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PLENTYNAIR: hmm..........

ekwah: he is cheating on me seriously. i dont know what to do.
although , i ve told him that we need to go for court wedding, which he has refused to do over 6 years now.

Did you actually know this man before u married him?? Btw what court marriage are u talking about? In addition to the one u have done before or what? I am sorry but your story sounds really horrible...u can divorce him if it's that bad; at least Christianity leaves adultery as the only condition for an optional divorce.

YEAH ADULTRY? OH THATS BAD

SOCIETAL PERCEPTION ABOUT DIVORCE IS SCARY' I DONT THINK I CAN BE ABLE TO DEAL WITH THAT.

MOREOVER, MY MUM GOT MARRIED TO ONLY ONE MAN

SUV: have you tried to go for counseling? dont you go to church? talk to someone u know he respects.

well i guess both of u married for wrong reason(s).
also it could be that you are not doing all u suppose to do, but u think u are giving in all required of ur marriage.

when did he start cheating? after ur marriage? have u changed in ur looks? well before i can go further, i am not blaming u for any reason yet, but the problem maybe with u. i dont know the details, so all is maybe this, maybe that. if u want to share with me, i can tell u what to do to win ur hubby back, a friend of mine confided in me , and today, she is enjoying her marriage. i gave her solutions that worked for her.

HE HAS SOME FEMALE FRIENDS BEFORE MARRRIAGE, HE NEVER RESPECTED ME,

HE CONTINUED, UNTILL THIS VERY MOMENT.

BUT WHY WOULD HE BE SCARED OF COURT WEDDING?

I VE REPORTED HIM IN THE CHURCH FOR LIKE 3 TIMES.

I WAS JUST HOPING THAT HE WILL CHANGE ONE DAY.

I HAD WANTED MY HUSBAND TO BE MY FRIEND BUT HE IS NOT.

HE DOESNT EVEN KNOW WAHT MAKES ME HAPPY, EVEN WEN I TRY DISCUSSING IT,HE WILL TURN DOWN THE DISSCUSION


WHEN I ASK HIM QUESTION REGARDING HIS INFIDELITY, HE WILL BEAT ME UP.

SUV: that is why you will be very unhappy if you get married someday! wrong notion already.

in my own opinion: men that are unhappy in marriage probably married for the wrong reason and most women do not know the reason for the marriage or also married the men for the wrong reason.

partners should know WHY they are getting married in the first place, cos after the active sex life, only the companionship can sustain the marriage.

possible reasons:
1. Men that do not get sexual satisfaction from wife may be unhappy and tend to look for satisfaction outside.
reason: women believe that they help the man to release and that's all in sex and also for them to get pregnant , a lot of women do not enjoy sex, some men are also selfish not to understand their wife's sexual needs.
solution: sex is a mutual relationship. the guy if more experienced should help the woman and vice versa, if both are not experienced, they should watch films together or look for avenues to learn together so they can enjoy themselves and satisfy one another.

2. Men that are not being respected cos the woman is financially buoyant. a lot of women tend to loose their respect for their husband cos they make money to support the family, after all they do all the work for women in addition to making money for the family, so WHAT? even if the man is a bricklayer and the woman is a professor, as long as the man is treated with all due respect as the owner of the woman's head, he feels safe and his pride in tact and it makes him complete. once he makes all the decisions, then the woman has won the heart of her man.

3. Women loves being appreciated no matter how little even for doing their primary duty, if such appreciation and compliments are not coming, she feels the man is taking her for granted, and she will rebel. neglect will come in and a lot of stuff. the man starts feeling unloved.

4. physical appeal of a woman makes plays a lot of role in sexual appeal of a man. a situation where the woman after first child allows herself to be unkept, no longer take care of herself and keep herself in shape, the man gets turned off all the time, that can douse the sexual appeal of her man and the man unhappy ...

5. Children: women tend to divert a lot of attention to the children and the man will feel neglected. Very bad. The man gets the ultimate attention and will help u show love to the kids.

6. Communication: women that nag their husbands will only push them out. if they do not give you audience, be subtle in ur approach. Men that do not like to hear the side of story of the women will make the woman to nag. there is no excuse for a woman to nag. DONT NAG ur man ohhh. discuss, make jokes even nasty and crazy ones. share everything, no secret. ur wife should be able to pick ur calls and play with ur phone and vice versa so that there will be mutual trust. tell her what u feel and how u feel and what u want. take ur Place. IT UR RIGHT mr MAN. also u shld listen to what ur wife wants and is complaining about. free and constant communication makes a good home.

7. and a whole lot. don't hv enough time now to finish up, maybe later. got to prepare my hubby's delicacy, TGIF... great night coming...cant wait **winks..

I THINK U HAVE SAID IT ALL

U CAN FORGIVE HIM.

PLS BE CAREFUL,CAUSE HE MAY KILL YOU.

HE DOESNT LOVE U AT ALL.

IF HE DOESNT GET FURTHER HELP FROM YOU, HE WILL THROW U OUT,SO JUSTBE READY AS THIS MAY HAPPEN AS SOON AS POSSIBLE

women ar the ones not happy in their marriages.


im married, i give all that marraiage requires of me, but my husband does'nt


because, he loves keeping girl friends. but its very hard for me to keep male friend. i cant
and its ssssssssooooo painful.

he is cheating on me seriously. i dont know what to do.
although , i ve told him that we need to go for court wedding, which he has refused to do over 6 years now.



Howevr, it has been my desire to serve my God, because all are varnity upon varnity.

i just want to have a good relationship with my God, but my husband attitude towards me is very very bad.

if he dies today, will i mourn for him? i dont think so, rather i will thank God for removing such A PROBLEM FOR ME.


ITS SO PAINFUUUULL

WHat i desire in my life is not what im getting in this marriage.

