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CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 11:17pm On Feb 26, 2016
1miccza:
Who be dis one abeg?
Martha89 a proud Esan! cool
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 11:00pm On Feb 26, 2016
holluville:
Ishan Airways in partnership with Ethiad Airways now flies Ekpoma to Dubai non stop.. book your flight today
lol the ones in your village fly to Malaysia right?.
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89:
kuuljay:
I have an esan babe wey I dey call knack for hot afternoon if am bored in the office,am I in troublehuh
Some Igbo s don't always think before they talk so i am not surprise at your statement.
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 10:54pm On Feb 26, 2016
jtjohn:
It does not work again.......that's why u see most Esan women flirting and very very troublesome..........
Same as your women!
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 10:51pm On Feb 26, 2016
prettymina:
Proudly edo repping Auchi...I no be esan o grin
We thank God we are not Etsakor wa Mo people.
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 10:48pm On Feb 26, 2016
Ekehwinz:
Have heard and seen many things bout esan people. I fear who no fear them.
Yes na next time don't bring your stupid self to any topic about us. cool
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 10:45pm On Feb 26, 2016
UnknownT:
ok...... i hear say dem get "aeroplanes"pass their Bini neighbors
You must be one to know this.Don't worry the ones in your village pass them.
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 10:40pm On Feb 26, 2016
1miccza:
You sure are spoiling for a showdown but sorry to burst your bubble,i ain't giving you any. Peace...
Bye and next time mind your business! You are not proud to tell us your perfect tribe.
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89:
1miccza:
You did not ask and of course i am not Esan
OK where are you from? Haters can talk and try to run down a tribe but they hide their tribes from getting the same treatment they dish out to others. Hypocrisy at his best. Yoruba land has no taboo in marriage and the same apply to most tribes i know.
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 2:53am On Feb 26, 2016
1miccza:
Bros i know this people well dem nor dey obey even half sef??
You are not Esan and you don't know what this topic means. If according to your tales by moon light here this so called women are no longer married then that should tell you it was a taboo that is why it end. This topic was not about how Esan women are the most perfect angel but our culture when such things happen. Read before you derail the topic. Esan men won't accept cheating wife'etc.This topic is not meant for you and you are not Esan.
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89:
[quote author=1miccza post=43257309]Can you imagine? Now you are not just wrong but doubly wrong[/quote Why are you scared to tell us?
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 8:32pm On Feb 25, 2016
[quote author=1miccza post=43250986]Now this is one glaring trait of women from your Yoruba tribe being insultive and abusive goodluck to you/quote] mind your business.
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 8:30pm On Feb 25, 2016
1miccza:
Bros i know this people well dem nor dey obey even half sef??
Well you are Yoruba which adultery is not a taboo in your land. After your tribal women carry the offence your men till carry them. if an Esan woman does that and the marriage can no longer hold on till she confess her sins.
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 7:34pm On Feb 25, 2016
1miccza:
And what makes you think it is false,I have about three ladies that have cheated very well,gave birth outside marriage and now have left their matrimonial homes for full time prostitution who are your are from tribe and you are there forming advocate .
I have read so many from vanguard they were mostly from Southwest and while some came from your tribe.
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 7:22pm On Feb 25, 2016
KINGinVAHALA:
Sweetheart, do u knw esan is a minority tribe that majority tribes in Nigeria fear? Thats what is affecting that guy, so leave him to continue his ranting.

Even Yorubas in Lagos dnt cough when an esan man speak in their gathering.

Igbo men abroad(especially in SA) would tel u dey wont dare do their 419 business with an esan man because they knw their repacaution would be too much for them to bear. lol He started by saying these people then came up with three who left their marriage and all this are in his head. I hate lies and the guy should tell us his tribe and let me tell him how many left in his tribe to the street.

So, why wont i proud and boast i am ESAN? lol
lol he won't tell us his tribe. Why is he pained and I know the married women in his tribe are carrying bastard. Its only on Nairaland people carry another tribe people on their head.
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 7:09pm On Feb 25, 2016
1miccza:
Your Uncle sounded more lively and jovial in his response than you did so i had to respond equally to him.
prove to me they are Esan,why is Esan matter killing you ? You are not Esan and focus of n your tribe. This thread is painning you . I can spot a lie when I see one and anybody can type trash like you did. This sound like your tribal girls not Esan. Esan women are know for staying in their husband house even its not working out. I know in your tribe married women don't forbid anything and they even carry bastard too. Tell us your tribe idiot.
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 6:49pm On Feb 25, 2016
1miccza:
Your Uncle sounded more lively and jovial in his response than you did so i had to respond equally to him.
Anything I feel is false about Esan and I will respond. If an Esan married woman cheat there is consequence.
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 6:38pm On Feb 25, 2016
1miccza:
Aunty what's your own i was chatting with a guy not you okay. Wetin concern me with you?
I am Esan that is my own uncle. Responding to the comments about the rules.
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89:
1miccza:
Bros i know this people well dem nor dey obey even half sef??
So you know all the five local government ,towns and villages in Esanland? If the person you know can't keep up with half of the rules but why are you disturbing the rest of us with that. You dont know us and you are not Esan. Esan know Esan! You can always foucus on your tribe instead of carrying our matter on your head.
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 6:02pm On Feb 25, 2016
jeff1607:
Esan ladies are just toooooooooOo stubborn(but still don't mess with her), in a typical Esan village it's not difficult to find a native doctor, you can find two(2) in a street, but now na just phone call and they will use your destiny to play ten-ten, just 500 or less go just settle tje matter. A place where young kids and teenagers pride themselves more powerful than the other in spiritual matters

