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adamkkk:
I swear, apart from my wife, there is no Nigeria woman that will genuinely love you like those days and it only because my wife is always busy working as an officer... even d luv sef get k leg.

Infact my wife join.

Women generally are incapable of NATURALLY loving men genuinely, Though there are exceptions but very few.

But in most cases, Most men loves women genuinely without asking for too much from them.

Check most Marriages most especially the Well To Do families. Most women are in the marriage strictly for PROVISION & PROTECTION. If women can naturally get these things themselves EASILY. Most of them won't be under the roof of any man.

So stop demanding LOVE from them.

CTee1:
Bro dey eat the word 😂

I tell you my brother😂

I'm in your Age Range as well and i'm experiencing what you are going through too. But me i can't come and kill myself oooo because i'm a very Stoic Person so nothing dey shake me. I have read about this event years ago and this is just the beginning!

I have made up my mind if i don't get what i deserve in romance. No Marriage for me that.

When it comes to Offsprings, I am planning towards Surrogacy because i don't subscribe to that Baby Mama stuff. That's All.

lusid:
I'm thinking of toasting a POS gal I saw by the roadside. Should I go ahead

ufotty2001:
Please, do not Marry a religious woman.. just look for a decent girl and marry but not too religious.

To those of you manhood wey wan marry😂

If you like no listen to this golden advice😂

Lol i'm enjoying this Thread😂

imonisweet:
Those that are single should read this

I dey read am everyday😂

mjuvey3:
My dear brother,I'm in your shoes

I'm 37,single with no kids but I keep meeting money hungry women....Even the decent ones who comes from good homes and have high paying jobs are money hungry and entitled.

There are still few good women out there but the problem is,they don't go out much and they don't reply DMs on Social media....You can only get them through connections or if you're lucky to meet them on the road or at a particular spot like eateries,malls, church,salon,markets etc.

This is the absolute truth.

dauntless15:
Person no fit buy a kg of meat from abattoir Na ram they wan buy, enjoy, una neva see anything, thank God the person inflicting this on you is also your fellow Muslim.

They love their misery.

Fight don start nii

I kept having the feelings that their romancing will experience Friction at some point because it was too much

Some of the things i realized at some point in life and which has been very effective for me are as follows👇

I always keep my expectations low.

I don't get too much excited over things.

Lastly, I deal with most human beings at an arm's length.

Back to the Topic.

Taking care of Kids ain't a easy task. It's too tasking and it is a thankless job.

If government should come up with strict regulations and penalties with regards to parenting. I bet you a lot of men will opt for vascetcomy.

But we all know government needs Large Population to keep running the country. So they won't come up with such. Hence you see Reckless men pouring their seeds carelessly everywhere.

There was a time i inserted those small round air-freshner Kanfo deep into my nose unsupervised when i was around four year old i think. I was lucky our first born was around that day because nobody was at home. She heard me scream and came to my rescue. She carefully removed the object from my nose.

But after that, I chopped serious beating and went on to sleep afterwards😂

occfx:
Follow up with your assignment on earth. Life don't have any meaning without Biology. Your job is to procreate... Every other thing you do on earth is useless to nature.

Okay Then.

Allow me to be useless to Nature in peace.

Afterall i have never seen anywhere Nature complained. It is always Humans Beings doing the complaint😂

Thank you.

occfx:
Marry first, you go understand. You are only safe if you marry and run away or you marry evening new paper who will struggle to get one before menopause.

If you are less than 30 and your wife is less than 25 with sweet body, your own don finish. Na that time you go know say family planning dey fail.

Lol see this one😂

You think every man's life revolves around sex.

The funny is i was around the Age you mentioned and my girlfriend was same exactly, 27/21 Years when i broke up with my very youthful sweet girlfriend and stayed away from sex, never looked back because i didn't want my offsrping to go through what i went through in life.

I bless the most high for wisdom and enlightenment.

ravensckar:
Children are very difficult to supervise!

PS- Funny enough, despite all this stress, why do most Naija women prefer to have many kids? Me wey be man gan self, I no dey reason pass 2 pikin.

There was no Technology then and Ignorance was very prevalent. Even up till this moment, There are still illiterate and ignorant women giving birth to four to five children.

There is also one thing common among the older generation of women who gave birth to lot of children and their HUSBANDS were the Sole Culprits of the menace. Most of them weren't productive financially. Their productive years were spent on "Taking Care Of Children" Hence contributed to the Widespread Poverty in Nigeria.

I'm from a Large Family and i will sincerely tell you, It doesn't sit well with me. The numbers of kids i am going to have won't be more than ONE! I'm still even contemplating on procreating sef.