MY GOD IS GREATER THAN HIM

IM IN BONDAGE, GOD HELP ME

I TRY AS MUCH AS I CAN TO CONSOLE MYSELF, BUT SOMETIMES I LOOSE IT.

so sorry

PLS WHAT ARE SAFTEY MEASURES WHEN THERE IS IMERGENCY IN AIR CRAFT?

ARE THE CREW MEMBERS TRAINED AT ALL?

HOW REAL/OFTEN IS THE TRAINING?

MEDIA NO LONGER REPORT INCIDENTS OF BOMBIMGS RECENTLY. ARE THEY SCARED?

OH WAO!, I VE BEEN THERE ONCE.

YEAH, ITS A VERY NICE PLACE TO BE AS A MUSLIM

PLS,

How many northerners have had as president since 1960?

and  how many from orther tribes?

THE PROBLEM OF THOSE MUSLIM NORTHERNERS IS THAT EVEN WHEN U GIVE THEM ALL THE MONEY IN THE FEDERAL GOVT ACOUNT, THEIR LEADERS WILL USE IT TO MARRY I MILLION VIRGINS, THAT MONEY WILL NOT GET TO THE MASSES ACCORDINGLY, RATHER THEY WILL USE PART OF THE MONEY TO ORGANISE SMALL SMALL FOOD FOR THOSE  ALMAJIRIS.


THEIR LEADERS MARRY TOO MUCH WIFESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

BOTH SEEN AND UNSEEN WIFESSSSS  THEREBY HAVING MILLIONS OF CHILDREN

I'm very very convinced that  Boko haram is here in niaraland, both ttheirsponsors, informants,

fools.

na monkey f ur mama

monkeyssssssssss

i beg, i don comot for this forum.

ibi like say some imbecide dont dey enter this forum.

shhhshhhhhh   piiiiiiiiii

@only -rebel and ezeufi,

pls what attempt /sacrifice have u made to better the life of ur immediate family not to talk of others.

all u do is to hide all your identity behind nairaland and run your mouth as if two of u are having mouth diarrhea.

u cannot even face a police not to talk of fighting a war.


MUMU.odeh

ALL WHAT HE DID WILL CONTINUE TO HUNT HIM EVEN AFTER DEATH.

LET HIM REST IN PIECES !!!!!!!!!

THEY PROMISED TO MAKE THAT SEAT UNGOVERNABLE FOR U, EVEN BEFORE THE ELECTION, WHICH WE ALL SAW ON THE NEWS PAPER.

NOW, THEY ARE ACTING THEIR WORDS.

ANY MAN BORN OF A WOMAN THAT HAS HAND IN THIS BOKO HARAM OF A THING , HIM AND HIS FAMILY WILL KNOW NO PEACE EVEN AFTER DEATH


AMEN

ANY HAUSA MAN, IBO MAN, YORUBA MAN OR OTHER MINORITIES PLOTTING FOR YOUR DOWN FALL


HOLY HOST FIRE BURN THEM , THEIR GENERATION, GENERATION GENERATION, GENERATION GENERATION GENERATION,

LET CANCER OF THE BLOOD, BRAIN, INTESTINE, EYS, TONGUE, LEPROSY FINISH THEM AND THEIR FAMILIES, EXTENDED FAMILY AND CO

IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JEHOVAH



AMENNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN

DEAR GEJ,

PLS DONT RESIGN, U WILL HAVE TO FINISH THE 4YRS, BECUASE IF YOU WERE TO BE AN HAUSA MAN, HE WILL NEVER RESIGN HE WOULD RATHER PREFER TO DIE ON THAT PRESIDENTIAL SEAT.

THIS IS UR TURN TO RULE THIS COUNTRY, BUT STILL WATCH UR BACK.

INFACT, INSTEAD OF U TO RESIGN, PLS DO US A FAVOUR BY DIVIDING THIS COUNTRY.

SO SHALL IT BE

AMENNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
AMEN

Good education, good governance and co are not the problem of these people. I think they always thirst for blood.

if what i mentioned above is their problem they will have to face those in authority, or even the past predidents that kept this country like this.

but they failed to face the authorities incharge, they find joy in slaughtering innocent people.
im just short of words

INFACT, WE HAVE TO DIVIDE THIS COUNTRY, BECAUSE WE CANNOT CONTINUE TO LIVE WITH CANIVOROUS ANIMALS

PLS, WE NEED TO GO OUR SEPERATE WAYS


PLS, LETS DISTINGERATE THIS COUNTRY NOW

PLS, EVERYONE SHOULD WATCH THIS VIDEO POSTED BY @ "fnk" , on the first roll of this thread.


PLS ITS A MUST WATCH

cpc will never get it

IT WILL BE VERY VERY IMPOSIBLE FOR PDD THIS TIME AROUND, UNLESS GEJ PERFORMS

FASHOLA SHOULD GO FOR PRESIDENCY, IM SURE HE WILL WIN

THEY THINK SAY WE BE MUMU

ME I REFUSE TO BE THEIR MUMU OO

SHE , NA TODAY WE DEY AUDIT THEM.
MAKE THEY GO SHARE THE REMAINING SUBSIDY JARRRY

I BEG , MAKE UNA ASK NLC TO CALL OF THE STRIKE BECAUSE I WANT RESUME WORK OOO

BUT , ONE DAY I GO HAPPEN!

let them invite foreign AUDITORS, BECAUSE THESE ONES WILL STILLL MANIPULATE FIGURESS. NA TODAY?

WHO IS FOOLING WHO?

INFACT WE HAVE LOST TRUST IN THEM LONG TIME AGO

AT THE END OF THE DAY THEY NO GO PROSECUTE ANYBODYYYYYYYYYY

MAKE UNA WATCH OUT