Hi Harley,

I really felt your pain but wait until you finish reading my own story maybe you'll get the message am trying to pass on to you.

INTRODUCTION

I dated this girl for Seven years. Though the girl took to business (and was doing fine) after her secondary school certificate while i further my studies into tertiary institution.  She is the joy of my life and dream. I love her more that anything else on earth. With her by my side, its NO to any other relationship. NO WAY!!!

MY SACRIFICES AND ASPIRATION

While i was still in School during my HND programme,

1. I took the responsibility of taking care of her younger brother who also got an admission into the same institution.

2. I feed her younger brother with my foods.

3. I slept on the bare Carpet in my room just for her younger brother to sleep comfortably on our small mattress.

4. When i graduated from School, i still went ahead to pay a year house rent in advance for her younger brother who was still in school.

5. Our families were very closed that i am always her Parent's best choice to intervene in any of their family matter especially when it concerns her.

To be modest, I am a brillant Guy and was odoing brillantly with my studies in School. I have shape and plan my future with the girl and everything seems to be going on fine.Our relationship was to the knowledge of our families and everybody was looking forward to the day we shall tie the knot as we'have planned.

, AND THE SHOCKING NEWS

However, Immediately i finished my final exam in School i got the information that 'my girl' has had an introduction with another Guy and was even planning of getting married proper to this strange Guy. I confronted her (and my parents also did cos they know much about our affair) and she denied it. For months, she kept on denying the information, "Nothing will change our plan of getting married. The information you got is false. Don't worry am always yours", she reassured me.

Months later, i went for my NYSC with my relationship with my girl 'still in tact'. During the School holiday (i was posted to a school for my primary assignment) i came home on holiday from my station . Me and 'my girl' met again and still reaffirm our undyig love for each other. That morning that she came visiting me in my home, as an adult, we made sweet love. But later that same day in the evening, i visited my girl in their house and alas she dropped the bombshell! She is pregnant (for the Guy ithat i got the rumour that she was planning to get married to secretly)! And this is the same girl that still allowed me to make love to her the same day! So she's pregnant for another Guy. I was heart broken! Then i asked her why she had to break my heart but she could not utter a good reason. To me, its like this life is not worth living again cos my heart has been badly broken.

I later got the information that the girl 'took in' (pregnant) for the strange Guy that i heard she was planning to get married to secretly. They eventually got married and were living together.

MY LIFE AFTER HEART BROKEN

Time, they say, heals pain. I soon pick up my life again but decided not to go into any relatioship again. True love does not exist on earth again. This is my perception of life since then. Immediately i finished my NYSC, I got a Job as an Account Officer in a Company and enrol for my ICAN exam. Without sitting for any of the qualifying paper twice, i got qualified as a Chartered Accountant in the year 2005. "Me, an ACA, wao. This is one of my dream being fulfilled", i said to myself the day i was inducted into the institute (ICAN) as an Associate Member. The following year (2007),  i also bagged a Master Degree in Financial Management from Ladoke Akintola University Ogbomosho and another Associate Member certificate of the Nigeria Institue of Managemet (Chartered) respectively. To God be the Glory.

That same year (2007), i got a new Job with a mouth-watery salary package. Months later, i bought my first Car and rented a better befitting apartment pendind when my own personal house (which is still under construction ) will be completed. God gave me another Girl (i met my new girl a virgin) and we got married last year. Today, we are blessed with a beautiful baby girl. "The lord is good to the upright- to those that are pure in heart ", says the holy book.

MY FORMER GIRLFRIEND LIFE GETTING MARRIED

The first day we met each other aagain, i was close to tears with what i saw. A closer look at my former girl will reveal it all that all was not well with her marriage. Her present condition has even fade away the beauty in her. Her booming chains of business are all gone. She was struggling to live a comfortable life. All was not well with her at all. "Please forgive me for what i did to you. I know i have offended you but please forgive me, ", she went on her knees and start begging me. Much as i felt her pain yet i was also confused, "what have i got to do with her present predicament", i asked her. " Just forgive me, am begging you", was all she could just muttered out of her mouth. After our meeting that day, she even went ahead to visit my Dad in his home and also seek for her forgiveness.

