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You see, it was just irritation with Cindy for tattling during Ludo game.

Yet Nigerians saw all sorts of discrimination.

Cindy herself repeated the story several times but noooooooooo, we no gree the story.

Bye Enkay, best of luck..

Ohhhh, Ebuka stop scaring me..

creolehunt:
God bless you. This is the angle people are not seeing.

Diane won the Veto power the day before. There is no way she didn't ponder who to save and replace given different scenarios. People here are making it look like she was asked to save and replace immediately she won.

Part of me feels she was always going to nominate Joe, and that the Mike and Seyi mentions were just a front.

I'm not judging her choice. I'm just saying that she wasn't taken unawares .

I thought Mike was a sure bet as her choice and was not surprised when she called him. I think the others commenting especially as he just worked hard for the team may have confused her on who else to nominate.

Savage new yam festival comment . See me taking a second look at Ebuka’s outfit...

Thank you Joe for saying the truth...

You went for her to deconstruct her game instead of playing yours...

Karma oh Karma, where at thou?

Bye Joe! Better luck next time...

makydebbie:
Tacha.

Tacha this windscreen you're wearing.

As in... Really windscreen...

Damn, but this Venita is easy on the eyes.. see her looking takeaway...

Jen92:
Because Seyi cooked, I wont complain that he is hiding food

Lol but you guys sha.

zekino:
I wholly support the above but strongly believe and recommend basic 101 for boys. In this day and age even if girl removes pant and open leg once she says no better leave her no matter how difficult. Don't allow yourself to be caught in the gray area .

100% agree. . Good reminder!

ibkayee:
Is it just me or is Tacha being more expressive in this diary session than usual? It may just be that she genuinely has more to say today though. Still straightforward, but she's usually quite brief

You are right. I think she started from the last diary session...

janefrancisca:
Esther derives joy wen she emasculates frodd. The pride on her face and voice wen she makes those statements like '' u must wash my plates for 2 weeks'' and co is so irritating. It is bad. Yeah, frodd is stupid for ignoring the signs. But as a woman, she can do better. This guy is attracted to you but u don't fancy him. Put it across to him in words and actions. Why string him along just to get the satisfaction of '' I have him wrapped around my fingers''. It is not fair at all. He will do woteva I want coz he likes me.

I guess this is the thunder and fire she promised us...

scondy:
Frodd has is issues obviously....but i m beginning to think Esther lowkey wants a sexual assault situation.....i may be wrong but the way she allows him in her space and then switches is not normal.....she obviously can't stand the guy then why is she entertaining him.....most especially when u have complained that you find the way he comes strong uncomfortable......what exactly is she playing at?

Immaturity or strategy. When Nelson left that house, she floundered really badly and was just drifting all over the place. So I think she is playing with Frodd in order to remain relevant. But sometimes, her actions look so unplanned that one can be forgiven for thinking there is a spark.

Munzy14:
lol... na so.

I can make my meals.

but i love to watch my bae do it in d kitchen..
Any time she's around, i don't show face for kitchen, except to steal kiss/pecks and cuddle from behind.. ...

Mr loverman.....

Eeghe:
I am constantly amazed on here
My grandmother actually instilled the culture of employing cooks if you can afford it to her people
I call her smart. Cooking is a drag!

Just as it was interesting to find out that some girls would also not date or marry a man who is not capable of financing their needs..

I have a feeling though that when love hits, they will not remember all those deficiencies

I have a friend who is terrified of cooking... . Good thing is it helps to keep her husband in shape so they are not complaining..

KushyKush:
I didn't hear clearly (Tasha was giving signs and almost whispering)... I think she was asking if anything happened between him and Jackie (they were both in the hoh room)

Apparently, she saw something from the previous days and was asking if it happened and Seyi was laughing sheepishly

cc: Eeghe

Shooo! Kayode (3x).

The camera misses a lot. There are times when the housemates come out and give some gists that one will be wondering if he/she watched big brother Gabon..

