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Bludeville: So a friend of mine started dating this guy about three years ago, and last year around April, he proposed, but till today, they haven't fixed a date for their wedding and haven't even started planning or anything.

Anytime she brings it up with him, he gives a wonderful reason why they cant get married yet. First he lost his job soon after he proposed even though she had a job that paid up to 140k at the time and he had good prospects and savings yet he refused to consider getting married even when she begged and said they should make it a very small ceremony.

He got another job but still refuses because his future/career course is 'uncertain' as he is still young in his job. Outside of this, he is very loving and caring, always kind and thoughtful even towards her family members. Almost Mr. Perfect.

Do you think this guy has developed cold feet? If yes, what can this my friend do? if not, how can she handle this cause she cant wait to 'settle down' and start building a home and she is tired of all the waiting...

nous: Faithful ladies how would you react if you discovered that your husband did a paternity test for your children?

hotwax: Because you go after bad guys because of your sexual urge at that time. You end up marrying dirty guys because you find them sexy and rough (women love sexually rough guys). dirt is in their nature and they can't stop.
Next time go after decent ones.

Looking for six pack and big dickkkk guys. Do you think they are meant for you alone? They are meant for you and other girls out their.

SINCERELY IT DOESNT MATTER THE SIZE OF UR DICK. A CHEAT IS A CHEAT.

INFACT MOST OF THEM ARE NOT EVEN GUD ON BED , BECAUSE THEY HAVE EXHAUSTED THE EXHAUSTIBLES. NA TRUTH I DEY TELL U

THEY RE NOT EVEN CREATIVE INTERMS THAT. INFACT VIAGRA ALL THE WAY OR 2 SECONDS POWER SUPPLY

Shugamania: am not accepting, hence we're jumping off together.

Shugamania: Reallyyyy... I need other guys to support this claim.

Orikinla: Well. Well. Well.

fittty: Hell no!!!! My tenant had a fight with his wife and when everyone came to sort the issue out the man said if he had known, he wouldn't have married her cos she isn't good on bed.....

musKeeto: Wheeling? Lol..
The angels didn't have better equipment.. Story story or igbo

Rip..

NAIRALANDAKPU: Chineke!! Why would a pastors wife pray that God should send her husband back? When its so clear that he is going to Heaven? What if God answers that prayer and he the pastor errs in his second chance at life and dies before repentance where will he go? Abeg that woman should have her spirit checked!!!

terrifikjo: It is natural fo men to cheat.... its no normal, especially fo we Africans..

Sirmuell: @OP Men cheat simply because they have a woman of easy virtue to lay with. If your cousin had raped the other girl who wasn't his girlfriend it would av been a better case to argue or what if he cheated on his babe with another guy then we would av had the best arguement here but some things remain constant in life my dear and as long as ladies don't learn to close their legs and be faithful to one partner then Men will always find an excuse to cheat on them gbam! Imagine a world where all ladies act normal as in stick to a partner, remain faithful to the same and make efforts to find out whenever a guy ask her out if he is really single and serious about a new relationship with her before allowing him into her life so that no party will be hurt then only will men stop cheating. Godliness with contentment is a great gain which most ladies lack cuz all they want is a man who has all the goodies of life which they don't wanna suffer to achieve and we men knowing what they want will easily flaunt the cars, money, house and cloths and the lady will easily open their legz for you to have yur way even without no serious commitment from the guys part and then what yhu see next is "why do men cheat" story from defeated ladies. No appologies to the cheated ladies or to the cheater pls hold yur game tight!

Akin-David:
Chineke meh!!!

LeJeun3: I really will Appreciate that. I will marry her!

tommywise: why not, with her money to take care of me.

intrepid: I though That Prof Barth Nnaji's firm,GEOMETRICS was bidding.?When did Abdusallam become or read about power distribution and management?I fear o...Any error in this privatisation of PHCN will further kill this country.

Abali1: My dear thanks for your post. Obviously Patrikobi, the op think that there are no Aba resident on NL.
I will pay sanitation fee and I will still do all the sanitation work myself, only for T.A Orji and his goons to share the money and think up other ways to make residents pay for infrastructural fee, Building fitness fee and other useless fees that ranges from 6,000 to 20,000.

If anyone know Immaculate road and Nweke road before orji Uzor kalu came in, then they must know that the op is just a useless T.A. Apologist. Then (pre Kalu's tenure) immaculate during rainy season was a no go area, but Kalu carried a massive and lasting construction on that road, with drainages. And that road is still motorable even till today, and it was in Kalu's first tenure (before mamacracy), he did likewise to Nweke.

The op stated that T.A did some of the roads recently, please he should enlighten us where and where T.A did recently. So he wants Ahia Umungasi to be demolished just like Stock fish market at Ossissioma was demolished and T.A was STUPIDLY copying fashola who put up a garden at Oshodi. I laugh in swahilli.

If Patrikobi, the Op, want his boss to be praised by Aba indigens (I doubt if that will happen in this lifetime) he should go to the man he "seriously look up to" Fashola and humbly take some lesson from him. The op should also tell him, that if he likes he and his son can buy up the whole of Umuahia, nay Abia state, but he will not stay after 2015 to enjoy those properties. (He should know better, at least he is aware what happened to Duru)

T.A. Orji has failed Abia. Before 2011 election, the reason he gave was that he spent his first tenure fighting his former boss, Now who is T.A fighting? Abegi make op and all other T.A apologist that will want to come here and advertise incompetence comot for road make we see better governors.

Akpokwa Governors, T.A ezuezuru puta...

dan jalingo: lawless is a sign govt failure. gaskya