At the end of our meeting that day, i gave her some reasonable sum of money to start up any business of her choice again. Looking straight into her eyes that day, i knew she was happy (again). But marriage is out of our relatioship now. Regardless of what she's facing in her marriage now, thats her faith. We are just friends now.

LESSONS

1.  No matter human's level of commitment, investment and aspiration in relatioship, Its ONLY GOD that knows the end result. MAN PROPOSE BUT GOD DISPOSE.

2. Everything that happen in human relationhip has a purpose from God and the purpose always turns out for GOOD in the futrure.

3. The person we share our love and dreams with might be our HEAVENLY LOVING ENEMY. This, someone said its beyond human's understanding and comprehension.

4. In relationship, hearts are broken untill one finally meet his or her GOD'S FAVOURED SPOUSE.

5. Never feel sorry, bad or regret for truly falling in love with your partner even if he or she ends up jilting you.

6. Learn to forgive and forget the past. GOD HAS A REASON FOR EVERY SITUATION.

7. Lastly, Faithful lovers are always WINNER!!!

There's no crime in being benevolent. However, the true identity of the girl in the picture still need to determine. I suspect a foulplay. Guy, i'll suggest that you determine the true identity of this girl first. With the festival of internet fraud going on all around the World, anything can happen. Just try to call 'her particularly at odd hours when probably no one will possibly arrange for another person to speak for 'her'. Midnight will be appropriate but never tell 'her' of your plan.

I shall tell u what next to do after trying this out. Untill then, Maga na Masquerade o,

Good day Readers,

You are welcome to the first ‘airing’ of Nairaland Mock News. First the Major Headlines:

*CHICKEN GOES FASTING
*WOMAN 32, ARRESTED FOR PRODUCING ‘YOGHURT’

Now, the News in full.


CHICKEN GOES FASTING

Chicken all over the 36 states of Nigeria is currently embarking on a seven days warning strike to protect what they term ‘immoral killings’ of their Beloved Bothers, Sisters, Fathers, Mothers, Friends and Relatives by Man for the celebration of festive seasons.

The warning strike which is expected to start from the 22nd of May, 2009, has however, been described as a welcome development by all Chicken all over the Country. The Chicken further disclosed that the Independence day celebration will serve as an acid test to see if Man will desist from killing their people for the sake of enjoying themselves. The fasting as investigated by our reporter Mr. Udeme Ebhorokokokbome is to make chicken grow lean so that they can be guided against ‘immoral killings’.

According to the National Chairman of Chicken Association of Nigeria, Mr. Chicken Perry Perry, “Yes, we are all embarking on seven days warning strike so as to send a signal to all Man that enough of all these immorally killings of our people for the sake of celebrating their festive season.The fasting is to make our people grow lean so that Man can consider them as not-too-good to eat. You know that its only chicken that has enough meat for body Man go fit eat. If we chicken refuse to get meat for body sebi dem (Man) go leave us alone? So, if after these seven days fasting we still discover that despite our deteriorating condition Man still dey kill our people , we will then go for a serious three months fasting. These three months fasting is to further protect our loving people against immoral killings by all Man in preparation for the December Christmas and New Year celebration; meaning that the fasting will be over by January 2010 when we expect the festive seasons too to have been over”.

Meanwhile, Nairaland Mock News investigation has confirmed the true commencement of the seven days fasting as our reporter found a Chicken that refused to eat the corn that was served him by his Oga in Kaduna. According to the Oga who was found struggling to force the corn down his Chicken’s throat said, “Can you imagine. Walai talai this Chicken I don refuse the corn wey I dey give am to eat since morning. I no know wetin dey worry the Chicken walai talai.”


WOMAN 32, ARRESTED FOR PRODUCING ‘YOUGHURT’

The Nigeria Police in Lagos has arrested a Woman for packaging her breast Milk as ‘Yoghurt’ for sale. The Woman Mrs. Ibadilaiyewa (Meaning: Na yansh enjoyment dey) who is age 32 and also a nursing mother, was arrested in her rented apartment turned Factory after a tip-off from a jealous neighbour.

