₦airaland Forum

yeah u r right.i made a mistake.

SoAmazing!:
@Martho, Money ain't the root of all evil but the love of it.That is, wanting no matter the cost or damage it'll do to others.

money is d root of all evil.

make i go organise some food.later,later.

ok i see where my big bros and sis. lives.

i don't blame u.i know ur type.keep ur fustration 2 urself.i'm hitlers bro,so where's ur location?

who's dis one?who said things r cheap. i still insist that everyone can afford a car as long as one is not jobless.how much do u pay 4 car insuance?wetin!

what's so special about autos?This is somethin every adult can afford in europe.

There r millions of single women out there.It's very easy, if he can help himself out of naija.

bizluv:
As a lady, i felt dat slim guys prefer orobo.

slim got nothin 2 do with it.it's a natural thing.i'm athletic and sexy.

Czarskit:
~ Yeah! Pretty bleeped up like ur Dad's ~

small fry.

topic--who's d lecturer? let me remove him from d office.i don't like oppressors.

yicob:
How many men would slam these ladies? Lecturers, Fiance, Boss, Boyfriend, sex @ first sighters, smart friends et al. Damn! Ladies get problem

poor girls!if dis kain shit happen 2 my sis.d lecturer own don finish be that.

Hollysmile:
What a thread!
Kai!

What's wrong with it?lovely thread.  

segzi cres:
@hollysmile sorry you have to waste your eyes on trash like this. and our poster why do you like fat women?
is it b'cos of their extra flesh that one can use to work out instead of going to the gym?

fool,those extra flesh is so juicy.i can't have enough of them.    

Czarskit:
~ Some people usually forget their brains at the door of cyber cafès ~

why did u conclude he was browsing from a cybercafe?ur brain is bleeped up.

money is nothing.

Na wa, 13 yrs is like forever.how does he survive?

surgery is d answer.michael jackson needs a brother.

pmdaboh:
@Treetop20

Yes, I am really married to Ebiminih Zacharia Daboh, and we reside in Greensboro, North Carolina.  I am not one of those authors that choose a topic in which they have no experience just to keep a good story going.  I have a Nigerian friend who is an author, and he writes beautifully.  Once I was so moved by what he wrote that I wrote him an email to discuss the matter, and that is when he told me the situation did not happen to him personally, but he was writing from the perspective of "if it happened to him".  From the way he wrote, I thought it was real.  I must admit I was disappointed when I found out it was not.  I am writing from real life experience though, for I know no other way to write.

Ironically, my husband, and now I, want to write  an article about, "The Real Deal About America" for prospectie Nigerian travelers who desire to come to America.  Nigerians have many misconceptions about America, in which many they think they are coming to the country where milk and honey is flowing--and everything is easy.  One such misconception is that you will come to America and walk into your dream job.  There are Nigerian men who were lawyers in Lagos that are now driving taxi cabs, for their degrees and work experiences were not deemed acceptable here in America.  Many Nigerians actually take "a few steps backwards" from the status that they once enjoyed in Nigeria when they reach these great shores of America.  My husband and I want to write an awakening piece to Nigerians concerning the REAL DEAL when you come to America, so you can have some factual information prior to making your decision and coming here.  We have some Nigerian friends of ours who came here on the lottery, and are still not working after almost a year. 

Nigerians find it hard to adjust to the way of life in America (culture, exposed immorality conitnually displayed, etc.).  I won't get into it deep on here even if I am asked questions, but I, along with my husband (co-author), will write about how the American reality pales compared to Nigerian misconceptions concerning America.  I am NOT talking negatively about my beloved country, for I am an American afterall and was born and raised here, but many Nigerians, for some reason, think they are coming to a perfect place. Once we put the facts out there, you can make your decision as to whether you want to come or not.

nice idea but ur story will not change d mentality of nigerians.As naijas will say"WHO NO COME NO GO KNOW".It's like flogging a dead horse.

African mentality(THIS IS SICKNESS).It doesn't matter who is in charge financially as long as there's respect and peace at home.