Munzy14:
It's sad to say a woman hates cooking..

so if I decide to settle down with her, my stomach and that of my kids will be at risk to unhygienic meals we purchase at eateries that are after money..

If u said what if she can't cook, I may manage and teach her or enroll her into ifys. kitchen online or dooby's cullinary class.

but if she hates cooking, am out... lol

I had a bestie i didn't grow any feelings for in my final yr bcoz of that issue. Even when we hangout, she rarely eat well.. just a junk foodie. The thing tire me o.

Lol... Interesting to hear.

scondy:
U know i thought of Ike's issue and fully understood why biggie gave him a second strike. It is to let him no he is walking on thin line...The way his rage comes ......it could be uncontrollable....and i agree he is a ticking bomb........I honestly hope he can keep it together to leave the show honourably

I don’t know why, but I have never taken him raging seriously though...

I always think he is just playing it up for the cameras. Being a gangster and all..

If he truly had anger issues, his housemates would steer clear of him instead of rallying round him more.

I see him more as someone who gets irritated easily but covers it up with a smile because of the show he is on.

Eeghe:
I dunno the right English for this
But anytime Gedoni behaves and talks excitedly and or playfully sometimes, I get all embarrassed on his behalf
Like it doesn’t fit him
I can’t explain what I mean but I know what I mean

Oh my goodness! I know EXACTLY what you mean. You just put into words something my brain has been grappling with...

KushyKush:
Who Tasha and Seyi dey talk about? Chai... Kayode is not showing us some things oh

Please update the gossip for gbeboruns like moi...

Eeghe:
Her aunty just warned me
I hear
And fair enough honestly

Oh my Chocomilo, stop making me laugh jor...

Eeghe:
What does it mean please?
Iya ibeji (Mama twins) I know

It is a character made popular by an elderly Yoruba actress.

Character was so popular that no matter what the actress did, people identified her as Iya Awero.

Esther actually looks like a young version of the actress. Short, big booty and sour expressions...

Munzy14:
it's one among the criteria.
Any woman who can calm down to withstand kitchen heat and make good home meal, definitely have a loving and caring heart. Which is what Everyman out there need. A loving and caring woman.

And don't forget the stomach is the shortest route to any man's heart.

Again nobody is perfect, so little things a lady does counts without her being aware.

Again, I don't know if anyone has told u this.

The primary thing a man needs in a woman aside love and care, is good food and good sex.

children, money and career woman are secondary needs.

What if she is good at other things but just hates cooking?

DoubleeDee:
Thanks Mambi.
The highlighted was an observation expressed weeks earlier.
Somehow he's had a character makeover, let's just pray he can keep his libido in check.

Amin, Jesu....

Eeghe:
She needs to learn manners, social niceties forgiveness too though
Na understand I understand her, not condone her bad manners

Personally, I don’t think she should forgive Joe. His plan was quite obvious and their ish was not a normal ish like she has had with others.

Let him keep to his lane and she will maintain hers unless they are in a group...

Munzy14:
One lesson we all should learn is, this two ladies that are slut shamed, tacha and mercy, are the best ladies in that house.
They have kitchen time more than anyother.
dish good meals at several occasions.

showed love,care and deep loyalty to some people.

one will wonder why such ladies we see as bad girls get a ring every now and then.

Now see sister jacky, Iya awero and aunty diane, keep forming good girls.. but rarely make a complete home meals on regular... And are mostly confused.. even though society sees them as good women, yet they aren't getting a ring on a regular like them society bad girls.

My Best choice for this season are...
Ike
Mercy
Tacha... Anyone of this three that wins the money, i will have a good club time with my guys like i did when ceec came second last yr.

I crack up every time I see Esther being called Iya Awero.

Buttii as a woman, let me ask - Do you think that a woman being able to cook is what makes a good woman?

Eeghe:

I stay and watch with horror
And finish her

Lol.. Tacha is the perfect child for “finishing”.

