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Only unwise people judge a book from the cover.


Life is all about choice

budaatum:
That, sir, is your choice. And why should I tell you to do otherwise when you are not marrying me?

Life is all about choice!!!!!!!
Thank you for your understanding it's mine and I respect yours too.
Life goes on, what matters is our priority for happiness in our prospective ways of marriage.

May God protect and give you happiness with your decision forever madam.

You might be the most faithful and loyal person on earth when it comes to relationship but with men like me, DNA is a goal 365 days of the year.

After all the storms God saw me through, can never allow another man pikin run my generation race.

Love is beautiful with the right person in God's time.

budaatum:
You should definitely not marry me if you think I am manipulating you.

Yes that's fact.
Can never date nor marry a woman against DNA testing.

The truth is bitter, tell him to divorce her.
Forgive a cheating partner but never accept her back to your life.

I see no reason of negativity of me knowing the status of a child to have my name and inheritance forever.

You fit leave the marriage after I confirm say na my son or daughter say I nor trust you.


Life is all about choice

budaatum:
Just know that you are telling me you don't trust me once you ask for a DNA test, and you not trusting me has consequences I hope you are prepared to live with.

This trust manipulative time done pass. Talk another one

This is Arsenal's time and season. Life na turn by turn

Jcan:
I no c my picture and my name. So therefore the list no complete

My brother nor reason am , your name fit show next year.

Remember say this nor be Biya election o

Two from Africa, Africa Unity.

The day you start to trust any woman,except your mother is the connection to your death.

Love your wife but never trust her with your life.
That's why i usually eats when my girlfriends too are ready for us to eat together.

Na one life I get gat enough to live for.

The fact is clear.
If you got married from the year 2000 up till date, please do DNA test get why.

Better know the status of the children you call your kids.

Marijuana nor get enemy, nor they make person mad.
Na only person when they smoke am get enemy.
Even you they take MJ from the medicine you take.

Fact of life.

You must look fooling to the world to understand the true logic of the world.

Life is all about choice

Mindlog:
She didn't scatter the man's home, the man did.

Your wisdom na follow come from God.

Take responsibility for every action or choice in life. Integrity is priceless to man and the society.

Experience they say is the best teacher, no matter advice you get here is of no use to you.
You only want validation to go ahead with it. Life will teach you only your mother, blood sister and any other random stranger deserve your money.

Not the fake manipulator’s that you call girlfriend or woman.

Wisdom

Solofresh2:
I have only one around me lately and I have decided to let her be but she keeps coming around
I don't know what to do

The only way is to be more assertive in decision making by cutting off all communication.


It's simple as that cos any narcissistic woman leads you to destruction.

essentialone1:
You made good points. Most guys get stuck to Troublesome ladies, because she got pregnant for them. And they see no way out again.

Is it in Nigeria law to marry any girl that gets pregnant?

Life is all about choice, that is why I don't advice people after regretting their choices.
Rather let them face the pain and heal.

BarrElChapo:
I see comments about the fight between oba and the governor. Without involving deities and idols, the governor will dethrone the oba and nothing will happen. People don’t seem to understand the kind of power a governor wields.

That’s can never happen in BINI kingdom, the oba wields more power on the Edo people than the governor practicality in authority.

The said iyaloja don’t exist even when the governor went ahead.

You can only force the horses to the river but to drink water it’s left to them.

Edo people get respect for Oba pass governor. So him nor go try am.

God bless the Oba
God bless the Governor
God bless the people of BINI
God bless Nigeria

Port443:
Living your life upon approval of strangers is definitely a dangerous life to live. Usually void of stability and certainly, peace

It takes a spiritual awoken heart of clarity to understand.

You are a wise man

natedroid:
She can be stubborn especially when she doesn't have her way, physically aggressive when angry, great hustle spirit (I give her that ) .

She kept male friends before I met her , had to compel her to cut them off, some of them caused issues between us . She too like to keep male acquaintances,both male neighbours o, some would even even visit her apartment when I'm not there, for months I'd park my car at her compound

whenever I get in late from work, past midnight mostly and this prompted my staying over at her place couple of days every week(she's a fashion designer and has her workspace at her flat).
I have made it clear to her that every guy around her wants to Bleep her (she's petite but curvy). that's why I don't trust any man around my woman but she still believes that all men are not like that especially her male acquaintances .

Recently she's started with stories of joining choir, no more fornication etc , that I should go do the right thing .well, we're still intimate specifically on the days she's Hot(ovulating) and wants to copulate . brethren it's been a roller coaster, I have doubts, some days I feel I can wife her, some days I just want to walk away.

She's 2 years away from mid 30's

My brother as a man you never marry with emotional feelings but with spiritual awakening and clarity of your heart.

You said it has been on and off that’s red flag.
In life any person or shoe that cause you pain is not your size! Those off times was because of disrespect and pain.
She already manipulating you by joining choir,

When you decide to marry as a man, Pray to God about it and will reveal if the girl is your wife through revelations. Not once but thrice!!


Note God nor fit carry OS give you marry.

Comfortableme:
As old as I am, to be very honest and sincere. Have not been to the cinema to see a movie, have not travel outside Nigeria before, have not disvirgin a woman before, have not been to my home town before, not enter a ship before, have not entered cell before, have not gone to babalwawo place before... Etc.

What about you.

Life is all about choice and your happiness is always priority.

Most times can’t really figure out why some people still live a life of validation.



It takes a spiritual awoken heart of clarity to know solitude and privacy is never loneliness nor weakness but power.