The nursing mother who made a confessional statement after been arrested said she has no regret or ill-feelings for engaging in such business which she described as ‘lucrative’ and “fast-selling’’. “I no regret for this business wey I dey do because the ‘yoghurt’ dey sell well well and the person wey tell you say make una come arrest me, I know say na jealousy dey worry her”.

The Woman further disclosed that young Men constitute her major Customer and she sells a minimum of 100 sachet of her ‘yoghurt’ in a day and at the rate of =N=10 each. When asked why young Men seems to be her Major Customer, she said, “It is because most of their girlfriends use to deny them of this milk even during love making. What do you expect such a young Man to do? You won’t believe it that most of our girls are so stingy of this Milk that they deny their boyfriend to drink. I identified this need and make it available for these young Men at an affordable rate and good packaging”.

Meanwhile, some young Men in Lagos have protested the arrest of Mrs. Ibadilaiyewa whom they described as their ‘saviour’. A young Man Mr. Sunday Nothing Dey Happen who was interviewed said, “I like the ‘yoghurt’ because anytime wey I drink am I no dey bother if my girlfriend give me her own drink or not. At =N=10 I can drink breast milk anytime I like without going through hassle. I will even advice other women especially ladies to join in the business so that the price can be more competitive. It is a very good business for those girls with big ‘Manchester’.
Meanwhile, Mrs. Ibadilaiyewa will be soon be charge to court.

Before we end the news for the day, here is the recap of our Major News:

*CHICKEN GOES FASTING
*WOMAN 32, ARRESTED FOR PRODUCING YOGHURT

With this, we have come to the end of today’s Mock News. Please post your comments/views on our Mock News here.

Good Day.

"MY OGA WAN KILL ME WITH MESS (PU! PU!!) FOR INSIDE CAR"

This week on wetin dey happen, e get this man wey be driver that wrote me and he go like make all nairaland people dem help am find solution to the problem wey he find himself. He talk for the letter say, he be driver and anytime wey he dey drive him Oga for motor, him Oga dey always MESS (PU! PU!!) for inside car. And to make the matter worse, dem dey always put on air conditioner inside the car and na so the a/c go blow him OGA MESS for the whole car and the thing go dey smell for inside the whole car. He come say the thing dey worry him well well.
The Problem now be say, he no know how he go take tell him Oga about the whole thing.

Make una POST una comment/view here abeg and advice the Driver Man.Wetin you want the Driver Man to do?

Wahala dey my people but we no go see am lai lai

Let me quickly say this before comenting on Maintain's Arab Money.

Nigerians have no passion for good quality of music; all they want is just BEAT AND RHYTHM. This is why i will cease not to blame any Nija Artiste of his/her kind of music because the Nija Market (people) demand nothing more than BEAT AND RHYTHM. O pari. That is why you see all Nija Arstite Song with poor lyrics. (After all na dance Nija want).

In my own view,a good Music is expected to have the following qualities:

1. Good Beats (irrespective of its genre of music)

2. Good Rhythm

3. Good Lyrical content

4. Good track/song conceptuality.

5. Good production Quality

(please feel free to add more to this list)

BACK TO MAINTAIN ARAB MONEY SONG

What more can i say, right from the days of Maintain. Olu (and his group) has only been giving beats and Rhythm (as if they are Fuji Musicians) while other qualities as have listed above are always found wanting in their/his songs.

The Kamakazie (on a kentrol level) track is the worst of it all. Lyrics 0%. (well someone says 0% sef na still mark; so congrats Olu).

honestly, bro Olu, 'jungle don mature now and boys for area are no longer wackie o. So we really need you to check your Swaggar well o.

Arab Money song will only be good for free distribution at all refugee Camp.

if u no gree change your music bro, o4kasibe your you ooo.

Free me nowwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!

For real or wat?

if you need a good boyfriend then it starts from you simply a being a good girl.
But i guess you are not trying to follow the path of 'send me scratch card' girls

If you 're not, then you can be my boo!

Call me girl on 08056708629. am waiting!