₦airaland Forum

highchief1:
marriage na scam.i have falllen for it.im working on modalities to walk out of it.na my kids welfare I Dey consider.theres no need to marry a naija woman.They are only after what u can provide.i have not seen a Nigerian woman that loves a man genuinely.

I do not mean to make jest of you.

The way life is structured is very complex.

I wouldn't agree with your statement "Marriage Na Scam" as the standard for everyone. I would only agree if it's that's your perception and what you experienced which is your personal opinion.

There are men up there whom their perception and experiences with regards to marriage contradict yours. They are enjoying their marriages. Wether they are being sincere about their statements or not is really not of my concern.

What i have come to realize about life is, Most men aren't taught the "Important Things" they really need to know about LIFE!

In LIFE, You must do your personal Due Dilligence in whatever you want to indulge in because there are Consequences (Good or Bad) for every action and decision taken!

naijapikin2:
See ehn... This thread is timely. I am married (for want of a better word).. the case of divorce between her and I, has been in court for close to a year. And it's expensive. I just cleared the last installment of payment 3 weeks ago, so we both will be free say by this month end. Wahala everywhere... To marry wahala... To divorce wahala.

I won't advice ant young man to do court wedding sam sam. Just do traditional after you must have impregnated her. As for us... Our wedding didn't produce any children.

I'll come here and celebrate, maybe do giveaway when the divorce is concluded.

Nothing like peace of mind o.
. wallahi

Your marriage didn't bring forth children.

Good to hear this.

A deep sigh of relief.

Lots of innocent children suffer for what they know absolutely nothing about.

Make una part ways sharp go restart una lives anyhow una like and deal with una subsequent traumas.

Hushpuppy20:
Ahhhh life of a married woman is very bad especially in Nigeria, I have one religious sister at work sometimes ago, she's happily married BUT she's dating our MD in which I am the only one that knows about it. How I get to know I don't want anybody to ask, but the point is she use to have good relationships with the husband, also the husband is very ok. But why she's having extra marital affairs that is what am trying to find out. But till this moment she thought I don't know and the point is I am very disappointed in her.

Do not be disappointed in her. It's not anything surprising. At least 70% of marriages in Nigeria are on this table. Some, Their spouse knows their Wives are cheating (Vice Versa) and Some, their spouse would defend their wives and deny such with their lives

No Nation in the world comes close to Nigeria when it comes to Adultery and Promiscuous life. South Africa sef dey learn

Most Nigerians just love to deceive themselves.

Anyone who wants to confirm my assertion should volunteer to go work at Hotels.

If i should decide to start posting my experiences with most Married People in Nigeria. This space won't contain it.

Lol let me balance here to observe and pretend not to know 99% of everything i already know about Marriage(Nigerian Marriages and Families Exclusively)😂

babat89:
Daft Nigerian women.

I have been with few oyinbo girls and they don't care!

One of them even drove me more than 4hrs to go pack some of my things to my new house.

...and it doesn't have to be oyinbo girls alone.
My last Nigerian girlfriend, although she grew up abroad was earning 5times my salary when we met.
Get driver and chef sef...

Did she care how much I earned?
Nope!

Same me wey no get car that year, now get 2.

Anyway, most Nigerians are still bottom of the Maslow heirachy of need, so they still have poverty stricken mindsets.

Chief, Kindly tune down the volume of your JBL Speaker. It's too loud.

I suppose pretty and beautiful has a new meaning in Nigerian dictionary.

Even with her car and money, I will gladly pass abeg.

People should endeavor to work on their physical appearance. It's very important.

The heat don too much😂

I told the gullible yorubas around me then not to allow this man get to that post but they thought i was capping😂

I pity the Poor People, Most especially those with Families. Their Lives have been catapulted back by at least Twenty Years by this man.

The funny thing is the man's Tribe are the ones feeling the Heat the most😂

Abee79:
I might be wrong, but you sound entitled and maybe even envious of your brother. Truth is, no one owes you ANYTHING in this life. Face your front and be responsible for your own decisions.

When the chips are down, It's each man for himself.

An average Black man(Nigerian) mentality.

MrHandsome2013:
Na man you be,
I can relate to the op.
You are only the reasonable person to comment here.
This behavior is mostly Delta Igbos.
They don’t like to help themselves.
Although I Blame their parents that planted seed of discord in them.

Thank you Chief.

What you posted is absolutely correct.

The fact is there is a lot of work which needs to be done physically, mentally, and spiritually on lot of Nigerian men.

Bwilliam:
You're not entitled to anybody's help - Father, brother, sister, Uncle, aunt, neighbor, boss etc
If you like don't go and hustle.

Remove parents from your post.

The rest are 100% Valid.

Lol Op be healed😂

You are in your late 30s and almost 40 years. You shouldn't be putting up such post.

If i tell you my story, I can relate with your situation but fortunately for me, i am a higher being and i know better.

