wont marry if i know im not capable,established or responsible,like naija people talk,im up to the task....this is how this career women think,they say let me get an education and a career that way if my husband acts funny,i go just fashi am,well if you find a good man,you won't have to worry about the guy acting funny,it wont even cross your mind, why would you enter a marriage with a clause , well this is the generation we live in

Mcbussy: mr. Malakh,i'm sure u're viewing dis from a religious point of view and we're not talking about dat.i even made an exception of religion and culture in my post.

if we want to reason in a civilized manner,a 19year old is not matured for marriage and i'm not saying marriage must be after 1st degree.what i mean is dat a person weda male or female should shape his/her life to some extent b4 marriage.

d word "ripe" dat u even used is not used for animals or humans in d english language,its used for fruits...so i understand where u are coming from and i av mentioned dat my point is with exception to islam and any other culture or religion dat supports early marriage.

i don hear, as long as you understand what i'm saying,then you need not worry about semantics, make i check my dico,if my grammar right lol

jimi phunmmy: which is better: to marry early and stick to one di*k,or to be going about taking diffrent di*k and spreading incurable diseases?

no mind them jare, dey want to have their cake and eat it...bunch of fornicators

Mcbussy: No,dats not what I'm saying,read again and try to comprehend...I am saying most of the gals dat marry at such age do so as a result of economic and financial dependence.

How many rich folks do u see dat give out their 19 year old daughters willingly??...none. they usually have great plans for their kids.hence, its only families dat aren't financially stable that usually consent to such....ofcourse with exception to muslims and other religions/cultures that permit it.

I bet even u won't let a man come close to your own 19yr old daughter if u are financially capable of taking her to the top,or atleast to 1st degree level.

she can marry at anytime as long as she is ripe, must she get a degree before getting married, if she finds someone she loves, they can marry and she can still go to school,she doesn't have to put the man on hold because of her supposed education or degree, the love of her life should come first not her supposed degree or career

Godvilla: [color=olive]God's tym came calling and the opportunity was grabbed.
Speaking of which, i think u shuld consider ur child 2 make his/her own choice.[/color]

abi o, if she's raised with morals, she'll recognize a good man and marry him, not for one woman to be dictating to her daughter who to marry and when to marry

bukatyne: Dude,

I hate posters who cannot reason quoting me

I believe my post is in plain English and except we are going to co-own a child, I don't see how it is your business when I decide to marry my daughter out

whatever , i don talk my own

byvan: People should just get married when they believe they ve found their soul mate, all these logic about being dependent or independent is just utter crap(non ll guarantee you a great marriage). You shouldn't condemn early marriage because you never had the opportunity to find love early.The youngest female professor when I was in school was just 38 and got married at 20 , do you still think she lacks dream?

A great dreamer knows how to conserve time.

gigi shay u dey read this, na woman like you talk this one o, make u get your Ph.d before you marry o...nonsense and ingredient

bukatyne: I believe some milestones should be achieved before marriage not necessarily age.

If my daughter is done with service by 19, I will be overjoyed to see her marry at 20 or 21 especially if it's a young bobo of like 25yrs

If my 22yr old daughter in year one comes to talk to me about marriage, I will probably slap her.

It is not the age for me, it is what she has achieved.

And what place does the "achievement" have in her marriage, is it about what she has achieved or about she and her husband, you sound like my ex, always putting herself before others, not willing to compromise, who cares how many degrees you had before marriage, did our mothers think about achievements before marriage, you are just clueless about the institution of marriage, I guess you are still a teenager

y2kaustinstone_: please someone help me answer these questions,cos i have been wondering

1.where are the igbos from?are they Israelite or Nigerians?

2.why do almost all the other tribes hate them so much?

Yes some of the igbos, Yoruba's, Hausa and other ethnic tribes are Israelites, they are hated because of who they are, email me and I can elaborate

sauer: It's just my personal opinion that the word is too strong. I don't think any one goes around ensuring every Nigerian must be married or face punishment. Enforce = Compel. On the contrary, people are still kinda left the option of deciding if or if not. If they go with it, all well and good. Society smiles at them. If they don't, then society may stigmatize them, but cannot punish them. In fact, if they were stronger, they could turn out to be trend-setters in a society that, in the first place, lacked the courage to pursue these ideals.



Yea, I agree with you. But if you look at it in the whole, only a few people will go against the morality of the masses. Of course, I can't guarantee that; but I dare say that will most likely be case. No one really wants to be in the bad book of the society, anywyz.

I agree that moral relativism by the many is not likely to ensure social order. But with a learned few practicing moral relativism, there is a high chance society can be brought into or remain in a comfortable balance. Of course, am not saying some people are more equal than the others, even though I may imply this. But if you take Napoleon for instance, he could move France forward because he had the freedom to exercise his feelings of what was right and what was wrong. Same applies to Alexander the Great's conquest; and in today's world, same applies to Jerry Rawlings's revolution in Ghana and in fact, any revolution at all.

If a learned few don't come up above mass morality to enforce their feelings of what is right and what is wrong, society will probably never get its balance. And I think that's what Nigeria needs today. There are sad consequences to this of course, and Dostoyevsky did justice to it in his book, Crime and Punishment.

If your ruler were fair in dispensing justice and decides to force his subjects to follow laws that won't destroy social peace and order, what do you think will result? Yes, peace and order! We never know what "fair" may be, but let's just say it's that action which brings peace and order.

Of course, because you never know which monarch will eventually screw the country with his set of moral laws, proponents of structured governance prefer a set of established laws which should be fair to all. And am thinking, did they derive this from the old testament's Ten Commandments?