Annahh:
Banks should freeze their accounts with remark "arrest at sight"

When are you getting married?

obembet:
So politics start from home

So you are just knowing this??

Families are the backbone and reflection of every nations on earth.

A good example is Nigeria, The reason why the country is the way it is is because of Families Behavior. Hatred and Favouritism is very rampant among Nigerian Families.

Everything starts from home.

AllBlack:
You smell it? That's jealousy.

If you like carry cement for head in 2025 and keep hating those that have embraced new ways of making money.

You dey mind that one😂

Even though i don't subcribe to crimes, But the world is what it is. There is nothing anyone can do about it. There is no way any human being on earth would acquire "Huge Wealth" without doing one or two tricks here and there. It is called SMART work because HARD work is not enough.

There are people making money the smart way these days. The thing is the process is always stealth which always result to sidelining the average people.

Ijaya123:
Crime does not pay.

But will they ever learn?

Lol what do you know.

Even the world itself is a crime scene being Regulated by the supreme powers.

Just don't be greedy and stay below the radar.

Mary95:
Beans

I wanted to type this because i'm very familiar with beans leaves🌱

This has always been the Green Gold and would forever be the most valuable commodity.

b0rn2fuck:
And price still never fall below #800..

Are you minding them.

Fuel that is supposed to be sold between N400 and N500 at Max, No matter the situation of the Country and Opec.

They are just ripping off the masses.

SouthSouth1914:
Men pay all the bills. Women are allowed to cheat when they pay their bills.

Look at any well to do women, can a man control or dictate to her? Use your brain!!

Simple as ABC.

Na men wey still carry i am the manhood of the house for head i dey pity lately😂

Patriarchy is slowly dying. Personally, i'm not even a fan of owing and controlling others.

malaria:
Alone ooooo

We gather dey here.

I don't want any form of stress or problem.

Chief2410:
you are on point. Be the chosen one and you will enjoy her.also,get her to sponsor or cosponsor the marriage and you are fully insured.

Thanks Comrade.

Exactly, I feel so much for the GenZ Ladies, They are unlucky. I have them around me, No Boyfriend, No Calls, Nothing..

Their Mothers aren't helping situation. I know some of them, their Mothers are still singing the "Bring Home A High Value Man" lol. These are Ladies in their late 20's. We still have the ones in their 30's piled up.

In Nigeria currently, Lot of men in their early and late 30's aren't even thinking of marriage due to the diaplated economy. Some do not even have girlfriends to tell you how serious is the situation.

APOPTOSIS:
😂😂😂😂
A Pastor now warns people like Asari Dokubo, issuing threats.
A man that ought to allow God to fight for him & himself is now impatient, going ahead of God to issue threats. Hmmmmm What a country!
Just imagine. He should ban phones too.😂
Everybody just dey Lawless..naaa waaa

They are coming out of their shell bit by bit and slowly removing their veil as well🤣

They themselves are really getting tired of their deception. It's not easy pretending all your whole life, It's very stressful🤣

It's just a matter of time their Gullible Sheeples will clearly see the truth in broad daylight🤣

Amotolongbo:
And there are still some people gathering in this man’s church?

This shows you how demented and plummeted most nigerian citizens brains have become

On a norm, I don't even regard most people who still go to church and mosques in nigeria beause what nigerians are practicing is not religion but an ungodly social and business gathering exercise.

Babatunjo:
Women have a very dark side, when it comes to who they are attracted to, that most men are not aware of.

I have said it and i will say it again.

If no lady chooses me, I am not getting married. And the attraction and choosing has to be genuine. I have my ways of knowing.

90% of men are the ones who chased and choosed their spouse after sessions and series of beggings before they accepted men proposal. Not me though, It won't happen.

Later one wonders who among the partners is always bringing up threat of divorce lol

Ijaya123:
Women don't love men.

They are just in love with the feelings they derive from being with the man.

They are rather attracted to men of higher value.

Even when married.

Be like every man eye don clear pass DSTV now due to the Shege wey those people don use their eyes see

otipoju:
Women no dey love. Them be calculator.

Everyone is being used to meet a need

FYI, Me i no dey among them.

Taich:
Not again, Nigerians as in those 35 below should just know that their old age will be full of challenges not created by them.

I'm in the final phase of my second thought of not getting married while i'm still in nigeria.

I'm quite okay financially but i don't want my unborn children to experience nigeria menace.

purples25:
Here’s your crown 👑 and your glass slippers 🥿

Princess Cinderella.

Purple, Better wake up to Reality.

He should be arrested as soon as possible.