You don't really know much about life.

TechBaron:
There's so much ignorance on this thread.

But I guess it's a thread for young people.

The same way ATM was hyped 25 years ago..

AI will do a lot of things, but not the way you guys are projecting it.

There are millions of jobs that will always require human input.

As a Nigerian, there are thousands of things that should be your immediate concern.. Not AI!

Lol i laughed too😂

Like Nigeria really matters when it comes to innovation.

In the next fifty years in Nigeria, There will still be mallams pushing wheelbarrow around. Fuel attendant and all.

Some government owned institution are still using typewriter up till this moment.

illicit:
That's a wrong name for a drink...............................

Wrong in your perception because you don't understand what is going on in your country.

Koko and Toto Commodity.

The oldest and most lucurative commodity in the world.

I'm starting to think this activity is what usually cause the demise of some of these rich whatever people. But they will lie that they developed Cancer.

I also noticed most poor people do not usually develop cancer.

Well this life is all about, No risk No glory.

Nigerians left the group chat.

People like Fela Anikulapo couldn't do it.

Na me go con dey stress myself.

Recently, There is a wealthy man from the north who died recently in his lagos residence. He has over 250 Houses Nationwide. Most of his properties are situated in Lagos.

I know this myself not hearsay.

Now the Real Objective have been achieved😂

Humans are very interesting beings😂

I'm keenly observing and patiently waiting for my own time!

Karlman:
This is very good.
By 2027 Nigerians will come out and make their choices.

The politicians should continue to assemble in one spot, hopefully Nigerians will assemble in another spot.

Those who can be bought will be bought and moved over and those who can't be bought will vote their conscience.

The Government dictates and make the choices not the sleeping devided sheeples.

Stress yourself not about the next election.

By this time next year, All the opposition parties would have defected to APC

Their looks and environment is enough to figure out the real situation of the nation😷

ifytrik:
3 million naira will be just fine if you are wise, just make sure you turn yourself to a mathematician and follow the engineer and carpenter bumper to bumper

If you like, be the engineer and carpenter and also get all the materials yourself.

The roofing of that house both interior and exterior is nothing less than N3 Million.

elasticlala:
Shouldn’t be more than 10m if you already have the land

You are very much in touch with reality and well updated with the current situation of things in the nation.

Raw Marijuana
Arizona
Loud
Colos
ICE

Stay away from these Drugs if you are not the strong type and you love your life. Even if you have the capacity to smoke the drugs without feeling the negative effect much. I'do advise quitting will be a good option and settle for "Normal and Treated Weed"

I have had my own fair share with Raw Marijuana, Arizona and Loud. Nothing will ever take me close to the rest. All the experiences of the guys on front page are true. I was catapulted back to the past watching past events LIVE.

Your brain will be seriously slowed down and all your movements will be in slow motion. What i noticed about the slow motion part is people who experienced it definitely has a strong system thus trying to fight their way back to reality. I guess the people who run mad have weak system and their system was overpowered by the drug.

Your brain will get lagged so much, If someone talks to you or ask you a question. It might take 30 Mins or more for your brain to process and respond. When the person who asked you question have even moved on🤣

Like someone up there said, Whatever which will interrupt or mess with my Reality, I usually stay far away from it because i reason a lot and engage in brain tasking activities.

Although, This situation might change when i'm ready to experience Time Travel and Outside Body Experience by using DMT.

attahc:
W W 3 Loading. The cause of all this is religion.

Lol Supremacy masked as Religion.

Human beings are generally sadistic creatures. They love to bully each other😂

This is how it has always been since time immemorial. Pick up books and read about the history of Humans.

I hope you get it now!!!

emmyBenEmmancy:
Wait oh na light still dey shine like that, abeg who don big don Big.. while in my country even if na shake pole wire shake Nepa go seize light for two weeks.

Una noo dey existence for world map....😂

caleboxylic:
Only USA, China, and France can cause damages/pains to the state of Israel and not even Russia with their outdated airforce facilities.

Iran can only fire ballistic missiles. If Israel fires missiles to Tehran, there will be casualties. IDF is even civil but IRGC just dey fire missiles induscriminately

Russia??

You dey smoke igbo true true😂

Music Legend and Angel of all time.

No Nigerian musician will ever come close when it comes to doubling as a great singer and a true freedom fighter.

I said it again, No ONE!

You guys should be fast because all these brouhaha is getting boring😂

I detest empty threats, Show actions instead😂

Stop acting like La.gos area boys😂

Developments like this are expected though.

Nnamdipapa:
Not good at all. This is the formative and most productive stage of a man's life, and it should be used to build wealth instead of carrying the problems of wives, kids, and in-laws. This is the root cause of generational poverty. It is a very bad idea to marry early, very bad.

Lol slayer of happily married manhoods😂

This is the root cause of generational poverty. It is a very bad idea to marry early, very bad.

May there be absolute peace in the world.