For me though, I still think the Ubermensch is in a better position to bring order to a society if it so happens he is fair in his dealings.

King Solomon says the excellency of knowledge is that Wisdom gives it life..... Some knowledge are waste of time and energy..... It doesn't make us wise

why would they fast for evil people,it doesn't make sense

Beezally: she's someone girlfrnd or maybe wife some might crave to have her
Yeah she's curvy
She's even curvy than my aunt

She's curvier not curvy,

U mods had to put this Topic to generate traffic, I'm not Nigerian though

Frazy: What da.....

where you see that pic wey you put for your profile

Una no get work o, see as una full this place, thank God I get work lol

Erelu_Y: THE GENESIS CREATION STORIES ARE FICTITIOUS. IT'S NOTHING BUT A MYTH OR FOLKLORE.

Stupid and foolish woman, if it's fictious, why do women have pain in labour as a punishment for their disobedience

Yall can reproach or defy the Supreme Being all you want to but put this at the back of your mind, He kills and makes alive, talk all the smack you want to but remember that sleep is a cousin to death, He can take your life while you sleep then on judgment day, let me see where your defiance against Him would amount to..

Is there any wise men in this forum? Now the question is why does He want us to suffer, I'm not talking about suffering for evil doings

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tensor777: Yes a very good question? Why would a real man run from a successful woman? It just doesn't make sense. If its attitiude then the man can work on it if he is serious.
However such a man shold not marry a hustler or runz girl. Such ladies hardly ever change.

he can't do nothing about it except there's a divine intervention who will cast that spirit of rebellion from her, my book says who can make what is crooked straight? Nobody.... leopards dont change their spots, they'll pretend to change but it'll manifest one way or the other

tensor777: Yes what is that about? Islam and Christianity. What do you believe in?

I believe in the ways of Abraham,Isaac and Jacob, I believe and keep the new covenant, so much for myself now lets talk about this arrogant and rebellious women

De Beauvoir: That's why you think the way you do.

How the hell can a person be both Christian and Muslim by the way?

its beyond you but let me help you out, a Christian is someone who is Christ-like and a muslim means to submit to God, so its subjective but I'm not into pagan religions, chew on that

tensor777: Now you don de talk anoda thing. De talk of runz girls and other hustlers and the evil spirits wey de worri them. SMH

Anyway what everyone seems to be running away from despite several pages on this thread is that the advent of the successful financially independent woman means that Nigerian men would no longer be able to use MONEY to control, manipulate and dominate such ladies if they marry them.

That is what is scaring a most male posters here.

If a woman is arrogant,I'll avoid her like a plague,I dont need strange women in my life, but why would a real man run from a woman?, he is avoiding her because two of them would never be agreed, can two walk together except they are agreed...mind you Isaiah makes it clear that a woman will compass a man and this is where their supposed succeess comes from but the tables will be turned

De Beauvoir: You are a Christian or Muslim abi?

Both... but does it matter

De Beauvoir: If pride goes before a fall then that means even men have to be humble now. Humility is not reserved for women if that is the case.

u speak the same way she spoke,I see the same traits in you two, what do you mean by a man humbling himself for a woman,Im not domineering or what not but I wear the pants in the house

De Beauvoir:

not falling for it,I read your response to the topic,anyways I've dealt with a few women like that, but I sure do know how to make them feel worthless and irrelevant

DailyNews: My dear don't get it wrong, when men say they like independent women, it doesn't mean they like rich or wealthy women, nope!

Independent they mean and want is this: she is not idle, she is engaged in sth; a handwork, business, formal job, etc that fetches her daily upkeeps without her having to date or sleep with any man to meet up with her upkeep.

But when a woman is a hustler desperate to be on the billboard, to compete with men financially and otherwise, busy chasing everything that earns money, it becomes a turn off and a no no for matured and well to do men with vision to build a stable happy lasting home.

And in case u don't know, the world is run by men, and for a woman to become so financially rich, it is most likely that she must have had affairs with so many men at the top, or she has developed some masculine characters that scare real men away.

Honestly, most men desire their wives to be a nursery or primary school teacher becos it looks so romantic and amazing to see a beautiful woman taking good care of children that doesn't belong to her.

And if not for economic hardship in Nigeria, many men would have married female school teachers.

That's to tell u what men mean when they say: we like independent woman, not a hustler.

Being rich doesn't equate to being independent cos majority of the so-called rich single ladies are still dependent on some richer men directly or indirectly...so where is their independence then

@ Daily news you sure do make a lot of sense but you know what there's nothing new under the sun, som women have the spirit of rebellion and pride,they will never submit to a man, my book tells me pride goes before destruction/shame/fall.The same spirit of Eve,Jezebel,Aathliah is what possesses these women,you can't change them,their demon won't allow them to submit to man,its an abomination for them to submit to a man,its different if she's getting paid by being submissive to a man but that's because she's getting paid anything other than that they rebel, what they don't understand is a woman has never been independent, Men run this world, so they still depend on men one way or the other

What gives these women this pride? It is money they make from their jobs....Now how do you humble them? Hit them in the pocket book..... Well I gat news for you arrogant women, those jobs and wealth shall be taken away, then will they learn humility.....
......And the people shall be oppressed, every one by another, and every one by his neighbour: the child shall behave himself proudly against the ancient, and the base against the honourable.
When a man shall take hold of his brother of the house of his father, saying, Thou hast clothing, be thou our ruler, and let this ruin be under thy hand:
In that day shall he swear, saying, I will not be an healer; for in my house is neither bread nor clothing: make me not a ruler of the people. Isaiah 3