all these rules don't apply to all Esan people, most though. how many purebred Esan people can trace their lineage or family treee,some just 3 to 4 generations,while others can ttrace theirs to the era of slaves, some still have the canons in their possession and sound it when an important person dies.
You well so?
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 5:54am On Feb 25, 2016
iAmCharis:
Goan sleep. tongue
lol no .
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 5:52am On Feb 25, 2016
introvertious:
The issue of purnishment wen a married woman commits adultery takes effect only if the ritual of dat purnishment was carried out on d woman after their marriage I.e There r things they do to married women after marriage(if ur husband accepts) b4 dat curse can come upon u.

....The husband of a woman who just gave birth must stay away from her sexually for three months as she’s considered unclean because of the after delivery blood she discharges...
Dis is so not true as a colleague of mine who is igbo but married to an esan man went on maternity leave(3mths) and resumed wit 1mth pregnancy though it was only her friends dat knew till d stomach bcame obvious.

Lastly, d 2nd highest number of womanizers in Nigeria are d Esan men..
if according to your statistic they are number two then the men from your tribe are the number one womanizers in Nigeria. Well the good thing they dont get call demon on social media.
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 5:41am On Feb 25, 2016
And it will reduce the price of garri in the market..... undecided
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 11:36pm On Feb 24, 2016
Esan has not gone boko haram on any tribe or neither are they fighting others because of land,farms issues etc. Esan oyeeee! cool
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 11:03pm On Feb 24, 2016
To all those loosers that often look for anything negative to say when it comes to a certain state or tribe but when its news about Akwa ibom or Calabar witches thing you guys keep mute. What about ijebu ,benin etc and the ones in your village preventing you all to progess in life. Esan rock and haters go and die. Those ones with negative stereotype are always the first to cast stones. They are some tribe who are into cannibal, rituals and etc. African and Nigeria ethnic groups all have some weird practices before Christianity came. The only problem here the rules only apply to the ladies.
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 10:41pm On Feb 24, 2016
gondon:
Greetings and thanks for this write up. Its really good for me bcoz my wife to be is from EWOHIMI and she is d best gift ever given to me..
Please i wish to know much about EWOHIMI people, as i am an IGBO guy going to marry from there.
* How do they behave generally
* How do dey welcome dia inlaws, expecially d non edo's.
* How is dia traditional wedding like, and how much can it cost to do a low key marriage dia.
My woman attends MFM and is a christain, she is d opposite of a cure benin girl; as in very nice.

PLEASE help answer these questions for me, as it will help me alot.
? Join Esan mega forum on facebook and get your answer from there.
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 10:36pm On Feb 24, 2016
bokohalal:
Hehe. My wife is Esan . And my colleague and best friend is Esan
lol ok .
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 9:21pm On Feb 24, 2016
Young03:
u sound like an ishan bt anyways dats none of my biz

here in benin we run 4rm them
lol Benin are busy fighting themselves all the time. They should concerate how to better themselves and not hate on their neighbors for no reason. Benin and Esan are not rivalry so hush.
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 9:07pm On Feb 24, 2016
bokohalal:
The person did not say he was a Bini.
its only the Benin's that beef Esan with no reason but they need to remove the log in their eyes before they start talking.
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 9:02pm On Feb 24, 2016
ABmaverick:
The tribe Esan disgusts me demasiado at the hearing of it.Tradition aside, they are bunch of cruel people , a worthless generation and a lot more
. The tribe and the family you hail from is the one that is worthless not mine.
CultureRe: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by martha89: 8:46pm On Feb 24, 2016
Proudly Esan . cool : kiss
CultureRe: 50 Reasons Why Yoruba Never Had An Empire But Civilized By Benin by martha89: 2:06am On Feb 10, 2016
@ The op might be Igbo pretending to be Edo.

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