DoubleeDee:
For the avoidance of doubt, Venita is not romantically interested in Frodd, she made it clear her relationship with guys in the house will be strictly platonic. As a single mother I see that decision as wise.

Esther liked Frodd initially and probably still does regardless of Nelson's revelation. I'm sure Frodd has a better chance of really getting to know the real Esther outside the BB house.

Frodd IMO, is sexually attracted to Esther and that accounts for his inability to steer the relationship through a natural blossoming romance course.

I have watched Frodd keenly from day one in the house and he comes across as someone with a split personality. There is the emotional wreck side of him and the bold, gutsy, outspoken and confrontational hunky side. What continuously baffles me is how oblivious he is to these two contrasting character traits.

I've seen Frodd breakdown repeatedly in monologue about his mom and upbringing. I've also appreciated his courage rightly or wrongly in standing up to Omoshola, Seyi etc. With his physique, it is arguably right to conclude he wouldn't flinch if confronted with a physical duel with any male housemate.

How a guy with so much spunk and potentials gets stuck in a recurring romance twilight remains one of the strange wonders of BBN.

Welcome back bro. That’s why I say Frodd is an unfolding story. Sometimes, I feel he is playing to the gallery. I just pray, he does not cross over murky lines during his stay in that house. He has really great potential when he comes out of BB house.

Eeghe:
XXML33
I agree with your statement that Tacha is kind
She is very kind and caring
Her tough exterior is a front
That’s why she would tell Joe happy birthday in the morning (if what I read here is true) and refuse to make a speech at night
I understand that
Last night Khafy wanted to yab whoever couldn’t do answer the quiz questions in her team and she said (showing me something I liked) “didn’t you see me, I couldn’t too” or something like that
Khafy had to state that the person (Omashola or Frodd) had told her “don’t worry, ohh I have got this” in that her mimicking voice before Tacha laughed at whoever

She has her problems yeah, but she is not the worst housemate there to me
Her army is what I have always had a problem with. And her rabidness. And that tough(arrogant) exterior

When she gets angry and starts yelling at people, I run..

But I like her a lot. She might be below par in certain areas, but I love the way she cares about people even when she is trying to make it seem like she does not.

I am so happy that I was able to watch her long enough to verify that my instinct was correct.

scondy:
Mambi, the outcry is not because of any thing grave happening, it is because of the facial expressions and behavioural tendencies Frodd displayed despite an adamant Esther. Then one is left to wonder, what if there are no cameras or people in the room. In my honest opinion he would forcefully have his way.

For biggie to caution him, it was a worrisome scene. And I am a huge fan of Frodd, so for this to come from me....it wasnt a nice incident at all...

Yeah, I am gradually putting the stories together... Frodd had better play this game with his head...

dominique:
Most Frodd fans know this but will never want to admit it but we know, if you've had to deal with tribalism for years you would know how the mind of an average tribal person works. We can pretend to act as if its not so but it doesn't change that fact. Venita was on the verge of Turing Frodd into her puppet (almost the way Tboss did to Miyonse) but his fans keep saying she's better for him. I was very irritated with the way Venita made Frodd apologize twice in one day over a minor issue and threw a fit when he couldn't run a bath properly for her but this is the situationship Frodd fans prefer. Goes to show that his fans are more upset about who he's fooling himself over than anything else.

Never thought about it this way and I am part Yoruba. I just thought they don’t like the way Esther treats Frodd. I saw Venita was also not an angel but thought they were okay with Venita because she is a posher and finer person..

I think we should all just stop trying to analyse why some fans hate on housemates. Otherwise, we will make some generalisations that is bound to tick off some innocents...

janefrancisca:
I am not defending anyone, I told u wot I watched. If u had read well, I said he took the joke too far. Anyways, op u watched her convo with frodd this morning. There is a reason biggie showed it. It is for those who have twisted the story to suit a sexual harrasment narrative.

Please can you update that too?